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almost 36 weeks pregnant


Posted Tuesday February 2 2010, 7:55 pm

Okay I am 36 weeks pregnant I am dialated to 3 cm's. its the forth day in a row i have been having contractions. The doctors here said oh you may go full term when are they supose to admit you to the hospiatl? Am I wrong for being concerned. This is my second child.

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getting the baby bug


Posted Thursday January 28 2010, 1:25 am

I'm an 18 year old successful student at a top college...and I've found myself with the crazy urge to have a baby. This started in October. My boyfriend of 8 months and I ran out of condoms and had unprotected sex. It was the first time we had ever done it without one and I was terrified. A week later we broke up due to stress from living in different states. A couple weeks later I found out I was pregnant and I was scared to death, then a couple days later I had a miscarriage. Two months later we got back together and he now lives half an hour from my school. He knows I miscarried but we don't talk about it.
Since we've gotten back together we've had sex without a condom..a lot. Every so often it makes me nervous that I'll get pregn...

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How will i know when i am ovulating?


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 9:42 pm

i came on my period on the 31 of december and came off on the 4th of january and then spotted 3 days later how will i know when im ovulating?

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Do I let my kids spend time with their mother?


Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 6:06 pm

Let me first start by giving you a little back ground information. My ex wife became pregnant when she was 20 and I was 19. Even though it was earlier than we both expected to become parents, we were thrilled and so excited to start our family together. We got married shortly after she gave birth to our son Matt. Soon after that, we had another son, and then a daughter. From my perspective, everything was great. That's why I was so blindsided when my wife came to me 9 months after our daughter was born claiming she wasn't ready to settle down and be a mother with divorce papers in her hand. Almost overnight, I became a 23 year old single father with a 4 year old, 2 year old, and a 9 month old. After the divorce was final, I rarely heard fro...

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Very complicated


Posted Thursday January 21 2010, 8:40 am

I dont know where to start, so ill just start.
I am 18 weeks pregnant, 19 years old and have been with my now 20 year old boyfriend since we were 17. Found out about the pregnancy in October, we were living in an apartment with my bestfriend and her boyfriend. I started to get very bad morning sickness, constant vomit and fevers because of the dehydration so I decided it would be best to stop working for a few months. My boyfriend got layed off at the same time. Seeing the position we were in my wonderful mother took both of us in because he had noowhere to go. This was Dec. 1st. The agreement was 250 a month when we got jobs and to be clean and respectful. My boyfriend started his new job with in a couple of weeks. He is terribl...

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Pregnancy/ Braxton Hicks


Posted Friday January 15 2010, 9:58 pm

What exactly are Braxton Hicks. I have been having them for the last like four days. I have only had them really bad twice. I am 33 weeks pregnant. Is it true it means you are going to have your baby early? Is it true it thins you out so you can start dialating.

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New Baby


Posted Monday January 11 2010, 11:26 am

My first son I didnt pack anything to go to the hospital because he came a month earlier. Went to my doctor appt and I was 4 cm already. I am now pregnant with my second child. What are we supose to pack? If I have her vaginally itll be one night and a c section is two nights in the hospital unless there are complications.

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can my dad read my texts?


Posted Sunday December 27 2009, 6:47 pm

soo a while back i texted a friend saying something inappropriate. not too bad, but i guess it'd be bad in a parent's point of view. i didn't think anything of it until he told me his mom read my text online... i was really freaked out. luckily she didn't say anything to my dad. but now i'm worried if my dad can read my texts or not online like my friend's mom. they had cricket or some cheap service. i have t-mobile. if i could get some info on this i'd really appreciate it. thanks :)

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ex boyfriend & baby


Posted Thursday December 17 2009, 4:57 pm

im 16/f
hes 20/m
im 6 & 1/2 months pregnant.

(please dont start with the 'if hes such an asshole why are you having a kid with him?' or 'you brought this upon yourself'. obviously i know this)

im having my ex's baby. id really rather not have him around because hes manipulative, controlling, aggressive, & unpredictable. another reason is because hes been selling drugs lately, smoking weed all day everyday, & the people he hangs out with, i dont want my kid around them.
usually i wouldnt have a problem with smoking weed but if hes going to be handling my kid, plus with other people around it just sounds bad.

my parents & i have decided to make him fight to see ...

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14 and pregnant.


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 10:04 pm

Hey everyone, I'm 14 year's old, and im pregnant. My family is broke, and struggling for money. My father just lost his job, and has less than 400 dollars in the bank. And im against adoption and abortion, i have no idea what to do. I live in Salt Lake City, Utah. I dont have a job, and i have no idea how i can get one at my age. And to top everything all together, I haven't told my parent's... i dont know what to do. Can they make me give up my baby? Please help, and soon.
thanks in advance

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Wayy to Young


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 4:12 pm

I am a 14 year old mother.
Please do not judge me, i am judged enough.
I am still in school and planning on finnishing.
My story is, my friends father raped me, obviously he did not know what the word protection ment, and knocked me up. He is in prison, my parents grief every day, and people stare like they think they are God and its judgment day. It is very hard, i couldnt give the baby up, i just didnt have it in me. I am 7months and huge. I am scared, i have watched tons of videos on wat is most likely going to happen to me when the twins arrive. Yes, i said twins. One boy and one girl. My mother has called adoption agencies and etc, but i have turned them all down, truly i want to keep my children, granted the fathe...

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He isn't my child


Posted Monday December 7 2009, 5:14 pm

My bf has a 2 1/2 year old with his ex. He and I have been together for almost 2 years now.
His ex and I are friends, but has a problem with me doing anything to parent their child.
I don't view it as parenting, but being an adult when there is a dangerous situation at hand.
For example, we were all together eating dinner the other night. Mom went outside for a couple minutes and dad went to the bathroom. Boy was playing around while eating and then did a "backflip" in his chair (he is on the ground in a foam little kids chair) with a fork in his mouth.
I told him he can't do that and he will get his fork taken away if he continues to play when he should be eating.
He kept playing around and doin...

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My children are traumatised


Posted Thursday November 26 2009, 11:11 am

Hi everyone! I have 2 boys, they are 4 and 6 years old. Their dad took them for a 2 weeks holliday this summer and decided not to bring them back to me. They spent 3 1/2 months at his place while i fought in 2 provinces to get them back. It finally happened on november 13th. The oldest missed 2 1/2 months of his first grade school year.

That'S it for the context, now, when i get mad and let's say, put my hands on my hips, the oldest has defensive reflexes, i found out he got hit by his father with a fly swapper and a wooden spoon. They also act out a lot, and my youngest has nightmares that he is being taken by a bad guy, and they end up in my bed every night. They have a very hard time going to sleep. Also, last night the 6...

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girls older step brother abuses her


Posted Tuesday November 24 2009, 11:25 am

16/f

so basically, my best friend's little sister's best friend i HEAR is abused by her older step brother. i used to know him 3 years ago, and i never thought he was like that but i just saw him a year ago and he tried gettin with me and said things to me i didnt like.

the girl is 13 and he is 16-17. i really think hes capable of this, but im not for sure that my source was reliable and i cant really get the real information because the person that told me isnt supposed to know.

so basically, how can i tell someone anonymously if i really dont know all the information ? because shes a sweet girl and doesnt deserve this.

thanks !

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Baby crib recall? Help!


Posted Monday November 23 2009, 11:03 pm

I am a new mother and I have a second hand crib for my baby. I heard from another mommy in my building that there are a bunch of cribs that can kill your baby and a big recall going on.

How do I find out if my crib is safe or not?

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adoption


Posted Saturday November 21 2009, 1:23 pm

does anyone know if having bad credit can keep you from being able to adopt?

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seeing your children naked


Posted Saturday November 21 2009, 5:59 am

i am a single dad of 4 children 3 girls age 9 , 13, 16, and a boy age 8 my sister has been questing my children about me seeing them naked.
i bath my 8, and 9 year old and wash my 13 year old hair the only reason i help my 16 year old is bescause she has 2 broken arms and a broken leg who eles can hekp me

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bff child abuse and death, not supposed to tell, please serious help


Posted Thursday November 19 2009, 11:09 pm

im told not to tell a soul because its getting somewhat taken care of. so il ask un-named. my bff is very badly depressed bc her moms boyfriend abused her so she told her mom after a while and he killed her mom and he went to jail which was a little over a year ago. now she lives with her grandparents. her grandpa is very bad bipolar and abuses her as well but only her none of her younger siblings. today she finally told me about what her grandpa does and showed me her new bruise which is very bad, it is like right on under her breast an its bloody red and very swollen and stuff she wont even put anything on it because its swollen and itd make it bigger. still which happend two days ago it even ripped her shirt. this weekend he is going to ...

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One of my nipples smells like breast milk?


Posted Thursday November 19 2009, 3:04 am

Yes, I am aware that the most likely answer is that I am pregnant, but I thought I would ask: is your breasts are making a smell like milk but you aren't expressing any milk and nothing is leaking then could this be a sign of pregnancy?

Thank you!

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i want a baby...


Posted Tuesday November 10 2009, 11:59 pm

okay, im a nineteen year old female and i really want a baby. im NOT old enough, and i know im not ready, but i cant help wanting one. there is no way that i will have one right now, because i dont want to hurt the chances of my child's future, so i WIll wait to have a child. i was just wondering if anyone has ever felt the same excitement for motherhood so young, like me. and, if you have, i was wondering how you deal with it, because its been making me sad lately.

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