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No where to go
Posted Friday January 9 2015, 12:28 pm
Hi. I am a first year graduate student trying to get my masters degree in psychology and I recently moved in with my boyfriend of a year. Last semester was hell. I had so much work to do and I was so stressed. The classes were so hard I would sit there listening to the professor as intensely as I could and still have no idea what he was saying. Many times I would have to leave the class because I was crying. This all caused me great anxiety. I was crying all the time, feeling sick to my stomach in the morning because of the nerves, and actually pulling my hair out. And to make matters worse my boyfriend and I were constantly fighting. He has anger issues and tends to take out his anger on me. He doesn't really mean to do it, he can't really...
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Gf hides stuff and lies about them.
Posted Thursday January 8 2015, 4:28 pm
I'm so pissed that my gf is not the same as when I first met her. She displayed herself innocent and sweet, which she still does pretend. But I came to know about some stuff about her which she is been hiding since we are togther. We did had ground rules about not hiding anything when we started dating. She doesn't knows that I know the true stories behind the stories she tells me. She is a single mother. She got pregnant when she was drunk when she was 20 years old. Then she decided to keep the kid. I'm dating her almost a year and half and I accidentally came accros her conversations. She's been talking to guys from university and her neighbors which I'm okay with but in most of conversation they discuss about their sexual activities. Man...
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Why do people have one night stands and to get over it?
Posted Thursday January 8 2015, 11:37 am
21/f, 28/m
I'm having a lot of mixed feelings right now. I know I have to separate one situation from another. But I need help gaining some perspective on why do people have one night stands. I never really followed the crowd, I don't really understand the whole "one night stand" situations.
In my opinion (I hope it doesn't offend anyone), I feel like those who do one night stands lack self-respect and has low self-esteem. I may be wrong.
The reason why I ask is because the guy I'm dating, I have asked him, twice, how many people has he slept with the past two years and when was the last time he's gotten tested (I obviously wasn't asking for fun, I asked to be safe). He told me, both times, tha...
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Posted Wednesday January 7 2015, 9:57 pm
Wat should I wear so my 15 year bf to have a boner nd wat should I do
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I don't know what to do?
Posted Wednesday January 7 2015, 12:29 am
a few weeks ago my parents went out to dinner or something. So they called my cousin to take care of me it was really cool because I love hanging out with him(my cousin is 25 and 13 by the way). So he got to my house then we hung out for a while then i told him that i had a crush on him he said that he kinda liked me too but that our age gap was too wide and that I'm just too young and I couldn't help but cry so I went to my room without saying another word and he followed me so we sat on my bed and I was still crying and he was hugging me and telling me that he's sorry . so I asked him if he would have sex with me and he said absolutely not so after a while I kept asking him and he finally said he would as long as I don't tell anyone and I...
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Feelings are fading.. and growing?
Posted Tuesday January 6 2015, 11:38 pm
I've known "N" for about 5 years. He's always been so nice to to me.. Last year I walked past him in church and he smiled and started singing Happy birthday to me, he was waving his arms in the most ridiculous way. (His birthday is a day after mine.) I told him when my birthday was about 4 years ago and I was just thinking that he remembered for all of these years. When I smiled and said, wow you remembered.. He looked at me and said "how could I forget?" I've always liked him.
October last year.. I met a guy, "D"..we started dating November 8th. The thing is, he's not Mormon. I don't care if he isn't.. But he doesn't respect my standards like "n" would. "n" is Mormon too. I w...
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I love my boyfriend but I don't know what to do
Posted Tuesday January 6 2015, 2:38 pm
Ive been with my boyfriend for several months now. He's in his mid 20's I just turned 30. I love him to pieces and I know he loves me. Our communication is good and honesty is there. But we hardly see each other because of work schedules. And he doesn't have a car right now. So we see each other very little,and I have to go to him. I don't want to break up but its tough not seeing him but a few hours a week and usually its from 11 pm to 11 am and we've both worked all day so we are tired and fall asleep. Advice?
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My bf sucks at making out what do i do?
Posted Sunday January 4 2015, 5:40 am
22/f
my bf is great,but when it comes to making out he doesnt know how to. i try to take control and guide him but it doesnt seem to work. i dont want to tell him because i dont want to be rude but how can i work on this with him?
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love n cant let go
Posted Saturday January 3 2015, 12:01 pm
I lov my partner but we generally do nt understand each other.. due which we hav continues fights but we lov each other alot so what should I do
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How to deal with a bad breakup?
Posted Saturday January 3 2015, 2:51 am
So Me and my now ex boyfriend haven't talked for 3 days straight. I tried texting and calling and he wasn't answering so I finally went to his house tonight and confronted him. Surprisingly he answered the door and I asked if we could talk and he said he was busy and didn't wanna talk about it and slammed the door in my face. All I wanted was closure and for him to say he didn't wanna be with me. I then came home and looked at my snapchat stories and a girl I'm friends with had a snapchat story with him in it. I'm really frustrated with everything.
I'm the kind of person who likes things to end on a good note. I don't understand what I did or what's even happening. It's killing me. All I wanted was at least 5 mins of mature talking and idk what to do. Plz give advice. Thanks
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Having feelings for my bestfriend
Posted Friday January 2 2015, 7:18 am
AGE : 17, GENDER : MALE. I met this girl in the begining of the ninth grade, I knew who she was but I never had talked to her until we got seated beside each other in class that year. We talked a lot inside and out of class that year and became good friends. In grade 10 we were at a party and one of her friends said she wanted to hook up with me. Long story short nothing escalated that night (both of us were to drunk). This was the point I actually thought I might have feelings for her. She started dating a guy a couple months later which didnt upset me that bad. We continued to talk a decent amount when she was in the relationship... He would often cheat on her and people would tell her but she was pretty indenial about it. He ended up bre...
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love
Posted Thursday January 1 2015, 9:32 pm
I have known this girl for many years and I genuinely love her. I dont know wether or not to tell her i love her or not
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How to get my boyfriend to make out with me ?
Posted Thursday January 1 2015, 9:08 pm
I love my bf a lot and he loves me to but I want to take our relationship further and make out with me....... Problum is he is shy and not that romantic me have only ever hugged before.
BTW I am 11 (bf is 2) And I'm a girl
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Relationship advice
Posted Thursday January 1 2015, 7:12 pm
My boyfriend and I are both 16 and we have been dating for a few weeks now and 2 days ago was his birthday. We hungout and had a great time and now it's 2 days later and I haven't talked to him since. I've tried texting and calling him and he hasn't answered either. I'm getting really worried something is up. I've contacted his friend and he wasn't with his friend the past couple of days. I'm worried this is his way of getting rid of me or breaking up. What is your advice or opinion about the situation? Plz and thanks.
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My Best Friend's Problematic Marriage
Posted Wednesday December 31 2014, 1:23 pm
This question is really for people who have managed to work out relatively happy marriages. Preferably men who are experienced in marriage would be helpful too, but women might also be able to help.
I am worried about my best friend's marriage. I really don't want this to turn into a big problem, leading to him getting a divorce. He would be absolutely crushed.
My best friend is 30 years old and he moved out of state to live with his girlfriend, who he married two months ago. The two of them have lived together for over a year.
The problem is more complicated once you consider the different cultures between the two partners. His wife was born in China and immigrated to Canada when she was four y...
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How can you write a natural, steady love story?
Posted Tuesday December 30 2014, 6:01 pm
Hi. I've got the story down but I can't seem to write a natural relationship with them.
The female is usually quite happy and friendly but easily annoyed and saddened when you bring up her love life. The male is quite sarcastic, teasing and very much the bad boy on the outside. But on the inside he is actually quite sweet. He also likes to call her kitten/kitty cat etc.
Please bear in mind that the female has had her heart broken to someone she really did love quite recently and believes she isn't ready for a relationship quite yet.
So anyway, that is a little bit into the back story. But I am trying (and failing) to get these guys to fall in love but it all sounds too rushed, clichéd or unnatur...
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Posted Monday December 29 2014, 11:38 pm
How to get a cell phone
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The guy I like is sending mixed messages. What do I do?
Posted Monday December 29 2014, 7:11 pm
Hi! I'm 13 going on 14 and there is a guy in school that I like. He's not good looking to others (but is to me in a weird way) and all my friends turn up their noses at him. We flirted over Skype and in class for a while and he eventually asked me out.
I panicked. I was scared about what others would say and how badly this would go. I think I'm a commitment-phobe. So I made up this guy and said we were already dating. I know it's one of the worst things to do and I feel horrid.
We're still friends and we still flirt (after I said I broke up with that guy) and I thought he still liked me. A few days ago, he said over Skype that he was so alone. So I comforted him and did what anyone would do. He said all his fri...
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He lied to me about deleting a message to his ex-girlfriend
Posted Monday December 29 2014, 6:07 pm
21/f, 28/m
Long story short: I've been with a guy for a 7-8 months.
I have this gut instinct that majority of the time is correct. For example, my gut instinct tells me to bring an umbrella but I don't, it starts raining later on. I had a gut instinct a few days ago that something was wrong in my relationship. I decided to ignore it because it I didn't understand what it was about. Later on, his ex-girlfriend started popping up in my mind and I thought I was just being paranoid. I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt and that if something were to happen, he would tell me himself.
In the end, I snooped and went through his phone and saw a short conversation between them two. I was not worri...
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I don't know how to let go
Posted Monday December 29 2014, 6:06 pm
Hey there everyone.
F/17
About two weeks ago I dumped my boyfriend. Truth was, I was paying for everything and never got much in return. When we went out or had lunch, I had to pay for both of us because he would always look the other way. I was too uncomfortable to ask for money from him so I just shut up about it. But it started getting me in trouble with my mom, because I was spending twice what I usually spent a week so she was noticing. I kept giving her lame excuses, but it started to bother me. Every time he gave me some excuse that he hadn't gotten paid. We were together for almost four months, and he never once took me a on a proper date. So I was stupid to let it go on for so long. I decided to finally...
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