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we're both too shy to kiss...


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 2:59 am

We both went off to differnt schools. We still talk to each other over the phone. We arrange to go round each other's houses. My friend said that he wants to kiss me. He told her because he was too shy to tell me. Which is fair enough!
I really wanna kiss him hold hands or something like that he's really shy and so am i.
Should i take charge or should i wait until he's said to ME he's ready...?

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I'm 13 and I grind, am I a slut?


Posted Friday May 28 2010, 5:34 pm

K so I'm 13, in 7th grade, (girl) and all my friends (girls) are like all prude, but I would like to grind and make out with people that I'm not dating but all my friends would judge me. We have parties all the time so there's a lot of grinding going on. I didn't grind at the last party because my parents were invited but in school today my friend and I were joking around and I ended up in front of him against the wall and he started grinding me without holding my waist and now everyone is making a huge deal out of it and calling me a slut and I feel horrible but I really want to do stuff like grind! Am I being a slut and should I feel bad???

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My friends are dumb.


Posted Thursday May 27 2010, 5:21 pm

My friends texted this random ass kid in my phone and said "my friends were right about you. you are cute" and he answered "ha. thanks." My friends are probably just out to get me because of a prank I played on them but they said they see him look at me in the hall when I pass him. And they said that they think he likes me. How? Just through "Ha. Thanks." haha, that makes me think he probably felt really awkward and had no idea what to say. What do you think? Thanks! ♥

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Do I not bother him?


Posted Thursday May 27 2010, 5:14 pm

Yesterday my friends made me text this kid because they were to afraid to. I never met this kid before in my life nor have we talked face to face. So, I thought no big deal. They wanted me to text him.. to ask who was on his shirt -_- how stupid. So, I texted him and told my name and what I was texting for and he replied with the answer and a haha. I apologized if it was awkward and he said nah, it was cool with him and we got to talking for about 7-8 minutes before I had to go to youth group. My friends texted him saying I thought he was cute. How stupid, I know. I was pissed. He replied "ha, thanks" how awkward did he feel, probably a lot! Haha, he's just this chill kid that I could see becoming better aquainted with but he answ...

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he seems not interested but shows he is


Posted Wednesday May 26 2010, 11:20 pm

Hi, I'm 15/female. He is 16/male. There's this boy that I texted today because my friends wanted to know something about him but they didn't have the balls to ask him so they made me. I texted him and asked him the question clearing stating that it was my friends that made me text him and he texted me "ha ok... it was ___" and I apologized if that was awkward or anything and he said nah, it was cool. So then we got talking for about ten or so minutes, I was making sure to answer late so it didn't seem like I was to eager and it seemed like he was doing the same thing but he was only texting about 4 words every time. So, then my friends just said "take a stab. do it. do it. tell him." and I said no he seems like he's bore...

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I think he wants to talk to me but i freeze up.


Posted Saturday May 22 2010, 4:33 pm

O.K there is this guy at my school and i think he is very cute and very polite but just recently his best friend told him i liked him and now he wants to talk to me but its summer and i invited him to my pool party but i dont know what to say to him and i am realllllllllllllly scared cause every time i talked to him i like cant talk what should i do??

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Are my friends right.?


Posted Thursday May 20 2010, 11:59 pm

Ok I an fifteen and female. So is the boy I like. He is in one period out of nine in school. But that period is the best. He makes me laugh alot and does alot of dumb things to make people laugh at him. That's just how he is. Now, my friends claim he is different with me. Like when he talks to Anne girls he does he whole cute half smile thing but with me they say he does a full on smile. My friends kinda take things to far sometimes. So tonight they decided to text him. The first said I think you would look really cute with __ and he said stop playing these games with me so my other friend said that means he probably likes me and it just amazed that my friend thinks that. So she said I'm being totally serious and he said we aren't in fifth ...

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i fell for him


Posted Thursday May 20 2010, 6:21 pm

okay. so i am a junior in high school. and their is this freshman boy. i am usually the type to not like guys younger than me or way older than me. well see this guy he is kind of unusual. he can be quiet and just say the funnest things out of no where. or he can be really obnoxious. he is also really talented. he is good at football, track, and basketball. all the girls in his grade liked him at one point of time. and i recently just fell for him because i think we would have alot of common and he has been messing with me which ended up me liking him. but there is some complications. 1st off he is a freshman and he is still in his immaturity stage sometimes. im not sure if he likes me. the only time i talk to him his during the track pract...

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Oh the drama....


Posted Thursday May 20 2010, 4:04 pm

This is probably going to be long.. Just a fair warning.

Yesterday morning I'm kinda early for school (i'm usually late to school) and I find that there is shit smeared over the drivers side of the windshield, I call my mom and she got a hose and cleared it off, and there were pancakes all over my car. I wanted to wake my father and call the cops but she had most of it off already. (Please don't say, "Should've called the cops". The neighborhood I live in is very country and very quiet, nothing happens. I get to school and tell my best friend. Later in the day I find out it was her boyfriend, I'm furious now. He treats me like total crap and my best friend let's him do it. She told me the vandalism was just a joke a...

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Should I talk to my boss?


Posted Thursday May 20 2010, 12:48 am

I am a female in my mid twenties. One of my best friends is dating my boss's ex boyfriend. My boss and her ex were together for at least 5 years, and they are still really good friends. My boss's ex knows me because I sometimes hang out with my best friend and him. I know that my boss knows her ex is dating someone new, but I do not know if my boss knows that I am a really good friend of this person. My gut tells me she probably has a good idea. I feel like I am being deceitful to my boss by not acknowledging the fact that my best friend is dating her ex. I am going to be working on a big project with my boss soon, and I am afraid it is going to feel like there is a giant elephant in the room when we work together. Should I talk to ...

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Getting over someone


Posted Monday May 17 2010, 10:27 pm

How do you get over a girl you are in love with?

How do you move on?

What's the best way to do this?

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Acceptable behavior and nonacceptable behavior


Posted Monday May 17 2010, 9:09 pm

Is it right for a girl you are going on dates with but isn't your gf to makeout with one of her guy friends once while you are both contiuously going on dates?

Also is dating multiple people at once acceptable while not being a couple with anyone but going on dates with one person over and over again weekly?

How do you convince someone to get tied down and realize a relationship isn't bad and that while they may lose their freedoms it's worth it? Should one even try and convince them of this?

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Dating then asking to be gf or flirting for awhile then ask to be gf


Posted Monday May 17 2010, 9:04 pm

What is better? Asking a girl on a few dates then asking her to be your gf, or, flirt awhile and be "talking" then ask her to be my gf. Which is the better way to go? How do you go about starting a relationship up with someone you just met?

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Co-worker problems, please help before i punch her in the face!


Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 6:33 am

've been at THIS job maybe 6 months.
I am a Marine professionally and a Caregiver in the cilivian world. This question relates to my caregiver job.

There's this older woman, Gilda, probably in her 50's, she & I rarely talk & even when I give her a report @ my shift-she acts like she's too busy to listen. There's a vibe about her, I do not like-so I keep it strictly business with her, other than "hi,good morning,ect."
Ever since I started working here, she has gone out of her way to make me appear that I don't know how to do my job.
She's constintly complaining to the assistant manager about nonsense.
Who then in turn "talks" aka accuses me of whatever outlandish bul...

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Why is it hard for me to hide emotions?


Posted Wednesday May 12 2010, 6:04 am

i used to be really good at it and i act like i dont really get hurt or care but one day i let everything out in my class and now it is hard for me to hide my sadness and it seems to show in my face. Because my friend keep asking me whats wrong Also it is easier for me to get hurt nowdays and sensitive about things, why is it hard for me to hide my emotions in face and easily get hurt?

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"She is not my type"


Posted Tuesday May 11 2010, 11:04 pm

So i went to a friends relatives house and her cousin had said he wanted her to hook him up with me before he even saw me. So, i get there and he is there and acts very uninterested but so did i and when a dog ran out i walked out of the house and told my cousin to get the baby seat out of the car because i was leaving. He then later told her I am not his type now is it most likely because of the way I look are my demenaor/personality?

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I want things to be different.


Posted Tuesday May 11 2010, 10:19 pm

17/F.
I have always been the friend that people bug or make fun of just for the odd giggle. I know I am not ugly, and Im not stupid, and I know my friends care for me but sometimes it really hurts. Any time I do well on a test, people get really mad at me and call me a nerd and say that I must have no life. It is not like I wave around my marks either, many times I try not to tell anyone but then they take the paper out of my hand again. I would not say I am a victim of bullying, more playful teasing that repeats enough to actually cause hurt. I am the only asian girl in my school, (we are a very rural school and therefore everyone is white) and I hear alot of dumb racist jokes. The odd time I get upset people say they never mean to ...

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grinding with a guy on my period


Posted Tuesday May 11 2010, 5:03 pm

so i have a feeling i am going to get my period this friday and that is my high school prom. would it be awkward if i wore a pad under my dress.. if i was grinding with a guy would he be able to tell would it be weird? im not sure if im comfortable enough with tampons to wear it this week what should i do?

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BOY DRAMAS :/


Posted Saturday May 8 2010, 3:13 am

f/14. recently (within the last week or so)ive been feeling really down and i cant help but feeling depressed. When i go to school i get bagged out and people take my stuff on purpose just to get me annoyed or will make rude remarks and its really getting to me now. i dont want to go to school anymore and i used to enjoy going to school and catching up with my friends, but the boys (and some girls) are really getting on my nerves. in class i feel like im the loser of the class because its like everyone looks down on me?! and i say to the boys stop saying/doing it and their like 'we're just joking' and i know they dont mean that much harm and their only joking but also theres another boy and i think he might hav a issue or something. it ...

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when you know someone's cheating on you what do YOU do?


Posted Thursday May 6 2010, 8:54 pm

Okay I just wnat to know: when you know someone's cheating on you (not in a relationship, I'm talking school work-wise)what do YOU do?

Do you ignore it? Do you try to give him/er subtle hints that seem subtle to you but not really to anyone else in the class?

Or come right out and say it?

I think everyone just ignroes it and sometimes I do too. I don't want to be a taddle-tale, but when will they ever be punished?!

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