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negative thoughts


Posted Monday September 21 2009, 4:44 pm

so i am recovering from anorexia. i had it for over a year and my parents caught it early..15/f...now that i am at a healthy weight, i always stare at myself and i feel like i am fat, not FAT but not thin either. sometimes i plan on not eating anymore again but i will try to keep it not noticable so my parents wont know, but i remember how i felt and i just felt even more depressed so i always back out of it and just eat normally. but i am afraid that i am going to go back to those bad habits. anorexia comes in slowly and once you have it you dont even know it. i was so surprised when i actually looked at the symptons and it all added up. so whenever i get upset i always say negative thoughts about me, i always say i hate myself, i am ugly,...

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ADHD med


Posted Saturday September 19 2009, 10:28 pm

I take 30mg of Vyvanse in the mornings before school on weekdays. It's supposed to last till 6-7 at night but it hardly lasts past 3. I know no one here's a doctor, but I'm sure there's someone who's had experience with this. If it's wearing off so fast does that mean I should go up on dosage? I wouldn't do anything without talking to the doctor first but I just want some advice before making a decision.

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I dont deserve to live


Posted Friday September 18 2009, 3:03 am

Please dont tell me other wise. I want so badly to be happy and live a long healthy life but honestly everything I have done in my life makes me so unworthy of life. I know I need help but I dont trust anyone with this problem. I go to doctors for help but theyre hopeless and take for ever, Im unabled to open up to absolutely anyone. I want it all to end so bad RIGHT NOW!!! I hate myself I hate my life. Im making everyone around me miserable.

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I just can't stop having sex


Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 6:35 pm

I just can't stop having sex. It's awful. I seem to wake up every morning with a new woman in my bed. Sometimes more then one. I always use a condom, but the thing that bothers me is I'm homosexual. Why can't I stop having mad sex with women?

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Dysthymia


Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 2:11 pm

how does one get diagnosed/evaluated for things like maybe dysthymia? what steps do i take? i don't know anything. thanks in advance.

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Reminders of emotional abuse


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 11:40 pm

My mother is a narcissist and used to abuse me emotionally and psychologically. I just came to college a few weeks ago hoping to heal somewhat from that by being in a different environment. However, my roommate has similar issues with her mom, and when she calls her on the phone I can hear a lot of their conversation. It brings back memories and makes me feel the feelings all over again and it is very uncomfortable. I don't know how to make myself feel better when instances like this arise.

When I found out that her family was like mine, I thought it might be nice because we could share our experiences. We did that once, and I didn't even say a lot. But I started panicking and my hands were shaking. I had to go to the ...

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Shizophrenia


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 11:14 pm

What are some symptoms of shizophrenia? Is it hereditary? If so, how likely is it for the offspring to get it?

My father has Scizophrenia and i was wondering what the symptoms and statistics are so i know if i need to worry about it and what i need to look for.

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Roommate- socially inept, awkward, abnormal??


Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 10:53 pm

My roommate is a good person overall- and a good roommate to have- but some aspects of his personality and behavior have stood out to be fairly abnormal, especially given his age (nearly 30). This is not to say that he is threatening to me in any way- to the contrary--he generally keeps his space, maintains friendly dialogue, etc. I would say he is socially awkward to a fairly abnormal degree. He pretty much acts below his age level and does not know how to deal with certain things as an adult would.

Some aspects of his behavior are of concern to me. He usually stays in his room for prolonged periods of time (listening to music, mostly)- even when he has nothing to do and the weather is nice. He reacts to certain situations a...

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is my memory normal?


Posted Sunday September 13 2009, 4:40 pm

I am 18 years old and I have the worst short term memory. I dont smoke weed or anything like that so my brain cells are not being damaged. Ever since I was younger, during a conversation I forget a word that I want to say. My vocabulary is horrible becasue ill know the word that I want to say but since I cant think of it at the moment I use a dumb word that barely makes sence. I forget things right after reading a sentance in a book. Sometimes when Im with a group of people I get discouraged to talk becasue I care about what they think or if they will make fun of the way I talk. People are witty and come up with interesting convos. I hear them having long lasting coonvos but mine are so short and I feel like its my fault. Do you think I men...

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How to stop being lesbian


Posted Sunday September 13 2009, 4:05 pm

I think that i might be a lesbian. I have had crushes on boys, I had a crush on a boy recently. but i still think i kind of like girls. Please dont tell me its ok to be lesbian because I know I would never EVER be happy with my self. Tell me how not be a lesbian any more! please please please!

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How can i stop being anorexic without telling my parents?


Posted Sunday September 13 2009, 11:09 am

(sorry i'm not sure if this is in the right subject but it seems about right) hi, i am 13 years old, i weigh 108 pounds and i am 5'8. about 4 months ago i weighed 153 pounds. everyday i force myself not to eat to a point where the hunger hurts so bad that i end up cutting my wrist just so i forget about the hunger pain. and whenever i do eat, its hardly anything and if i eat over about 400 calories or if i feel like i've eaten way too much i force myself to throw up (and i know that only bulimic people do that, but i dont binge like they do, only when i feel like i have eaten alot, and alot for me is like a pb & j sandwich). I really want to stop for me, and my friends all think that i am going to kill myself, i am so pale and weak and ...

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How do I get rid of my Freckles


Posted Saturday September 5 2009, 5:29 pm

Hi I am 18 and really hate my freckles I don't have alot of them but they still bug me I want to know natural ways to get rid of them I do not want to go out and buy something so please someone help me.

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natural antidepressants


Posted Friday September 4 2009, 8:32 pm

When I say the word "natural" I mean things that I can buy or do, but not prescription medication. I'm starting a new year at school and I'm already feeling depressed and anxious. I hate this feeling but I can't really talk to my parents about it. They keep saying it's a phase. I really need to feel better because I want to do better in school this year (and life in general). Are there any natural antidepressants that I can take?

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How to deal with feeling so depressed and miserable.


Posted Thursday September 3 2009, 3:19 pm

I have so many things going on in my head right now thats causing me to feel majorly depressed and miserable. Well, maybe its not a super major depression since I am able to function still and do things, but I do feel really miserable To make mattters worse the only friend I have is away for a long time so I can't talk to him about it or spend time with him to help me feel better and now I'm just sitting around at home all by myself. I find only lashing out at my parents or brother to be the only way to ease the pain but I can't do that it's wrong. I really don't want to see a counselor or therapist, not only do I not have easy access to these things, but I really don't want to tell my parents. I assure you, these are people who just won't ...

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Are you Bipolar?


Posted Thursday September 3 2009, 12:01 am

I'm just going to get to the point. I think I might be bipolar. I just would like to talk to someone who is bipolar. So if you have it and wouldnt mind talking to me please let me know. Thank you in advance.

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I think I'm a phycopath ...


Posted Wednesday September 2 2009, 5:15 pm

Okay, so the deffinition of physcopath is someone who doesn't have a conciouns (this is what my mom told me). So I think I am, because I don't feel bad about anything I do, period. I know right from wrong and all that, and I know what I should feel bad about and what not, I just don't. I'm in tharapy, but it's never very regular, I've been 2 times in like 3 months. Next time I go should I like mention this or something ?

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i can't do it anymore


Posted Wednesday September 2 2009, 4:08 pm

i graduated from a school that i absolutely hated! it was a total disaster for me, and i had to go to therapy afterwards because it had a lot of bad side effects in the long run. I was treated very badly by students and faculty alike, and I just don't want to remember it or be any part of it. i suffered from an eating disorder in which I am still in therapy for, partly because i felt so out of touch with my life, and like i had no control over anything in my life. i was very close, if not, already, depressed. they told me last year, in therapy, that they were going to help me get through the year, and that when i got to college, everything was going to be so much better, and i was going to feel like a free person. so, i figured that i would...

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kind of confused


Posted Tuesday September 1 2009, 1:28 pm

im a 16/f and i recently lost my virginity to an 18/m. we arent going out but he claims that were friends with benefits. he doesnt like me in that way and he doesnt want a relationship. we arent even friends, im kind of just his booty call. im also hooking up with a 16/m, but he likes me. i dont like him that much. each guy doesnt know that im hooking up with both of them, and the 18/m told me he really wouldnt care if i liked someone else but he said he would probobly care if i was doing stuff with other guys. why do you think he would care if he doesnt even like me? he said that he just would. but i want to know why.

and does this make me a slut..be honest.

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Lovesickness


Posted Monday August 31 2009, 6:21 pm

Is lovsickness healthy? Because I'm really tired of crying myself to sleep and thinking about HIM all the time. I mean, I think I'm suffering from unrequitted love. Help!

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Losing my mind


Posted Sunday August 30 2009, 5:34 pm

It's been like this for quite some time now. I feel lost, like I'm slipping away. I've been stressed with relationships, friendships, and school.And.. I feel so different with my boyfriend then before, and I'm not too sure why. I mean, I still care for him, but something has changed. And we got into this fight today, and it hasnt helped whatsoever. I've been in this big hole of depression. I don't know what to do. On top of this, I've had a really bad urge to hurt myself. I've already cut myself open with my nails. Any advice would be appreciated.

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