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Loveless marriage
Posted Monday March 23 2015, 1:18 pm
I had been married for 28 years. I have two grown-up kids. I leave with my husband under the same roof, but we are no husband and wife for almost 10 years. I never been happy in my marriage and when it comes to sex, I always went through the motions as it is my duty. My husband never satisfied me sexually.
I always been a woman that men liked and wanted to be regardless I was married. I never cheated on my husband.
Recently there are three men who are attracted to me (colleagues). One was asking me, if I’m still with my husband, second one was talking to me and making sexual comments during the party and asking if I’m married and the 3rd one is calling me his girlfriend, every time he sees me, he hugs and kiss). All these ...
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Still heartbroken...all over again
Posted Monday March 23 2015, 11:00 am
22/f
My ex and I broke up nearly a year ago. Before that, we were dating for 3 years and best friends for 2. I was insanely depressed when we broke up - I couldn't sleep for a month, slept too much for another, and hardly ate for 2 or 3 months. I didn't start feeling better for a really long time, and when I did, he came back into my life. He said he missed his best friend and still wanted us to stay in each other's lives.
In trying to be friends, one thing led to another and you could say we became friends with benefits. I was fine with that; I wasn't trying to get him back or anything. After a while though I realized I couldn't keep doing that. I still had (have) intense feelings for him. So we stopped.
I just found o...
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Where is this going in our "friendship"
Posted Sunday March 22 2015, 6:02 pm
Okay , so I'm starting off by saying that i met this girl exactly six months ago and we started off as friends and we got close like i know her life she knows mine and we just care about each other soo much and we don't let people break up our friendship and keep in mind were friends and we never did anything never kissed (etc) but recently on thursday we kissed for the first time and we were just hanging out and then we started making out and then at random times we stopped and then ill be on my phone texting my friends and then she moves my chin to her lips and we started making out again and then after of an hour of making out and messing around we was leaving so i put on my shoes and she was on the bed just sitting and i had to check th...
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stay or move on, making sense of it all
Posted Sunday March 22 2015, 3:13 pm
i have been with my current bf now for just over 3 years, like every relationship we have our ups and downs. He is six months younger then me (22) and he can be very immature and frustrating at time. I have recently been to a party with my friends and i saw this really cute bloke we got talking and flirted a little and exchanged numbers. Its save to safe to say i have a major crush on/fancy this guy, he is 36 and recently divorced with 2 kids. I have just round out that he related to my current bf through his parents marriage. To say that i am confused about it all is an understatement.....please help me make sense of all this
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Sexual life
Posted Saturday March 21 2015, 3:34 pm
I want to sex with my gf how to convince her?
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I had another dream about my boyfriend and this same guy the other night...
Posted Saturday March 21 2015, 11:31 am
So I was talking to my boyfriend in the dream, and he started talking to my friend from school on text. He was saying some shit to him, and my friend got really pissed. When I came back to school in the dream, he demanded me to break up with my boyfriend.
Then I went home, and I went in my backyard. There was a huge television screen. And the same guy that I've NEVER met or seen in my life had made a video. He was talking about how I have saved his life and gave him the happiness he hasn't experienced in so damn long.
What does this mean?
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Why?
Posted Friday March 20 2015, 10:00 pm
My boyfriend said he wanted to take a break because he knows himself and knows that he might hurt me. He says he isn't ready to be exclusive right now. He said he hella likes me, that he likes me too much to hurt me. He said he liked me too much and that's why he was doing this. He called me over the phone to tell me this but we agreed to talk about it in person soon. What does this mean? Is it just bs and he doesn't like me? He's cheated on his girlfriends in the past is he not the type to commit or just not to me? Is this the end? He said he didn't want to lose me forever and still wanted to be cool with me he said he was always here for me. Is this a breakup or just a break. He offered an open relationship. He said later on wed probably ...
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Wife's suspicious phone activity
Posted Friday March 20 2015, 1:39 pm
My wife and I have been married for 2 years. I have recently noticed 3 red flags and don't know how to approach the subject without accusing her of anything.
1) She has become very protective of her phone. She brings it everywhere (when she used to leave it everywhere), and even flips the screen away from me if it's sitting on the table. She is texting somebody (I know it's a much older coworker), and will angle the phone away from me so I can't see anything.
2) She turned off "Find my Friends." We used it moreso so I don't text her "where are you" if I can see she's on her way home from work.
3) She's been having ever-frequent work happy hours. She used to have about 1 per mo...
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How long does it take for the lube in a trojan condom wrapper to dry?
Posted Thursday March 19 2015, 8:11 pm
My boyfriend who is 22, had a different girlfriend about a month ago. I'm 20. I found a condom wrapper in his closet. The lube was still slippery, and I confronted him about it. He said that it was from when he was still with his Ex-girlfriend from a month ago. How long does it take for lube in a Trojan condom wrapper to dry? Is it possible that those specific Trojan condoms can take a month to dry up?
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My boyfriend or ex boyfriend wants to start all over?
Posted Thursday March 19 2015, 1:45 pm
A guy I have been with on and off for a year told me that he wants to start all over in our relationship like when we were just talking and getting to know each other. and get back to the basics like with no drama, hostility etc and rekindle our romance. He informed me that he was not ready for a relationship right now due to him being busy in a fraternity, the fact that we are in different colleges, and he thinks we need to fix ourselves before we can be 100% together. Both of us have been wicked stressed with things and I think that has been causing a strain on our relationship. He said that he would like to keep in contact regularly and see where things retake us and he believes it is our best shot at fixing things. He told me to not wo...
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Should I leave him?
Posted Tuesday March 17 2015, 12:52 pm
I've been in a relationship with a guy for 2 months; known him for 2 years as a close friend. He's done a lot for me and generally has a good heart. I can tell he really likes me and we get along great together. I get along with all of his friends and he does with mine. I thought everything was going great but I found out some news from his best friends girl. He told me not to trust her because she was a friend of his ex and that she was crazy etc. We ended up talking and she told me everything. She isn't friends with his ex anymore because of a falling out and she let me know that he was talking to other women. She said she didn't even know we were exclusive (even though he introduces me as his girlfriend to everyone he knows) She also t...
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on the pill and use comdoms
Posted Tuesday March 17 2015, 12:28 pm
I'm 16. I have had sex but I'm on the pill and we used a condom and it didn't split. I'm on my break days and should of came on by now but haven't. Why not?
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Possible Boyfriend
Posted Tuesday March 17 2015, 12:17 pm
Hey! I am a 16 year old girl who is having some difficulty with relationships. I am currently talking to a 15 year old boy (the age difference isn't an issue for me) but he seems to like taking things fast. I feel entirely comfortable with him and I have no problem talking to him about most things but I'm afraid he'll use me for sex and then take off. I don't want to stereotype every high school boy by saying they only want sex but I'm afraid of getting myself into that situation when I'm not ready for it. I'm not looking for a commitment that leads to marriage but I also don't want to play games. I really like this guy and don't want to lose him but I also don't want to do anything I'm uncomfortable with. Any advice is appreciated greatly!
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I've only known him 6 days
Posted Tuesday March 17 2015, 11:30 am
This will be very long sorry, I just need to understand....
Okay, so I'm 16 from the USA. I'm a very shy home schooled church girl and I'd never really talked to a guy let alone dated or did anything with one.
One day my one friend(we're super close we basically consider each other family) and her boyfriend went mud bogging one day and I tagged along. They went with a bunch of his friends that I didn't know and most of them were of course guys.
After that when I went home my friend(let's call her Meg) messaged me and said that one of the guys there was going to snapchat me and to look cute and be nice.[this happened on Wednesday]
So I did talk to him, and I liked him a bit so the ...
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Why can't he develop feelings for me?
Posted Monday March 16 2015, 10:31 pm
About a year ago I met the most amazing guy. We clicked immediately, and he asked me out. We dated for several months, but broke up when he had to change states for his job. We considered doing long distance, but ultimately decided against it (I could tell he didn't really want to).
We remained friends - with benefits. We've been visiting each other every few months or so. We discussed getting back together if we ever found ourselves in the same city. Then, he mentioned that although he had strong feelings for me, he didn't know if he could ever love me, and didn't want to break my heart again. He eventually confessed that he never had feelings for me; which makes very little sense to me because he really seemed like he did l...
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Crushing on my friends crush
Posted Sunday March 15 2015, 6:15 pm
My friend told me she liked this guy. Me and her crush started talking a little, and I started to like him. I always thought he was attractive even before she liked him, I just thought he had a crappy personality until I talked to him. Should I tell my friend or should I keep it to myself beacause he probably doesn't like me anyway?
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What are you upto
Posted Sunday March 15 2015, 2:37 am
I have known this guy for 3 months now.We started with friendship. He has been dating for a while. I have been single recently so have not really dated. He looks very easu going. Earlier he was so much interested - msgd daily till we kissed and got intimate.Its been a week - I believe in equal relationship so I really did nt care who is asking whom. Earlier he used to ask ...now I stared asking. I asked him once - his reply was already plans to night...next day he has some plans so he said how about weekend. I did nt reply. Friday he went to city and next noon msgs me what are you upto. EVening he asked the same questions. What does he mean? After all this, I dnt even see him as a friend...because I feel its all when he is available he asks...
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Need boyfriend
Posted Saturday March 14 2015, 3:16 pm
I'm a sixteen year old female and have never been on a date in my life. My parents keep me in home most the time and I don't really have the chance to socialize much. My best friend has had sex and so has her sister, and it makes me feel weird because I've never even had a boyfriend before. My dad is strict about who I date, so I'm worried whether or not I'll ever be able to have one. I've thought about going to a teen dating site to try to find someone, but my dad would blow the roof If he found out. He doesn't even like the idea of Facebook, but online dating may be my only hope. Please give me advice. Preferably from teens please
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Depressed girlfriend clarification
Posted Saturday March 14 2015, 12:27 pm
So for those of you who replied to my question about my depressed girlfriend, I realized when I saw your answers that I definitely hadn't given enough information. I'm not stupid, I am not trying to take care of her all on my own. In fact I have straight up told her that "this is hard on me and I cannot do this alone. We're going to find additional help for you" and we did. Trust me, I am very aware that she needs a series of professionals to help her out, and so is she. She has been seeing therapists and psychiatrists and counselors for years, and I'm pretty sure she's been on every type and every dosage of medication for her illness that there is. She does not encourage me to ditch school at all, in fact she was mad about it whe...
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Am I overreacting?
Posted Saturday March 14 2015, 12:58 am
I've known this guy for 3 years now, we were friends first and now we're dating. We've always liked each other and always had a spark. Problem is he has a baby mama. He has a 5 year old child with her and sees the kid once a week. He told her about me and everyone he knows, knows that I'm his girlfriend. Here's what I don't like: He usually sees the child with the baby mama. Like they'll both go to the arcade or both go out with the kid. This bothers me, am I wrong for feeling this way? I'm having suspicions he might be cheating although he hasn't done anything to make me feel this way and I have trust issues from previous relationships. What should I do?
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