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i like a guy who may be a player


Posted Monday September 29 2014, 10:20 am

so i like a guy in my school i think there may be some flirting ongoing but i most likely would be totally oblivious to that since i am stupid.i may have also totally blew it cause of being the master of the weird convo


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How do I get him to believe in himself ?


Posted Monday September 29 2014, 3:11 am

Me and my boyfriend are 18 ,and we have been together for about a year and a half . He's a very easy to person to fall in love with but he does not see it. He doesemt believe in him self as much as I do . He is a really beautiful person,only he has been through so much in his life . His mom being emotionally abusive to him ,growing up in a not so nice part of town. And just his surroundings . He is actually really the opposite of it all though . He likes poetry ,meditation,music,dance,and everything artistic. He puts on this mean faced Ora I till he's comfortable with people ,and it can come off mean. I'm trying to get him to believe in himself more .he recently told me he was scared of the world and I just want to tell him everyone loves y...

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How do you kiss


Posted Sunday September 28 2014, 11:58 pm

This might be a wierd question but how exactly do you kiss? Not french kissing but just a normal kiss. Thanks for the help.

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boyfriends dad hits him


Posted Sunday September 28 2014, 8:17 pm

Ok, I am not talking about beating him up or whatever. He is so strict. My boyfriend gets punished by getting the belt on his butt. Has to take off his pants and boxers and lay on his bed so his dad can hit him with the belt. My boyfriend thinks its ok for his dad to do this and even that it only happens when he deserves it. I want him to tell someone at school but he wont. Should I tell someone or how do I get my boyfriend to agree??

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I feel like my boyfriend puts smoking weed before me and it's affecting us


Posted Sunday September 28 2014, 1:00 pm

I'm 16 my bf is 17 and we've been dating for seven months. As a person he is the nicest, most caring and great boyfriend to me and honestly treats me so well and I'm not even just saying that everyone says what a nice boyfriend to me he is. He doesn't do anything shady like talking or flirting with other girls or lying to me were actually pretty honestly open with each other. We care about each other so much and he's my first boyfriend and I love him very much. I always said if a guy ever cheated on me or anything id dump them for sure which I would as till this day in my relationship I don't put up with any shit with him and we always talk stuff out and I would say I wear the pants in our relationship. Getting to the point though long befo...

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How do I get out of the friend zone?


Posted Saturday September 27 2014, 7:59 pm

I'm a girl, and I have a crush on my best guy friend, how do I get him to like me more than a friend?

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clashing or just controlling


Posted Saturday September 27 2014, 4:13 pm

im a 22yr old female.

i am currently in a relationship that has been good for 3 years. just recently we have been arguing daily about everything so i decided to move back into my parents to give each other some space. we still argue a lot, the other thing to take into account is he has ADHD (has medication for it) yesterday he accused me of cheating because i did not answer my phone because i fell asleep as soon as i got in from work till the following morning (6 pm till 6 am). I feel he has lost trust in me, i can not even see my friends (which he knew about in advance) with out him kicking off at me. Don't get me wrong i love him to bits but i am starting to loose my tether with it all. please can someone put this into perspective for me? i feel like im going insane

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I need seeing what I don't want to


Posted Saturday September 27 2014, 1:33 pm

Okay. So I've had a relationship with my boyfriend for about A year and 8 months. It's been pretty good. I feel like this summer we became, a little unattached. I don't feel like he cares enough about me anymore. We barely text. It's almost like were married. I really like talking to people so I became good friends with this guy in a couple of my classes. At the time, I thought I'd be good for homework purposes. Because i actually got attention from someone. Now we talk a lot. And I tell him everything, and the other night he said "well maybe he's not right for you" and kinda left It at that. I thought that meant something. But you'd tbink if he liked me then he'd text me a lot right? But I see where he'll text my friend back but not me. I'm confused.

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My boyfriend is so dense.


Posted Saturday September 27 2014, 1:23 am

So here's the basics, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years, we are both in college and love and care for one another quite a bit. We've had ups and downs and always supported each other and of course to make it this far, we've worked hard.

So things drive me insane about him... He is so dense in his way of thinking. Now I'm stubborn and I will argue (whether I'm right or wrong) till I die, always have and always will. What frustrates me is that he can only see it his way and he has no life experience. I may be stubborn but I'm not blind. I just feel so frustrated with his one sided views. I've also been really frustrated with him lately. I feel like he's starting to take me for granted. I love him very muc...

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Boyfriend problem


Posted Friday September 26 2014, 11:25 pm

I'm fifteen and a female. I met this guy like 5 days ago and recently he stopped talking and calling me. I called him today and it went straight to voicemail. Should I call him again or just leave him alone

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Boyfriend problems


Posted Friday September 26 2014, 11:22 pm

Hello, so I started talking to this boy on Saturday and it's been pretty good but since yesterday he havnt been calling me or texting me and he hasn't been answering my calls. When I do call him it goes straight to voice mail. Is he tired of me? Should I just give up on contacting him or should I keep trying?
Im fifteen and I'm a girl.

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am I a lesbian or a bi or hetero?


Posted Friday September 26 2014, 7:58 pm

Hello...i need sum advise.I get attracted to girls physically.and on the other hand i feel it abnormal.i even get attracted to boys...but not as much as towards girls.I really dont want to be a lesbian.i want to spend my life with a man.But again the attractions towards girls is really making me confused.please help me !!

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Does love still exist?


Posted Friday September 26 2014, 6:29 pm

20/f

I have personally been very unlucky in the love department. But I feel that I'm not the only one. All around me I see people falling out of love,pretending to be in love,cheating,marrying out of interest,only going after sex and what not. Seeing all these things done by both men and women (although being a woman I often feel men are the emotionless ones) I wonder if love has become a thing of the past. It's like,if you're a guy,you only get the girl if you're rich. If you're a girl,you only get a guy if you look like a model. Personally I don't care what a guy owns because I'm a woman who is taking care of herself very well and I need no man to support me. But I don't look like a model,really. I'm good looking but not th...

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confused!!


Posted Friday September 26 2014, 4:08 pm


So I've been talking to this guy over the phone (texting) and he's a good friend of my best friend! He told me he likes me and I really like him too!I haven't met him in ages but heard a lot about him from my friend! Now he wants to date me... We talk often and I think he wants a committed relationship just like me! How do I make sure that he wants the same?
I've met him previously! He's shy! He is going away for his masters to Europe next month for a year! I asked him how do I get to see him and he asked me if I'm okay with Skype relationship for a year !I think if it survives long distance, it's the real test! I have problems initiating conversation with him! Is that bad? Do relationships work if it's long distance? Please advice :)



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boyfriend's parents walked in on us


Posted Friday September 26 2014, 3:11 pm

My boyfriend's mom wasn't supposed to be home for another hour yesterday and she walked in on us having sex. She was so mad she couldn't talk at first and then she yelled at me to get out of her house and never come back and she watched me get dressed and didn't leave until I left. Obviously I deeply regret what we did and we shouldn't have been that stupid and I just don't know what to do now. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 23. His mom is unpredictable and emotionally unstable and she said she wants to tell my parents about this. I am so humiliated and ashamed and I haven't decided if I should tell my mom yet i don't know if I can handle that right now. Should I? What am I supposed to do now? I can't apologize to his mom or talk to her at all ...

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Thnxz ^^


Posted Thursday September 25 2014, 9:52 pm

Well I did talk to him bout it
And like we dated for 5 months broke up on Sept 6
But ever since we broke up we are friends now
But the thing in really confused about is he's always giving hugs and kiss and always pulls me to sit near him

And our friends be tellin to go back out
He doesn't say anything and they say go back out with her she's ur gf and he be like she ain't my Gf

It makes me feel type of way around him like when he has that I'm not his gf more like ex gf but what type of ex still hugs & kisses their ex ??

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Why do boys go for uglier girls after breakups?


Posted Tuesday September 23 2014, 5:39 pm

20/f

Every time I broke up with a guy he would date a girl who is much uglier than me,who he spoke ill of and never even paid attention to until after I broke up with them. It happened 3 times already. I'm not conceited or anything but I am good looking and smart and have many qualities,and those girls aren't half the woman I am. But they go for them very shortly after the break up. Like,the last guy I broke up with started dating this girl after barely 3 months since break up. And like I already mentioned,he spoke no nice things of her and barely paid her any heed. To clear things up,I have no feelings for him or any of my exes anymore,it's just that I'm curious about this thing that keeps happening every time I end a relationship.

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I'm Very Confused


Posted Monday September 22 2014, 9:49 pm

Ok so my ex and I broke up 5weeks ago soo now we are just friends the thing is I'm really confused
We both confessed that we still have feelings for each other and I don't think it's a break up more like "lets not be together for awhile and have our own space.... What do u think I should do ??
Please help me and I be so happy if u did thanks ^^

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My husband wants one or more of his exes to vent to about me!


Posted Monday September 22 2014, 4:34 pm

Well me and my husband got into an argument over him telling his sister that I don't do anything and don't want to go anywhere. Well then he says at least you've got some one to vent to.(talking about me to his sister). After she left he said it wasn't fair that he can't vent/ talk shit about me. So I said you have friends. And he was like I don't want to talk to guys about it. He said he wants to hit up one of his exs so that he can complain about me to her. I said no and he practically begs to talk to them. Just girls and he has either had sex or sex acts with them am I wrong for telling him no?

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when to know when to give up the marriage or keep trying.


Posted Monday September 22 2014, 8:58 am

Well me and my husband have our anniversary this November. Our one year. And it seems like any special day , my birthday, Christmas, or even days that represent a family members passing. He goes too far. My first b day I spent with him he called me a lazy bitch. This year on my birthday he couldn't spend ten min. In a room with me. And he brings up the fact that when he is hateful and we fight, PS(he can write a book with the things he wants me to change) I say to him if you're so unhappy then divorce me. And he said if I say that word again he will. Once again on my birthday. We have been fighting a lot because I'm this or I don't do that. And I don't feel good enough for him any advice?

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