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Can't Seem to Get "The Big O" HELP!
Posted Tuesday January 25 2011, 12:20 am
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months and the sex life is GREAT. Except one thing :-( I can't seem to get an orgasm!
I am 19 years old and he is 22. I honestly have only had a few real orgasms (Under 5). Most of which came from my little vibrating friend.
We have tried stimulating my clit during intercourse but I can't seem to climax. I feel like I am thinking about it too hard but then when I try not thinking about it I feel like I am just laying there useless.
Everything else about our sex is fantastic. The positions, the variety, the passion, the connection, the lust, the communication; I mean everything!
He gets his, I just want mine! :-)
Since...
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I don't like him!
Posted Sunday January 23 2011, 2:26 am
This guy likes my friend but she doesn't like him and really broke his heart. All I did was comfort him and now he likes me. Serves me right, huh? I think he will really break down if I break his heart too. But I don't want to wait too long or he will think that I like him. Please give some good advice.
P.S. He is a kind of depressed guy. Sometimes even suicidal.
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Should i be concerned?
Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 9:36 pm
Im 16 and i just recently started having sex with with my boyfriend. were both new at all of this, and we both want to be safe so we've always used a condom. well after we were done we just layed down & he aways cleans his penis so i figured it was okay and i sorta layed on top of him.. and then all of a sudden he pushes me off and says he still had some on him. its been bothering me ever since, should i just stop worring? or could a possible pregnancy occur? the thought of that scares me..
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i need advice
Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 11:08 am
um...im 18 years old n i have a boyfriend and he is 18 about to be 19 this year next week and we always have sex everyday but i think when we having sex and i give him head i feel like im doing it wrong one nite he told me i need to stop tring to deep troat and i knw i cant but i want to try new things n our sex life how do i try to get him to do new things with me without him thinking i cant cause we never did it befo he always tell me he is playing when he say things like that but i dnt think he do i feel like im doin it wrong and it hurts my feelings wen he say things like that how do i fix it
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girl cum
Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 4:51 am
ok im new to this all.
15/f
i was wondering what is meant by a female cumming.
like do u feel it or even know that its happened?
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Gaining Trust and just needing someone to talk to about this
Posted Tuesday January 18 2011, 12:38 am
It all started in December of 2010...I was 14 years old and I had a bestfriend named Hollie.I found out about this guy who gave tattoos at my school. Her and I got a tattoo and i got 2. Music notes behind my ear and a star&moon on my wrist. My parents found out about it and immediately i lied. but eventually got found out. I turned 15 & a couple of months later, I was still with hollie and now i was hanging out with erik we smoked weed and i stole alcoholfrom my dad to get some weed. Was found out and never able to hangout with Hollie again.I called suicide hotline and lied to the person on there and cps came to my school.Meanless to say, i got found out and in trouble. Then i took my sisters car out&crashed the bumper into a tr...
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I am scared he thinks I am a bad kisser
Posted Monday January 17 2011, 4:28 pm
18/f
I have had my fair share of kissing guys but I'm really worried when I made out with this one guy I did something wrong. I haven't made out in awhile and I was really intimidated by him, and when we were kissing in the car I rubbed up and down his chest/stomach. I wrapped arms for a little and also grabbed/squeezed/rubbed his hips and pulled on his shirt where his hips were. He kissed my neck and put his arms around my neck, but I never kissed or touched his neck at all. Basically, I am scared he thinks I am a bad kisser or is annoyed that I didn't kiss or touch his neck at all. Is rubbing his stomach/chest and where I put my hands on his hips turn off? Is it a deal breaker where I put my hands and because I never kissed his neck/wrapped my arms around his neck?
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Am I a lesbian?
Posted Monday January 17 2011, 1:00 pm
In short, I have a boyfriend but when I masturbate I always think of girls doing stuff to me or each other, or I read lesbian porn stories or watch lesbian porn.
I don't feel myself attracted to girls, but they just turn me on more when it comes to that area.
Does this make me a lesbian because it makes me feel weird.
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How could he tell i was a virgin??
Posted Saturday January 15 2011, 8:19 pm
So I gave my bf a bj and right in tge middle of it he asked if i was a virgin... I told him yes ( because I am ) and he told me that h could tell I was, first of all WHAT!!!!!! how can you tell if a girl is a virgin by just them giving you a bj???? At the end he told me tht it felt really good ( but he sounded sarcastic ) so, could he tell I was a virgin because it was my first time doing a bj and im bad at it?? p.s. I think I did good because I didn't let my teeth touch it but then again, I don't think i wad that good because he didnt cu* or moan, all he did was hold onto my head and every now and then push it down further, so does anyone have advice?
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i need advice: how dose it feel when you cherry gets poped?
Posted Saturday January 15 2011, 6:33 pm
I am a 16 year old verginis that strange??how dose it feel when you cherry gets poped? ??? And dose sex hurt for the very first time??
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still a virgian
Posted Saturday January 15 2011, 4:01 pm
I am a 15 year old gurl and am still a virgian is that strange??????and how dose it feel when your cherry gets Pope's dose it hurt tickle? ????//////
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death by pills how do i do suicide the right way?
Posted Friday January 14 2011, 11:31 am
i want to know do you take a few pills at a time or should you take the whole bottle i dont want to puke up i want it to stay down and do the job
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He told me he was going to commit suicide, what do I do?
Posted Thursday January 13 2011, 8:40 pm
16/F
I am really worried right now. I'm talking to a friend of my sister's and he seemed like a happy go lucky guy, making jokes. He's a little overweight, really funny, he stutters, but he's still awesome to be around. Well, I've been talking to him privately on facebook and he's talking about killing himself, saying he can't get the girl of his dream, he can't talk right, he's hated, he's reached everything he's capable of and whatnot. He's about 14 or 15. I'm getting worried because he keeps saying he's gonna do it and he's trying to decide which way to do it. I want to tell his mother, someone, ANYONE, but I think I'm the only one he's told and I don't want him to hate me for trying to help. I'm trying to contact his mother. Is this the best thing to do?
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do i have any sexual problem
Posted Wednesday January 12 2011, 4:38 pm
male/22, i dont musterbate , it actualy dont work for me ,whenever i tried it first got erect but it donot bring me excitement ,and after that when my penis get normal the skin above it gets swollen type and after some times it gets normal.do i have any sexual problem.
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i dont want to find a new girlfriend but this one doesnt want to have sex
Posted Wednesday January 12 2011, 12:48 pm
me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for a while i dont want to find a new girlfriend but the one i have doesnt want to have sex but u am always horny so i was wondering if there was anything around the house i could use as a fake vagina because i do not want to go bug one or anything the are expensive?
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Did your first time hurt?
Posted Tuesday January 11 2011, 8:35 pm
I have been dating my boyfriend for awhile and we are really close to having sex so i just wanted to know about everyone elses experiences, (girls only of course).
Did your first time hurt? and what could i do differently to reduce the pain if it did?
Thanks
Kaaitlyn
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Soap? Vagina?
Posted Monday January 10 2011, 12:44 pm
Im nineteen female and i was lookin on google, and it said if your cooter smelled on the inside you have an infection. I stuck my finger in me, and it smells like pure soap? Why is this?
------> I just got out of the bath; does that mean I didn't get it all the way out? What happens if it's left in there??
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Am I a waste of space?
Posted Monday January 10 2011, 12:34 am
I feel I'm a waste of space I'm an older person and yet I get yelled at by my 27yr old nearly every day. I feel this way also as I was a cleaner and hurt my back nearly 7 years ago. I was on workcover who was suppose to retrain me but all I got was 4 days word 4 days spreadsheets basic computer and yet I am suppose to get an admin job. Well I've tried have had to write down 5jobs a week for over 2years now and no one is willing to give me a go. In August workcover decided to not pay me anymore so I went on a centerlink payment which lost me nearly $200 a fortnight can't pay my bills, I was going to a psychologist which they no longer pay for yet I feel I need as I have felt quite often suicidal in the last few months and I can't even buy an...
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discharge use to be clear, now its white?
Posted Sunday January 9 2011, 1:15 am
Okay, Im 19/f and my discharge has always been clear; today when I got off work, I went to use the bathroom and I noticed that my underwear had a white spot on the top of it, and i touched it, and smelled it, and it had no smell, I opened my legs and I saw that my vagina wasn't completely covered in white stuff, but it had some; My discharge is now white; and IM not too sure why? It doesn't itch down there, or have any irritation, and the discharge has no smell,
is something wrong with me?
why did my discharge go from being clear to white? Its never been white bfore, EVER. If it helps, I had sex a week ago, but it was protected. It doesn't mean Im pregnant does it?
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shaving there
Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 11:14 pm
so i shave down there and it always leaves bumps and makes me feel uncomfortable around my bf. i use shaving gel and a new razor and everything... i dont wanna wax it cuz it will hurt and i cant get lazer hair removal so any advice on what might help?
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