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Should I be concerned
Posted Sunday September 26 2010, 11:33 pm
Ok I have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 weeks and we really like each other. Like he'll call me beautiful in front of his friends and is really nice. Buthe can be...... Weird around his friends. An I mean really wierd. Like they'll be punching each other and being very weird. But the real problem is I only have one class with him and that's band. By afterwards else have lunch together. By everyone says that he flirts with slot of girls and really flirts in his gym idk hat to do can Simone please help I really love him.
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I really feel like he likes me but I'm not sure.
Posted Sunday September 26 2010, 9:03 pm
My title says it all, really. I feel like my crush likes me, I've read when you think he likes you, trust your instinct, you're usually right if you truly believe it. But, I want second opinions. So, I'll bullet some things that make me think he likes me and you can tell me what you think! Thanks so much!
-I was upset that he didn't walk with to class after he walked with me for three days, so when he was in front of me because I got out of class late, he turned around and said he was waiting for me and when I caught up to him, we were walking to class together and he was running into me a lot.
-when we walked to class, he told he my hair looked awesome because I curled it and it looked different than the norma...
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I am confused about this Girl
Posted Sunday September 26 2010, 1:01 pm
So I am 16 and I like this girl in one of my classes and she is on the swim team. I am on the buys swim team but so I guess we have something to talk about. I approached her and talked to her and everything seemed good.
Then during conversation I brought up this guy whom I hate. This guy does a lot of illegal drugs and is overall not a good person. She told me not to talk about him. It was apparent she did not like him either.
Later I overheard HER say that she had sex with that guy even though she did not want to. Of course I don't know all the circumstances but I was shocked. As a 16 year old virgin who believes sex is for love and marriage, I felt weirdly depressed and disgusted that she had sex with that awful guy...
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Co workers are getting on my nerves about who i like
Posted Sunday September 26 2010, 11:49 am
18/f
I've worked at a restaurant for 18 months now. I have liked this guy,erik but i asked him out twice before and he made up excuses, so i gave up on him and stopped trying. the chefs (john and nick)know i like him and they all tell me he likes me too.they make jokes about us getting married, and its funny, and me and erik laugh about it seems to be flirty and make jokes ourselves but it just reminds me how much i like him and how i need to get over it.
last night i went out in the parking lot talking with john and nick and there was balloons all over my car. the balloons all had messy guy hand writing on them saying "i love you" "you complete me" "go out with me" "to ashley (me), love erik...
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The old and the new
Posted Thursday September 23 2010, 9:47 pm
So, get ready to read a long story.
so back when I was in ninth grade I met a guy at a concerts, we hit it off and we started dating. We dated for a year, he made me this mix cd once and I still have the songs on my computer. He was such a nice guy! I really loved being with him, after a while though he changed, turned into a pig and a jerk and started doing drugs. Well after a while I couldn't take it anymore, I Was miserable, I broke up with him and a week later got with my best friend. I know I should've taken time to be single, but it just kinda happened. We were just flirting then I was waiting for our friend in his car with him and I just blurted out that I liked him and he just smiled and kissed me and said he liked me too. W...
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He fixed what made me upset.
Posted Tuesday September 21 2010, 6:30 pm
So, I was talking to my crush and I told him I was mad that we don't walk to class together anymore. So, one day I came out of the girl's room as he was coming out of the boy's room. He kicked my backpack, asked who I was waiting for, I told him that I was waiting for my friend. He walked out the door, my friend came out, we walked out the door and he turned around, looked in front of him, turned around to look at me and my friend again and said "hurry, I'm waiting for you!" I picked up my pace, caught up with him and we walked to our next period together. Does that mean that he likes me?
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Feeling Threatened By Me? What does it mean?
Posted Sunday September 19 2010, 12:58 am
I work at a fast food place called Captain D's. The females work up front, and the males work in the back. Im 17/F. Ive been working there for about a month now, and I've known my head manager since I was 14, which is how I kind of got the job.
I was talking to my manager tonight, and I told her I felt as if some of the employees didn't like me, and she said that, "If anyone, and Im sure I know who specifically, acts funny to you, its probably because she feels threatened by you."
WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?
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want to get to know him
Posted Saturday September 18 2010, 11:46 pm
i have a class with this super cute guy. my friends kniw him but i dont. i dont know how to talk to him at all! hes a complete stanger! my friend wanted to ask him if he knew me but i feltit would be werid. how do i talk to him?
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Posted Friday September 17 2010, 11:51 am
I have a colleague of the opposite sex. From the first day we met, we hit it off well and always found things to talk about.
Recently, I noticed that he might be showing signs of liking me, I'm not quite sure on that, and I may be wrong.
He does sweet things for me like when there was a drunkard who stumbled into the train, the drunkard kept staring and me and kept burping and standing unsteadilty. I told my colleage that I felt uncomfortable and, despite the crowdedness of the train, he squeezed in between me and the drunkard and was therefore standing at REALLY close proximity to me. I am not sure if he stood infront of me for the sake of allowing other passengers to pass, or was it to protect me.
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What is his problem?
Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 9:06 am
16/f
Today after my 4th lesson I was taking a nap on my desk and listening to music on my phone,then a guy who is always very rude to me hit my desk and I jumped from surprise and the next thing I knew he took out a lighter,lit it in front of my face and burned me a bit,now I have this awful blister on my right cheek -.- my class teacher will talk to him on Monday,I told her what happened,as well as to school psychologist...but what intrigues me is why is he doing such stuff? first he insults me for no reason then he burns my face...What is his problem? I never insulted him or did anything to him,I don't talk to him or look at him...to me it's like he doesn't exist.That is,until he does something like this.I never react to what he does but this was completely insane.
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husband "bear hugs" female co-worker
Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 11:43 pm
Just got married not to long ago (3 months ago) anyway my family and I went to our city's local fair and husband ran into his co-worker not a big deal she was at my wedding but when she practically jumped in his arms and he gave her a huge hug I got concerned. Why??? Well because he went out of town for 3 days for work and when he got back I got a "hello babe" and a peck on the lips. okay I didnt think much of it til he gave this woman that kind of hug. Then I started thinking "IM your WIFE" and I get a peck this woman gets a bear hug that I love to get from you.. When she first seen him I thought it was someone he hasnt seen in awhile the way she screamed and ran up and hugged him, when I seen who it was I thought dang ...
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Teen pregnancy talk to younger student...how to make it interesting??
Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 6:54 pm
Ok so at school me and my friend are planning a project where wer go to the middle schools and talk about teen pregnancy and about how abstinence is the best way to prevent it. Well we are trying to figure out if there is any kind of fun activity we could do so that they wouldnt get bored and just ignore wat we say. so does anyone out there have any good ideas??
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Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 1:18 am
i think this guy is super cute and i want to get to know him but i dont know where to start! how do i talk to a complete stranger?
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My ex girlfriend is a coworker at my work place
Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 1:05 am
I dated this girl for about 6 months. Things got crazy. I got her pregnant and she had an abortion. We did some sexual stuff with another couple at school at the time. Everybody knew about our personal things like that. When we broke it off it was really messy because of all that crap we did and made public. I work in a grocery store and today my exgirlfriend started cashiering there and checking out groceries for the customers. It's weird. I tried to avoid her but we even had the same breaks together today. She did some really nasty things when we broke up like keying my Dad's car and telling people I forced her to get an abortion. She didn't say anything to me today though. I didn't say anything to her. What happens next?
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Shyness is taking over my life!!
Posted Tuesday September 14 2010, 10:56 pm
I'm really shy, always have been! don't really have that many friends at school, I mean, I have friends, but i'm not popular.. Everyday I get asked by atleast 3 people why I am so quiet? why do people ask that? it's obviously because I am shy. Why does it bother people so much, I mean I am not doing anything to them! I feel like everyday people are judging me, talking about me, etc. I want to know how to overcome shyness I want to have fun in highschool, because right now I dread going everyday! I know in order to overcome it you have to learn to talk to people but it's not that easy, I never know what to say! I don't like expressing my feelings to people. Also, when people ask me why I am so quiet what can I say back to them? because, I never know how to answer their questions..
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really good friend, and boy?
Posted Tuesday September 14 2010, 3:37 pm
So, I might be overreacting about this, but I guess im just a little nervous, tell me what you guys think.
So, me and this boy are together, basically dating, just not official yet. But anyways, theres a peprally at my school at the end of October and the football players give their jerseys to girls who ask for them to wear them that day. And you have to ask early so your guaranteed one. So, I asked my boy, and he said yes, but my really good friend WAS dating (they broke up today) his really good friend and she was going to ask him too because her boyfriend doesnt play football, when she knows me and him are together. I don't think he would give his jersey to her, when I already asked him. He's a really sweet guy and my frie...
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should i get back with him?help please!
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 11:31 pm
14f I was going out with this boy for about 2 and a half months and our relationship was..rough.After the first week were dating he pretty much asked me if he could cheat on me.He didn't cheat on me and I forgave him.Then he broke up with me for a stupid reason because it was a misunderstanding on what I said and how he took it.He thought I meant it sarcastically, but I didn't.We got back together later that day.Last week he broke up with me again and then said it was a mistake and he need time to think.He seemed to change his mind daily, but he finally said we should be friends.Then he changed his mind and said he liked me again and was gonna ask me out.He didn't ask me out and then he said he needed more time to think about us.The next da...
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:( he keeps making fun of me
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 7:19 pm
i am a scorpio girl. And i tend to be very sensitive. This guy in my group of friends at school has been making so much fun of me. I almost cried today :(....last friday afterschool he was being kinda nice but playful like hitting me with my bag, and a chasey type thing...and then he asked me if i'm going to home coming, and i said yeah and he asked with who? and I said with my girls. then today he was just making fun of me up and down...we were eating breakfast and he told me he doesnt like me, my face, my hair, the way i look..and my two friends and he too was laughing becaus it was supposed to be funny....but deep down it hurt me....and then he asked me if I would go to homecoming with him, and then i was like wow, i'm not listening to a...
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bf trouble
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 5:27 pm
i feel me and my bf just have a physical reletionship and nothing more.. i dont think either of us find the other physically attractive either .. i dont get it.
but he is a great bf.. we just have nothing to talk about.
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My friend is having boss troubles.
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 5:04 pm
When I say my friend, I honestly mean my friend. Here's the situation...
Her boss calls her a lesbian. She sets her up in situations that she knows will get her in trouble, she makes her clock out and go across the street to go buy her lunch. She talks about her personal [sex] life all the time. (She's either a total whore or a pathological liar.) She's rude to the customers and she brings her friends into work. (And introduces my friend as a lesbian).
I know she's talked to her boss and it hasn't worked. She's also talked to her boss' boss, and she told my friend to "loosen up!"
I think this whole situation is totally unprofessional and inappropriate. And I really want to help my fri...
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