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Forget my relationshiop
Posted Wednesday August 29 2012, 2:19 am
Hello everyone.
I am from India.
I am 40 years old and have 3 kids.
I am in deep love with a girl who is also married. I love her so deeply.
Our relationship has been very close and we have had sex very often.
I very sincerely love her to the extend that if she talks with a young male or shares a laugh with a guy I am very much annoyed
I am quite sure that I am wrong. I know very well that she doesnt belong to me. One day or other we have to depart.
But I cant forget and cant give up her for anything. She is my collegue in our office.
I have been deeply loving her for 1 year. Now she realises that she is wrong and she believes in sentiments and she thinks that if she continues our rela...
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Domestic Abuse
Posted Sunday August 19 2012, 7:43 am
I'm a 19 year old female babysitter, and I know this is a big accusation, but I think the father of of the family is abusive to the mother and possibly children.
I just started working with this family and they have five kids. The mother is a very petite woman who strikes me as being anxious. Yesterday when I was there, the mother was trying to set up a rental crib for their 2 year old (they're on vacation) and it was a crappy piece of sh*t and one of the wheels came off. She was already very pissed off because she called the company and they were of no help, so when the 12 year old son came in the room and asked what to do with the wheel, she told him, "Use your head. It needs to be put back on the crib," I was sta...
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As soon as she was done using me to pay for her schooling, she dumped me and is trying to ruin my life. How do I best move forward?
Posted Saturday August 4 2012, 5:10 pm
i was in a 7 year relationship and got married last year.and throughout my relationship.i worked hard to get the things we have together .i worked 80 hr a week two jobs.and no days off.barely getting any sleep just to pay all the bills so she could go to collage.i helpt her get the new car she wanted,new furniture for the apartment,etc,etc,well after she graduated and got the job she wanted and everything else she said she wasnt happy anymore and told me it was over with us. i had to leave.and of course i had no place to go cause the apartment was my home.and i have no family to go to.so i was homeless.i had to go to a hotel witch is expencive.for now. till i figure out what im going to do.i was used this whole entier relationship.i dont ha...
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Boyfriends brother tried to rape me
Posted Tuesday July 31 2012, 12:51 am
K so im 16. My boyfriend is 17 and his brother is 16. My boyfriends brother wasn't really in his life until this year. Seth was so excited to have drew back in his life. Drew had been into some bad things but he was doing so good and moved into an apartment by where we live and getting a job. Seth, drew and I were always hanging out. So since me and drew were pretty good friends when seth went to new york with his step dad, I helped seth move things into his apartment. We were watching movies later and drinking beers and we both got drunk but he was really drunk. I was really feeling good so I suggested we take a walk on the beach. When we were walking, he started saying things like thanks for giving me a chane and being my friend and noon...
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Long-Term Relationship falling apart
Posted Thursday July 19 2012, 10:17 am
Nearly 20 years and then in a huge argument that turned physical he took out one of our (love) toys and proceeded to beat me with it, then switched to other vices such as putting his hand over my mouth (I was screaming - LOUDLY) while strong-arming me into another room.
I took the toy afterward and threw it away - two days later - still sorting out what happened and the fight and are we going to try and work things out and he noticed that this toy was missing so I told him why...now he's told me he's moving out, taking the kids (teens), and we're done.
I don't know how to fix this! Please help- my heart is shattered.
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My husband doesn't trust me?
Posted Monday July 16 2012, 4:02 am
hi im 23 and husband 27,been together for 6years.and in these years all he does is accuses me of doing things,he doesnt trust me,even though i do nothing wrong.he tells me how to dress and live my life.i really dont no what to do?
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My cousin kind of.. touched me..?
Posted Monday July 16 2012, 3:36 am
I am a 14 year old girl and my cousin is 18. I live about 1 1/2 hours away from him and we don't see each other very often. We aren't that close, but close enough to have a nice conversation. Last week, me and my sister had to stay at my cousins for the week.
On the 2nd or 3rd day we were there, my cousin starting to getting closer to me, liking hugging me closely and putting his hand on my thigh. He would touch me under the sheets/blankets and sometimes even when his brother or my sister would be in the room.
Later, it got to where he was massaging my breasts over my shirt. He was very subtle about it, and I was too afraid to do anything about it. I felt weird and awkward, but I also felt pleased. But then, I feel like that...
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Friends say I got trucker butt
Posted Saturday July 14 2012, 4:35 pm
17/f
My friends always touch my (butt( and call me a trucker butt and other horid names. These people whom are supozed to b mi frienz. is this molest?
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Is this mental abuse? I feel broken but I love him.
Posted Thursday July 12 2012, 9:24 pm
I'm completely out of answers with a current problem and I'll try to be brief yet give enough detail necessary.
I have been clean off of drugs for 10 months with the help of Narcotics Anonymous meetings. I met the man that I am currently involved with in the meetings and after a casual friendship we took it to the next level. At the beginning, we had what I would consider to be the perfect relationship; we loved each others company, never argued or had conflicting opinions, etc. He is the single most genuinely chivalrous man I've ever met.
After about a month together, he relapsed in his recovery for the first time and it was a stressful day, however, I mainly felt bad for him because of his struggle. We qui...
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Is he using me?
Posted Monday July 2 2012, 1:45 am
Well my relationship has lasted like 8months, but during the 5th month we had many fights and break-ups. I had loved that boy and he says the same but i just dont feel it. We insulted ourselves in the end but got together as friends with benefits. He is always calling me names, stupid-dumb-bitch-etc and he says he is joking, also he is always calling me loser and he says out loud the things i hate most. No body of my family-friends likes him, so we are together hidden. My sister says is abusive mentally for him to say those "names" more then 5 times a day. Also when he gets mad at me just because i did something wrong he gets like sooooo angry, i get scared, he looks at me bad and say it's my fault even when it is not. He has neve...
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My Sister is harming me
Posted Sunday July 1 2012, 8:13 pm
My sister is 3 years younger than me and she hits me and pinches me and even bites me, I have scars from her and I have considered self harm as relief from the stress she gives me. She tells my Cousin (who is 5) to harm me and he does, I feel like I can't escape. I always end up with the blame and my parents don't notice or say they don't want to hear it, if she is hurting me and I hit her to defend myself she runs crying to my parents and I always get the blame, I want it to end but I feel like I can't escape, please help!
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please help cant get over sexul abuse
Posted Friday June 22 2012, 3:13 pm
Okay well does any-one know of a website that is free forever and has phycoligists that I can talk to 24/7 I was sexualy abused by my brother in-law and I don't know how to talk about it.by the way I'm 12 and he started it when I was 9 turning 10.I really need help urgently please
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Crazy internet stalker found my address
Posted Sunday June 17 2012, 4:12 am
Hello
I am in a very scary situation right now. And I'm just trying to reach out. I met this guy on mubi.com which is a social networking site for people who likes movies.
He seemed super cool and I really liked him at first but then slowly he started getting more weird. I found out he was doing drugs, and the more i distanced myself from him the crazier he started to act.
(I also need to mention that he is from the states and I live in Canada)
I stopped talking to him completely in January. I blocked him on all social networking sites. He would make new fake profiles and send me these scary crazy messages saying how much he was in love with me and that he was coming for me. That...
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If a person wasreally evil to you would you care if they died?
Posted Wednesday June 13 2012, 1:28 am
If a person was that was close to you, really evil to you would you care if they died?
My aunt died 3 years ago and I didn't get upset when she died. Am I wrong? She died from some heart problems. My aunt was very evil to the people in our family. She stole money from a lot of them and did drugs with her boyfriend. They had a daughter together and continued to do drugs, just not around her. My grandmother was always in denial about them doing drugs until their daughter got taken away and they admitted it. My aunt also stole money from my grandmothers account somehow forging checks for over a year and she admitted. They used the money for drugs. They also begged for money from my grandma and she'd give them money for food, but...
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I am the outlier in the croud
Posted Saturday June 9 2012, 11:38 pm
I have always been the kindof "fat" one in school. I do not think that i am very pretty at all. Whenever I say hi to the people in the halls, they dont say anything back. I don't know what i am doing wrong. I just got glasses a little over 4 weeks ago, and i feel like the nerd that no one wants to be around. I am only 13 years old. I weigh about 145 lbs. I need to know if there is anything i could do to be pretty and get boys to like me for who I am.
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relationships: people in abusive relatinships never get out until...
Posted Sunday June 3 2012, 1:21 pm
pepole in abusive relatinships never get out untiill someone hurt so bad then someone really has to pay why wait untill it gets that bad theres ways of dealing weith it make sure its the right way
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I have been involed in a sexual relarionship with this guy for 6 years...
Posted Tuesday May 29 2012, 11:51 pm
I have been involed in a sexual relarionship with this guy for 6 years.when we started he was on thee outs with his ling term girlfriend of 9years then.out if the 6years he never took me out anywhere bought me anything and just learned my bday this year!he has had 3serious relationships and I toi have but my heart was with him a peice of it anyways idk why I love him but he seems not to love or want a relationship with me help me I need to know wat am I to him and shoukd I let go.im single now and clearly bettrr class than he date wats the problem?
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sex or rape???
Posted Monday May 21 2012, 9:08 pm
24/f
ok, to start off, im not sure if it was sex or rape.
i said yes to my boyfriend. he did NOT pressure me into it. later before it, i changed my mind, but i forgot to tell him. so we did and now i feel violated.
was it sex or rape????
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Warrant LookUp
Posted Monday May 21 2012, 3:53 pm
How do you do a warrant lookup on your boyfriend to see if he has been in trouble with the law or is wanted now? I caught him in a lie and now I want to do a background check on my boyfriend! Does that make me a bad paerson?
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living with a monster
Posted Saturday May 19 2012, 5:38 am
do you want to know why I am so fucked up? the reason is because my mom is the most horrible person who ever existed in the face of existence!
every inch of my soul was destroyed before I was even fucking born! every inch of my soul was destroyed! ever fabric of my reality! every essence of existence! every molecule in the fucking spectrum! everything was annihilated before I was even born!
I was victimized tortured abused subjugated fucking annihilated.
total obliteration of the human psyche.
the end.
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