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should I break up or not??
Posted Friday October 17 2014, 2:40 pm
I think my guy loves me but sometimes I think like he doesn't even care..he talks to his so called sisters and he doesn't have time for me..he sends messages and
pictures to his so called sisters but he doesn't have time to reply me..and whenever I try to spend some quality time with him he just get busy with his games or movie..i don't have any idea what should I do..we never had any kind of official date till now..I really love him..but I think our thought doesn't match..I can't even stay without him..i can't let him go from my life..and he always cares about his friend more than me..and the main thing is,we are in living relation..I have never been so much addicted of something.
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whether to break up or not
Posted Thursday October 16 2014, 10:04 pm
I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years but I still feel like he doesn't trust me. He asks me the same question again and again as if I had lied.
He was previously engaged and she cheated on him multiple times, I just don't think he trusts me all because of her.
He's great, but he also yells so easily and he doesn't trust me. I just, i'm so torn.
Oh, and on top of that-- We live 4-5 hours away from each other.
THanks
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felecio
Posted Thursday October 16 2014, 12:25 pm
some times I give head to men Id like to come clean with my wife
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Due to my illness I can't perform in bed like I used too.
Posted Thursday October 16 2014, 10:14 am
Is it a bad idea if I invite another female into my bed to spice up our sex like since I can't perform like I used to before my illness! I love to please my husband but it's hard to at this point! Would my marriage brake if I do. Need help please! We have been together for 15yrs and married for 10yrs. I'm a 36 year old abd my husband just turned 40 years old.
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i feel like i lead this guy on..
Posted Thursday October 16 2014, 12:31 am
i thought i had feelings for this guy but hes getting clingy and now i dont think i like him as much... i feel like telling him that would make him think i lead him on.. maybe i did in a way, but i cant help how i feel. i care about this guy but maybe not enough for any kind of relationship.. i dont know what to do and i need advice.. i dont want to hurt him
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Making out
Posted Wednesday October 15 2014, 1:00 am
Hi! So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months (both juniors in HS). We are both each other's first boyfriend/girlfriend. Things are pretty good. We get along well and we always have fun, but the physical aspect of our relationship is lacking. It took him 4 1/2 months to kiss me and now I'm ready for a little more (like making out or something) but he hasn't taken any initiative. I don't know what to do. Like he's affectionate in front of our friends (always makes a point to be by me, holds my hand, has his arm around me, ect). But when we are alone he doesn't even try anything. Is there something wrong with me? He always says how beautiful I am and stuff but he never tries anything. What should I do?? SOS
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I Just Want This Guy to LEAVE ME ALONE!!!
Posted Tuesday October 14 2014, 3:48 pm
I'll try to make this quick. Back in August, I started seeing a guy called RW. I thought he was great at first, but then he turned out to be not so nice. At least that's how I feel. I feel like there's a lot I'd like you to know about RW, but all you really need to know is that I wasn't very happy most of the time I was seeing him. I felt a lot better when I started thinking about breaking it off in September.
Long story short, in September, two guys from my past came back into my life. Their names are Robert and Jude and I've had crushes on them both (Robert in 2010 and 2011 and Jude in 2011). I started seeing them both a little over three weeks ago and simultaneously broke it off with RW.
They both have so ma...
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I'm really sick of no one wanting me as a girlfriend.
Posted Tuesday October 14 2014, 2:57 pm
20/f
It happened recently that guys just come to me and expect comfort or try to get me and sleep with them (in which they don't succeed.) It's like no one even considers me a girlfriend option. It's either the guys that are crazy about girls who don't even deserve them or the ones who think I'm young and naive and will just surrender to them. I am not that pretty,but I have a strong character,I'm caring,I'm intelligent,and I also have many other qualities. It's just that I'm pretty much invisible. Is it me,or is just the world overcrowded with idiots?
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Am i asking for too much :(?
Posted Monday October 13 2014, 11:10 pm
Ok today this guy messaged me telling me that this other guy was gossiping about me saying that I will "never date anyone" and that I friendzone every guy that gets close to me. Which isn't true im just the type of girl that isn't particulary easy and because of the immature guys in my school im not in a rush to date them. I don't throw myself at boys and I don't try to get attention by wearing skin tight clothes and showing off my goods like other girls do. Its just not me. I have had guys hit on me but I never was interested because they were either immature, players, saw them as a friend or they had recently broke up with one of my close girl friends. Im not desperate but I would date someone. Its just I want a mature, ...
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Insecure about him cheating--What should I do?
Posted Sunday October 12 2014, 11:50 pm
21/f, 27/m
Here is some of my relationship history: I have been cheated on multiple times in my past. I've been looking for patterns in the guys I have been dating and they were all different. I saw no patterns. I've been lied to and hurt a lot by different guys.
My current relationship. We're just dating right now. We're only seeing each other (it's like we're exclusive but we just don't have the label). I think he may be waiting for me to tell him that I'm ready for an exclusive relationship. He told me that he's on board if I am. I'm not sure if he's saying that just to be in a relationship or if he actually sees a potential relationship with me. As you can see, I'm kind of doubting him.
We've...
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Does the boyfriend I've never met still love me?
Posted Sunday October 12 2014, 10:34 pm
My name is JeanieBeanie, and I am 14. I have been dating a boy who's three months younger than me (we'll just say his name is Joe) and I met Joe online. We found each other on the app hot or not and began dating only four months ago. Lately Joe has been acting weird. He doesn't talk to me as much, or say adorable things like he used to. Sometimes when we're face timing, I don't know if he will just hang up or if we loose connection, but either way he doesn't call back. Even when I do he sometimes won't answer. But when I iMessage him he will answer almost immediately. We are only 94 miles apart from each other, and have wanted to meet for a long time, but our parents don't know how we actually met. Sometimes I even have doubts about him da...
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Have feelings for a guy that lives far away
Posted Sunday October 12 2014, 3:18 pm
There is a guy I have quite a bit of feelings for, but he lives in a different state. I know that he feels the same about me. The thing is that I don't know if I should continue talking with him or not. I don't believe that long distance relationships really truly work. I know we have something, it feels like way more than just a stupid crush or like, but I know it can't be love. I'm just unsure if this is a good idea or not.
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Did He Cheat? Yes or No?
Posted Sunday October 12 2014, 3:15 am
Hi there.I met this guy from childhood and re-connected with him some time later in my life,about 3 years ago.A month ago,I ended things,and have been feeling miserable.
This past week,however,I found photos of him kissing another woman from about 17 months ago,and the most recent of him and this woman were 11 months ago.From what I saw on his profile,he is still friends with this woman.And she appears to have a boyfriend.
My beef with all this is,is that he knew I liked him,and have been pursuing things.3 years we had talked and talked and what I thought,we liked each other. I saw her profile and she has photos of her and him at the beach saying''Were officially official! Hooray! We're having fun at the beach'' And other stuf...
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Been cheated on 6 times--is there something wrong with me?
Posted Sunday October 12 2014, 1:55 am
21/f
Long story short. I have been cheated on a total of six times by six different guys. I have been telling myself that it's not my fault, it says something about them and not about me... But it has happened so often, it's starting to become harder for me to believe that.
Usually when people cheat, it's because they're not getting the physical or emotional needs met... I've been thinking about all of them and I've tried to reach all of those needs of my boyfriends. I've also always told them that I hate it when people cheat and if they were ever unhappy or upset with me, to talk to me about it--don't cheat on me. But yet, I still get cheated on and I feel betrayed.
I tried thinking about my chi...
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still in love but he wants to call it a friendship?
Posted Saturday October 11 2014, 11:46 pm
I have been dating my boyfriend for one and a half years now. He was in the same college, two years elder. Passed out the year we started dating and started working. We haven't ever had major problems except for once when he couldn't clear a major exam and his parents blamed it on his distraction because of me but we eventually got back because he got a good job and he loved me.
We just spent the last ten days together on a holiday with his friends and a couple of mine and then at his place alone for a couple of days.
We got into a petty fight two days back and he told me he really thinks we should see new people. He feels since I'm just 19 and he's 22 there is a lot more in life then getting serious for each other. ...
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I need advice please!
Posted Saturday October 11 2014, 3:21 pm
I am an 18 year old girl from Edmonds Washington and I am going through a rather confusing time with this certain man that I am with. (he is 22) he is also a sailor in the navy. We have known each other for about 3 and a half months. I really like this guy, he is sweet and funny but i don't know if I want to continue seeing him. You see, he mentioned the military ball too me a few times and eventually he asked me to be his date. Of course, I was thrilled! I went through the trouble of buying the dress and the shoes to look good for him. On the day of the ball, when I was all dolled up, he called and canceled 20 before he was supposed to pick me up. Apparently he brought and reserved tickets from his friend but they were sold to someone else...
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Cheating Spouses
Posted Saturday October 11 2014, 12:26 pm
The fact that you consider marital love all-inclusive while 'lust' isn't part of that equation, you are raising another question: Can marriages really be loving without sex? For some people, it's not. I'd like to amend my earlier statement in that case. I think that there comes a point when a person (or two people who are unfaithful to their spouses) must realize that they have fallen out of love and that the sex that is missing demonstrates it. Having said that, I don't think that extramarital affairs indicate sexual desire only. I believe that one must come to terms with the fact that monogamy is not for everyone, and it is possible to love two people. Why must one 'lose' and the other 'win'? The guilt that comes from affairs is se...
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When he asks "did you miss me"
Posted Saturday October 11 2014, 9:27 am
So this guy I knew for almost 2 months through camp contacted me daily and we talk for an hour or 2 up till this week we only talked twice. Due to examinations. He did tell me after a few days of camp that he liked me and asked for me to be his girlfriend. I said "to take it slow" and he did but recently he told me he as stopped liking me and sees me as something more than a friend but nothing more.so he called today and the first thing he asked was "did you miss me?", he was bent on getting the answer and I just laughed as I did miss him and in the end I just said a bit.
I think he was a bit upset at that response.
My question would be:
1) Does he see me as a friend only?
2) What does it m...
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why would a married man want to cheat with a married woman
Posted Friday October 10 2014, 9:05 pm
Someone asked the question, why would a married man want to cheat with a married woman. I read the tale of a married woman having an affair with a married man. She's tried everything to get her husband to turn on but nothing has worked. She is in love with the married man who claim he won't leave his wife, but says he loves his lover. Long story short, these lovers are IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER AND THEIR MARRIAGES ARE OVER. Until the truth is faced head on, you will suffer. Don't listen to people who say it's wrong. They know nothing. They are preaching but don't know what it's like to be in your shoes.
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Girl told me that she will go the motel in 2 weeks What should I do?
Posted Friday October 10 2014, 8:31 pm
Hello,
I met this girl about three months ago in a club, we danced (close grind) , and exchanged numbers. I was friends with her on facebook and then she unfriended me after about 3 months. I guess since I sat on her number and didn't ask her out. I sent her a message by facebook and she is like I heard you were at this place, you go places and you don't invite. I would like to hit it quickly. Should I let her know by facebook or text that we should go to the hotel or should I invite her for drinks or something and then go for the hotel. When should one communicate ones intentions of having sex? As soon as you meet a girl...I have seen some guys on youtube called simple pickup who do this all the time...or later on after seei...
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