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Friends? or not?
Posted Tuesday December 14 2010, 8:05 am
hey so me and my best friend used to to tell each other everything..... but lately i feel like i cant....because she'll get mad.....we are like total opposites. wee have different taste in guyys so she hates all the guys i know... Should i just tell her about the guy im talking to or just let it go?
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People Treat Me Differently Online vs Offline?
Posted Tuesday December 14 2010, 5:19 am
20 year old female. Second year in college.
I have problems making friends in person. It's so simple online when you say whatever, and people "add" you for liking the way you think, or liking your sense of humor. I feel like I act the same way offline as I do online, except I'm a little more shy in person [even tho' somtimes I can be pretty quiet online as well].
SO I pretty much act the same way both on and offline... why do people act differently towards me? For example... I can be getting along well with someone from a class, then the next time I see them they act as if they don't know me. Why would they do that? VS online, when greeted with enthusiasm.
Also, I've gotten more compli...
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How can he save this friendship?
Posted Monday December 13 2010, 12:24 am
I'm going to ask this question for my friend because he's in a strange situation. He is a 20 year old male.
He goes to a Christian college and is active in his faith. He has two female friends in particular that he is close to. The problem is, these girls claim they are in love with each other. I myself am not a Christian nor am I against gay marriage, but from what he describes, these two are not in love. They are actually very obsessed with one another and barely hang out with anyone besides each other. He feels that one of the girls is being manipulative towards the other, so that she thinks she needs the relationship.
What can he do to get his non-manipulative friend back...what can he say to put things in perspective for her?
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im sick of this
Posted Sunday December 12 2010, 1:27 am
18/female
ok so i have this best friend, well i don't even know if i can call her that anymore...we've been best friends for two years, and like any normal set of best friends we've had our fair share of fights. The last year has been running pretty smoothly and we we're inseparable. Then she started tafe, she was doing a music course and she met this girl, they quickly became good friends and soon enough all i would hear about is how close she and this other girl were getting. they even started a band together, when my friend knew how much i wanted to be in a band with her. Months had past and i still hadn't met this other girl yet, but apparently we were ridiculously alike. So we met one day, and i became that awkward third...
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Guys and dating
Posted Saturday December 11 2010, 5:10 pm
Helpppp. Ive been going to an all girls school for all my life and for highschool ill be going to a co-ed school.how would i be able to get used to guys?when would i know that itll be a good time to date?and how would i be able to get their attention?
By btw im 14 and female
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No Friends
Posted Friday December 10 2010, 9:54 pm
Alright this is a long story so get ready for a hard one.
I am a 17 year old guy
Basically my whole life I have been a worrier when it comes to who my friends are and what/who i am going to hang out with on the weekend. I think I get it from my mom cause apparently she was the same way when she was younger. I am from California although I moved to NJ when I was 12 and starting 6th grade. In NJ middle school were "the golden years" espically 6th grade. I had a large goup of solid friends and I guess you could say we were "popular" I did 9th grade over there in jersey and that was a good year as well. I had a good group of friends and I knew i was moving back to California the next year so I m...
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What does this mean?
Posted Friday December 10 2010, 8:03 am
When someone says: "It extrudes my confidence in you."
What the heck does that mean?
I know this person already used "Extrude" in the wrong context but what do you think this person meant by it?
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Cuddling with the opposite sex.
Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 11:21 pm
19/F. The other night I slept over my friend's house who happens to be a male. The only reason I slept over is because he lives a distance away and hanging out with him and going home all in the same day would be silly...anywho, as we were trying to fall asleep in seperate beds, I felt this really strong urge to cuddle with him, but I resisted. I didn't know how to bring it up or how he'd respond to it. I didn't want to do anything freaky lol I don't see him as anything more than a friend and he shows no indication of liking me. So...what's the appropriate way to initiate cuddling in a situation like this?
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I lost my best friend and need to find out how to find out why he's mad
Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 7:32 pm
So I have liked this guy for about 3 years now and were the best Of friends. Then he found out i like him and he feels that our whole friendship was a lie :( I tried to tell him no but he wouldn't believe me. Over time things got better I could finally be friends with him then they got worse cuz my other bff started to like him. The worst part waz that he had liked me and that he has for a very long time but my friend convinced him that I wnt go out w him so he got over Me and moved on to her :( so they decided not go out and I thought we could be friends again. But 4 some reason he's mad at me! Now I find out that he's spreading rumors about me and when unasked him he denied it. I really miss him and I've never felt this wat bout someone. ...
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crush's gf cheating on him
Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 3:33 pm
16/f
there is this guy that i like who i found out something today. one of his good friends told me today that his girlfriend of almost 2 months is cheating on him and claims to be a virgin and doesnt cuss when she is not a virgin and cusses when he is not around. the guy i like (lets call him t) doesnt know that i like him and neither does his really good friend (m) who told me this. I have no proof that t's crush is cheating on him but from several other friends of t's, it sounds pretty convincing. I want t to know but i dont want to be the one to tell him. I feel like if M is a good friend then she would tell him herself. What should I do? I was cheated on her several weeks and no one had the guts to tell me when three of ...
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Cant get him out of my head
Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 3:56 am
So coming up on a year ago now I met this guy in my college class.He was quiet very cute and I wanted to get to know him so bad.He sat right infront of me.I remember when we first locked eyes there was a spark like I just knew I had to get to know him it was just one of those nagging feelsing.Well after a few weeks we started talking and getting to know each other his name was Kelly.He was awesome we had so much in common,and he always made me laugh.At the time he was having problems getting a new job and with his girl friend.When I found out he was taken I was hurt,Id finally found a great guy and I couldnt have him.Ofcourse part of me wanted to steel him away,but im not that person.So I was just there for supporte I told him if he loved h...
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Jealous of my old friend's new friend
Posted Friday December 3 2010, 4:23 am
Hi,
I have been friends with this guy for about two years. We met at our old job and hit it off instantly. In the first year of our friendship, we did absolutely everything together and always talked on the phone, went out to eat, hung out at work, and just basically spent as much time with each other as possible. As time went on, we got closer and closer and ended up developing some romantic feelings for each other. He ended up telling me his feelings and I told him how I felt and we both actually thought it was pretty funny and laughed because it wasn't super serious. We almost hooked up anyway but ended up changing our minds and both went back to our significant others shortly after. We stayed friends although it seemed a ...
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Talkling to a girl
Posted Thursday December 2 2010, 10:37 pm
So i met this girl in the beginning of school, and i think she is beutiful. But the problem I have is I can't talk to her. I'll try to walk over to her and talk to her, but I get to nervous. What should I say to her or do?
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acting cute and ditzy
Posted Wednesday December 1 2010, 2:38 pm
is acting cute bad? cos i look cute and sayy cute thing sometimes but after i reilised people like myy best frieds and stuff like me being cute/ ditzy, i started kinda 'playing up' the cuteness and stuff. is that bad?
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best friend hates me but i love her
Posted Wednesday December 1 2010, 2:26 pm
one of my best friends hass now hated me for 133 days. i tried to talk to her and shes only given like one word answers. and now i think i should reall talk to her again but its like really really arwkrad when im on my own with her and my other friends think im just being stupid. i also have the slight problem that im in love with her
what should i do???
xx
( im 13 and a girl)
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My friend is unfaithful to his girlfriend (sort of)
Posted Wednesday December 1 2010, 1:10 am
My male friend has been dating this girl for quite a long time now, probably about a year and a half or two years. I (and all my friends) have met her and we like her a lot!
The problem is this: whenever she isn't around and he has had a couple of drinks, he makes a move on almost any female, available or not (including myself)! I'm not sure if he has ever gone past the point of just being drunk and creepy because most people know he is in a relationship, but I know for sure that once he gave his class ring away to a girl and was regretful the next day.
I guess I am just wondering what you would do in this situation. I don't think that his girlfriend deserves to be treated this way, but I also don't think it is...
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why is she acting like this?
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 5:19 pm
help! my best friend is really mad at me and i think it is ridiculous! i'm 18/f
ok so one day i was home alone and called my boyfriend to talk and he said he was getting coffee with a girl who is a friend. at first, i got really jealous and mad. then i realized i was being selfish because i went to get coffee with one of my friends and i guess its ok if he does the same. (i was worried he did it for revenge) but he told me it was casual so i didnt get as mad. but then i found out that he paid for her. to me- that means a guy likes a girl. to him- it meant polietness. Now i understand the fact that there are 2 personal opinons here. I told him "I understand you were doing it to be poliete, but to me it means more than tha...
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i have a problem :/
Posted Sunday November 28 2010, 10:42 pm
okay so an ex of mine randomly started hating me. we were both fine after the breakup and stayed friends. then out of the random he started hating me. and i mean HATING me. the thing is, i don't even know what i did to him but apparently i "screwed him over" and i'm such a "bitch" and a "cunt". i tried talking to him about it and even apologizing and everything but he's so cold-hearted and will not forgive me for whatever i did. obviously i should just drop it and leave it alone but i don't like being hated for a reason I don't even know. what should i do about this? i know its best to just forget about it and leave it but thats the hardest thing for me cause its gonna piss me off until i know what was so bad that i did..
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feeling lonely and friendless all the time
Posted Friday November 26 2010, 9:57 am
I always feel alone. I also feel that I'm friendless... In school, I feel that everyone doesn't like me and they don't care about me. Therefore sometimes I'm emoing in school... I don't know how to tell my mum and ask an advice from her so I really feel isolated. Somehow, I feel that my friends always giving me an irritated look when I'm around and they address that look to me... I also have this feeling that I'm just a burden to everyone.. I feel that I don't belong among my friends.. I feel so small and useless when I'm among my friends in school... I feel like I'm living in this world alone... Am I just being oversensitive or paranoid? And if I do, how to overcome it? I am 15 yrs old. Thanks.
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Need a hookup
Posted Tuesday November 23 2010, 12:25 am
So i went to this party and smoked alot of weed with these guys i am not friends with really we got along tho.
I was wondering would it be weird to ask them if they could hook me up with some weed or what
Cause i need a dealer with goood shiit.
No negativity cause i know its illegal and im too young or whatever.Better than hard drugs aye.
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