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Friendship
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my boyfriend cheated on me with my 2 best friends


Posted Sunday January 23 2011, 4:54 pm

so what i want to know is what to do about my boyfriend cheating on me with 2 bff's.i am still dating him and he does not know that i know he is a nasty cheater. me and my 2 bff's are making a list to get back at him. so what i am saying what do you think i sould do?

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How can I stop debating everything?


Posted Sunday January 23 2011, 4:23 pm

I feel like its a part of my personality.. like I like to think things out rationally.. and I love to argue when I know I'm right, and ask questions so I can learn new things and what not. But I know it can be annoying to people, so how can I suppress such urges to not just talk about things in a nonchalant way? I tend to talk about topics deeply.. and the next you'll see me just joking about something silly. I want to act more lady-like and less offensive to someone else who may differ in opinion. And I don't want people to think I'm aggressive or anything. I'm just trying to become a better person by educating myself, as well as educate others by proving what they're saying is wrong with facts. Ugh maybe that's my problem right there. How...

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Blogging!


Posted Sunday January 23 2011, 8:49 am

Hey amazinggg people!
Basically im Blogging..on blogger.
ande i just signed up yesterday and uploaded 2 blogs..howcome noones seen it yet?!?!? or commented it?? I want people to see it. its on the "anybody" can see it option, but noone has seen it yet ! i want lots of people to view it. what do i do. do u know whyy they havent read it yet? i worked very hard on it.
thanks guys.
peace.

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Military guy who I really Like... Please Read


Posted Thursday January 20 2011, 2:33 pm

A couple months ago, I had a bad break up with a a guy I had been with for over a year. He threatened me... I cried and cried! Anyway, my friend took me to the mall so I could meet some guys. I met some one and we were both wearing jerseys but for the opposite team. He approached me and said I was gonna lose and I said whatever talk to me after the game... so he said okay, I'll find you. When we ran into each other again, he was buying something so I said if ur team loses u have to buy me & he sed if his team wins, I have to give him my number. so then... my team lost & he came and found me and he bought me the thing anyway and got my number. as soon as I walked away he texted me. he's active military. we went out the next day a...

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slumber party ideas


Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 2:11 pm

Im having the BIGGEST slumber party ever!
.. but i need ideas on what i can do!
so it isnt boring for one second!
x p.s please answer my other question its called "why do i look so bad in photos?!"

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Me and 2 friends they want to always do stuff in don't


Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 6:32 am

1 likes 2 play xbox a lot the other 1 bike jumping i like 2 do both but they want me 2 do it all day I get bored but I don't leave 2 be polite

1of them what I do I'm a lot better than
And the other 1 with the bike jumping annoys the **** out of me they both want 2 fight each other though so we can't go bike riding on big trips with all our girlfriends I just want to go for the bike ride on this massive 15k trail but they hate each other how do I get them to be friends 1hates 1 for acting tough and other 1 hate the other 1 for being up himself how do I get them 2 become friends and how do I say politely I want to go home?

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sitting on someone an awkward middle schooler way of showing affection?


Posted Monday January 17 2011, 12:40 pm

Yea, weird I know.

Anyway, it's kind of strange. I'm in 10th grade, he's in 8th, and whenever I see him he'll always try to push me over and sit on me and a couple times he tried to keep me against the wall for some reason. So it seems like just plain bullying, right?

But then he'll pull out a chair for me or get my phone number or stare at me when we sit close. If he ever actually hurts me he will apologize so I have to wonder if he wants to be friends or something. It doesn't really annoy me and I don't think he's a bad kid, so should I just tell him to shove off 'cause it's bullying or let things go on as usual because he means no harm?

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How can I tell my friend she's annoying nicely?


Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 9:58 pm

My friend can be really annoying sometimes. She's overly sensitive, and gets really mad over NOTHING. Sometimes I'll suggest to her something, I don't think I'm being too mean, and she'll flip out, or sometimes she'll get angry over something she started and ignore me until I apologize. I know sometimes I can be annoying and I can acknowlegde it and apologize for mistakes. She's about the opposite. BUT, she's my best friend (I do have other friends) and I love her as a friend, we get along more often than not, but when we don't she's really annoying and infuriates me, how can I tell her this nicely? I try to be patient but she makes it near impossible. Were both in 9th grade and girls btw.

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no friends.


Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 4:54 am

hello everyone. i am a 19/f who has a lot of problems. i can't begin to describe my life. i've always had problems making friends, and i have no self esteem. in high school i was this girl who people made fun of, i started crap with people, got in trouble etc. now i am a sophomore in college and I've come a long way. i still don't have friends though. tomorrow is my 20th birthday and i really wanted to go out to a club but i have no one to go with well besides my brother who is in town, but i am sure he would rather go with his friends than his little sister. well anyways i know everything starts at home, and for a long time I've had a bad attitude. i have ADHD so that doesn't make it any better. I've been taking medicine and i am on a smal...

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Subject to talk about


Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 3:31 am

I really want to talk to someone. But I dont know what to say. I can't just start talking to them (it's complicated) any ideas what I can say.Thanks.

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Being yourself


Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 12:29 am

I am always afraid of what others would think of me.
I am restrained in doing things i want just because i might disappoint others and would break their expectation with me. what am i going to do?

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I don't want them anymore


Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 12:18 am

16/F

Okay, it took me about ten years to make all the friends I have now and at the time, they were all wonderful. We acted like kids, we cried on each other's shoulders, we shared secrets, told jokes, had the best time of our lives and now, it's all completely ruined. I have friends who are doing drugs, smoking, and drinking, having sex, and dating guys online who've they've never even met and claim they want to marry him. I have two friends, let's call them Z.S and A.D, who're in a huge fight over some really nasty guy who lives several states away and they both claim they love him, telling each other that the other doesn't love him as much as they do. It's really ridiculous and they're acting like a couple of drama queens....

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My friend called me a name and might be using me


Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 12:07 am

Ok so I was at work and I was texting my friend. We were supposed to hang out after work. And right before my shift she's like can you give me a ride home I don't live that far. I said I can't. (because I'm saving up for money on a new car that I HAVE to buy). And she's like why not. I'm like because I can't drive a lot only the places I have to go to if you want a ride home you need to give me at least 5 dollers on gas. She said "No your a cheap girl your my friend you should give me a ride home" and I got really hurt by that I said fine we won't hang out. And she still wanted to hang out with me. I didnt want to since she called me a cheap girl. But I dont give free rides. Gas is really expensive. So we didn't hang out. Then she...

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I need advice really badly my friends aren't treating me right


Posted Saturday January 15 2011, 11:57 pm

Any one who can help me I'd gladly appreciate anything....Ok so I really need some help. I'm just gonna tell you it really simple:

Me and my best friend were going to give my other friend a christmas present because she was going to give us her $70 purses. She wanted makeup at Victoria's secret from me. (She wanted the whole makeup set...REMEMBER THAT) Because me and my best friend have all the make up there and its really good.

But my best friend didn't get her paycheck yet so she was gonna wait till after christmas to give it to her. After work me, my best friend, and HER went to victoria's secret to get her the makeup, because we all hung out at the mall that one day. We get there and there's no more of ma...

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Is it sad that I've been closer online to far more people than I ever have


Posted Saturday January 15 2011, 1:34 pm

It's not that I'm always online or anything, but I've had very very few close friends in my life. I moved to a new town a year ago and I still don't feel like I have any genuine friends.. though I'm a good friend to anyone, even people I don't really know. As long as they aren't mean to me.

It just seems like its easier to find people online with common interests. Its annoying. Where are cool people like this IRL? I'd love to actually have a best friend I'd be totally on the same page with, who doesn't live in a different state, much less a different country.

HOW DO I FIX THIS. I'm a 16 (almost 17) year old girl. I can't change myself to be like other people.. I won't enjoy that. But I'd like to think I'm not t...

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Fight with a good friend


Posted Saturday January 15 2011, 5:40 am

Well, I had a fight with a really good friend of mine. Actually several fights. We had the kind of friendship where we would be friends then fight, then friends, then fight etc. Well, we finally had a big fight a few months ago and haven't talked in ages. He's a guy and i'm a girl and we used to like eachother. I miss talking to him, because we used to talk about everything. I think I still have some feelings for him, but I don't know what to do. I'm too embarrased to send him a message and even if I did, I don't know what I would say. Please help. Any advice is appreciated. :) Thanks ♥

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does my friend like me


Posted Thursday January 13 2011, 8:28 pm

my friend flirts with me and stares at me in class she also says hi in the hallway but she only does it when no ones looking does she like me? im 13 and a girl

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Friends


Posted Thursday January 13 2011, 8:12 pm

Ok dude here's the problem everyone thinks I'm gay and I'm not I know for sure I'm 100% straight its just that a majority of my friends are girls , I'd like to make guy friends but, none of them accept me so can you help?

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hes being a jerk lately


Posted Thursday January 13 2011, 7:20 pm

ok my friend is bein a real douchewad lately ,saying i dont care about my soul just because im agnostic and hes christian and all kind of other stuff with my girlfriend and how he hates her and one of my friends whose bisexual got made fun of by him and this is all of the sudden and he never acted like this and if he keeps it up i might have to give him one good hit to the face to snap him out of it and should i even be friends with him even after he apologized cuz im pretty sure hes gonna do it again but i can tell he really is sorry but he might not be able to help himself...so i need advice

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slowly loosing my best friend :(


Posted Wednesday January 12 2011, 1:09 pm

i have 2 bestfriends and we were really close untill 1 of them got a boyfriend and she slowly driffted away, i mean were still friends just dont see each other much anymore, and now my other best friend has a boyfriend and is starting to do the same and i never see her anymore, i dont know what to do to get them back?

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