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breaking my heart.
Posted Sunday October 17 2010, 9:27 pm
my boyfriend and his family are moving back to england at the end of the year weve been going out for 3 years now and i dont know what im going to do im 18 and a part of me is saying i should stay home another is telling me go with him. this feeling of him leaving is tearing us apart hes my bestfriend and my boyfriend and i really think we were going to have a life together. i was going to just go to a two year colluge for nursing so i dont really dont care where i go i want to be with him so bad and he literally can not stay because of finacial reasons. but if anyone has advice on what i should do or if i should go and if i do then explain how to start planning my future.
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Everyone thinks he likes me.
Posted Sunday October 17 2010, 5:43 pm
Alright, I am 16 and a girl and he is 16 and a boy. For the longest time, I didn't like this boy, I thought he was a total dousche bag so I never even tried to talk to him. Now, I started talking to him in school and we sometimes text and I found out he is actually a really nice guy and I'm kinda starting to have some feelings for him and a few people say that they see how nice he is to me and they're shocked and they think it's obvious that he likes me back. I went up to a girl that I know through a school function and we started talking and I said "yea, everyone thinks ___ likes me" and she said "I can see where everyone would think that, he's nice to you, he lets his guard down." He takes me home from an after school ...
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Crushing on a co-worker
Posted Sunday October 17 2010, 3:37 pm
So I just started this job a month ago. I've been working at the front desk and this co-worker Sean who has been passing by the desk has caught my eye. Well I told another co-worker Mason about my little crush on Sean and he hangs out with Sean outside of work. Last night they went out and I was brought up in conversation last night...and Sean said he thinks I'm cute with my glasses on and that I'm cute ingeneral. Mason hinted I was was interested and Sean told him to tell me he was single.
What should I do? He works during the weekend and I work every other weekend and sometimes on Fridays!
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Im thinking ABOUUT running AWAY
Posted Sunday October 17 2010, 9:41 am
im thinking abouut rrunning away and i would just like to know the consequences and whatt im gettin myself into. and also if yu havv any advice about gettin outta here when no one knows .i ahve 7 ppl living with me so thhats goona be hard. uhhh thanxx:)))))
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confused...what is he trying to tell me?
Posted Friday October 15 2010, 12:06 am
ok so...im a little confused theres this guy in my 5th period and hes got the most AMAZING eyes in the world..he told me he liked me last year but jokingly and this year he told me the same thing but i think he was serious and asked me out a couple times, hes been asking me for my number and walks me to my 6th period EVERY DAY..i think hes the sweetest thing ever..but at lunch when i see him he always has a girl hugging him or hes putting his arm around some girl..im scared to fall for him because what if he was being dared or just playin around then ill look like a total idiot and i really dont want to get my heart broken again.. :(.....can anyone clear things up or tell me what i can do?
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being bullied?
Posted Thursday October 14 2010, 12:09 pm
I started working for a medical office 6 weeks ago. To say this is a crappy work environment is an understatement. I am a female and am managed by a female. She is constantly giving me more thatn i can do, while she shops on the internet. blames me for very small things that can easily be fixed. belittles me EVERY DAY. we have one other office employee who is also a female. they call patients who they ASSUME are gay "shitpackers", they call dancers "midget strippers" If poor class people come in for promotional free massages, they call them ghetto and tell me to refuse them and "get rid of them".
I try to tell the doctor my problem with her and he does not want to hear it. He hates overweight people, I b...
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High school initiation ideas and suggestions!
Posted Wednesday October 13 2010, 3:31 pm
I'm going to be a senior next year and every year the seniors do something for initiation for the freshmen. It's really fun and nothing is taken too seriously but we'd like to do something different next year and are already throwing around some ideas. I was wondering if anybody here has some fun ideas to get the freshmen to do in their first weeks at high school?
Please don't list anything that is harmful. We don't want to hurt anybody. We also don't force anybody to participate. It's just for fun and our principal approves of the items at the end of the year.
If you can't think of anything then could you please give comments on the ideas that were suggested here:
Guys dress up like cheerleaders...
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Am i being petty/childish?
Posted Saturday October 9 2010, 1:37 am
okay so im quite close with this girl, she's always got her defences up but she really opens up to me and vice versa, well i told here theres this guy i really hate (he threatened to beat me up/kill me etc) however the main reason i hate him is because he hurt my other best friend. recently the girl im close with has been hanging around him more (its not that she sets out to spend time with him, its just that whenever she's out he is too), I've sort of hinted that it makes me uncomfortable, but I have not blatantly said it. anyway she takes pictures with him and puts them up as her fb profile picture. I'm not sure weather im being childish and petty in that the fact she spends time with someone that dislikes me that much (and vice versa) i ...
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baby's mother
Posted Friday October 8 2010, 6:22 pm
If he doesn't tell me that she's taking him to work, is that lying?
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How do people make friends...?
Posted Wednesday October 6 2010, 6:08 pm
I'm a freshman this year. I am very social. But I will admit more so outside of school. I don't like to talk a lot at school I guess. Well I was wondering how people make friends with upperclassmen..? I am very comfortable within my grade I will talk to anyone in my own grade just not in others. I guess you could say I get kind of intimidated. How do girls make friends with guys that are like seniors? How is it done... Lol. How can I talk to them without them thinking 'stupid freshman'.
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Confused
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 10:23 pm
Ok so recently I ot a bf. I feel like I said yes to him just to be with someone. I feel like sometimes he is so sweet. But then other times I feel like he is clingy and I'm not physically attractedto him. Well I like this guy fiend of mine. We get along great and he always makes me laugh and I'm physically attracted to him. The problem is he dosnt have the same feelings for me. He just sees me as a friend. Should I end it with my boyfriend? I don't really like him but I guess I want to give him a chance. He always says I love you and stuff. Today he said do u like me? I said yes then he goes well I think I love u lol I don't want to hurt his feelings but what's a relationship if I'm not happy. Should I just wait and see what happens or end it now?
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staring problem
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 9:42 am
ever just hate it when someone keep staring at ya? and never say a word or not so friendly and how can stare at them back letting them know stop staring at me and i want be nice about it. but little annoyed. thanks
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Hikey go away!!!
Posted Monday October 4 2010, 6:20 pm
How do you get rid of hikies in less than a day? i need help asap (:
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how to make things not awkward anymore.
Posted Monday October 4 2010, 5:27 pm
so i had this friend from work and i found out he was into me and we hooked up a few times and then he basically ditched me for someone else. its just really awkward at work cause he'll do things like stare at me and i don't really know what to do and i hate it. i don't care if we're friends or not i don't even hate him its whatever i just don't like the awkwardness. what should i do?
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"pretty pretty"
Posted Sunday October 3 2010, 9:29 pm
My crush told my friend that he thinks I am "pretty, pretty" as in like wow, you're pretty cool, except it's pretty pretty.
I'm debating if that's a compliment, I mean, it's cute but the way I take it as, I'm pretty, but not pretty enough.
Girls, would you take it as a compliment?
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Finding it hard to make friends
Posted Sunday October 3 2010, 5:52 pm
I started university a couple of weeks ago and I'm finding it really hard to settle in. I live in university accomodation with loads of other people and I just expected to make friends straight away as I've never had a problem doing so before. I have made a couple but I'm finding it really hard making more. I've tried to talk to the people on my course more but I still feel left out and I don't feel like anyone likes me or wants to get to know me. I'm really far away from home and it's tough knowing I don't have anyone who really cares about me close by. I'm far from quiet or shy once you get to know me but I find it really hard to break the ice and I'm not very independant. I've been looking forward to starting university for years and I w...
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my friend likes him but i talk to him more
Posted Thursday September 30 2010, 7:03 pm
so there is this guy lets call him trevor. well my friend allison likes him. she stopped liking him and was liking some other guy. while she was liking this other guy i started crushing on trevor. well she thinks the other guy is talking to this other guy so she starts liking trevor again. she asks me for advice about him and i give it to her. she decides to write him a note and she asked if i could give it to him. well i did. i know things arent going to be akward with trevor because he talked to me a lil bit two class hours after i gave him the note. but i just wanna know is it wrong that im crushing on a guy that im helping my friend get with. I mean its not a big crush. its just that he talks to me. and he never really talks to my frien...
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Worth a shot to ask :/
Posted Wednesday September 29 2010, 6:56 pm
All right. I'm not super popular at school and I've only had a couple boyfriends, one of them I've dated twice, but he really wasn't my type and he was mostly after sex, which, I am glad to say, I never agreed to. But, anyway, there's a homecoming dance coming up on Friday and a lot of people have dates for the dance afterwards...
Any tips on asking a guy out? I have really bad issues asking them out since I'm, like, super shy and a bit self-conscious... I don't do sports either, don't know anything about them. I'm 16/F and I mostly write fiction... No, I don't like aliens, sorry. :(
I don't know if that helped or not, but hey, maybe.
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Mistake! Embarrassed!
Posted Wednesday September 29 2010, 5:44 pm
When I came home from school, my mother was bawling in tears because of what her sister told her happened to my grandmother at the hospital last night. my mother told me and I was very angry and decided to call the hospital, speak to the manager, and have a good complaint about the nurse that gave my grandmother, her patient, VERY poor treatment given to her. But I guess my mother is pretty messed up because she didn't tell me things 100% exactly, which means I did not tell the manager the 100% truth (unknowingly. So thinking back about it now, I kept pausing alot trying to rememebr the exact words she told me to the manager on the phone, so she probably thought that I was trying to make up stories to make that nurse sound really bad to get...
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I'm surrounded by idiots.
Posted Monday September 27 2010, 10:41 pm
In school as well as in my community I feel as though I'm surrounded by idiots. I'm not trying to be cocky but I feel as though I intellectually surpass almost everyone around me. The others in school are all immature and driven entirely by petty emotions and even many of the adults I know base their actions on childish thoughts. When I step back to look at the world all I see are problems caused by immature and emotionally driven people. Even my friends have become nearly unbearable lately and I'm actually quite popular in school. I have many friends, or at least people who consider themselves to be my friends.
I've always felt like an outsider despite my friends and family but recently I feel as though I'm becoming more and...
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