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Breakup?
Posted Monday September 4 2017, 7:35 am
So i have been with my boyfriend that i truly love very much for about 11 months right now. I guess you could say ex boyfriend since we broke up a few days ago..But im a bit confused about how the scenerio went and i wanted to know what you all thought. I am 22 and he is 24. We love and respect one another, in our relationship we've had a lot of issues because of different mindsets. We come from the same culture but i was brought up in America so i have more of an open mind than he does. He is extremely strict when it comes to his culture and believes everything goes back to him being "manly" I had two issues with him. My first issue is that i realized half way during the relationship that we are not compatible ( yes i stayed with...
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I need sneakers or i can design one
Posted Sunday September 3 2017, 10:42 am
Hi my name is Sifundo Olwami Gumede I'm 16 years old. I am from South Africa
I started to dance when I was 10 years old and I carried on till now and it would be great if I got a sponsor from Nike or Adidas or Puma for dancing.
Do get paid for making a video go viral since I'm dancing?
And do get clothes for photographs in the studio?
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What should I do about my friend
Posted Sunday September 3 2017, 12:36 am
e and I have had a bit of a falling out lately and yesterday we started to talk again. He seems to think I ve been purposely trying to avoid him even though sometimes I just have trouble communicating. I told him that but he still doesn t seem to get it. He says he s scared to tell me how he feels about everything and I told him it s just an excuse for not being upfront to me. We ve been best friends for a long time and all I want is for him to stop being so indirect about his feelings. He also got his "gf" (they re not dating but they are romantically involved 😉) to talk to me for him and she had nothing to with it so that pissed me off. How can I talk to him? What should I say now? I just want him to be direct about how he fe...
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Him asking if i like oral sex?
Posted Saturday September 2 2017, 5:56 pm
OK, apologies for a long story!
He's asking if I like oral sex, if I'm hairy down below, if I like soft or hard sex, but all in a good mannered way not in a dirty or gross way. likes touching my hands, says you have a soft hands, is rest of the body soft too, he asks, I say get your hands off please and he responds by saying you love it, I say yes I do because I like him so I don't mind if he touches my hands but all these conversation happens in a different occasion when we see at college canteen.
weeks ago, we went out few times for a drink with college friends. nothing has happened apart from just a goodbye kiss with friendly hug don't know if that counts for anything. He asked me yesterday if I want to go for drink...
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Am i pregnant? Period 14 days late
Posted Saturday September 2 2017, 9:39 am
I had sex with my bf on 11th and 12th of august
We had it twice on 11th in which he didnt cum and once on 12th in which he came. We used condoms. On 12th we used 2 condoms. Just to be safe. We replaced the condom and used the second one. He is sure that he checked all the condoms. None of them broke. I had viral fever the week before i had sex. Because of which my hemoglobin reduced(not much) and my platelets also dropped. My hemoglobin came back to normal. But on 11th my platelets were still low. My periods are usually late by 3-4 days. Sometimes they're even 10-11 days late. But this time they're 14 days late. And on 14 15 16 i had slippery vaginal discharge. Like it is during ovulation. But this time it was bit oily. I dont have ...
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Very introverted in new job
Posted Friday September 1 2017, 2:55 pm
I'm in my early 20s , a female and havnt had many full time jobs before.
I have just started new role, and I like it and the team seem nice.
My problem is that for some reason at work and in work environments I become very shy. I don't speak out and join in small talk. I put my guard up and somehow I just CAN'T join in!
At first I on purposely kept quiet because I didn't want to seem too pushy. But I'm worried if I carry on I might seem less shy and more aloof. What should I do? I have bad social anxiety.
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Dont really know what to do
Posted Friday September 1 2017, 12:17 am
So I had unprotected sex with this guy and he of course came inside of me but I took a plan B pill but we had sex again and he came inside me (didn't tell me). Is the pill still affective or sound I take another?
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I don't have time for a relationship and it makes me really sad?
Posted Thursday August 31 2017, 2:19 pm
All of my college friends are getting engaged or married and I don't even have time to date.
I work full time, and take four classes. I'm always either working, doing homework, or studying. When it's not one of those then there's some kind of other life or family obligation. I can't take less classes because then I would fall under full time status.
Every time I try to date somebody I realize within a week I have 0 time to see them. If I try to make time I get extremely stressed because I have other things I need to be doing.
I feel like I'm going to be one of those people who will be single forever because I have to put work before anything else. I have to pay my own bills and the job I want wi...
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Panties
Posted Thursday August 31 2017, 2:12 pm
Do black women wear panties?
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Does fingering causes late period or pregnancy
Posted Thursday August 31 2017, 2:04 pm
My boyfriend has fingered me but m late on my periods ...does this a sign of pregnancy?? Pls help me with the correct solutions
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Friend has started to have sex talk!
Posted Tuesday August 29 2017, 10:40 pm
Lately, we have been talking dirty a lot, a lot actually. Mostly sexual stuff. He told me the other day he will make me scream when we were out with our friends but when he told me that we both were alone together having ciggies.
Now, after introduced through my friends he and I've become really close in only a few months time and sharing and talking when we see each other at college, he always has to buy me lunch, insists to pay always, even though I want to pay for my own meal but wouldn't let me. He's such a decent boy. After the joking, talking, he's started to ask me questions like if you're wild, your nipple should be hard, I think you're quite shy in the bedroom, this kind of sex talk makes your knickers go wet, are ...
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Am I a bad person for my dating preferences?
Posted Tuesday August 29 2017, 4:46 pm
I'm 24, female, and single. I want to be in a serious relationship since I haven't seriously dated somebody in a couple years, but I'm picky (according to everybody else).
For example, I won't date somebody who is still working as a waiter (unless it's at a high end restaurant with big tips), at a fast food restaurant, or a minimum wage position. I just feel like once you're old enough to have a college degree or prior work experience you should have a better job. I'm not expecting anybody rich or anything, but at least for the person to be making an average wage. I make a little more than most people my age, but I don't even have my degree yet (finishing my bachelors) so I feel like I'm not asking that much. If I can put in ...
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Is my best friend right about my religion being phoney?
Posted Monday August 28 2017, 10:23 pm
First off, she didn't straight up say it was phony, she just said "You're not even Jewish". She said that because in Judaism they believe that you're only Jewish if it was passed down to you through your mother and my mother was Roman Catholic where as my dad was Jewish.
Throughout my last two years of college I've been trying to get closer to my Jewish faith because I've just always considered myself Jewish. Though my mom tried to raise me Christian she always did it in a forceful way which of course made me turn away from it. I also just believe more of the basics of the Jewish faith than the Christian faith.
I've struggled with it though because unlike many Jewish children, I was never put in a Je...
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my female coworker called me her cute little desk partner???
Posted Monday August 28 2017, 4:51 pm
theres this woman at my job, anyway she is a female as am I. we are both 33 ive always thought she was gay, she doesn't come off as straight 2 me..now I don't speak 2 anyone at my job...but she will make a special effort 2 make convo with me and if Im lookin at something on my comp, she'll come by me closely and just be cheesin and grinning, sometimes she'll touch my arm....and shell say what are you lookin at in this weird playful voice....or she'll peek around the corner while im at my desk and say hi....she is always extra happy 2 be around me....one day I had to use the computer by her area and she said I should be her cute little desk buddy, now there is another woman who sits at that cubicle but she wasnt there that day and I had to u...
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Nicked my bikini line and it won't heal
Posted Monday August 28 2017, 2:09 pm
Hey, I've tried to pluck out an ingrown hair and I made a mess of it before I went on holiday, it's been 3 months since I've done it and it appears to be healed but it's still really red! Is this a scar or will it go away?
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My dad acts like a teenager with no rules, how can I make him be an adult?
Posted Sunday August 27 2017, 1:30 pm
I'm 23 and I'm so sick of my dad living his life like he's a teenager. He's so irresponsible about everything and it infuriates me.
For example, he took an extra key I had for my apartment without asking. I found out when he started just walking into my home without knocking. I told him the extra key is for my roommate's fiance, but he doesn't care and won't give it back. They're also not normal keys so I can't just have to locks changed.
When he does come over he acts like he's coming over to help me with something, but he just lays on the couch and sleeps all day. Yesterday he woke me up barging into my apartment at 11am so he could sleep on my couch until 6pm. It's so incredibly rude, but he thinks because ...
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Feeling is mutual?!
Posted Saturday August 26 2017, 5:38 am
Could anyone explain about the meaning of feeling is mutual? I think he likes me well I like him and he knows that, I suppose. We're friends and known for almost a year. Joking, flirting and sharing stories we do when we meet and yes I feel an attraction between us and I think he feels the same too. Tells me he likes me several times but different occasions. Yesterday we're talking and after the hamburger that he bought for us, I feel sleepy I said, he said should we go for a nap together, I said yeah you wish, and he looked at me, said you and I have this relation, hard to describe but you like me and the feeling is mutual. He said twice. Instead of saying he likes me why would he say in a lengthy way? We are in a difficult place because o...
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My boss isn't giving me my pay stub?
Posted Friday August 25 2017, 1:01 am
So long story short, I've been working for a couple months now and I didn't know that during pay day my job sends pay stubs in emails. So one day I asked my boss for my pay stub and she said it was in my email, which it wasn't so I told her to send it again to me, she said she would and I never got it. I reminded her about three more times and she always told me she would but I still never got them. So since my manager isn't really in control of the pay stubs I think somebody else higher than her is, is it Human resources? Should I call someone there about my pay stub? I need it because my pay check isn't adding up and I want to see if I got paid correctly. I even googled if there was a website to view my pay stub. I found one but I don't k...
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Are some people just meant to greatly suffer? (Dead serious question.)
Posted Thursday August 24 2017, 1:51 am
So I have literally dealt with depression and anxiety my whole life. I can remember being in first grade and not being able to do much of anything because I was so anxious. And I can remember faking my happiness since I was a very young child.
It just gets worse and worse every year, and I swear I've spent all my life trying to overcome them, but I just continue getting worse... continue getting weaker...
I've tried literally everything for years and years - different therapies, different medications, different meditations, different exercising, different diets, different religions/spiritualities, therapy animals, subliminal messaging, binaural beats, hypnosis, different hobbies, talking to people more, taking ...
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How do i get prescribed xanax for my anxiety?
Posted Wednesday August 23 2017, 4:47 pm
I'm currently taking Latuda for my schizophrenia and anxiety and it's not working. I've been on other medicines.
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