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Worried about boyfriend. Please help
Posted Monday December 29 2014, 1:12 pm
Please help!!! Worried about my boyfriend.
Well I ve been with this guy for like 8 months. It s a long distance relationship. He lives in a different state. . well he treated me like shxt and he says he does it because he's stressed out. And I was gon leave him a acouple of days ago and he said he was gon kill himself. Well earlier yesterday , he said he was in danger and that he needs me and to stay with him. He said something about people putting him in a gas chamber and that he gets gassed and he's going to die. Idk if that's another excuse of him trying to keep me in the relationship. I tried to call his phone but it went straight to voice mail. I haven't talked to him in a day. hes been stressed out. I can't stop crying im worried
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Girlfriend hates when things don't go her way.
Posted Monday December 29 2014, 12:41 am
Hey all.
This is my first post.
My girlfriend has the tendency to get really upset when things do not go her way. We're both 18. They relationship is pretty much perfect and we're both very happy with each other.
For example, yesterday she wanted to play Just Dance and I told her I was not in the mood. She persisted and took it so seriously, and played Just Dance for 15 minutes afterwards without saying a single word to me. She realizes that she does this and she wants to change herself and we do not know how to.
Please help.
Thanks.
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How to not be disappointed whenever he doesn't fall through
Posted Sunday December 28 2014, 1:17 am
21/f, 28/m
Let me first say that I am the type of person who likes it when people fall through with what they say. I try to live up to my values, morals, and I try my best to be dependable, and I try my best to fall through with what I say. I don't ever cancel on someone unless I'm terribly sick. I would even show up late instead of not show up at all. So, this might be one of the reasons why this problem bothers me.
I've been dating this guy for almost a year. This sounds terrible for me to say, but when it comes to him falling through with what he says, I can turn him into a gambling game. There are times when he says that he'll show up to something, he'll call, etc. But then plans change and he cancels.
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ultimatums
Posted Saturday December 27 2014, 8:43 pm
my girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We've told one another to block certain people on our social networks because of past experiences. She is now into these things with ultimatums. Stating that it's either something or her. She suddenly doesn't trust me out of nowhere and always accuses me of doing something I'm not supposed to be doing when Im not with her. It's getting to the point where our arguments are suffocating me. My best girl ffriend and I talked about kind of liking each other but left it at that due to the fact that we are both in long lasting relationships. My girlfriend found out and she hadn't had a problem till now. Now she wants me to block her and she wants to control who my friends are. I have to ask her p...
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Guilt ridden from breaking someones heart
Posted Saturday December 27 2014, 7:14 am
I have just broken up with my partner of 5 years. This time last year I moved to Australia as I felt I needed to see the world. At first I wanted my boyfriend to come with me and he wanted to go somewhere else which devastated me, but when I got there I really loved it and I enjoyed being on my own. A month later though he moved over to be with me because he missed me too much. Since we moved in together over there, things werent the same. Were only 24 but we rarely had sex, which sadly I was happy about because I had lost sexual feelings towards him a year or so before. When I was out without him I always behaved like I was single and actively sought out other men to flirt with. I ended up meeting someone that I worked with and sleeping wi...
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I don't know how I feel anymore.
Posted Friday December 26 2014, 1:20 pm
I am currently I a relationship with a girl which has been going on for about a year and a half. She is from Norway and is currently at her home for Christmas. She will be back in January.
I have recently started thinking about breaking up with her and I can't seem to understand why. She is probably the cutest girl I've ever met and nice but for some reason she's not what I want.
The only thing that's stopping me from ending it right now is that I don't want to hurt her. I could easily stay with her and keep it going and I'd be content with that but that is not the right choice.
I really don't know why I feel like this and I just want some advice on how I should deal with the situation.
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I'm losing feelings for a really great guy and I don't want to!
Posted Thursday December 25 2014, 12:24 am
I'm 22 and I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years now I want more than anything to be with him. But for a while now I've been losing serious feelings for him( 8 months) and I've been trying so hard to get everything back . He's absolutely perfect he doesn't get mad at me when we fight and he doesn't stress out about anything . I've been starting to flirt seriously with a guy at work and I always feel so guilty about it but I started losing feeling for him way before this. I just feel so bad because he's so amazing and I don't want to hurt him but I not only love him but his family means the world to me as well the problem is if I break it off with him he would move hours away from me to live this his family and right now...
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Asking a guy to the cinemas
Posted Tuesday December 23 2014, 7:06 pm
I am 17 and I have a huge crush on this cute guy who I work with which is 19. I want to ask him out to the cinemas but how do I ask him? And if he says yes, what would you do after the movie has finished?
How d i ask for his number?
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Does this guy like me?
Posted Monday December 22 2014, 4:51 am
Okay... I'm a fourteen year old girl and I like a boy that's four years older than I am. We go to the same school, and share the same interests and friends. We all play Magic: The Gathering at lunch and are on academic team and nerd stuff. The guy, Daniel, and I text often. Like, every night. Usually while simultaneously playing Nethack. He makes me laugh and is really funny and smart and nice. Whenever I think of him, I always think of him smiling and joking. He's ridiculously polite and occasionally speaks in a manner that makes me wonder whether he's from the eighteenth century, and there's always depth to his comments. I see him sometimes looking at me when I'm talking to someone else, and he always invites me to sit with him whenever h...
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I like a boy, I like him,how do i tell him? Should I tell him?
Posted Monday December 22 2014, 4:32 am
I'm a fourteen year old female girl. I happen to very much like one of my friends, Daniel, who is four years older than I. Some background information- the people I hang out with are mostly seniors in high school, and guys. I'm a freshman. We're all pretty nerdy- Nethack and Pokémon and Magic: The Gathering and Academic Team and science and math dominate most of our conversations. Understand I'm not some naïve little girl; my friends are all very honest, harmless guys. Don't let warnings of danger dominate your advice, please. Point of it is, I really like this guy, Daniel. He's ridiculously smart and taught me how to play Magic and introduced me to Nethack and his favorite band, which is now one of my favorites. The way he talks about th...
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I can't choose a guy!
Posted Sunday December 21 2014, 11:06 pm
14/f. There are 2 guys, A and B. I have liked guy A for a really long time and have a strong liking for him. I have only liked guy B for a short amount of time and I don't really like him that much. One of my friends told them both that I like them but she told A that I like B more. Now I don't know if A likes me because he thinks I like B more then him. I just want to date A because we would be so cute! I don't know what to do because I think B is going to ask me out and idk if I want to say yes because I don't want to give up on A. Please help!!!!!
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Should I get back with EX (he had another girl pregnant...)
Posted Saturday December 20 2014, 6:33 pm
To make a long story short, I was dating this guy, but before we were officially together he slept with this other girl. Then when we got together he still tried to help her out, because she's homeless, no job, no education, no family etc. Then a few weeks later he finds out she's pregnant with his baby. He immediately tells me and says he needs to be single for the time being, because he needs to help her through the pregnancy, the other girl seeing him with any one else would make her angry at him. I took him for his word that I did nothing wrong, and he wanted to be single which was fine. Come to find out this girl posts that they are in a relationship, not even two weeks after he breaks up with me, and then she posts more that she is up...
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Can't get past girlfriends past and am extremely jealous
Posted Friday December 19 2014, 8:59 pm
My girlfriend of almost a year is the girl I want to and am planning to spend the rest of my life with.Shes perfect to me. But here's the thing, when we met she had a boyfriend, a fat, immature, poser(he's white and says the n word,wears a SnapBack,says eminem is the only good rapper alive,etc...).I convinced her to break up with him and we fell in love.Now I lost my virginity to her but she lost it to him.When I imagine that guy on top of her, I get insecure,mad,sad,jealous,etc..She says she regrets it,I believe her but still. Now the other day she told me this guy we both know was hitting on her and I laughed about it...then she told me "have you seen him in sweatpants ,looks like he has a 3rd leg or a really big water bottle in ther...
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He was with another woman....and never told me
Posted Friday December 19 2014, 5:37 am
I have a dilema.Its bugging me.Pricking at my gut and wont leave me alone.I have been pursuing this guy for a very very long time.We will be moving in together soon.We are in a long distance relationship.During our time,we never said we were boyfriend and girlfriend,but we have been flirty and the whole bit. I was on his Instagram,and found a photo of him kissing another woman,who was at the time his girlfriend.Even on Facebook,it is listed and posted that he was in a relationship with her. This lasted from May 2013-January 2014. He and I talked so much during that time.Never once did he tell me about her.He took time to post on social media about his relationship,but never to me.They photos of them kissing,having fun,the whole bit.Its as i...
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Should I let this wealthy man help me with my life if...?
Posted Thursday December 18 2014, 2:41 pm
I'm dating a man who is somewhat wealthy, I'm not sure exactly how wealthy he is but he's in a financial class much higher than my own but I don't think he's like a millionaire.
He really wants to help me with my life and he really wants us to have a solid relationship where we see each other often.
I've grown from lower class (as a child) to middle class (as an adult working and handling my own bills) but it's still very hard sometimes to pay all the bills and because I had a rich best friend growing up I now have a taste for expensive things and sometimes I get really depressed that I can't afford them.
It would make a world of difference to live a better life with him and I think I'd really e...
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how can i make it up to him and get him to not be mad at me any more
Posted Thursday December 18 2014, 10:41 am
14/f
me and my ex are thinking of dating again but i kinda dont think its goin to happen any more cuz i told him he wasnt a gentleman and he got really pissed of and he said to forget about hugging and kissing him and i told him i was sorry over txt ,he wouldnt txt me back and i tried calling him but he didnt pick up and i really need some help on figuring out how to get him to not be mad at me and forgive me (fyi i dont actually think hes not a gentleman)please respond asap thank you
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Which beau to choose as fiance
Posted Wednesday December 17 2014, 12:08 pm
I would like to begin by sharing that I am 42 years old, was previously married and have a 12 year old son and 21 year old daughter. My marriage ended five years ago. I was engaged approximately a year after my divorce to a man that I loved dearly. He ended up getting back with his ex-wife out of nowhere and I was blindsided and heartbroken for several years and refused to date until my heart had healed as I was afraid to hurt anyone given that I believe "hurting people hurt others".
Fast forward to approximately nine months ago when I re-entered the dating world unexpectedly. I met a very handsome guy while on a business trip to West Coast(I am based out of Texas). I slowly started dating this lovely guy and we ha...
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Do I like him this guy?
Posted Tuesday December 16 2014, 3:27 am
I'm a 13 year old girl and this is my question. Okay, so there is this guy that I knew in grade 6. I liked him and surprisingly, he liked me back. So, we dated for 6 months, but even though I was little, immature and didn't know that much about relationships, I thought that I really liked him. That was the problem. I LIKED him, not LOVED him. When we texted, he would say "I love you" but I would reply as "I like you". I felt weird saying love, but it wasn't a omg-i-feel-so-embarrassed feeling. More of a awkward, unusual feeling. Later on, he moved schools and he couldn't come and see me any more. I slowly moved away and decided to break up. I actually gave it a lot of thought and that was my final decision. Now, this guy...
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Posted Monday December 15 2014, 2:07 pm
hey remember me? well if u don't am zat girl who asked you for help coz of trouble being in love with a boy but couldn't say any thing, who said zat we talk by e-mail but not in person and zat he was shy....... anyways we had our first dance on a party that we celebrated in class as he held my hand and took me to the dance floor when i tought he was gonna say hi to me, how great huh... we talk more now in person but the funniest thing is that now we don't talk by e-mail even if both online i don't know wat we have but i don't deny we have a strong chemistry its amazing, i can't even study thinking about him n seeing if he goes offline or not, i think am going to marry him as every body said, so what do u advice me to do coz am totally lost???
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Posted Monday December 15 2014, 7:14 am
hi there, so the prob is there r 2 guys ... guy A is hawtt n amazing n the sex life is amazing with him n exciting and fun buttt we have been in this friends with benefit for bout a year now .. i told him i like him but he said "time shall tell" ... n even after that response we have hooked up a few times. we only talk when either of us wants to have sex.
Guy B is rll nice n the conversations with him r amazing .. met him recently .. the sex was grt too .. alot of heat but .. he is not that gud looking at all ... n he thinks we r dating because we hooked up a few times ... there was an incident where he wanted me to kiss him publicly n i couldnt ... but we talk alot.
i cant decide if i should go ahead with ...
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