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Ex Wants to be Friends, but I have no interest in this happening.
Posted Tuesday April 5 2011, 6:15 pm
My ex (we broke up about 7 months ago) texted me to today for the first time in a looong time. He started with small talk, but then asked me if I would like to get coffee as friends sometime. I don't want to at all, because I'm completely done with that part of my life and he's not the kind of person I would like to spend time with. How do I tell him I don't want to get coffee without being rude? Is simply saying "I'm not comfortable with that" too harsh? He's an easily upset guy.
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friends husband died
Posted Tuesday April 5 2011, 5:16 pm
what can be said to a friend that's husband just died?
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My Best Friend?
Posted Tuesday April 5 2011, 1:01 pm
What should i do i am loosing my besssstttttt friend over other people ! HELLLLPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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My best friend is moving, can you help me say goodbye?
Posted Monday April 4 2011, 5:22 pm
can you help me write a letter to my bestfriend which is leaving today ?
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He don't call, or say much, I don't know what happend but I do miss him.
Posted Sunday April 3 2011, 4:13 pm
If a guy cares he would do anything right like when he used too but we never went out or stuff but didn't last long... Long story he asked me back and we started talking was shitty but then he just didnt talk to me text so I was like sad over it but than week later he texts me at 3 am asking wat am I doing ya probably a booty call but we live an hour apart I saw that text and I was pissed but kinda happy it got me crazy cuz I did not reply.. So I just assumed it was a drunk text. 12 days later he texts me what's up girl I got the chronic if ur interested, smiley face. He don't smoke but knows I like too and still I have not replied been few days. Yes its killing me and shit.
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dark deep downward spiral
Posted Saturday April 2 2011, 3:13 am
You guys i need serious help....
I am so scared of these people i met about a year ago... we got close, cause one of them made it her "mission" to be my friend because they "needed a pretty girl" in their crew... i could even tell how slick and psychopathic it all really was now... they have pictures of me partying and getting drunk and then sick everywhere... and i am so scared it would get out because it would ruin my career big time let alone my family (especially my dad's job would get effected) i don't trust these people and feel that should i leap into my new career (i just finished college) and leave them and make something of myself they might resort to blackmail or even just exposing me for publicity sin...
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Please give me advice or your opinions or friendships and life.
Posted Friday April 1 2011, 10:41 pm
lately ive been feeling like ive been drifting away from my friends. i know that every body has this feeling but i feel like we have different morals now. I know that you have to get through differences to have that real relationship. Most of the time i feel like its my fault because i dont think i can hold a relationship very long. I always mess up and that one little thing can make a big diffence and let things drift away. I know a friendship or any relationship is two sided and not just ones fault but i just feel different and things are changing. I recently turned 18 and i think i am slowly revealing who i am but yet to fully show it. Life is to short to lose relationships over little things but yet i feel annoyed and want to get away. ...
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Contemplating a divorce from a childhood but toxic "friend"
Posted Wednesday March 30 2011, 11:08 pm
Hello. So I have friends w/ this girl for 10+ years now and we've been through thick and thin. Something happened last month that I can't seem to forget and move on. Basically we had a fight and after requesting we have a break for a week to calm down, we met and decided to put it behind us. She has, but I can't. The trust is gone and everytime I look at her or even think of her, I'm filled with dread and distrust (almost to the point of "hate" though it's a bit extreme). I have always stood by her even though my family has advised me to ditch her. Before, I leaned on her for friendship because I was so insecure but now I have a new lease on life and finding my voice and self confidence. The fact that our life paths are going in t...
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How do I tell this guy to back off nicely?
Posted Wednesday March 30 2011, 8:54 pm
Almost 15/F Guy is 20/M...
I've been talking to a guy online and he's from a different country. I like meeting new people, but at first he came off really strong.
He would call me, and text me, and comment on my pictures on facebook, which really was uncomfortable.
I texted him back and told him that he was being stalker-ish, at that time, he backed off and we became sorta "civil".
I have trust issues with guys, A LOT of trust issues, and I can't find myself to trust this guy much, but I am still talking to him.
He acts like he's met be before, and it's not freaky, I'm only curious. He asked me if he could call me sweetie, and I didn't really care, so I told him sure. Sometimes he asks me if I mi...
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got mad at me and i dont know why.
Posted Wednesday March 30 2011, 4:47 pm
Okay well i was friends with this girl and we were really close. and then we got into this argument and we were mad at each other for a couple days. and then i told my other friends about the fight i had. and when i was talking to my friend about it i was saying how the girl i was fighting with annoying and stuff and how she always treats me like a third wheel. then me and the girl i was fighting with were talking and becoming friends again and i told her i was mad and starting now to like her but i guess were okay now. *so should i mention that i called her annoying too? and that was like 3-4 weeks ago. and then i hungout with her this past weekend and started getting really close again. then the friend that i was telling that stuff too got mad at me and i dont know why. *what do i do?
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Friends talking shit on me all the time
Posted Wednesday March 30 2011, 4:41 pm
Im in a group of friends who constantly talk shit on each other, myself included. how can I change or influence a new group dynamic?
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More advice on the same girl, just more info.
Posted Wednesday March 30 2011, 3:48 pm
Recently I asked a question about a girl, titled "getting some vibes from a girl has a boyfriend, but is sending me pics and stuff".. I took all of the feedback into consideration, however this past weekend we got to see each other.
We had a great time together, we made out and fooled around a little, but nothing too far. She after the fact told me she waa quite fond of me and enjoyed our time together. She wants us to get together again, but I'm hesitant because of her boyfriend. I'm a decent guy, I wouldn't cheat on a girl, I think that's really greedy and ignorant and I take good care of those I appreciate.
Basically now what I'm looking for is how do I get her from her boyfriend? I want to win he...
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close friends who constantly talk shit/pick on/harrass on their friends
Posted Wednesday March 30 2011, 1:36 am
I have a group of friends who talk shit on, me and others in the room. We all do it, myself included, but some more than others..
"its all fun and games until the jokes on you"
Ive known these friends for over 10 years of my life. i would consider them close friends.
how can i dissolve or downplay a shit talking situation when it becomes too much to handle?
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Best friend is depressed.
Posted Wednesday March 30 2011, 12:55 am
My best friend, who is also one of my roommates (I'm a freshman in college), is depressed. She just told me that she is seeking help and going to a psychologist but I'm still really worried about her and I don't know how to help her. She is not herself anymore at all. I tried to make her laugh and cheer her up, but she wouldn't even crack a smile. She kept saying nothing interests her anymore. I don't know what could've happened that triggered it..we tell each other everything and I don't think anything happened in her family...we've actually had some of the best times this year together. Everything seemed to be going great.. Then all of a sudden she just wasn't herself anymore. The past week she has been going home instead of staying in th...
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Coming out ruined it. But staying hidden? Worse.
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 9:47 pm
Approximately one month ago, I finally decided I was ready to tell the world my biggest secret: I was pansexual. I liked both sexes, and everything in between, from transgenders, to transvestites, to...well, everything! My boyfriend was supportive from the get-go, and my close friends comforted me and were always there to talk. After the first few days, I was in heaven. I was finally on the way to becoming free of being confined in the closet.
...that didn't last long.
You see, my boyfriend (to summarize) had a lot of family issues, and is currently living with his close friend. I'll call this friend Z. For easy purposes. Z is not only my boyfriend's closest friend; he is also my best friend K's boyfrie...
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Confront or ignore
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 4:20 pm
Alright, so i'm having a sweet sixteen coming up in 4 days. I invited about thirty people. People that i use to be friends with, lets say about three of them i did not invite. It all started where they all turned on me and stopped talking to me because they had a party where they drank alchohol, didn't invite me and i got angry and i told my parents. First off, i tell my parents everything and my parents could give two craps about any of these friends. I turnto them for everything and i made the mistake of telling them in front of a fake friend. So they all started ignoring me, made me cry, and actually had the nerve to post a status on facebook about how immature someone is to not invite someone to their birthday party because there mad. I...
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Mentally unstable friend
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 10:23 am
18/f
I used to be best friends with this girl, all through high school, ad even middle school. Well, she had developed some
severe mental disorders, and I didn't think it was right to just ditch her because she was a little unstable sometimes. Over the years, she has gotten much worse. Were really not friends at all anymore. We used to hang out every week, and I haven't for a few months, and i haven't even talked to her in like a week. But, I'm FINE with this. I was trying tompushbher away, however I am a little nervous. She knows many secrets about me. And in afraid if I don't stay friends with her she will get angry, and tell them to people.
How do I handle this?!
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Drama for thr First time??
Posted Monday March 28 2011, 9:15 pm
Ok so, there is basically two groups of people now that hate each other, I don't know who to side with or if I should try to be friends with both, I'm already too caught up in it to get out.
Background info
-persons C & D hate person E
-person E is friends with person B
-person C & D are friends with person A
Story
-person C & A take a picture that makes fun of person E
-person B & E & F & G now doesn't like persons A & C & D
- I'm friends with all of them and I have to spend lunch with one group and go to another. Btw they're all girls and I'm a boy, 8th grade & 10th grade.
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how to be a preppy girl?
Posted Sunday March 27 2011, 9:44 pm
hey i am a 7th grader and i really want to be a prep but i just don't know how? if anybody can help me please do thankyou
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She Is STILL Throwing a Pity Party!
Posted Saturday March 26 2011, 7:36 pm
My friend's DISTANT relative died...and she's been throwing a pity party for weeks.
At first I was okay with it because I know how people react when others die, but it's been about a month and she's still at it.
I'm not being cold, but when someone keeps bringing down the mood randomly (for something not that serious since everyone has to die sometime) it really bugs everyone. I felt like I shouldn't say anything at the beginning because everyone grieves (although they were definitely not close) but now I'm pretty sure I should say something. It makes her look like she wants attention (and this is probably the reason) but what can i say that doesn't sound too harsh to let her know how it's affecting all her friends?
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