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standing up to her
Posted Wednesday January 12 2011, 2:32 am
19/f so i have a friend and she has a brother named Kaitlyn. Now i've met kaitlyn like once or twice and hung out with her at my friend's house. and she is really rude. i mean she'll insult you and this girl is 22 and my friend is 18 and her brother is 16. they all go to church together. she insults my friend and her brother too. she as a boyfriend and he hangs out with us also. one day she commented on how skinny i was and said oh if you lived in California you would have to be in a car seat. and she says all this other crap i can't really remember. like i was going downstairs to say goodbye and she was like why are you following us blah blah blah. the last time we hung out she didn't say anything to me. i mean my friend will usually stan...
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Tacky, much, Ex-Boyfriend?
Posted Tuesday January 11 2011, 5:43 pm
I had been going out with a guy for approximately two years, waaaaay back in 2009. For our one year anniversary, he gave me a beautiful gold ring with an emerald stone as a promise ring, for me to keep until we were ready to get hitched in the future. Well, basically, things didn't work out, and I gave him the ring back because I felt awkward. May I note, I wore this ring for an ENTIRE year. Religiously. I thought it was the most beautiful thing that I had ever seen, back then. Anyways, he told me the next day that he was probably going to throw it into a river, and we never spoke of it since.
About one year ago, he got a new girlfriend, who just happened to be one of my best friends. Me and him attempted to be platonic frien...
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Had a falling out with my friend and now I miss her
Posted Tuesday January 11 2011, 5:23 pm
I stopped being friends with someone a long time ago. We had a big falling out over some stupid stuff where she then got her "friends" (which I also thought were mine) to give me dirty looks and stuff. But that's in the past, and I really do miss her. I've had these thoughts for awhile, and lately I've been having a lot of dreams of being friends again or apologizing which has made me realize we never had a full closure either. What should I do?
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I REALLY like my guy friend
Posted Tuesday January 11 2011, 2:11 am
ok, so i have this guy friend and i guess you could say that we're good friends, but i really like him and i want to know if he likes me in the same way but i dont know how to ask him without actually asking him. none of my other guy or girl friends are good friends with him so i dont want to get them to find out for me. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
if it helps at all i am 15 yrs old, almost 16
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Money coming between close friends
Posted Tuesday January 11 2011, 12:54 am
I have been living with some very close friends I consider family for the past year,
under a verbal agreement of $200/month for my room and $100/ month for my horse to stay in the pasture they have behind the house along with their horses.
Long story short, I lost my job an was unable to pay the full amount every month.
I still made payments to them every month ranging bettween 100- 325. I decided since I owe them money(about 2000 all together)I would sell
my saddle for $750 and my horse for $3000 to pay my debt. I have since moved out of their house so not to accrue anymore debt. A few days ago they
called me and told me they were putting a lien on my saddle, and that they will do the selling of it.(...
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controling friend
Posted Monday January 10 2011, 5:46 pm
19/f i've been best friends with this girl for 4 years. Ever since she became super religious she would try to get me to go to church with her. And it worked for a while but then i realized that i didn't want to convert to Christianity. We have this other friend who my friend thinks is controlling , but i think she got that from her. Like Whenever my friend of four years wants to hangout she never wants to come over. See we're on winter break and she goes to college away from home. and i am always the one going to her house. We hangout with other people and she's rude to them to. but when we were working out she commented on how bad my shoes were like a million times. i was wearing vans canvas slip ons. then after wards we were buying drin...
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Complicated relationship
Posted Monday January 10 2011, 12:20 am
okay, making a long story short...
i had this friend and we used to like eachother but we were only friends and we used to talk everyday. then we kept having fights and becoming friends again and again. it drove me crazy and i hated it. now we haven't talked for probably around a month- 2 months. i know this should make me happy but i kinda want to talk to him again. i know if we become friends the fighting will probably happen again but i...
i dont know what to do. please help? :)
thanks.
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dealing with a friendship break up
Posted Sunday January 9 2011, 8:48 pm
a little while back i posted this question:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=588001
and well nothing has changed. granted, i never ended up expressing to her how i feel. she has moved out of our apartment to go home and be with her "boyfriend", although she does still have a room here to come back to whenever. now this guy, she is still not "officially" with him, and he has already "broken up" with her twice so i really dont understand the hype. anyway, since she moved back a little over a month ago, we have hardly spoken. she has become "best friends" as she says with her boyfriends friends and a couple of girls from high school that she was friends with before an...
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ANYONE please answer. its about Youtubeee
Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 6:00 pm
Hey guysss!
Basically, im making youtube videos.
BUT, i need help! I need ya'll to tell me how to edit videos! Like how to cut little bits out to get straight to the point..or fast forwarding it, so people can see whats still happening but its just going faster..and how to edit audio for different PARTS of the the same video.. like if im talking normally,then theres something i wana say in a different voice, just til im done saying it and go back to my normal voice. How do i edit my voice like FRED on youtube? and how can i make it slow motion,deeper. Please, im a newbie! and i need lotsa help! i mean, i have windows movie maker on my laptop. and thats it.. and i cant even use that because i dont know how to.. any help would b...
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Insanity
Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 3:23 pm
Alright, this may be very long but I will try to shorten it as much as possible.
My life right now, kind of confusing and very frustrating. I'm going insane! It has to do with a lot of issues.
First and foremost, my ex boyfriend. He took a lot out of me. He was 8 years older than me (im 19) and even though we loved each other it was a bad relationship.
I dont know if any of you know about "The Secret", a film about happiness, but I was a strong advocator and supported of the belief that we all need to be happy. Ever since 10th grade I have been a happy, upbeat, smiling person. Nothing phased me, I gave lots of advice here to others about happiness. Then I met him and my days and night...
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I like one of my bestfriends BUT ....
Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 1:22 pm
Okay so i have this problem , I found one of my bestfriends that i hadn't seen in three years recently , And i found out he's my friends ex . Well he kissd me and my feeling for him came back , But my friend says if i go out with him than that will end our friendship but im stuck because she tells me she dont love him and doesnt want nothing to do with him but than she says she still has feelings , I dont know what to do because i really like him , Can someone please give me advice ]=
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All my friends do is party.
Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 10:20 am
18/f
My friends have never been like this all of high school. When I was in 9th grade I drank a lot, but I don't do that at all anymore. I mean I still do sometimes, but only at like a big party or something. My friendsdo every weekend. Friday and Saturday. And it's not even at like real parties it's like them and a few really ugly guys. I don't know why there doing this! It's just so immature and annoying. My one friend has had sex with like 8 different guys in the past three months, the other just lost her virginity to her boyfriend that she was only dating a month, and then cheated on him a week later. My other friend just lost her virginity to some guy she didn't even know. And two of them have been trying pot too.
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Is he genuinely hitting on me?
Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 4:28 am
17/f
*It would be great to get a guy's opinion*
One of my good guy friend's consistently (and very cute-ly) hits on me..usually through texts and the internet. He's witty, and it's very upfront. It's very, very cute. However, I don't know if it's genuine or if he's just being cute and having fun about it.
I know he thinks I'm attractive. I'm very hard to get as I don't flirt with just anyone... (..Trying not to hard to sound concieted. Oh, and I'm not a slut)
He goes to a lot of parties, and I know hooks up with other girls.
I don't know! I'm so confused, maybe he just hits on me because sometimes I can be playful back, or I'm not sure if he just gets a good laugh out of it....
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What does OG mean?
Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 3:31 pm
im a 13 year old girl & some of my friends called me og. what does that mean?
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How to solve conflict with a friend?
Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 7:13 am
When I argue or fight with my friend, I tend to ignore them or distance myself around them till I'm not mad anymore, which takes me about a 3 days to weeks instead of talking it out, it seems like I cannot confront the problem and just ignore and pretend they are not there. Sometimes I keep my distance around them and my friend would not know the reason why I'm doing that because they have upset me, how can fix this not ignore my friend and just talk it out? It is very hard for me.
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UGHHH
Posted Tuesday January 4 2011, 6:36 pm
Okay i need help okay theres this girl named amber and shes my best frend and i think she likes my boy friend because she has fourth period with him and shes allway talking to him she says they talk about me and how he loves me and i know my boy friend he would never go out with my best friend but since we have only been going out for about 6 weeks im scared and i dont know what to to do and i allways ask her if she likes him and she says no way hes so ughy but it seams like it so give me so tips thanks,
Abby
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friendship falling..
Posted Monday January 3 2011, 6:16 pm
me&bestfriend have been bestfriends for 10 years now! always honest with eachother and talk about everything. But i think we're drifting away..whenever others talk to her she will be extra nice to them and talk to them more and be sweet,and seems to be getting along with more people now and talks to them more than me. and when she does talk to me its only a couple of sentences. and if shes online and i say hi shes suddenly offline. and when i write on her wall on fb she takes days to reply but yet when the other person writes on it she replies straight away. but when we're together we have the funnest time, is she bored of me? i get really mad, if she doesnt wana be friends then say so!
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my best friend and me
Posted Monday January 3 2011, 12:49 am
ok so me and my best friend are really close. were so close that people actually call us lesbians. we talk on the phone everyday for 2 hours. we see each other a lot and hang out. but lately ever since she got the job she is now working with me. we like to get the same shifts so we can work together. but we keep fighting now. and for some reason im just getting so mad at her for being so stupid at times for other reasons not at work. i dont know why im acting like this towards her. but i guess it's because im sick of her. I dont know. but we havent been talking a lot lately and we keep talking rudely to each other. i just want to fix it. and tomorrow we have different shifts and she wants me to change mine so i can work her shift. im just s...
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Why do find myself acting distant to people?
Posted Friday December 31 2010, 7:20 am
I'm a very energetic person and likes to hang out around friends, but I find myself randomly distant to my friends who are close to me at times, I spend time with myself and others equally, but when I'm distant with people I tend to cry at night about why I'm distant with my friends, knowing if I keep doing what I'm doing I will lose people who are close to me,that I'm being distant, yet I still do it even if they reach out to me at times, I don't have the guts to tell them why I'm being distant around them, and I don't want this affecting my relationship with people, it happens to me at times. What should I do?
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New Years Plans?
Posted Thursday December 30 2010, 4:09 am
So, I'm wondering what to do for New Years. Last year was terrible. I ended up unable to do anything and basically had a really bad night. I don't want a repeat of that this year. What are some suggestions to do? It'll be my friend and I hanging out. I'm not looking for anything way out there, just something simple, but fun. Creative ideas would be wonderful! Please and thank you very much! (:
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