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Iam scared to tell my mom and iam 21!
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 12:16 pm
I had sex with my ex when we was still together of course and iam considering to tell my mom that her little girl is no longer a virgin but i don't know how to break the news to her even though iam 21 years old i still live with my mom and my mom treats me like iam still 12. what should I do?
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Caught with porn website
Posted Friday July 16 2010, 1:40 am
Alright, so i was messing around with an application on my i pod touch that allowed me to view websites through my computer. i had a porn website on my i pod, my parents walked to tell me goodnight in so i closed the app. Then because the app closed, the porn website popes up full screen on my computer. the whole time it was up my back was to the monitor and i told my parents goodnight. now i feel sick and i just want to die.
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umm.... i love my family so much n i am great ful to have them
Posted Thursday July 15 2010, 10:50 am
i just want my family to know how much i love them i am greatful to have my mom cuz shes been there for me my whole life n my dad he hasn't always been there but i know he is right there by my side leading me on n i am lucky to have my sisters because i know i can rely on them to always be there when i need them so can you make a poem that can explain all that
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washington state
Posted Thursday July 15 2010, 12:26 am
washington state good place to raise a family?
im from nj but i live in florida now.
i love the rain & hate the heat.
Looking for a place to live for the rest of my life.
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I don't like my curfew!
Posted Wednesday July 14 2010, 11:33 pm
Okay, so i'm 15 years old, going to level 1. This is my summer vacation, and my mother tells me my curfew is 11!!! That really bothers me because throughout the school year, my curfew on weekends was 12... I really feel like im being mistreated here, but she will not reason with me. I hate my curfew, and it's embarrassing when all of my friends can be in at 12 and 1..but i'm home at 11.
I've tried to explain to her sooo many times that all of my friends can stay out later than me, she just says it's only an hour!
What can i do to change this? I would really appreciate any advise, thanks!
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Need to break away from my adult sibling and move out after 12 years.
Posted Tuesday July 13 2010, 7:15 am
I am 36 years old Female and I have been living with my 34 year old sister for 12 years. Neither of us have ever had a boyfriend and I feel that we hold each other back. I have been feeling trapped and I don't feel that I could move out because it would really upset her and I don't want her to hate me for leaving or feel abandoned. But I really need to leave or else I think I never will. My leaving would not only hurt her but also my parents and other sibling ( who lives with us when she is in school). How should I tell them? I keep things to myself so this will be a total shock to them. I'm scared.... Help! Our lease is up in September. (FYI)
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dream that dad touched me
Posted Tuesday July 13 2010, 5:12 am
I had a dream that my dad touched me and almost raped me. My boyfriend and mom were also in the dream and they didn't do anything to help, they even dressed me up for it. I'm just wondering what this could meannn. Please helpp.
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I have cancer and my brother hurts and makes fun of me?
Posted Monday July 12 2010, 12:15 am
Hey everyone. im evan and im 15. i have melanoma skin cancer and my 17 year old brother makes fun of me all the time. he physically hurts me (punches me in the chest and in the junk) and calls me names like "mole" or "cancer boy." hes always trying to put me down or hurt me in some way. we've never gotten along but since my diagnosis its only gotten worse.
This is also kind of a seperate question but some of my friends treat me different like its some contagious disease that they can catch if they get to close to me. What can i do to get them to treat me like they used to?
And most importantly what can i do to get my brother to knock it off and treat me with respect? I tell my parents but th...
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step-dad is a jackass
Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 12:42 am
ok my stepdad is a personal jackass! i mean really! My mom loves him..dont know why. But my brother and I hate him ,more me. I mean his way his way or no way! Like I had my music on and cause hes going to be he said to turn it down, it was so quiet! I could barely hear it! SO i said no, and whats he do without knocking hes rams in my room and tells me to turn it down! Ok what if i were changing or some. And when your mad He makes fun of you, and that just gets u pissed! His family is sweet and awesome but him NOT WHAT SO EVER! What do you think i should do :(
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I dont understand my parents
Posted Saturday July 10 2010, 3:34 pm
I love my parents to death but there are times where i really dont get them. like my cellphone has been broken for months and i can't get a new one. instead i got a hideous hand-me-down. im just tired of them both being so money savvy! like for once can't they just splurge and go wild? its always so structured and they never just break out and go "lets get some ice cream!". they're not spontaneous at all, and i am a very spontaneous person and it drives me crazy when we fall into a simple, boring schedule.
i have a really hard time with questions too, and they ask WAY too many questions all the time. it drives me crazy, and ive tried to ask them to be more layed back and ask LESS questions but it never works. it fe...
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Older brother has issues
Posted Saturday July 10 2010, 10:01 am
I have a 21 year old brother who is really worrying me. I've always know that he has huge life issues but right now I'm just finding it hard to live with him - it's getting unbearable.
He doesn't have standard issues like drug abuse/ being in a violent gang etc. It probably would be BETTER if he had big issues like that- he is just so PASSIVE.
So basically this is what's wrong- He would be happy to spend 24/7 in front of his lab top, no kidding. He spends all of his time locked in his room doing goodness knows what. He has no friends at all. He never leaves the house if he can help it. He failed senior high and never got into uni or got a job. He's spent a year in a therapy camp and two years trying to get into uni and faili...
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Should I tell my parents about my brother?
Posted Thursday July 8 2010, 3:23 pm
Me- f/15 Brother- m/17 going on 18
I am a little worried about my brother. He just graduated high school and will be off to college in August. He got a large amount of new friends during senior year. Some of them known to party and what not. I knew he drank illegally at parties because I heard rumors and stuff. This summer I have seen him going off with his school back pack whenever he goes out. I got a little suspicious and recently found it in his room full of drugs. I am worried about him. I don't want him to go to college and fail out. I know that if I tell my parents they will be surprised because he was always and honor roll student, if I don't tell I feel like I should. Should I keep my mouth shut so that my brother won't be m...
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Am I selfish?
Posted Thursday July 8 2010, 6:14 am
Hi, 18/m. ( live in the uk if it helps)
Basically, here's my situation. I live with my mother, my parents have been separated for years as my father was an alcoholic and I don't see him, nor do I want to. Recently, my sister and her boyfriend have moved in with us so that they could save some money for a deposit for a house, and so they will be moving out.
I just finished college (so I guess high school as an equivalent) and before I go to university, I'm taking a year out to save some money. My mum wants me to go to university in the city that we live in. We have 2 universities- one which is in the top 10 best universities, and the other which isn't great at all. I would ideally like to go to a university somewhere in the mi...
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After School
Posted Wednesday July 7 2010, 4:13 pm
Right. I'm British, 12 Male and I got an after-school today. Incase you didn't know, an after-school is a detention that is put on your permanent record and is regarded as some kind of disgrace, anyways I've been on loads of sites and they all say 'Tell you parents honestly and be mature' or 'Rip up the letter and say you were finishing a project.' To be quite frank, none of these work I need an amazing, brilliant excuse that will fool parents. Something that isn't obvious and I don't want tell your parents crap. Please respond as I am URGENT!!
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I need help. My mother past on now and I don't know what to do.
Posted Wednesday July 7 2010, 12:43 am
Ok I feel like I'm livin my life on my own.and its hard I feel like I have to do everything around the house I feel like people don care.my aunt made me babysit because I kan helop her out. With stuff and I don't think that's right because she had two sons and she makes them do nothing .I really don't like telling people anything these days I don cry I keep it in.because it really noone business.I try hard to live life rite because my mother ain't her she past on.I jus need help
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what am i supposed to do?
Posted Tuesday July 6 2010, 6:22 pm
so my dad thinks my sisters friends are scum because they drink and smoke. he doesn't let me hang out with my sister and all of them. my sister has always been there for and i like her friends, they're fun and we get along really well. they want her to get out of the house. they don't know her the way i do though. like whenever i'm sick she'll be the one taking care of me and she always makes me feel involved and she treats all of my close friends like family. she's a sweet person, and so are her friends. they all work/are in the marines, so it isn't even like they're bums, they just like to live life. i really like hanging out with them but i don't want to lie everytime i have to..no matter how much i convince him that theyre not bad peopl...
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My dad doesn't care about me
Posted Sunday July 4 2010, 10:48 pm
my dad keeps yelling at me and pretty much says that he wants my older sister and my baby brother,but he wants nothing to do with me. he yells at me and i have had enough. i am only a girl and my b-day is on friday and he doesn't even care, when ever something needs done he always has me do it, it feels like i have my baby brother more than my mom does. i would really like some advice to keep him of my back
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i cannot take 1 more day of this
Posted Saturday July 3 2010, 12:11 pm
19/f. I live with my mom and my grandparents. I attend university here where I live. I didn't think I was going to like staying here at home for college but I ended up loving my school. I went to an all girls private high school and it was really a refreshing change to be around guys I guess and also to be around people who r not snobby. Basically, I really liked my school and I'm doing really, really well in school. Living at home is a nightmare. I stayed because my family BEGGED me 2 stay. They said they would give me my space and all of that. They most certainly ARE NOT. EVERYTHING is an argument with them. Let's start by saying that my mom doesn't even let me style my own hair. She doesn't even let me wash it myself. She will cry, screa...
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it doesn't seem like she caress
Posted Thursday July 1 2010, 11:52 pm
ok... I am 18 and getting married soon.. My mom used to want to do stuff with me all the time.. but for about the past 4 or 5 years it seems like she doesn'treally care about me anymore... I have 2 older sisters and to me it seems like she is more worried about whats going on in their lives then mine...The brides parents are supposed to pay for most of the wedding and the only thingmy mom has done is buy POTATOES!!! I don't want to confront her about it cause she doesn't really listen to me anyway. I try asking her to do things with me and I try to involve her in the wedding plans and everything but I don't know what to o about her anymore..someone please HELP!!!
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Curfew Argument
Posted Thursday July 1 2010, 11:28 am
My parents and I had an argument when I got home from the movies around 9:20. It wasn't different from any other trip with my friends, and I already let her know I was leaving at 8:40. The problem was that my dad usually picks me up, but this time I took the subway home. While I already let my mom know this, she's very overprotective. I had my friend's dad drive me to school, and then took the subway to my house(one station). Most people from where I live take public transportation, and it was filled with people. I got home, and my parents started yelling at me. While I was used to my mom, my dad was especially hurtful. He acknowledged that I didn't do anything wrong that day, but told me to get home by 8 in the future. Since I did nothing ...
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