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Make sex less painful
Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 2:57 pm
22/f
My boyfriend is in the military and I have not seen him in over 3 months. He is coming home soon on leave. I have always been "tight" down there and sex has always been painful for the first 5 minutes or so. Anyway this is the longest I have gone in a while so I know it will be really painful. Is there anything I can do to make this less painful? ..I do not want to masturbate. Thank you.
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Why cant I get my life together? How can I do it? Major issues
Posted Friday January 7 2011, 11:24 pm
Oh my god, I'm sorry this is monstrously long but my life is just in complete shambles right now and everything is only getting worse. I have absolutely nobody else to turn to right now so please help.
I'm 16 and ever since I was 12, I've been procrastinating and it only seems to get worse every year. Now I'm a junior, and its really embarrassing for me to say but last marking period I failed 4 classes because of my inability to do work. I mean I know I am a smart person (despite the grades) and when I put my mind to it I've always gotten near perfect or perfect grades (I'm a big perfectionist). Sometimes to my own pitfall.. cause I'd hand a project a day late to get it perfect and get the same score as someone who did medioc...
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did he use me? hellp!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted Friday January 7 2011, 1:43 am
k, this kid nd i arent dating but kinda like eachother, he invited me over,drank A LITTLE!! just me nd him, we layed down , were watching a scary movie, he grabbed my butt, turned mee over nd made out, he felt me up with one hand, un button my pants nd fingerd me with the other, he told me to give a hand job, i did, being tipsy, pushed my head down, told me he loved me nd to suck him, nd he wldnt tell , i did. i dnt remember alot im 14, did he use me? am i a slut? help!
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Does sperm crystalize when dried?
Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 4:25 pm
Me and my bf had sex two nights ago and I didnt wash my bedsheets after. He pulled out at the last minute and cummed on my bed. I went to lay down in the bed last night and noticed some sort of hardish stuff there like dried fluids but stiff like when glue kind of dries if you know what I mean. so does that mean he came on the bed and his sperm crystallized when it dried up?
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How do I make my bf get an oxyticin rush?
Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 5:29 pm
So my bf and I have been going out for a while & we haven't had sex but he's fingered me and i think ever since i have just been sooo attached and whenever he does that to me i just wanna cuddle him and love him forever. i then got really scared because i'm 16 and he's 18... he's going to college next year and i'm soo attached. it's oxyticin. we haven't had sex or anything but if we do, do you think he can get an oxyticin rush? all his guys friend's say that he's "whipped" :p so i guess that's good but say we have sex, is there any position or anything i can do that can help with his oxyticin rush??
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i feel like my life is a mistake so i want to die
Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 9:53 am
what is the most painless way to die without anyone knowing it was suicide?
i have been having a headache for more than a year now, i can't fully express my emotions, i feel no joy in my life it's just boring and useless, lots of people give me attention that annoys me, i have been having no dreams and everytime i sleep its just darkness for the entire time, i have already tried starving myself but it didn't work, i feel like i'm one step away from death but i want to take the next step, i can't control my face expressions every day people see my face they think i'm happy, but i'm not just want to die, i don't like my name no name seems to fit me, i have been holding in anger for years but have no clue where its coming from, i have g...
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My friend gave me a BlowJob , help
Posted Tuesday January 4 2011, 11:48 pm
So since i'm in Middle School , my friends talk about sex and i am so fed up with it , so one day my friend mary came over and since my mom and dad were gone i thought i would watch a scary movie with her , so after the movie ended we were bored so she said do i want to try something and i said yes . In a couple of minutes i had her on my stomach and she was going up and down until i just came and next thing we were doing anal sex but out of nowhere she started crying and said she loved me but im not ready
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dryy?
Posted Tuesday January 4 2011, 9:53 pm
during sex, i randomly get dry. i will still be turned on and everythingi dont know why this happens. Why does this happen and how can i fix it?
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ovulation/pregnancy?
Posted Tuesday January 4 2011, 3:22 pm
Okay; 18/f && 17/m; Last Thursday, I let my boyfriend stick it in because he's a virgin and wanted to see what it would feel like; after a couple of thrust, he pulled out because he felt like he could nut if he kept going; the whole thing only lasted a minute and a half max. It wasnt long at all. I was freaking out becaue I thought he could have pre-nutted in me, and not known, and I could be pregnant.
Well today I noticed Im ovulating. I wasn't sure if I could be pregnant from Thursday and still ovulate, or if me ovulating is a sign im not pregnant?
Helpp?
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vagina cleaning off the hair
Posted Tuesday January 4 2011, 1:54 am
how to clean vegina hair with just a razor or by using some cream also plz explain me in detail.i am 23 years old and i am from india.
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I Think My Bestfriend Is In Trouble.
Posted Monday January 3 2011, 7:57 pm
I need legal and family advice. My cousin is 14 years old and lives with her mom, dad, older brother, younger sister, and baby brother. She feels as if she is not appreciated and is being mistreated. She never gets to go out and always has to look after her younger siblings. She's even thought about suicide. If her older brother does something wrong she is blamed for it and punished by her dad. He talks down to her and sometimes physically abuses her. But here's the catch, her "so-called dad" didnt sign her birth certificate because he didnt think she was he's. So my question is "If we go to the police will she be able to live with me and my mom?" and "Since her dad didnt sign her birth certificate does he have any ...
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My boyfriend likes me to grind his ass
Posted Monday January 3 2011, 12:33 pm
One day when my boyfriend was over in my room we were dancing and grinding. I was kidding around and started to grind on his ass like guys do to girls. He said he actually liked it and I saw he got a big hard on. Now when he comes over and I feel like dancing he will make remarks about me grinding on his butt again. Sometimes I do it and when I do I can see he gets really turned on. Yesterday we did that and we ended up having amazing sex after. Is this okay or weird?
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orgasims? tips?
Posted Monday January 3 2011, 2:58 am
Im 18/f and I've had sex with three guys; each of them different in their own ways; and the thing is, I have NEVER orgasmed during sex, or even nutted; Is something wrong with me? Me and my boyfriend had sex for 5 hours on and off; 2 hours without stopping, and I didn't finish once.
Why is that? All my friends talk about how they orgasm all the time, and how amazing it feels. I wanna know. I feel like a failure, because I have never finished during intercourse. Help.
*I've only cum'd once, and that was while I was getting fingerd, but never sex.
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painful during sex even though ive done it alot?
Posted Monday January 3 2011, 2:50 am
Well, I've had sex with two guys, and I had sex with another guy recently, who is my boyfriend.
When we was doing it, it didn't hurt at first, but after the firt couple of hours, it began to kill me. The feeling is hard to explain, but it was like on the left side of my stomach, and when he would push it in me, it would hurt, but every position he did, the pain would either be less or more. Im not too sure why it hurt; I figured I needed to stick it out, and it would go away because I've never had a guy pop my cherry, but it didn't, it just got worse. I don't know if its normal, or what?
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discharge? smell?
Posted Monday January 3 2011, 2:48 am
Okay, new years me and my boyfriend had sex for 6 hours on and off; we used a condom the whole time; he was a virgin, and I have had sex with two guys before him. Neither one of us got a "nut".
Well today I've been really really wet. I can feel it come out of me and when I felt it, I look at my underwear and it had a big wet spot; I smelled my vagina/discharge, and it smelled like fish. Its the first time it has ever smelled like that. I took a shower today, and I wash down there, I just don't understand why its smelling like that. I've been having a lot of discharge come out of me all day; its an on and off process. What is it? Why does it smell like that?
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I keep dreaming about two subjects in particular...
Posted Sunday January 2 2011, 6:34 pm
Hi all, 23/f. Just wondering if anyone has any insight.
I have PTSD from my ex boyfriend physically abusing me (I left him in October 2010), and a car crash I had in 2006...but I thought that was better. The physical abuse led to whiplash just like the accident, so maybe that's where some connection is. Anyway...
I keep dreaming about two things: (my) suicide, and (my) wedding(s).
So far, these dream experiences have stuck out to me:
*I've driven my car off the side of an exit ramp into a lake, thought about opening the window (I have an old car with hand-crank windows), but chose not to and then woke up.
*I saw myself as a little girl climb onto a railing on a b...
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Porn
Posted Sunday January 2 2011, 12:13 am
Any good cites I could get porn free
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IM a girl WHat to do Im confused.
Posted Saturday January 1 2011, 7:41 pm
I hate being a girl. ABsolutely despise it. I hate hate getting a period I hate having boobs and I hate having a vagina. I love to wear jeans and a baggy tee and in summer baggy shorts with baggy tee. I feel uncomfortable being a girl. I do love men everything about them. PLease Help me what should I do? By the way sex change is not an option.
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sex doesnt feel good
Posted Saturday January 1 2011, 4:51 pm
i have had sex with 4 guys in my life.
never ever has it ever felt remotly good.
why is this? and how do i change this?
im a female.
not just about orgasming just feelign food in gerneal!
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My Roommate Scares Me. I Think My Roommate is Suicidal
Posted Saturday January 1 2011, 1:43 pm
My roommate is kind of weird. I moved in with her in the beginning of December to prepare for this upcoming semester of college. We live near campus. She's been going to this college for 2 semesters already so she knows all about the school. That isn't the point.
She's really quiet and keeps to herself. She always, always eats alone. We never even watch TV together. I hardly ever see her really. I don't know if she has any friends, but I know if she does they never come over. I try to get her to go out and have lunch with me sometimes but she ALWAYS turns me down and says she's busy (usually reading some book, writing some paper, or doing some "research" about something or another). She always DOES seem busy because...
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