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I messed up and I don't know how to fix it.
Posted Monday October 25 2010, 1:24 am
I started dating my boyfriend a month ago. The night I met him, he was with a guy I went to school with and the guy's girlfriend. It was my first time meeting the girl, but since me and my boyfriend started dating we've gotten pretty close. My boyfriend spent the night with me last night and when he was asleep the girl called me crying. Her and her boyfriend were fighting and she asked if I could do her a favor. I said yes, and she gave me his myspace email and password and told me to go on there and check his messages for her. I didn't want to do it, but she was crying and I have a really hard time telling people no, especially if they're upset.
So, I did. My boyfriend work up and found out what I was doing and got really u...
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betrayed by my pervert bff roommate and now i'm stuck here with no idea wha
Posted Sunday October 24 2010, 10:25 am
I found a video my roommate took of a friend of mine, taken from a hidden camera in a vent in my bathroom. I am disgusted & hurt he took advantage of her this way. I love him very much but can't stand knowing what he did. We've been so close and do everything together. But now it's all ruined. I'm afraid of him now, even though I know he won't do anything to me. I don't know why I'm afraid but what's sure is I no longer trust him and I'm questioning if our friendship was ever real. He helped me through some really hard times, was there for me unlike anyone I've ever known before. Before I found this, I trusted him completely. He went out of his way to help me for a long time while I dealt with major chaos in my life. NO ONE has ever bee...
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Best friend and Boyfriend
Posted Thursday October 21 2010, 8:08 pm
Woahhh. Well, I have liked this guy for almost a year and a half. We finally start talking. Now, my best friend is like glued to him it seems. I have confronted her about it once. It like of broke our friendship up. And I asked him about it. It might just be me but they flirt ALOT. My boyfriend swears he loves me and my best friend says she doesnt like him. I am sort of stuck in the middle. They past notes and talk more than I think they should. What should I do? How should I react?
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Flirty friend who doesn't know...er...
Posted Sunday October 17 2010, 7:59 pm
I have known one of my really close friends since about first grade. She has always been a person I go to for a great girl's night out; we shop together, watch movies, etc. She's amazingly talented and we've always shared our passion for writing.
Well, the problem is, she's...er...kind of a flirt. With everyone. Not in a bad way; she's classy and very quick-witted, and she has a tendency to make every guy in a room fall for her within a few minutes. She just doesn't limit it to guys, either. Although she says she's 100% straight, she's always hugging and flirting with girls as well. She says she's confident about her sexuality, which is why being jokingly flirting with a girl doesn't awkward her out.
I've recen...
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Posted Saturday October 16 2010, 10:18 pm
if someone wants to send im message to me whats the procudre
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How come I can't keep friends
Posted Saturday October 16 2010, 5:50 pm
i am a 28 year old female i don't know what it is aout me but i can't seem to keep any friends. its not anything that i did its just that people don't like me. ESPECIALLY WOMEN. Women hate my guts they are always talking about me behind my back.I was friends with this girl since 7th grade she slept with my boyfriend behind my back. And i got her a job working where i work and she started talking behind my back spreading rumors about me to all my co-workers.
I was also friends with this girl from high school. and one day for no good reason she just stoped talking me LIKE LITTERALLY she stoped when i called her she did not pick up when i stoped by her house she acted like she wasn't home. and i knew she was home cause i saw he...
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How can I ignore their comments?
Posted Saturday October 16 2010, 4:47 pm
I've never been considered particularly attractive by the opposite sex and I've accepted that. For years I hated how I looked and it would really get me down but as I've got older, I've become alot more confident in myself. I always make an effort to dress stylishly, have regular haircuts and good make up and I'm not overweight so it's not like I'm hideous, I just can't compete with my friends.
My problem is that every time we go anywhere where there are guys, they will get alot of male attention. There have been several occasions where I've been with my friends and guys have made comments about the fact that they're attractive and I'm not. I try not to let it bother me and tell myself that guys who feel the need to make neg...
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Not sure who my best friend is anymore.
Posted Wednesday October 13 2010, 3:56 am
So lately my friend has become really close with a girl from her work. She hasn't blown me off for her, but she's postponed our plans a few hours later several times lately. And while doing this, she was arranging plans with the other girl, although she's not aware that I know this.
Today, we were hanging out and she informed that she needed to be home early because she had college work to do. So an hour after I find out that she's at her house. I can't help by being slightly offended by this and I'm wondering if I should confront her?
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Outskirts of a friend group
Posted Tuesday October 12 2010, 1:42 am
I am on the total outskirts of a friend group in college. THe reason i started even joining this group was because of the sorority i joined. Its not that i'm concerned they don't like me (i know they do) and like if i asked them what they were doing, or where they were pregaming i know they would be like "oh here....comeee" and like totally mean it. but they don't texttt me first to be like we are pregaming here or we are going out to dinner here etc. etc. Also they have a bbm group that i'm not in.
How do I handle this situation?
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Dear god I might kill him
Posted Tuesday October 12 2010, 12:10 am
Okay, so I have this boyfriend who is really nice and I just think he's so loveable and soft. I love talking to him and just engaging in conversation with him. But he has this friend who can be just a total jerk I swear. One day, he told my boyfriend that I was mean to him and he gives me the cold shoulder because I don't look like a nerd just like him and his D&D buddies. Well when my boyfriend turns around to take a break from playing his game to probably have a small chat with me. The stupid boy grabs my boyfriend and turns him around.
What the hell is his problem and should I let the idiot boy bother me?
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dumping a "friend"
Posted Monday October 11 2010, 8:13 pm
how do i dump an acquaintance who just won't leave me alone. I don't want to hurt his feelings because we see each other frequently in the group of friends we share. How can I tell him that I want nothing more than to have a cordial relationship. No dinners with our spouses, no golf games, no drinks after work. We are both in our 50's.
Thanks.
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ex's 18th
Posted Saturday October 9 2010, 8:05 pm
me and my ex are great mates. his 18th is soon and i want to do somthing unqiue and fun with him.
ive looked at getting his nipple peirce ( his mum took that idea)
- lazer tag
- getting indian takeout and going to the drive ins.
-luna park (theme park)
but i have no idea what to do i dont want to spend a fortune ...
got any ideas
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how can get friends faster
Posted Friday October 8 2010, 9:40 pm
how can i get frinds faster
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My friend is being an idiot and I'm scared for her!
Posted Friday October 8 2010, 4:40 pm
18/f my friend Deliah is 17 and I think she is goin to get hurt. She met this guy when we were at this water park. We were staying there over night and he was the concierge. She talked to him and at first we were all just kidding around, next
thing I know she asks for his number. He's 21 and is really weird. He's rude and I don't trust him. I just don't get a good vibe. Also, he told her how his last girlfriend was a stripper. The one before that cheated on him three times. Then, he says he's in college but not going right now at all, because he is waiting for one specific class. She called him one day at like 2 and he was like why'd you call you woke me up. And she was like why aren't you up yet. And he's like because I always wake ...
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relatoinship, friendship, or nothing???
Posted Wednesday October 6 2010, 6:25 pm
17/F
my friend and i have been friends sence we were in the third or 4th grade, maybe even younger. wll about a month ago he broke up with his gf and 3 weeks ago i broke up with my bf. we grew up in the same church but lately i haven't been going on sundays. so sunday before last he called me and fussed at me for not being there in a month. we stayed on the phone all day long catching up on the things we've missed. (FYI: i've like had a crush on him fo like forever) well he told me about this football party his family has every time alabama (roll tide) plays and invited me and when this past saturday came i went. some how we kind of like wondered away from every1 else and we started talking, next thing i know we were having ...
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everyone hates me
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 5:38 pm
honest truth about me is i'm a super friendly person and really nice but i won't take peoples shit. like someone spread a rumor about me so i got angry and confronted him, i don't want people stepping all over me because i'm nice. and now that guy hates me. then theres me and my ex that broke up in june. we were friends up until now and then he just told me to lose his number so i said "why are you mad i didn't even do anything to you" and he was just like "are you serious? keep telling yourself that...lose my number" i mean i did break up with him but that was all the way in june and i did it nicely. then you have this other guy who we've been seeing each other recently and then i found out he was sleeping with a friend...
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hallowween
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 4:44 pm
so my group of friends had an idea for halloween, m&m's. me and 4 of my friends planned and thought of the idea at lunch sometime last week. well my other friends got mad at me over the weekend and basically took over the idea, and they aren't including me in it. im supposed to be the brown one, cause everyone else called all the other colors, when i called orange, so everyone said "why is she being brown..its like the total opposite of us" i really want to be included. and the only reason why they arent including me is cause they got mad at me over the weekend, which is really pathetic and rediculous. my other friend who also isnt doing it said she would do something with me, and my other friend who is supposed to be doing wi...
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from, "happy" friendship to "i don't know" relationship :/
Posted Monday October 4 2010, 7:28 pm
17/F
I have a friend who i've grew up with in a church we still go to. well my b'day was a few weeks ago and the day b4 i broke up with my boyfriend (bf) and about two weeks b4 my friend (lets call him john) broke up with his girlfriend (gf). well for the past month and a 1/2 i havent been to church(i know shame on me, but it's been alot going on), so one last sunday john calls me & fusses at me because i keep saying i'll go but i don't
so john and i wound up talkin all day. during our conversation he told me about the alabama vs. florida football game and how his family is into college football and they have these party's like every saturday, and he invites me and i agreed to go. he also tells me he likes...
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Guy Friend
Posted Sunday October 3 2010, 6:22 am
I was chatting with one of my close guy friend on MSN and recently, I have noticed that he likes me but I didn't want to make any assumption. I also have a boyfriend and we all went to the same high school so they know each other, so I don't think he's telling me. Please tell me what you think. This is how the conversation went:
*SB is Strongbow cider
*I think Ms.Claus is referring to me
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Me:
then ur santa for adults?
Him:
lol, sure, what would you like?
Me:
i'd like few cans of SBs and some popcorn to go with the movie
Him:
bahah, santa has a student budget so only sb
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varsity game
Posted Saturday October 2 2010, 2:06 pm
last weekend was the first home varsity game, so all my friends drank and then went. most of my friends got pretty drunk, and my friend "e" was drunk too.
this girl "k" hates "e", so she thought she was faking being drunk. she asked me about it over facebook and i told her that at first i thought she was faking, and then by the end of the night, that she was actually drunk. "k" forwarded the conversation we had on facebook to some girl "a" and "e" found out.
"e" texts me today flipping out. and my other friend "b" texted me saying 'wow' she wasnt flipping out, i just think she was mad at the fact that she thinks i told "k"...
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