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school sucks.


Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 6:44 pm

Hey,
well, i made the BIGGEST mistake of my life by choosing a subject im practically failing on and my teacher wont let me change it, i cry knowing i have that lesson tomorow and dread it!..its THAT bad! and we're gonna get reports sent home and parent teacher conference soon! and its not gonna be good!! what do i do? i dont want my parents going,they'll get mad but i try and its not my fault i cant do the subject, ive tried everything!

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my sister has been lying to everyone!


Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 3:34 pm

I am 18-f and my sister is 16. I have come to the conclusion that my sister is a compulsive liar. I really want to reveal her true strides to my family and everyone else who has been a victim of her lies, but how? Every time I try to catch her in her lies, she keeps lying to cover her tracks. This has become a major problem, and has ruined my relationship with her. I don't want to hurt her, but I wish she could learn a good lesson from her awful behavior.

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Mom's birthday tomorrow


Posted Tuesday January 4 2011, 11:31 pm

Tomorrow is my mom's 51 birthday tomorrow what should I get her?

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Family feud


Posted Monday January 3 2011, 6:44 pm

19/f. Turning 20 in about 2 weeks. I think there's certain decisions I have to make for myself but respect the opinion of those I love. Let me tell u a little bit about my situation. I was adopted at birth and I found out when I was 18. My parents got divorced when I was less than 2 years old bc my dad was cheating on my mom. The lady got pregnant an had a son. A couple of years later, they had a daughter. I don't think what my dad did was right and I'm not trying to define him, but he realized that what he did wasn't a great decision. But what's done is done. You know? I already found out and the truth is out in the open. I have a full sister who is 15 month older than me and a younger half brother who is 5. They are my biological siblings...

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Stuck and Overwhelmed with Problems


Posted Monday January 3 2011, 6:26 am

3 years ago financially I was doing great.I had my own apartment and I my place of work was only a couple blocks away to which I walked to everyday.I didn't drive because of a DUI, but I never got my license because I lived in a location that was very convenient for me.

I had saved up a few thousand dollars and I decided to try something different.I was financially ok at the time, but I really wasn't happy.I discovered the financial market, but I couldn't learn it and work 72hrs a week.I left my job of 5 yrs.I lost everything I had saved up during the financial collapse because I wasn't ready for those economic conditions.

I eventually lost my apartment because I couldn't find a job because of the recession...

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My boyfriend's father....


Posted Sunday January 2 2011, 12:13 am

My boyfriend lives with his mom in a basement because his dad was really mean to him and so they moved away from him. His dad lives in Florida and they live in virginia. His dad never talks to him like once on the phone every 3 months, and is very mean to him and calls him ugly and that he has no purpose in life and his father said the world would be a better place without him. It's really mean and Im always there for him and this christmas he gave his dad a christmas card. And his dad didn't even give him anything. He emailed the mom and said some really mean things that he was so grateful some other person gave him a christmas card and he didn't even mention my boyfriends card. He made fun of them and it was really mean. I don't remember ...

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Mom got caught cheating on my dad. Are they going to divorce?


Posted Saturday January 1 2011, 11:04 am

My mom has been cheating on my dad all year basically. I known about it but never told my dad. Well, last night my dad came home early from work when my mom had this guy over. They were doing stuff and my dad came in and it was a big mess. I mean, there was shouting and my dad practically threw the guy out the house. My mom slept on the couch last night and they didnt say 1 word to each other today yet. Mom acts like shes all mad! My dad is So hurt you can see it. Anyways, do you think my parents are gonna divorce? I'm kind a worried about it because you know they're my mom and dad. I dont want to just up and say it though. So is it likely to happen?

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Bad Dreams


Posted Friday December 31 2010, 8:30 pm

A few days ago I had a dream that my mom died.

And now i'm really scared, because I have a feeling something really bad is going to happen. But it's just a dream, right? I honestly don't know why i'm so scared, but I am.

What do dreams of death mean?

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Father Issues


Posted Thursday December 30 2010, 11:17 am

Okay so I haven't seen my father in years. He kicked me out and took me out of his will. I did try talking to him until I asked about my grandfather and he lied and said he was fine. My grandfather had been dead for three years before anyone told me. On top of that, in August I suffered a miscarriage and it still hurts. Now, my father is constantly sending me messages because another family member told him about it. He's calling me fat, ugly, useless, slut, and the one that hurts the most is baby murderer. Any ideas on what I can do about my father since he's being so childish?

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how do you deal with a betrayal?


Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 11:21 pm

me:18
sister 20
ok so last year at about this time i met a really attractive guy. lets call him nick. okay so nick and i hung out and my sister sometimes came along. i would notice how nick would flirt with my sister. before that i knew nick was a player. he always hid his phone. i didnt trust him. well to make a story short he ended up hanging out with my sister and even gave her a hickey. i found this out from a friend. when i confronted her about it she told me that she just wnated to protect me becuase she knew he was a player and wanted to prove that to me. the thing is that she had asked me if i wanted to know before she did that and i said no becuase i really liked him and i hoped that maybe he will like me back. so ...

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MY MOM SAID SHE IS PUTTING ME IN A FOSTER HOME IM ONLY 15!! Will it be good


Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 2:50 am

Will it be good for me to be in a foster home? because she is putting me in the city of ORLANDO , which is where i was raised in since i was 8 and i know most of the people there and my mom doesnt want me anymore i need advice =(

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What to do about my brother and my boyfriend?


Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 6:00 pm

Okay, to start off I'm 15, both my brother and my boyfriend are 17. Two years diffrence, my brother and I hated each other when I was younger, he made fun of me, he discluded me from my family..(he would make me stay away from him and my mom/or gma when they talked..watched movies.) So I bascicaly felt left out, of everything it made me feel really bad. :/ Now, that I'm older he always wants to be around me. I'm happy that he likes to hang out with me, he is really funny and kind. I love him, I really do he's a good brother. Now, that I'm with my boy friend he absoulutly he hates him, for no reason at all. My boy friend says its because It's like he's taking away his baby sister, he misses the attention. Well, I'm getting sick of the things...

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What mental illness or substance abuse issue does my mom have?


Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 3:26 am

Hello I am a 23 year old female. I have always had a difficult relationship with my mother that stems beyond the typical "curfew arguments, money for a prom limo ect..." My mother has the mind of both an adult and a child. When she was 10 she was forced to sell her belongings and move to a third world country, and she has never gotten over it. She has since spent the rest of her life trying to "gain back" everything she had to give away and more. She is obsessed with shopping at antique stores for toys that remind her of her childhood. She acts like a spoiled brat- throwing a fit if she does not have the most gifts under the Christmas tree. She spends all of her money on herself to fund her erratic shopping problem and e...

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Cousins drug use effecting brother?


Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 12:26 am

Well my cousin smokes weed. let's call him Jake. He did it when he was like 16-18 then he stopped. He is now 20. We were at our Christmas dinner and Jake asked my other cousins let's call them Sammie and Lucy to go smoke in their car. Well they said ok and let him do it and I was texting Lucy and she said that he was smoking weed. I am scared that he will get my brothe into it that is 16 Years old. Let's call him Garry. Well Garry looks up to Jake and he changes his personality a bit when Jake is arround. My brother Garry says he would ne'er get into it because it's stupid but I feel like if he was asked by Jake to do it then he would say yes and take A puff or aomething. What should I do!?

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not living life because of my mom.


Posted Monday December 27 2010, 11:47 pm

My whole life I've lived under my mom. I haven't made barely any decisions on my own. I just finished my first semester of my freshman year in college at a university close to my home because my mom is forcing me to live with her. I'm absolutely in LOVE with this school down in Florida (I live in New York) and she refuses to let me go. All of my friends left and I feel like I'm the only one left, I feel like I'm not even in college and I'm not getting the experience either. This school is exactly what I'm looking for and she just doesn't understand. She won't let me grow up. I'm 19 years old. I've tried sitting her down and talking to her but she just gets up and walks away or starts screaming at me and is just so rude. She won't even liste...

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Parental Issues, divorce maybe?


Posted Monday December 27 2010, 11:25 pm

Lately, my parents have been getting in more fights. My dad likes to make up lies about my mom to make people side with him. My mom is kind of spazzy, so she'll freak out if something's out of place or if something doesn't go the way she wants it to, but she's really a nice lady. And my dad can be funny sometimes, but he really doesn't know when to stop and he's rude. He's really anti-social. He grew up without parents and he even lived on the streets for a while. He doesn't speak English at all, nor does he plan to learn, so my mom and I have to do all the talking since my sister is basically just as shy. My dad keeps saying he's going to move out and every time we try to get my mom and him together to get along, he ruins it by saying he h...

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left boyfriend ive got the kids


Posted Monday December 27 2010, 9:21 am

i lived with boyfriend ten years he has a farm its a limited company it belonged to his dad and uncle they made him and his cousin partners he has no money in his personal bank as he has low wage can i make a claim against the farm like a devorce settlement he had farm bfor i met him i havent worked or paid anything towards we share the children

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wedding @ church


Posted Saturday December 25 2010, 7:21 pm

My fiancé's parents are divorced and my future mother-in-law is not very close with her son, but his father does help out a little more with everything. Do i seat the father and mother in the same pew at the church, i know properly its the mother then father behind. Both have relationships with other people but not married.

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My dad could be cheating on my mom. HELP!


Posted Friday December 24 2010, 1:27 pm

When I was 9, I found out that my dad watches porn. And later on, I found out that he has an email in which he has added a couple of women. I even saw a huge number of files which had the 'weird' conversations he had with those women. And I have doubts that might have had a relationship with one (or two) of his collegues as Ive seen a couple of 'inappropriate' msgs in his mobile. Ive even come across voice recordings in his mobile in which he had a conversation with another married woman.
I have tried to be as brief as possible
I dont what to do. Its been more than 7 years since Ive known about this. Im lost and I cant take it any more!

PLEASE HELP!

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Mother in law


Posted Thursday December 23 2010, 4:11 pm

My husband and I are from another country.We have a 2 year old daughter.He is very good to her.When she was 4 months old ,we went to his house for a week long stay.His parents,especially his mom tried to harm her physically.As I was extremely vigilant,she could'nt do anything,but still was vocal about her wishes.She said that she wanted to burn her fingers,put hard solid foods like pickles,guavas and insert them into her throat with her fingers,took her to an angry dog of a neighbor and asked the neighbor to free the dog from its leash.I kept my baby in my arms and told the neighbors not to do it.She wanted to scare her in a variety of other forms.Also when baby rolled up her legs, she put her legs down saying that she was immodest ,though ...

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