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Boyfriend dated and slept with someone while on a break
Posted Thursday October 9 2014, 10:17 am
Boyfriend of two years broke up with me started dating someone a week later and then came crawling back 4 months later. I took him back but we've been fighting so much lately that I question if I even should be with him. I know I'm still angry with him and that is the reason why I keep trying to find reasons to get mad and leave but he doesn't make it easy. Last night we were talking about trying to have sex again and I asked if he slept with the girl he dated and he got quiet and I told him to answer but he wouldn't. He said it shouldn't matter but it matters a lot to me cause I couldn't even think of another guy let alone have sex with someone. I said it mattered to me and he just got up and went home. He didn't even try to talk about it...
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Nervous about HIV test?
Posted Thursday October 9 2014, 12:20 am
I had unprotected sex about a year ago with my then-boyfriend. Prior to having unprotected sex, I asked him to get tested for HIV and other STIs.
He lived in a different city, so I couldn't go with him to make sure he actually got tested. He said that he did, though, and showed me a piece of paper from the clinic, signed by a nurse, stating that he was HIV negative.
I didn't question it at the time, but as our relationship progressed I learned that he was dishonest about a lot of things - a year later, I am suddenly extremely anxious that he lied to me about the HIV test and forged the letter.
My main concern is that my current boyfriend and I had unprotected sex; he's never had unprotected sex b...
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Unsure About My Situation
Posted Wednesday October 8 2014, 9:00 pm
Well, this guy, that I've been spending time with is getting very attracted to me but I'm not sure if I feel the same way. I don't feel phyiscally attracted to him, but I do enjoy being around him and his personality.
I dated his best friend for six months but our relationship ended badly and this new guy helped me get through it. We have been best friends for almost a year now and I don't want to lose him as a friend if we do date. We get along very well and I think we would be good in a relationship but I'm just on the edge.
He really likes me though, just not sure how I feel or if it's the greatest idea?
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What do I do?
Posted Wednesday October 8 2014, 7:25 pm
Hi there,Love Choice girl here again.
I split with the man I wanted to see because I felt so much pressure and guilt from my family for being with him.I axed our relationship,and have felt terrible,depressed,heartbroken ever since.I want to badly to pick up the phone and say Im sorry,because I really am.I really am sorry.I didnt mean to hurt his feelings.But I have never felt so alone or empty in my life.
What do I do,should I say Im sorry with flowers?
Or just leave it alone.
I miss this guy so much,and its near torture,but I am heavily afraid what my family will do to me,if I go to him,I love my family,but love this guy too.
Im stuck in such an impossible place.
Any suggestions?
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Everyone is beautiful and I am not.
Posted Monday October 6 2014, 4:17 pm
20/f
I don't know how come,but literally every girl is beautiful and I am not. I always ruin photos,they look gorgeous and then there's me. I'm 160 cm tall and I'm plus size but not fat. I just don't feel good being me. I feel ugly and am ugly. Why is everyone blessed with beauty and I am not? I am dressed up most of the time,I have nice clothes on,jewelry,make up,everything. I try to eat healthy,I exercise an hour and a half three times a week. Yet despite all of that I'm still ugly. I can't even get a boyfriend,and my best friend will be married in 2 days. In short I'm simply desperate.
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Boyfriend wants me gaining weight
Posted Monday October 6 2014, 9:43 am
I've been dating a guy for 3 years and I recently lost about 20 pounds. I am still in the normal weight range for my height and I feel overall healthier and happier and I have more energy and I wouldn't take it back for anything. However my boyfriend feels that I am too thin and has been "crushing" on this other girl that apparently looks like me but is a little heavier. He's trying to get me to gain weight but I really don't want to but I don't want to lose him. He's talking to this girl that he says is "harmless" but he's into her and it bothers me. What should I do? We're also 23 if that makes a difference..
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Sex
Posted Sunday October 5 2014, 10:56 pm
Hi... im 14 and i've had sex many times with my boyfriend of 4 years.. he wants to have a baby with me in a few weeks ... we''ve used condoms and he makes me feel amazing but i want to know if i say yes, will giving birth hurt? and havinng a growing human inside me for 9months hurt??
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break up
Posted Friday October 3 2014, 7:09 pm
as i said the first time my bf broke up with me blah blah blah and so on and when he broke up with me he needed his gades up to get back together and now he is saying i dont like you anymore like that i like this girl we are never getting back together what should i do i am 100 percent sure i still love him i dont know what to do please help i love him so so much
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missing my ex
Posted Thursday October 2 2014, 12:53 pm
19/m
So I started college about a month ago... up until then I was single and wasnt missing my ex girlfriend. It's now been a month and more and more I miss my ex girlfriend.
I dated her last fall and it lasted only a short time, then in the summer we kinda dated, we definitely had a thing and were intimate. Out of nowhere she ended things, which I respect, but I could kind of tell it was coming. I have always been able to kind of tell when someone has lost interest or is acting weird when in a relationship with me. So I knew kind of.
But I didnt miss her for about a month... I still had time left in summer so I don't know why I never missed her but being here at college I miss her more and mor...
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Break ups
Posted Wednesday October 1 2014, 9:44 pm
I feel absolutely shattered and like my world came to an end. My boyfriend of 5 years dumped me and said he didn't love me anymore and needed to make things work for himself. I don't feel like anything I can do will help and I'll always feel this way. I'm not used to this hookup culture and don't want to sleep with someone before I know them. I'm so lost and scared :( he was my everything and I feel broken. But there's nothing else I can do.
I was there through everything for him. We had a rocky relationship because he struggles with addiction but now that he's actually bettering his life, he doesn't want to date me.
Plus we have been long distance for about 3 years and it was finally gonna be long distance no longer....
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what cute gesture can you make to your boyfriend, that's ok at school?
Posted Wednesday October 1 2014, 9:34 pm
my boyfriend and i dont have a way to hang out anywhere and school isnt really working. we dont have any classes together and its hard to find time. do you know any cute gestures that can be done at school. i mean like the gesrure of letting him know *what's on your mind* without saying it? cause hes really sweet and i want him to know that i love him, but we cant show affection.......PDA! thanks!!!! ASL-16, female, U.S.
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my boyfriend wants to have sex this weekend because it's his birthday.
Posted Wednesday October 1 2014, 9:31 pm
I'm 14 almost 15 and my boyfriend wants to have sex this weekend it's his birthday. I feel that I'm ready but..people say we're to young and I'd never be able to admit it to my mom.. Any advise?
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Is my jealousy justified?
Posted Wednesday October 1 2014, 7:42 pm
21/f.
Right so Ive dated and everything, but I've never fallen hard enough until now to really get jealous in my relationship. My boyfriend always "likes" this girls pictures on facebook and instagram. I trust him, and he's the type that tends to go "like-crazy" in general. But I"m insecure/self conscious and its really messing with me.
Is that normal or am I just being a crazy gf? & is there any way I could kind of bring it up to him withoutt sounding controlling or overly jealous?
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I am a lesbian,bi or hetro?
Posted Wednesday October 1 2014, 5:10 pm
I am 19.I try to ignore the attraction towards girls but I can't help.I don't want to be a lesbian.what do I do.??please help!
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feeling really worthless
Posted Wednesday October 1 2014, 4:50 am
I'm a 3rd year medical student, in the USA. I have so much on my mind and so much work to do and to add to the pile of things I have to worry about it, my boyfriend and I ended things about a year ago.I had a really really hard time moving on, and I still am not fully recovered, AT ALL. We tried to be friends but it didn't work out because I was having a harder time healing so that made us drift apart, even further. In addition to the fact that during the time we were falling apart, his ex girlfriend suddenly became popular and beautiful and loved and attractive and the center of all attention, including his.I had to deal with the stress of medical school and a broken heart and low self esteem issues. And then to add to the stress, I found ...
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How Do I Make a Decision?
Posted Wednesday October 1 2014, 2:48 am
22/f
About 2 months ago, my boyfriend of 2 years fell back into his pain pill addiction and I broke up with him. He has had issues with pills for a long time, and the first time I found out, he said he'd get sober but he didn't really give it a solid effort. I told him that while I understood having an addiction is beyond his control, he wasn't taking all of the steps his doctor wanted him to and that I couldn't be with him if he started taking them again. Well, 2 months ago, I found out he had been again and I left him. However, he has been making a very sincere effort to stay sober and has been clean since we broke up. But besides the pill addiction, he has been so good to me. We have so much fun together and up until this ...
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i cheated on.my husband to feel sexy
Posted Wednesday October 1 2014, 12:33 am
I cheated on my husband cause i felt abanden lonely.not sexy but i met this guy and we use to talk.and made me felt wanted again but not.even a.week.later he asked to borrow money so i said k then.1 month later again and i said no. Then he tells me he had sex with his ex.and ask to borrow money again i told him no and he begged.me.to.so.i dont answer.his.calls no more is that all he.wanted to make me.feel loved and.wanted just to use me
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my boyfriend is addicted to sex
Posted Tuesday September 30 2014, 4:48 pm
My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years. He is 23 and I'm 21. From the time we began dating, all he loves to do is have sex. Every time we see each other he pushes to have sex, sometimes in public places. I am forced to have sex around 3 to 4 times when I'm with him, he doesn't force himself on me, I suppose I feel guilty telling him no. Even when I do, he asks if he doesn't do it for me or if I want somebody else. I love him very much and I would just like to sit down with him without him touching me all the time. What do I do?
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Mixed signals??
Posted Monday September 29 2014, 10:46 pm
Okay so I'm in a relationship with the love of my life. And I have a guy best friend. Today I was feeling low, and I told him to cheer me up. I asked him to tell me one good thing about me. His answer was "everything". And I told him only one thing so he then answered your personality. I asked what about my personality and he said everything. He then reassured that I know he's my best friend and I can tell him everything.
Is that him being sweet or coming onto me?
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Dessprete: Im from Namibia
Posted Monday September 29 2014, 5:45 pm
Im from Namibia
Really need some advise
im friends with a guy we just made friends 3weeks ago
got to know each other ..i really like him alot he is just a guy that i want but the thing is he has a girlfriend..I dont know what to do? Help me please what should I do?
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