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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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how can i meet new friends nd have a new reputation?...


Posted Saturday March 26 2011, 7:08 pm

i have a bad reputation at skool and well i wanna be someone else..anyways...how can i meet new friends? like start a new life...be someone else???
H.E.L.P
in school im known as the bitch whos mean...how can i get a new reputation with new friends?
im not smart so i cant be with smart ppl.. im a fun person...
:/ BUT LIKE YEA... :/
15 year old girlll needing help!! ^


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I felt forced to be friends


Posted Saturday March 26 2011, 1:35 pm

Okay I have this friend and we weren't talking for a while because we were in a fight and I was really mad. So everyday my family would be like "are you friends again??" and I would say no because I was always mad but just yesterday we became friends again but I felt like I only am friends with her because my family wouldnt stop asking me and I am still mad about what she did and my family didn't even think how I felt all they wanted was my friend and I just don't know what to do help!!!!!!!!!

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he's starting to make things awkward


Posted Saturday March 26 2011, 11:05 am

<im 17 and female> at lunch, this guy always touches my hair, my chin or behind my ear when he walks past or behind me. this touching thing started after he told me he just wanted to be friends in order to not possibly ruin our friendship(after going out ONE TIME). i know he likes me and he knows i like him. i don't know what to make of all his touchy attention, whether it be in the hallway, or at lunch. why is he teasing me like this, and how should i react to it? i don't want to admit it, but he's making it awkward to talk to. we've been friends for years!!!



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I want to help her, but I don't want to be her friend again...


Posted Saturday March 26 2011, 10:28 am

I had this friend freshman year. She was my best friend. We had so many laughs and good times, and we've both been through some tough times. We were great together. But she caused too much drama. Her up and down depression, her negativity, and her promiscuous ways had me fighting a roller coaster of emotions. When I tried to help her, she always closed me out. She was always ordering me around. But the worst problem were the boys. They say you should never end a friendship because of a boy, but she did. She gave me permission to date her ex but yet was still flirting with him and messing around with him while I was with him. That led him to breakup with me several times and he went back to her.

I got over it and then when I...

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dont know who to choose


Posted Friday March 25 2011, 4:16 pm

so i have a group of friends i sit with at lunch and they are the popular group. i am also friends witht this other girl, Bethanny, she is viewed as a "slut" i think at times we are 13. the girls i sit with do not like her and talk about her, they are jealous that she gets with the guys they like, but then again those girls are really pretty but the guys go for the skank. and thats what bugs them. and i am friends with the skank. i only think she is skanky sometimes. i have told my friends what she had said to me and then told them. but it wasnt too faced because she said it to me and a group of people and she didnt care if people knew. She is really nice, risky, cute, and we have both cut and i feel she understands me better. But...

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Jealous of my friend


Posted Friday March 25 2011, 1:15 am

Okay well. I recently made up with a guy friend of mine and it's been great :) but when one of my friends, lets call her "Lisa", talks to him I get jealous. (We used to like eachother).


"Lisa" always starts the conversations and today it seemed like she purposefully went and stood next to him.

I don't know why I feel like this, and I really wanna stop!

What can I do?
Extra Info:
He said he liked me a few weeks ago, but he says he doesnt THINK he likes me anymore. What does he man by "think"?

THANKYOU!

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why is it that people u call youre friends turn back and hurt you


Posted Thursday March 24 2011, 8:25 pm

image you trust your friends to let the know about your boyfriend but all you girl freind is going to look to do is to be with your bf

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Best friend/boyfriend's old landline rang!


Posted Thursday March 24 2011, 5:06 pm

OMg.... sometimes just because, i call my bestfrend/ boyfriends old landline, and its not supposed to ring. He lived with his grandpa and his grandpa died over the summer while he and his half brother were gone for a little while and the trailer and its contents r allready gone. well anyway, i called the number (even though i knew i would just get the whole "This number is dissconnected" thing, and it rang!!! It rang and then white noise followed after it had been "answered".... His grandpa did die of a heartattack in the house.... Coiuld he hav answered?

PS Ive allways wished i would calll and Brendon would answer; just like normal...Like he had never left and his grandpaw had never died. I allways hoped...

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my best friend has an eating disorder


Posted Thursday March 24 2011, 12:43 am

ok so i think my best friend has an eating disorder . . .she never eats or drinks because she thinks she is fat.which she isnt . . she wont listen to me when i tell her she needs help. . . she says that she will do watever it takes to loose weight even if it means having to be in the hospital. . . please give me advice

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Torn Apart By Friends


Posted Wednesday March 23 2011, 3:37 pm

I have a friend that I talk to a lot. Let's say this is Friend A. I have another friend that I have somewhat drifted away from and I have not talked to him or hung out with him as much anymore. This is Friend B. (They're both males) Friend A is amazing, I love him to death, we never get sick of being with eachother, and I've known him for about 4 years. Friend B, we're alike in so many ways too, I've known him since Kindergarten, but he's ehh, as in, kinda flat in personality. With Friend A, I can talk all the time, and I always have something to say to him, we listen to eachother, we laugh together, and everything :) Friend B, he commented to me that he thinks I'm trying to replace him, and he's been wound up about me always hangin' around...

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my friend has a boyfriend and I don't...


Posted Tuesday March 22 2011, 1:11 pm

hi i am jealous of my friend because she haves a boyfriend and i don't and she hangs out with him more than me now. How can i stop being jealous of her hanging out with him more than me?

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She always ditches me.


Posted Sunday March 20 2011, 9:44 pm

I have this friend. We've known each other since I was in second grade, and she was in kindergarten. Anyway, we've been best friends for about ten years. We're the kind of friends where we can not see each other for a long time and still remain friends. We have a good friendship, and we caught up about what's going on in our lives, etc.

We were supposed to hang out yesterday, but she ditched me for a friend she sees everyday. Today we were going to hang out, but she ditched me again. I didn't think much of it but now I feel so hurt. She never keeps her word and always ditches me. I don't see her very often since we are always busy, and even though we live about three mins away, she's always with other people and stuff. She's...

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pen pals for military


Posted Sunday March 20 2011, 7:42 pm

i heard that you can sign up online and get a pen pal who's in the miliary to write too and email and stuff. do they still do that? where do i sign up? i've tried looking online, but i couldnt find any websites.

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i want more friends but i like being independent


Posted Sunday March 20 2011, 6:47 pm

recently i've found myself a little sad because i hear or see people having fun with other friends like going to parties and hanging out etc.

I don't really have many friends. I have 1 best friend and we hang out a lot, he's a dude, i'm a girl. we're both 18 in high school still. i'm not really any stereotype. i'm like a mix. i'm weird but pretty. smart but kinda ditzy. athletic but girly. i'm having a really hard time finding a group of friends/or even a friend. i'm not a big fan of girl friends.. i used to have a lot of girl friends in my past but i always find myself so frustrated with girl friends because they cause so much drama and problems. thats why i dont have many friends, because most of my friendships are so full...

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Friend issues!


Posted Sunday March 20 2011, 1:53 am

14/f, friend is 15/f

I love my best friend to death. We never used to fight, but lately we have been having little heated arguments, nothing serious but a big fight could easily happen. I have to be careful what I say because she overreacts and gets really mad about nothing but it's not her fault because there are family issues. I know friends fight and usually break up eventually but I don't want it to end, especially with a fight. Please help! What should I do? Thank you!

Also I always try to stop the arguments but she just says too late or idc. Sometimes it's her fault sometimes it's mine. We always make up but still.

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Getting some vibes... form a girl that already has a boyfriend, but is sending me pics and stuff.


Posted Saturday March 19 2011, 1:19 am

Hello,

I very rarely contribute to this site, although find it to be very beneficial and I'm glad it's around. I've had some questions answered through other posters, so I often lurk, I just very rarely contribute.

That being said, I'm seeking some advice.. I'm good friends this this girl from a town nearby. She attends public school, while I'm homeschooled. This limits us from seeing one another very often, although we talk very often online and fairly often on the telephone. Currently, we're not seeing each other in person, but every few months. This will change if this relationship ever develops into something more.

The girl is currently dating a guy and their relationship appears to be fairly...

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Posted Thursday March 17 2011, 6:07 pm

My friend with benefit go out with another lady,
and still want FWB with me, but I compuse, ia that
cheater? I fell hurt when they togother, Now he said<He doesn't care for her> but I feel hurt before until now, She get hurt from her husby, she out look for FWB, I don't want to hurt her
if she know He and I come back behind her back,
Event I called and tell her, Never invoid between us, She told my ex, We fight, I hate her and I still fell sorry for her, Need attention
not smart enought to see, man only sweet to get in with you, Now she deeply in love with him, But they can't marry, because She has two kids, and don't want to leave husby, Never know, what they want to do, But her husby know she che...

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Paying The Price


Posted Wednesday March 16 2011, 9:49 pm

I've always been told what a good person I am and it's become a characteristic that has defined me growing up. I've always been fair, helpful, and honest and kind. It's very important to me to be this way. I've never really had many friends or a big group I should say, because it's hard to find people that are the same. I've always had few, but close friends that I loved and valued very much, but I'm a very social person and I always wanted to meet a group that I fit in with well.

Mostly, and throughout high school, it was always me and my best friend, and we got along great because of how open we were with each other. However, as it got close to our senior year I started getting the feeling that she wasn't very genuine. Not...

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lonely. but do i want a best friend?


Posted Tuesday March 15 2011, 6:02 pm

18/f

i'm a senior in high school and in about 3 months i will be going to college. Here's a quick update on my life

-have a boyfriend. dating for 7 months. he's absolutely perfect. my soul mate. we are wonderful together

-my mom moved FAR away for work

-my best friend and i used to be really close but about something happened and now we are really distant. i havent seen or spoken to her in like 2 months.

i feel really lonely. when i'm with my boyfriend, things are amazing. i'm happy with him and we have a ton of fun! :) but then when i'm not with him, like at night when he's working, i get really lonely. i live with my dad and we get into fights sometimes. he's reall...

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i have 2 friends who hate each other...


Posted Monday March 14 2011, 9:14 pm

okay so i have 2 friends who really hate each other for no reason at all and one day i said one of their names to the other person and they blew up so i started yelling at her and she started calling my friend a bitch and a liar. i told her if she kept doing that i didnt want to talk to her and now we arent friends sort of. i am best friends with both of them and i dont care if they like each other i just dont want them to hate each other and blow up when i say there name. one of my friends doesnt care if i say the other ones name but the other is getting really annoying about her. i have no idea what i am asking for just help please!!!!!

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