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He never did call me like he promised...
Posted Monday February 16 2015, 9:53 pm
Hi there. I'm in a long distance relationship and this past Valentines I had sent photos and videos. Very tasteful. Anyways he said he would call me. And he never did. He did send me a video wishing me a Happy Valentine's and he loves me and blah. He liked all my photos on Instagram also which was nice. However. He never did call me like he promised. And since that video Saturday night. He hasn't texted or anything. He has been on his pages and his Instagram and all that. But hasn't said a peep to me. Should I wait on him to message me? Or take this as a hint that he doesn't want to be with me...?
Or go on a limb and just assume he hasn't had time to text me? Seriously. He logs in his Instagram several times a day. Yet doesn't have ...
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Does my gay bestfriend have s crush on me?
Posted Sunday February 15 2015, 4:33 pm
Ok. I'm a girl, he's a single gay guy. We've been friends for over 2 years now, he even calls me his soulmate all the time. We always hang out and we do almost everything together. While I find him very attractive and a lot like me, I've respected his sexuality and refused to even consider to think of him romantically. That being said, I've noticed he's been getting REALLY friendly with me. He's always saying things like, ''I love your hair, it's so soft and long,'', or ''you have the prettiest eyes'', or ''you look beautiful today.'' He only does this to me.
We were going to his house to just hang out and the entire time we were walking home he held my hand and we didn't say anything. He let my hand go to open the fr...
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I don't know my sexuality?
Posted Sunday February 15 2015, 2:19 pm
I'm fourteen, soon to be fifteen. I feel attracted to both genders. I know that people may say "Oh it's just a phase or horomones", but hear me out.
As long as I can remember, probably even since I was eight, I've been attracted to the female body. Ever since, I've just been trying to push those feelings away or to avoid them. Those feelings never went away. I still feel an attraction to both men and women. I actually even had my first kiss with a girl, and also dated her. I don't know what my sexuality is. Bisexual?
Also, if I was bisexual, I need advice... I think my dad is homophobic. He denies it, but he thinks it's disgusting when he sees gays. He even said, "Bisexuals are even worse. How c...
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Hiding Condoms
Posted Saturday February 14 2015, 9:10 pm
AGE 16 male.. I just bought condoms for me and my girlfriend. but where should I hide them From my parents. BTW my parents dont know we are having sex.
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My boyfriend & I are both losing feelings..
Posted Saturday February 14 2015, 5:52 pm
First off, I am 14 & he is 16. We both met eachother on 1/15/14. We are going to make one year on February 19, 2015. But this year has been a real struggle for the both of us. In the beginning we loved each other like crazy. He knew i wasnt allowed to date though. My parents found out about us and forbid us to see eachother. I have really strict parents so i cant even hang out with friends. This struggle has caused us both to lose feelings. We still love/care each other so we havent broken up, but currently we are on a break. What do you think I should do ?
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What to Do For Valentine's Day When You and Boyfriend Are Broke
Posted Thursday February 12 2015, 11:11 pm
Does anyone have any ideas for what to do for Valentine's Day when you and your boyfriend (college students) are flat broke? I'm talkin' scraping change off the floorboard of your car broke. Is there anything we can do that doesn't cost money? Should we float Valentine's Day until we can afford to celebrate it well? Is there a way we can get some money (even just a little) fast?
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you & i
Posted Thursday February 12 2015, 9:15 pm
pardon the title, I couldn't think of anything better to title this.
so to make a long story short, my best friend's gone to another school and as happy as I am for her, I miss her so much already. Call it stupid but it's true. She was the one who got me through my worst moments, kept me stable, kept me smiling...she was the best of me. I know you're all going to be thinking "it's a part of life" but listen, try to see this from my perspective. She's the one who made me happy and as cliche as this sounds, she was the best part of me and I couldn't thank her enough for everything she's done for me. She never found out (or so I believe she never knew) how I really felt about her. I liked her at first glance and after ...
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Boyfriend Doesn't Regularly Call Me
Posted Thursday February 12 2015, 7:45 pm
I have a boyfriend of almost four years, who is basically everything that I want in a man. He is mannerly, polite, good in bed (he is the only man who I ever slept with, who was truly able to make me cum – out of three other sexual partners that I had), and loves me, as I love him.
He is the kind of guy, who not only drove all the way out of his way to pick my family for my cousin’s wedding, but helped my mom who was carrying around a cane at the time get around during my cousin’s wedding day. Not only that, but he stayed at my cousin’s wedding until he was told to go home, even though he was really sick.
It’s really little things like that, that tell me how much he loves me. The one time he bought m...
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unhappy with him
Posted Thursday February 12 2015, 3:17 am
I'm pissed as I can be. I'm wondering if I'm wrong.
I'm a woman in love with a guy. He says he loves me too. Blah blah.
Anyways he gets sexy photos from me and all. But his page is covered with photos of nearly naked women.
He recently followed on his Instagram a page of girls sending private selfies. He also follows porn stars and of course my Instagram is covered with these photos. I've confronted him about this and he tells me to stop being jealous because they are other beautiful women in the world and he can look all he wants. And I can't say or do anything... It pisses me off. I don't think that this right. Especially since we are talking about getting married.
Let me ask. Am I paranoid or is he just a lu...
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wrote a song...but i'm embarrassed about it
Posted Wednesday February 11 2015, 2:26 pm
so I've written a song (I know I know, it's cheesy as hell) for the person I like. Some people have told me that it's cute and all that I took the time to write a song for her even though it's in the style of Hey there Delilah with my lyrics. But they still think it's cute. But I feel really embarrassed because I'm not the type of person to be sentimental and express my emotions often. And every time I always think, "Hey, I'll sing it to her!" but I don't want her to think of me as sappy or sensitive cause I don't think I'm like that at all. suggestions?
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20 year old and 15 year old?
Posted Wednesday February 11 2015, 12:18 am
Hey, I'm 15 and a freshman . Well, this guy (he's 20 and he graduated already) have been friends since last summer and him and I are somewhat really close. He's a really sweet guy, he is a Christian and he's never had sex before. He's helped me through when I got dumped, rejected, bullied, depressed, and we've just always been real good friends and never fight. Well, since Valentine's Day is coming up we already made plans to hang with our single friends, and yesterday he asked me if I would go out with him, and I keep saying I'll think about it, but I just don't know how I should respond even though I feel the same way as him. Like, we discussed age gap we had and he said 5 years isn't that huge and I kind of agreed. If him and I go out, I...
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oral sex
Posted Tuesday February 10 2015, 6:48 am
Do I have a STD after I gave my new boyfriend a BJ and my throat is a little sore
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Aggressive Mother
Posted Monday February 9 2015, 6:26 pm
My boyfriend's mother has become aggressive towards me and has falsely accused me of being the reason as to why he has been missing school but he has not missed a day of school since his Birthday and she doesn't want me around anymore... But I've been the one to help her since she has such a busy work schedule, I have been providing him with rides to and from work, and to and from school when he has missed the bus... But she's been trying to accuse me of making power moves but in reality I've asked for her permission every time I go to get him and she had acted like it was perfectly fine but wants to turn around and act as if I'm trying to act as his mother, which is why she had sent me a nasty text message saying "I'm his mother, I sa...
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2 guys
Posted Sunday February 8 2015, 11:59 pm
ok so the thing is I have been talking to this boy name dyllon for ab 2 months now and he has had a girlfriend ever since but now I have a boyfriend but he broke up with his girlfriend because he felt that she didn't like him so he wants to date someone who likes him and now he wants to date me but I date a boy name austin, but I just recently started talking to him. me and the boy dyllon tell each other I love you all the time, but I just don't know what to do! but the thing is, the guy dylllon goes to a different school and me and Austin go to the same school. help me please😩?
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Paying for a web cam site and private vids. Cheating? Or just porn?
Posted Sunday February 8 2015, 9:46 pm
So my boyfriend of 7 years has been distant. I get the relationships have ups and downs. Things have been great lately. So as I was shredding old mail I happen to see 'Chatturbate' on last months bank statement. We have separate accounts so it was his money. Everyone watches porn, I'm okay with that. These webcam sites are different. It's direct interaction with people for sexual gratification. Needless to say I scanned the statement and found nearly $100 spent in a month for the site. Not small change since he doesn't make much money. I'm not proud but I did snoop a bit and found he had a skype account that I didn't know about. It was logged in so I skimmed the chat. He paid $40 for a for a private video from someone he met on Chaturbate. ...
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struggling on why I'm doubting my relationship
Posted Sunday February 8 2015, 3:56 pm
I've been with my boyfriend going on two years now and everything was fine until recently. I am just absolutely bored with him and am wondering if I am with the right person. Recently we had to move back in with my mom because I wrecked his car and we can't afford to live on our own now or buy a car. So we're trying to save up for one. Problem being with that, My mom and my boyfriend don't get along too well. She basically is lonely ever since her recent divorce with my stepdad and wants me to live with her it seems like forever. She Drives him and me to work and stuff. But we haven't gone out and done something fun together in a long time because since its mom's car she makes the rules about me and him going anywhere. We're always at the h...
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lack of trust
Posted Saturday February 7 2015, 5:51 pm
Hi there..am Female,23...
Well I had a serious relationship for a 4good years..n recently we broke up..till the end I have trusted him blindly n forgave him for his every mistakes as I loved him in worst n best..there were so many incidents that did shake my faith in him still I intentionally omitted them n behaved like a blind...i know I should not have trusted him so blindly..but I was scared of losing him..so anyhow at any cost I tried to keep him in the relationship..though I never got any evidence that he was cheating on me..but he did a lots of things that indicate he was upto some other girls...but just to keep the mental peace I sabotaged my way of thinking..within this four year duration we broke up for thousand times n ever...
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Stuck in an unhealthy cycle.
Posted Saturday February 7 2015, 4:33 am
Hello.
I'm a 22 year old female with a past of unhealthy and shakey relationships,lasting between 2 to 6 months.
However, in this case.. I have been on and off with the same person for around two years. For some of you out there, you may not find this all too impressive. But to me, it's something that has been really hard for me to fathom.
Our relationship started very quickly and passionately. We met in the mall through a mutual person and instantly hit it off. We could read each other's emotions pretty well (or so I thought), and I really fell for him fast. The thing that held us back the first time around was his drug usage.
After a few months of breaking up and getting back in ...
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I cheated on my wonderful, long distance boyfriend.
Posted Friday February 6 2015, 6:28 am
Hello,
My boyfriend and I are 17 and 18 years old. We started a long distance relationship a little over six months ago. Back then, I was still a virgin and he knew that. However, a few months ago I cheated on him and lost my virginity to a guy I honestly had no feelings for. I was completely aware of what I was doing and I did it because I really just wanted to get it over with. I made sure there were no feelings attached. Now, the guy still chases after me, but I want no business with him, or any other guy rather than my boyfriend. I love him to death and really have no trouble remaining faithful. I realized it wasn't worth it and he's truly the only guy I ever want to be with. However, I know that he'll want to break up with me an...
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Hooked up with my guy friend...help!
Posted Wednesday February 4 2015, 11:38 pm
19 female
So last weekend, I went to a party with some of my friends and basically ended up making out with one of my guy friends. I don't know how I feel about it...cause like there's kind of a story behind it and maybe even us, but then again it might just be me over reacting. First of all, I've hooked up with guys at parties before, but it's never been with someone I really know or am friends with, so I feel like that just complicates the situation even more.
Basically, last Friday this guy friend (lets call him John) came over to my apartment and invited me and my roommate to a party that he was going to. He came back to our place a little later with alcohol, but I told him before we even went out that I didn't want to ge...
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