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Found some weird porno on umm boyfriends computer
Posted Saturday September 20 2014, 4:43 pm
I found disturbing porn on my bf's laptop, what should I do about it?
My boyfriend and I have been together for a whole now Recently I was using his computer and was trying to remember the name of the website he always uses he wasn't answering his phone so I decided to check the history I found it along with some disturbing porn. I found all types of porn he is 25, SO I DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH HIM VIEWING. I'm just saying that because many people may think I was mad that he did that, I'm not. Infact, he hasn't looked at barely any porn since we got together. What disturbed me was the nature of the content. Such as women in chains getting beaten badly then effed. And more disturbingly incest porn like brothers and sister doing var...
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should i give this a chance?
Posted Saturday September 20 2014, 3:31 pm
I'm a 20 year old girl and about a month ago I met this 26 year old guy. He's roommates with my best friend so I see him quite a bit and we've hung out alone a few times. He's the sweetest guy ever - always paying for dinner, buying flowers randomly, and just the little things he does. He told me he loves me and it freaked me out. I like him but we barely know each other. And we've had intercourse once and he's just too gentle for my liking. And to be honest his age kind of intimidates me but I've never met someone as sweet as him and my friend keep telling me that if I should be with someone it should be him. I dont know if I should give this a chance.
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me and my ex gf who use too be good friends before dating
Posted Saturday September 20 2014, 12:39 pm
first off let me say my handing writing sucks so my bad been out of school for two years now but here goes
long story short me n my ex girlfriend had a big fight ever some things she was doing like keeping things from me she started talking too guys she use too send nudes too again n i was fine with it at first and i was not mad at her since she came clean about it.
but after they went from giving her small comments too saying inappropriate things too her like i wanna do this n that too you etc i was not OK with it n i felt like it was disrespectful if they know we are dating so asked her too block them n she would not do it so i ask her too tell them too stop and she would not do that she just said am keeping my dista...
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lack of attention from my bf
Posted Saturday September 20 2014, 12:13 pm
okay so i and my bf are about to complete 2yrs. he doesnt have time for me. he is with his friends. he is not romantic and mostly he is very immature. and i expect a lot from him. i want him to spend some time with me, talk to me,go out with me. but thats not the case. we stay far away. he does take a day out for me in a month. but otherwise we get only 7 hrs together and in that 7 hours also we get only 1 hr to be together. he does feel insecure when i tok to some other guy. i just sometimes feel that its me only putting all the efforts in this relationship. and its no use tokn to him. bcz it wont change anything. he just has so many important things in his life than me.
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Had a rough breakup
Posted Saturday September 20 2014, 12:51 am
So we had a breakup after 10months and I wanted to stay friends with him because I still have feelings for him.But just one week after our breakup he started dating this other chick.
It hurts so much.
Donno what to do
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Spouse refuses will for estate planning.
Posted Thursday September 18 2014, 8:59 pm
I just posted a long post about this and realized that I did not mention that I am not asking my husband to leave his son out, but 2/3 for his son and 1/3 for me is not fair to me. As I mentioned I gave up a nice home, moved in here, made improvements to the house, paid our living expenses because he lost his job and decided to wait to find 4 years until he could draw his social security instead of finding another job. His son is an addict and my husband has said before that he did not want his son to ever come into a windfall so to speak for fear of him overdosing. But yet it is one excuse after another when I bring this up. I'm tired of waiting and afraid of being forced out of the home. We live in the state of VA. I had previously lived ...
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Spouse refuses to make will
Posted Thursday September 18 2014, 8:19 pm
I sold a beautiful home with 10 acres and a pond after dating a man for four years. I moved in with him and we got married. We talked about life insurance, what if situations if one of us died, ect. I recently verified from an attorney that by this states guidelines that I would get 1/3 of the real estate and his son from a previous marriage would get 2/3. This is not what we agreed to years ago. The son is an addict incarcerated for several years remaining on his sentence. This is in no way fair to me. I gave up a beautiful home, paid the majority of the bills because he was forced into an early retirement. (Layoff). It makes me feel like he does not care about me. I'm thinking of leaving. I don't want to pay his bills and do for him for y...
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I want to move on but its complicated for me
Posted Wednesday September 17 2014, 11:08 am
So i like this guy lot. He's my classmate tho. He's also my seatmate. We've been classmates for about 3 months now, and i can say that we're very close friends now. I developed feelings for him but i think its not mutual because it seems that he's not interested on me. He's really sweet to everyone including to me. But i know he doesn't like me. Sometimes he's jerk but there's still a good side of him. I dont even know why i like him. I want to move on but its hard because i'll always see him everyday, he's my seatmate and also its hard to ignore him. What should i do? I just cant tell him i like him, its going to be awkward and probably make fun of me. So i just want to push this feelings away. Thank you :)
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when a guy winks at you
Posted Tuesday September 16 2014, 7:52 pm
what does it mean when a guy winks at you?
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Does he like me and how to flirt or what to say?
Posted Monday September 15 2014, 7:55 pm
This guy I know came up to me and my friends at lunch the other day and had to pretend to sell us an instrument i think as a dare from a friend. Then a few days later, we were at a football game and he pretended to dump soda on us. I don't know why he does this stuff but I think he is cute and I like him. Does he like me? if so, any flirting advice, like what i should say to him?
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Mixed signals?
Posted Sunday September 14 2014, 11:48 pm
My ex and I dated for a year we later broke up in a very weird way and there wasn't much closure. I got over it and dated others. Long story short I get a texted a year and some months later asking me how I have been and if there was anything new going on in my life. We texted on and off for a bit and I agreed to see him, we both ended up cancelling but he texted me again later to hang out and I was busy at work. He told me to text him whenever I was free and that we would hang out and catch up. I texted him back to say that I forget and to text me next time. It's been a month and no text? I am not interested in a romantic relationship anymore but this behavior confuses me?
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how to get a guy without talking.
Posted Friday September 12 2014, 7:12 pm
i like a guy for awhile, one year, how can i make him give his attention to me when he sees me?
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Is it all in my mind or is it my gut instinct?
Posted Thursday September 11 2014, 3:58 pm
21/f
I've been having paranoia, anxiety, and trust issues about someone that I am dating. I don't want to feel paranoid or insecure about whether or not if they're seeing someone else, that they're lying to me, or because they're hiding something from me. It's not a good feeling.
I've been going to a counselor and I still haven't gotten to an answer. I don't know if it's because of my past experiences; I have constantly been hurt and disappointed by people. I was lied to, cheated on, etc. Maybe it's a possibility that I'm expecting the worst out of people and I'm trying to protect myself by expecting the worse in the least healthiest way possible? Or is it my gut instinct that's telling me that there's somethin...
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How do I know what's best for myself?
Posted Thursday September 11 2014, 3:30 pm
21/f
My friends and family members tell me things that makes it hard for me to decide what's best for myself.
e.g. "You deserve someone who can give you want you want want what you need," "I think you're going to get hurt in the end unless you leave now," "I think he's manipulating you, you're the side until he finds what he wants," "he's going to tell you what you want to hear so you'll stay," "I don't think he truly cares for you," etc.
I can't help but keep thinking that they may see something that I'm not seeing and I'm constantly trying to search for something that may be wrong with him or what's wrong in the relationship that makes them say ...
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am I a lesbian??
Posted Thursday September 11 2014, 10:09 am
Okay so I feel myself a lesbian because I like the girl in school....I think it's okay to like her but then I feel weird and not normal when I getting to like her.I REALLY WANT TO STOP!!! I DONT WANT TO HAVE A BAD FUTURE....Thank You
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A Guy
Posted Wednesday September 10 2014, 7:22 pm
Well I'm extremely shy and I like this guy in my class (I'm 12 by the way) and we talk and I think he flirts but I'm not sure if he likes me or not or if he is just being friendly like for example I told my friend that I didn't know the name of the guy I liked and he said my names (Enter name here) and I said funny smiled and blushed, basacally I need help to know if he likes me or not. Thnx for your help whoever reads this :)
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bad rumours
Posted Wednesday September 10 2014, 11:24 am
hey am a 16yr old girl who thougth it was time for her to started dating so i went into a relationship with an older guy i barely even know well most ppl i knw knew him n warned me dat he is bad,he does drugs n all buh i neva noticed evn ppl i dint knw came to advice me but d big mistake i made was dat i ignored dem even wen i started to cee his true colour, we did so many tinz like oral buh neva sex...just aftr we brokeup for like 6mnth i went for hiv test jst normal test n it was negative n 2weeks back my big bro came to tell me infrnt of my mom dat d guy is nw spreadin rumours dat i slept with him n he kept askin me y i slept wit him n dat almost 6ppl tld him n dat his infected wit hiv buh i tested negative d worst tin is dis is my 1st r...
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How do you deal ?
Posted Tuesday September 9 2014, 11:57 pm
I'm 18 and I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and four months now. I guess me and him were just raised differently.I was raised getting most everything I want. Both of my parents are always working hard and they both love me very much. I was raised that drugs were bad and drinking alcohol wasn't that great either. I'm in college now and on the way to success however my boyfriend was raised completely different. My boyfriend was raised in a way that his mother allows him to do marijuana and drinks with him. I guess I have a great boyfriend but do I let him doing this even though it goes against my morals or do I just try to just deal with this?
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Unsure about myself and a relationship
Posted Tuesday September 9 2014, 2:13 pm
F/18
I am currently taking some martial arts classes with one of my best Friends. Usually I don't pay attention to how a person looks or even think about things like having a boyfriend. There are times however where I might find someone attractive. That happens with one of the boys in my classes. I'm usually very shy and not straight forward with guys I like, therefore I barely talk to him. I talked to him once where both I and my bestie talked to him. The next time I saw him, when my best friend and I came in, he went straight to say hello to my best friend, didn't even acknowledge me. I already have a lot of self-esteem problems, so that was the cherry on top of my iceberg. I felt so depressed afterwards it was sad really. Then in ...
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Was she teasing me? Why am I so pissed about it?
Posted Monday September 8 2014, 5:16 pm
I'm 19,M. I broke up with my ex about a month ago, after being with her for over a year. I started talking to another friend for a bit. We planned to hang out and whatnot. Movies, park, etc. She was out of state visiting family. We ended up sexting and planning to do a bunch of sexual stuff when she got back. I was really horny (I've never had sex before, or anything else beyond kissing and grabbing) She gets back and says we can't do anything or even hang out because she wants to focus on school and doesn't have the time, and that she's been in love with this other guy for a while. She'll say she can't even hang out for a bit, yet she has time to sit at home and be on netflix for 6 hours. I feel bad cause I kind of made her feel guilty. We...
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