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I don't want to be a lesbian or bisexual
Posted Saturday November 3 2012, 2:28 am
I am a forty something female and still struggle. I was molested when I was a child by both sexes. I only realized the women molested me this year with a recent memory flash. However, I knew a few of lesbians sex positions when I was young, but did not understand how I knew this. Most of my childhood was a blank and have been coming back through flashes of memory. I had a boyfriend when I was much younger but men tend to be too aggressive. A few times in my life I've had thoughts about being with a woman, but have never been attracted to women. Recently I just cannot seem to shake these thoughts. I have always wanted to marry a man but these thoughts are taking over my mind. Plus my religion is against this.
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I don't want to be a lesbian or bisexual.
Posted Friday November 2 2012, 2:59 am
I am a forty something female and still struggle. I was molested when I was a child by both sexes. I only realized the women molested me this year with a recent memory flash. However, I knew a few of lesbians sex positions when I was young, but did not understand how I knew this. Most of my childhood was a blank and have been coming back through flashes of memory. I had a boyfriend when I was much younger but men tend to be too aggressive. A few times in my life I've had thoughts about being with a woman, but have never been attracted to women. Recently I just cannot seem to shake these thoughts. I have always wanted to marry a man but these thoughts are taking over my mind. Plus my religion is against this.
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My dad has became Extremely Verbaly Abbusive to me.
Posted Monday October 22 2012, 8:13 pm
My name is amber. I am 16 years old. I live im a trailer with both my mom and dad, my 10 year old bother, my nana stays with us because she is sick, and my uncle walter lives with us, and my uncle alex is just staying with us although he has his own apartment. Alex doesnt even need to be here. Alex is always butting his nose is answering for my parents every time i ask my parents a question. I have absolutly no privacy with either of my parents. Not only that but my dad has became Extremely Verbaly Abbusive to me. He calls me a bitch and a whore all the time. He also calls me a reject. and says " no wonder why nobody likes you". He also has stop saying "i love you" to me. I feel like i have no one. No one wants me and im...
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my boyfriend is aggressive with me.
Posted Tuesday October 16 2012, 5:56 am
i love my boyfriend more than anything in this world, i can only see myself with him, but he is very aggressive, and he knows he has anger issues, but wont do anything about it, he has stopped me wearing make up, stopped me talking to friends or going out, even with my own family, he tells me im not good enough for him thats why he has to look at other girls and if i argue back , he grabs hold of my, either my neck or wrists and screams in my face, chucks me about or just punches me, the thing is he is very sstocky, im 5ft7 and i do kickboxing, so for a girl i thought i could handle myself, but he is 5ft10 and literally tripple my size, he overpowers me so much.hes not always like it though, he often cries and tells me he is going to change...
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Its about me being forceful to hr(G.F).
Posted Saturday October 13 2012, 1:18 pm
Hello,
I m 23 n my g.f is 19 N we r both virgin, from D day we met i always tried to force her to hv sex wit me i even fingered on hr pussy. But in fact she did punch me on my face twice. She nvr allows me 2 hv sex wit her. but i cnt ressist my desire 2 hv sex wit hr any longer. sud i stop dating hr? But i love hr like hell too.. does she loves me?
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friend got raped?
Posted Monday October 8 2012, 12:32 pm
Well I'm 12 ok and my older friend(17)once talked to this girl I sed to be friends with(16)and at that time that girl was 14 and they were talking about modeling and stuff and my friend said that her boyfriend was taking pictures of her in langeray and then he got all touchy touchy and he forced himself on her and stuff and then she changed the subject when she asked if she's ok. And the same guy told her he's gonna give her a hell of a smack. And I was just wondering do you think he raped her? I don't know why I'm worried though but I was just wondering.
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To be a slut, or not to be....
Posted Sunday October 7 2012, 12:40 am
Alright, here is the deal, I am 17 going on 18. I am a single, female senior in High School. I decided to have sex when I was 16, I was peer pressured into it, and after that I told myself I would never do it again. Well, teenage hormones started pumping, so I called a friend, we hooked up twice. Then I ended up getting a boyfriend not to long afterwards, and about 3ish weeks into our relationship, I slept with him, well My Aunt and Uncle found out about this encounter, and I never told them, I didn't want to tell them, anyway, my uncle disowned me and every chance he gets he calls me a slut, and told me I don't deserve to live anymore. He doesn't want me around his children anymore because I am a "stupid cunt" IDK what to do ): I...
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15/f helpppp seriously dont know about birth control or anxiety pill?!
Posted Friday October 5 2012, 7:15 pm
f/almost 15. i have gone through sooo much in my life and i have just recently ended a horrible mentally draining and abusive relationship with my father a narcisssist. in my parents divorce my older brother took sides with my dad and my older sister took sides with my mom everyone was seperated accept for me and my two other brothers. it was such a strain on me.. but that wasnt enought for my dad he got me involoved in enverything. evreything i didnt need to be stressed out about i was. i was the most popular, outgoing, hilarious, outspoken girl in my grade. when this happend when i was in 6th grade all my middle school years were ruined by my dad but i ddint see it then becSUE HE was so manipulative. now my family is not sperate anymore...
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I don't understand my mother and I want to run away forever, but I can't.
Posted Thursday October 4 2012, 1:08 pm
I want to ask something about my mother. I didn't understand her. I want to run away forever sometimes. But I cannot do like that. I only want to remove my feelings about them. My mother,my aunt and my younger insult me ever. I am sure that I am not apdoted. My aunt and my brother always jealous of me. Ihave no ways. Help me please. Thanks. I am from myanmar
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How does a person stop thinking of killing themselves?
Posted Tuesday October 2 2012, 10:00 pm
When you have no family, friends or people who you can talk to what do you do to cope?? I want to be dead, i want to say good bye to everything that I see every day. I have tried all sorts of meds and counseling and it does not help. All my life I have tried to make people happy and it is always thrown back into my face, so why try?
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My bf is controlling and i need out!
Posted Tuesday October 2 2012, 6:25 pm
I have a boyfriend i have been with for a year and he has always been controlling. I am at the point were i cant take him telling me what i can and cannot do. I have told people about him and all of them have said get out now he is going to become abusive. I believe them because there have been times where he gets so angry that he is about to punch me but ends up not doing it. I am so sick of all the pointless pain. I am trying to get out now but he keeps saying i will change i cant live without you. I can't get out someone help. Please :(
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Uhm Did my Teacher Abuse Me?
Posted Friday September 21 2012, 9:54 pm
so im a freshman in high school.14/f. the high school and middle school are connected and most of my classes are in the opposite direction of my locker so i just cut through the middle school and it just so happens that i have a class in the middle school but obviously for freshman and up but thats just where the room is. and the teacher who's room it is i've had for 7th and 8th grade and he's a guy. he is just a dick. to make it short. he's pathetic and werid and and creepy i've always been a bitch to him becasue i hated him. but this year i really want to start off good and try to be nicer to people haha but yeah. and so he's werid like he's been doing this ever since i had him, for no reason he stands outside his class to just say hi to ...
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he wants to hurt me if i break up with him
Posted Thursday September 13 2012, 3:44 pm
i just need your advice about a man that i have been with for about eight months now. he is a divorced man and he is about 15 years older than i, besides ha has a nine years son. i loved him a lot and i still do, but my parents didn't like him at all.
the problem is that he said that if i beak up with him he would hurt me and tell my father about every thing that happened between us.
please i really need your advice as soon as possible because i am really lost and cannot do anything right now.
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I keep getting bullied (verbally) and I don't know what to do
Posted Wednesday September 12 2012, 11:25 pm
I am a twelve year old girl from NZ. I keep getting bullied by this girl in my class, and her guy friend (NOT boyfriend)One of them is african, and one is mexican. They always call me really mean things, and sometimes shove me and other stuff like that. They walk the same way home as me so I have to suffer it for 20 mintues everyday.Telling a teacher won't help, as the bullies will do it anyway (already tried) and I can't tell any other adults because they just make the problem worse. Please help me!
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my boyfriend of 3 years has change from good to worse
Posted Sunday September 9 2012, 2:24 am
i have lived with my boyfriend for about 3 years, but the past 2 years he treat me good, and say he loves me, and he used to call me from his, job, and tell me he loves me, but a year ago he completely change, he ignores me, he doesnt say he loves me, anymore, or do good things for me, he is a nice, man, because he help me with housework, but other than that, he is indiferent, i want to leave, him, but i need him financial, im not working, im in disability, and i cant make it with the salary. i have 3 kids, from my exhusband, what to do. i dont know.im 45 years old and he is 49 both are from mexico
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i want to kill myself
Posted Saturday September 8 2012, 4:41 pm
Ok well I wanna kill myself but I know Its wrong and today was the 1st time I actually did anything about it*i took a few pills* well now I'm feeling really sick I guess I took at about an hour or 2 ago. Anyway I was sexualy abused by my brother in law when I was 9 turning 10 I am 12 and only this year I've been wanting my life to end. Its all mixed up I know that's in it but its my love life to I cry because of that because the guy I love doesn't knowi exsist(he's 18 his 14 year od brother likes me)and other things I've kept inside 2 lng anyway how can I just stop this feeling of wanting to kill myself,feeling sick,and stop being depressed
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this guy is sexually harassing me
Posted Friday September 7 2012, 9:07 pm
Molly/ 13
Im a freshman in high school and this junior guy named Michael has been sexually harassing me. When he sees me he would grab at me and he would make disgusting remarks. Today i was leaving class and he pulled me into the bathroom and pushed me against the wall and put his hands down my panties. I tried screaming but he covered my mouth. I dont know what to do about him I'm to scared to go to school and I dont want him to hurt me for telling. Please help me.
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Physco Mother
Posted Thursday September 6 2012, 9:44 pm
My mom is always very rude towards me, she broke me and my boyfriend up. Now she is trying to get rid of my best friend, she did something to my truck so I cant drive it. And now she is always maken me stay home.She calls me fat, a whore, she is always telling me im ugly or stupid. When I was like 10 she would beat me with hangers, pull me down the hallway by my hair. And still to this say she will slap me or punch me in the face or hit me with stuff. She tells me she hates me. I have never done anything I try to get along with her, I will wake up for school and she will yell at me. Several times she has maken me cry before school. It sucks I hate my life. I dont know what to do anymore. :( Sometime I want to die and maybe she will feel bad for what she does.
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easily angered wife beating husband over and over again but now i am sorry because he won't take me back anymore
Posted Thursday September 6 2012, 12:18 am
hi,
i wanted to get some advice about staying with my on and off again husband. we ve been married for 7 yrs and seperated for 1yr off and on. we have a history of abuse only because i use to pick arguments and fist fights with him to have my way. we now have 3 kids together. he has a son thats 2 months younger than our 1st born and he and her are 8 yrs old. although we werent not married when our first child was conceived but just the confirmation of the dna test for the son he has devasted me so bad i beat him so bad. he continues to take me back even though i ugly and mean to him. he continues to forgive me over and over again, but not this time even though the physical abuse stopped i still continue to pick on him but now he do...
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boyfriend of 3 years treats me bad.
Posted Wednesday September 5 2012, 12:11 pm
hi. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we've been living together for 2 of those years. in the beginning it was so different we never fought we were two young people in love now a days it seems just the opposite. I just recently got laid off of my job and I've been crucially searching for a new one. in this month that I've been out a job we have been fighting non stop. but it's mainly him yelling at me constantly over the stupidest things and making me cry and not caring. talking to him gets nowhere and he constantly threatens me saying he's not gonna deal with my shit for forever. I love him a lot or so I think. he's the one person that I've been with since I was 18 and he's always been the person I've seen myself marrying a...
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