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People think it was to much.
Posted Thursday July 29 2010, 5:11 pm
Female. 15. 10th grade.
This is a story back from my years in the Jr. High (7th grade to 9th grade). People think my band director and I had a little bit of a strange relationship. I was close to him, everyone has their favorite teacher. He was mine. He was a sweetheart, he cared about his students but he was stern when he needed to be, he wasn't a pushover. I am now in the Sr. High band which is a lot more difficult due to competitions and all of the practices but one thing my Sr. High band director brings up a lot is how we weren't trained right in Jr. High, which makes me think of my Jr. High band director. I didn't really think much of the way we acted in Jr. High but looking back on it, our relationship was kinda strang...
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Everyone thinks we should be together.
Posted Thursday July 29 2010, 2:33 am
My good friend and I have been friends since third grade. We are now in tenth. He is a boy, I am a girl. Both 15. I love him, he's like a brother to me an I wouldn't ask for him to be any different. Except, everyone thinks we like eachother and need to get together ASAP!! Annoying, much. Especially when you're talking and people walk by saying "ooooh" can a boy and a girl not be friends without being more? I am going to name a few things between us.
1. I literally tell him everything. He tells me some pretty personal things.
2. I bring him in his favorite pack of crackers. Everyday.
3. I apologize to him for dumping all of my problems on him all the time and he tells me he doesn't mind, that he cares about ...
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Teacher/student
Posted Thursday July 29 2010, 2:12 am
I'm in the marching band at school. I am fifteen and in the high school band now. But when I was in the jr high band, everyone thought me and my band director were doing it. We were close, he was like a second dad to me. He was 27 when I had him. I didn't think anything of the way we acted. I just felt.. Comfortable aroud him. Now that I look back on it, it was kinda strange, I mean, he was and still is married but when I was late for a class I didn't ask that teacher to write me a pass, or when I did and they didn't so it for me, he would. He would be walking out of the band room with his lap top and I'd he saw me instead of saying hi, we would have a conversation. when I wanted to skip a class, he would always let me, he'd wrote a pass e...
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i feel like i dont "do" enought in the relationship
Posted Thursday July 29 2010, 2:01 am
What do i do my boyfriend an di have dated for 2 months and we are intimit(not sex) but intimit. He makes my feel good but i dont know what to do to make him feel good i keep thinking im doing something wrong. what should i do ??
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Black women give me a hard time in the workplace
Posted Sunday July 25 2010, 2:18 am
I recently took a mid management position with a retail chain , this being after I held a temp position at another retail chain. While working the temp position I was basiclly tormented and then assualted by a black coworker for no reason other than she just did not like me. I now have the duty of supervising a "young lady" who is also black and has given me hell since I walked in the door. When it is convenient she bullies me and will go to "the bathroom" and talk on the cell for for up to an hour if possible. I am a married woman, I am 5'0 tall, slender because I work my --- off, blond and blue eyed and at the same time probally 20 years older than this employee-but was told that she resents me because of my appear...
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My brother's friend's boyfriend.
Posted Wednesday July 21 2010, 1:42 pm
My brother has a good friend and she is dating a boy that is very out going, so I hear and is a lot of fun. But every time I'm around, he doesn't show affection for his girlfriend, he hardly speaks, when my brother, my brother's girlfriend and this boy's girlfriend say goodbye because they are going somewhere he doesn't say anything to me. I'm a nice person, I wouldn't be mean to him. Why do you think he's like this, only around me?
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I like my best friend brother
Posted Tuesday July 20 2010, 10:15 am
Hi im me and my best friends are 6th graders we mostly do everything together. She has this cute brother but his in the 8th grade. 1 or 2 of my friends say he night have a crush on me. But im scared to ask out my best friend brother out. So what do i?
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Is it bad that my teacher kissed me on the forehead?
Posted Sunday July 18 2010, 4:25 pm
I am in summers school. I'm not in summer school for failing or being dumb or nothing like that. Im going to be a junior next year and I decided to go to summer school to take senior classes, so I wont have to take them when I become a senior. Its some program that my school has. A teacher that I have a crush is teaching a class. He knows that I have a crush on him and he jokes around and calls me his girlfriend and puts his arm around me. I think hes just playing and he tells other people that hes just playing. One day he called me his girlfriend in the front office in front of the counselor and the principle and they didn't say anything, the counselor just laughed. Ok, during our little lunch break everyone was in the cafeteria an...
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how can i stop flirting and still be me?
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 8:14 am
okay i dont think this is normal.
14/f
i hang out with the guy group at school (only girl in the group) im not a tomboy and not princessy blonde either. i wear glasses and am over weight slightly so i dont get why each guy in the group has liked me or is liking me. im not just asuming this they told me.
i know you may say its just personality but it happens everywere any guy i talk to for a period of time falls for me. and for some reason im never interested.
the thing i find odd is they have all liked me but none of them were game enough to ask me out due to my ex. so what should i do?
and i feel like im playing them all. i flirt, but only cause its natural for me i dont intend on doing this, how can i stop flirting and still be me?
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fed up with being the girl people call the slut
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 8:07 am
im so tired of being the girl people call the slut.
im not. im 14/f and have only been out with two guys.
i dont dress slutty nor do i act it, im quite hippy so often im maxy dresses. i dont swear and even a virgin, i dont get why people call me a slut.
i hang out with alot of guys but thats only cause the girls do the same thing every lunch.
what can i do to make people see im not who they think i am, i have a brain and am quite reserved.
can you please not say hanging out with the girls more, because i was bullied by them last year and dont really want to start it again. thanks
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Do you think that he's interested in me?
Posted Friday July 16 2010, 11:46 pm
There is a guy that works at the same store as me but in a different department. I always catch him staring at me. I've seen him stare at me from upstairs, at our morning briefings, even he has come in on his day off once and I saw him staring at me. He seems nice but on the shy side. The looks I get are not lustful but more puppy dog looks. I have also noticed that he seems more cheerful around the other workers since I have been smiling at him and saying hi. He used to be a lot quieter and looked a bit down. Also he is taking better care of his appearance. Do you think he's interested?
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Attention
Posted Friday July 16 2010, 1:04 am
How can I get attention in class and outside of class in school. I'm not an attention hog or anything. I'm actually really shy and I'm just sick of being a wallflower. Last year people didn't even notice that I was in their grade. They thought I was new and I've been living in my town for years! So how can I be noticed?
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Advice for a freshman please.
Posted Wednesday July 14 2010, 10:22 pm
14/f
This is long. Sorry, but I ramble. I think i already know how you are going to answer this question but I'll ask answers..
Well, this year I am starting high school as a freshman. I'm not a new student. When I signed up for classes they told me they were cutting art classes for freshman and that if there was room in a class they would do a drawing and 1 or more freshman would fill up the spaces. I love art (I'm not very good at it) but I love it so I signed up for the drawing.
My class fees list came in the mail a few weeks ago and I could see which classes I had off that list. And I had gotten the art class I wanted! I was ecstatic but really nervous. I asked my friends and none of them had gotten...
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Boyfriend dating 2 girls
Posted Wednesday July 14 2010, 9:59 pm
my boyfriend and i just got back togeather agian,and i just found out that he was dating me and another girl,and both of us did not know what to do,so i am wondering what should i do,because every time i jump him he keeps begging to be back,and when i said NO!!!! he fliped out and hit the wall and said that next time it would not be the wall but instead my car.
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i feel worthless
Posted Wednesday July 14 2010, 12:52 am
lately all i feel i do is make mistakes im never happy.
i dont know who i am. ok that sounds werid but i always try to be someone else. im known to be the happy girl who people get on with, but its not me.
people think im dumb when i know im smart.
and im shy but im known as loud.
i dont know anymore, im not sure who i like cause i feel a pressure to like the RIGHT people.
and pick the RIGHT clothes.
if i change people will call me fake.
and when i am myself i feel fat, ugly and alone.
so do i try to be the person i am (upset, angery all the time)
or someone im not (happy and confident and hide my real thoughts?)
any advice will help
thankyou
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do i love him.
Posted Tuesday July 13 2010, 6:44 pm
okay, there is this boy. We have been on and off for a while and were really close; we hug, text, flirt but were only just mates. we hes not around i think about him, i wait for him to text me, i have had dreams about him and i get tingles when he talks to me. he doesnt treat me like any other girl, makes me feel speacil. the only problem is, he used me once (asked me out when he didnt have feelings for me) and he also flirts with my best friend even though he hates her.
he said he liked me, and even tryed telling me he loved me.. but he wasnt direct about it (he dont like talking about his feelings AT ALL.) so what should i do.
i also like someone else,,, but not as strongly as my ex.
14/f
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Stealing..help!!
Posted Tuesday July 13 2010, 1:44 pm
I went to the mall with a friend. I tried taking a small item in a store, but was caught. The worker just said, "Can you return the item to its place?" I handed it to him. He said nothing else. My friend and I looked in the store for a few minutes, then left.
After we left I looked back and saw him dialing a phone #. I'm paranoid that he was calling mall security/the police. Is this possible? He didn't ask me ANY information, no name/address/ss #/id.
After that we left the mall to my car. No one followed us, and I really didn't notice anyone taking my license plate #, but this is the part I feel most paranoid about. Is it possible he could have been calling security & they can review tapes and see...
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How come is it hard for me to get a job?
Posted Tuesday July 13 2010, 9:26 am
I apply to places and I even go to the places to follow up my application and they always say they are going go call me but they never do, is it better to be persistant and keep asking them to follow up my application? or should I wait?
and would you like to share any interview tips? thanks
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Hugs?
Posted Monday July 12 2010, 11:20 am
Female/15
What kind of hugs can tell you that some likes you? Is it a usually tight or loose hug?
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EX boyfriend i WANT to get over
Posted Monday July 12 2010, 1:11 am
hi
im SO close with my ex, that people think were in love.
were on and off
he drives me insane both good and bad.
but i want space from him, see other guys.
and i want to get over him
how do i do this.
a couple of guys at school like me. and i like one of them should i ask him out???
do i ignore my ex, say anything to him
please help me out!
thankyou
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