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do my friends not like me?
Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 1:31 pm
My friends have been excluding me out of their plans lately. when I'm around them they say that I'm their favorite because I'm so nice and I never make them mad but I don't get invited anywhere. Maybe this is just a phase but now I just hang out by myself :(
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I don't know what to do
Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 12:34 am
I screwed up big time. I did something that I know was wrong. I know I have lost the respect of someone who I care about. I've lost all their trust and I know they don't think highly of me like before. I'm torn to peices about this. I can't sleep or think straight. Please Help... I don't know what I can ever do. I know this is very vague but... I just.. I don't have a clue how to fix this.
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I have a really spoiled best friend and I can't stand her anymore! Help!
Posted Sunday December 26 2010, 4:15 pm
I have a really spoiled best friend and I really can't stand being around her anymore. Her parents have lots of money and my friend gets showered with money all the time. The last time my friend and I went to the mall her dad gave her $200 and said here honey have fun! I have an allowance and I actually have to work to get my money and my friend has never done any work in her life! She wears expensive clothes and has a container ten times the size of a shoebox chock full of makeup she never wears! She makes me so mad! She brags about it too!
Please help me!
Thank you :)
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Do I really have to wait for my best guy friend to make the first move?
Posted Saturday December 25 2010, 8:13 pm
Is it worth it? Will we turn out the same if I make the first move?
How am I supposed to approach him about taking this relationship further. We're best friends and we're like a couple, such as cuddling, holding hands, and talking about our personal lives, but excluding the title of boyfriend/girlfriend or any kissing/making out. I'm 50% sure he likes me and 50% he knows that I like him. But how do I tell him that I'm ready to START being able to kiss him, and call him my boyfriend.
We're both 18 by the way, freshman in college, and on Winter Break, and won't see each other for another 2 weeks.
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Unintentionally isolating myself
Posted Friday December 24 2010, 12:36 am
I'm a 15 yr. old girl in the 9th grade. I'm naturally shy and socially awkward, but I have some friends that I really care about. Sometimes, it seems like my friends ditch me for their other friends or boyfriends and I end up being left alone. Or I feel like I care more than they do. I've tried making new friends, but that is too hard for me to do because I tend to emotionally shut down and push people away. I need help because I'm tired of being alone all the time.
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thanks again for your advice!
Posted Thursday December 23 2010, 2:34 am
thanks again ! lol <3 I've seen what drugs do to you .. & it was not pretty . it ruins relationships & everything . my bestfriend even has a brother who has been in jail quite a few times for drugs & is now in jail for like a year . my uncle is also currently in jail . I wouldn't be surprised if she got arrested one day .. & I'm sorry to say this but I wouldn't feel bad for her . she did it to herself . if she doesn't listen to what I have to sa & I do tell an adult & she hates me then she'll like tell all of her other friends that smoke & stuff & they'll all HATE me & think I'm a little snitch & goodie goodie . ugh , my parents always told me ' some day you're going to get peer presured into drugs...
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my bestfriend lives under the influence.
Posted Wednesday December 22 2010, 10:45 pm
Hello, im 14/f. My bestfriend of like 9 years now smokes ciggarettes, pot, spice, and probably other things. She also drinks alcohol. She does it all with one of our friends, and some guys in like college. they do it in her neighborhood. She always peer pressures me to try a ciggarette or weed, but I always say no. until the other day I tried this rosemary spice stuff that they were smoking. i took a little puff and decided i wouldn't do it again. i am not going to smoke. im really worried about her & i know that shes only doing this to seem cool and impress people. i always help her hide it from her parents and stuff & i don't want to tell on her because she would get in so much trouble. i dont want to tell my parents either becaus...
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Tired of listening to my bragging friend.
Posted Wednesday December 22 2010, 4:19 pm
My friend always brags about all the things she gets, how can I ask her nicely to stop? I don't mid hearing about it sometimes, but all the time gets annoying.
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Friend Zone Lifestyle
Posted Wednesday December 22 2010, 5:10 am
So I just got out of a two year relationship that started my junior year of High School. I took it with me to college, all through 1st semester, and now during break I knew it was time to end it. It was a very unstable/unhealthy relationship for both of us. It took a lot out of me, and its been a long time since I've been myself. I'm happy to start discovering who I am again.
However, during my 1st semester in college I have become friend with a few new guys, two of which specifically seem to have fallen in love with me.
They are both so different, yet they are both very good friends of mine, both wonderful in their own way, and both very in love with me. Obviously not in love, but very infatuated I should sa...
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Things to do asap need today!
Posted Tuesday December 21 2010, 9:50 pm
Okay so I am in a place were it's really cold out side so we aren't going outside unless it's something outrageously fun haha. What are some things me and my friend can do tomorrow when she comes over? Out of the ordinary things like truth or dare or nails and hair... Somehings that are realllyyyyy fun for just the two of us. Also we can't leave the house so something we can do when we are at home. Please don't say make something or something.. Some realllyyyyy awesome things! Thanks!!!
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I don't want to be friends with them anymore
Posted Saturday December 18 2010, 11:45 am
so this group of friends I leaned back on because i was depressed and needed i guess a non popular click to hear me out. When i was sad and lonely i was like them, but now i am out going and i wanna be closer friends with my REAL friends, that i love. So i'm not really depressed anymore. I just don't want to be around people that were like me in the past, they don't fit in with my click and i don't want to be friends with them, so how do i get out of it? And please don't say "you shouldn't not be friends with hem anymore" They are annoying and bossy and crazy that why there not in my popular friends group, i just want them out. Not to be like a bitch but they really helped me out a lot but i really don't want to be friends with t...
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LONELY!
Posted Saturday December 18 2010, 12:56 am
so,i am always lonely when it comes to dating & friends...i havent had a boyfriend since early 2009 and all of my friends are so popular and dont really have time for me...what can i do? i really need some one to help me kill my worst enemy [too much time on my hands] urrg!!!!
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Friendship problems...
Posted Friday December 17 2010, 5:24 pm
Once a month we have a dance at my junior high school. Before the dance everyone usually gets ready with their friends, but my best friend never goes to the dances. I have other friends of course, but I never have enough nerve to ask if we can get ready together, and I always end up getting ready alone. I know it's not a big deal, but getting ready is the best part of the night. Last year I got ready for prom alone, and went to the dance by myself. I don't want that to happen again. What should I do?
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To be friends or not?
Posted Friday December 17 2010, 5:11 pm
In every school there is always an odd one out.
In this case its a girl. I've felt sorry for her.
I try to be her friend but she's impossible! She's rude,Selfish, and controlling. My newest friend has had problems with her. So I've given up all hope. Should I still try to be friends with her or should I not be her friend?
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Nicknames
Posted Friday December 17 2010, 5:01 pm
My bestfriends and I have always been really really close. And I was just wondering if you have any ideas about nicknames for each of them. Her name is Tia (in spanish)and some 4 Renee (in french). Thx! plz get back to me ASAP.
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my best friend hates me
Posted Thursday December 16 2010, 12:01 pm
k so one of my best friends(b) has hated me for 148 days now and today i managed to get one of my other friends to ask her this;
do you hate gabby cos gabby thinks you hate her and she asked me to alk to you.
and b said
i dont hate her im just really angery with her cos she lied to me
and i dont know what to do now cos yes i did lie to her but i really had to. theres is no way i could admitt to anyone that i acually did it. so what should i do to stop her hating me?
and also, this sounds really childish but i got her a christmas presant and she got evryone else a chrismas prezzie but she didnt get me one and i dont know what to tell my mum.
thanks
x
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I want to help my friend but I don't know how
Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 10:01 pm
my friend kimma is going through alot of problems right now. First of all she likes girls and she is 31 years old and iam 21 years old I know age difference. I go to a mental health center every day and i met her sister margie there and then I started going to margies to spencd the night and her sister kimma and I became really close and her sister moved out a few months ago and promised to help pay the bills and now she's says she's not doing it anymore and kimma has a 9 year old little girl to take care of with no income at all and it hard to find a job during the christmas holidays and plus she's having to worry about how she is going to take care of her little girl and her sister is going around calling everybody at the center telling t...
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Still hung up over first best friend
Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 8:05 pm
I'm a 17 year old girl. First off, I would like to admit that I feel terrible about all this. I just can't, for the life of me, figure out how to move on. Anyway.
I was always I quite child. I never really associated with anyone and I still struggle with social issues this day (I have a boyfriend and a two people I occasionally talk to). That's why I was surprised I was able to make a friend in 6th grade. She was a fellow 6th grader, who I shall call Katherine. Katherine and I were best friends for two years. We had sleep overs, birthday parties, and we even ventured into a sewer together (I had to retrieve my lost shoe.)
I loved her as a friend. However there was sort of a dark/embarrassing aspect to our relationshi...
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I hooked up with my friend and now he's avoiding me.
Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 12:25 pm
Okay, so here's the thing. I have a good friend and we've toyed with the idea of hooking up and after a year, we finally did. Now he would usually be online on IM and after a few days, I noticed he hasn't been going online so I decided to see if he was just in invisible mode. It kept saying he was online, but he appears offline to me. So I figured, he must be avoiding me. I don't understand why he's acting this way when we both made it clear to each other that we don't want to get into a relationship and it won't turn to anything serious. He's a good friend because we talk about anything under the sun, even random nonsensical things and I kind of miss that and I really would like us to still be friends. It's been 3 weeks now.
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She WAS dating my friend, now she will NOT leave ME alone!
Posted Tuesday December 14 2010, 3:11 pm
I have a childhood friend of 17 years that dated this girl for 2 years. She became close to his family and friends. After they broke up, she was heartbroken and started clinging to me. One day talking, she began to cry and told me thank you. The thank you was for still staying friends with her despite the break up with my friend. She then said that everyone stopped talking to her and I was the only that stuck with her. The thing is I didn't stick with her, she just clinged to me and I didn't want to be rude. She has now become annoying. She didn't hear from me for a week and she began to panic, thinking I was mad at her and I didn't want to be friends with her. I was just busy. She gets mad if I don't invite her to hang out with me. She get...
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