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Curiousity about kissing?


Posted Monday April 6 2015, 6:47 pm

Okay so I'm 14/f and recently found out I was bisexual. All the people I have come out to have supported me and I'm thankful. I haven't had my first... gay kiss if thats what you want to call it but I can't find the right girl to have it with. I am really curious though! Any advice?

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i may have had sex with a young girl


Posted Monday April 6 2015, 4:47 pm

I woke up Saturday morning after a night of drinking with a friend and i blacked out. and when i woke up i was in my friend's daughter's bed and my friends 11 year old daughter was sleeping right next to me completely naked. and I was too. i knew that she had a crush on me because her dad said that he read it in her diary but i never knew it would go this far. and here is the ****** part about it I'm 25 year old guy so i don't even know what too do i was able too wake her up and we were able to get dressed before her dad woke up and other than me taking the virginity of my best friends daughter i didn't wear a condom so she may get pregnant and I'm that case i guess I'm completely ******. i feel like a complete asshole knowing that i did th...

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How can you tell if your fiance has lost interest in you?


Posted Monday April 6 2015, 6:57 am

How can I tell if my fiance has lost interest in me? How can I show him that I am sexy? How can I get him to love me again? Is everything my fault? I am a 32 year old woman engaged to an older black man

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age difference


Posted Sunday April 5 2015, 10:13 pm

I was wondering.. Is it ok for a 22 year old male to date a 17 year old girl as long as both are alright with it and everything is concentual?

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Breakup/Parental disapproval


Posted Saturday April 4 2015, 10:52 pm

I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months a few days ago. I initiated it and thought I was able to get through it fine since I believe that I've never actually loved him as much as he loved me.

When I broke it to him on a Friday, he did not want to accept it and so I ignored him. I texted him on Saturday morning, urging him to say yes and agree to it since I'm hoping to find my closure too. He called me and we talked over the phone and I said very hurtful things to him. I told him about the two guys who tried to hit on me while we were still together and I admitted that I played along with them and did not make it a point to them that I was attached. (I still feel very bad about it but it was the period of time when we q...

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Heartbroken


Posted Saturday April 4 2015, 10:46 pm

My boyfriend of almost 2 years, would've been two on April 11th, broke up with me about a week and a half ago. He said that he still loves me and cares about me and wants to be with me but he said he needs time to think about his feelings. He said that he has been feeling unhappy for the past couple of months and he feels like he isn't 100% into our relationship as I am and he says that it isn't fair to me. We still talk about every day and we have seen each twice since the break up and we end up having sex when we do see each other. I'm completely confused and heartbroken about the whole thing because he says he loves me but yet he is putting me through all of this pain and he said he is doing it to make "us" work. He said it is ...

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confused about what to do


Posted Wednesday April 1 2015, 5:09 pm

I made out with this guy who happens to be my crush, we are not going out tho( dating) I just found out recently that he is going out with so many other girls in my class and that's how he started with them so I guess I am the next victim what do I do? After we made out I realised I didn't like him after all tho and now he is all over me as if he likes me just pretence. (18. female)

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I'm in love with a girl that wants to wait for marriage but I'm a sex addic


Posted Wednesday April 1 2015, 4:29 pm

I'm a 21 year old male from South Africa. About a year ago I met an amazing girl, and after months of trying I finaly got into a relationship with her, we've been dating for 9 months now and I get a feeling inside me that says things will work out between us and that she's the one. We have a lot of problems in our relationship, the biggest problem we have is our age difference, we are 4 years apart, her parents don't know anything about our relationship and if they do then they'll keep us apart. But the other problem is that I'm actually addicted to sex and she wants to wait for marriage since she's a virgin. I've learned that sex doesn't make a relationship and at most times actually ruins it. I really don't want to lose this girl, I've tr...

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Huge crush


Posted Wednesday April 1 2015, 8:16 am

I have a HUGE crush on this guy at my school. He asked out my best friend and he asked her out twice. I really want him to ask me out instead even though she is my besty. what should I do? Thanks for your help!

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spending too much time with my boyfriend


Posted Tuesday March 31 2015, 12:52 pm

hi! im 19 years of age and i am a girl.I truly love my boyfriend more than anything else in this world.i love spending time with him.i spend most of my time everyday with him.we are always together.is it healthy to spend too much time with your boyfriend making love and etc? should I give him some space?

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DOES HE LIKE ME??


Posted Tuesday March 31 2015, 2:18 am

Yes, quite the immature act to say you're in love at 15. He's graduating highschool next year. I'm starting college next year. (Were both Mormons)

Lets call him "N"

We met at a horse ranch in 2011. N was 14 I was 12. When the instructor said to a different kid "Do you know her (as he pointed to me) name?" He stood there frozen. While "N" jumped up and down in excitement and said, "Oh I do!!"

Next year, we gathered at a chili cook off. I straightened my hair to look good. "N" noticed. "How did you get your hair to look longer? Like, I know you can make it prettier, but how did you make it longer."

That same year, I got emb...

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should I leave my boyfriend for his actions?


Posted Monday March 30 2015, 2:00 am

So me and my bf have been dating for 3 years. In the beginning it was all good . you know fun . but there comes a time we're you gatta be serious like work or school he doesn't do any of that all he does is smoke weed and sometime drink most of the weekend also hang out . I tell him to go to school or start working .he said he will but I don't see any of that happening just the same thing. No progress.. I feel like he won't change I want a better life for him . we talk about moving together finding a place starting a family but feel like that will never happen. I love him but I don't know what to do . HELP

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He doesn't message first anymore.


Posted Sunday March 29 2015, 3:29 pm

I told my friend I liked him and although he said he didn't like me as a crush, we agreed to still be friends. It's been about three months now and I want to get over him. Therefore I don't message him first anymore now but do respond and talk when he does. He used to message me first but for the last week he doesn't and at school even it seems like we don't talk much anymore. Even though I know I want to get over him, it is kinda heartbreaking when he doesn't message now. Should I message first? Why does it seem like he is kind of avoiding me? How can I get over him as a crush but still have him as a friend? I'm a 11th grade girl if that helps.

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Boyfriend and admitting to past behaviors


Posted Sunday March 29 2015, 2:39 pm

My boyfriend and I have been on and off but lately things have been well for us and I couldn't be ever more thankful that we have stopped arguing and tried to get to some common ground. Although, deep down, I can feel another fight coming, though I definitely don't want it to happen. The last time we talked to each other about our feelings and confronted each other on our problems, he told me something that just resonated and wouldn't leave my mind. When we first started becoming serious, and even when I was for sure serious about him, I remember that there was time where on social media, he would try to follow almost every girl he knew and would constantly like their pictures. I knew through people telling me and things I saw for myself. ...

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How to transition


Posted Friday March 27 2015, 6:53 am

My girlfriend wants me to finger her, but I don't know how to transition from kissing to start touching her.

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Boyfriend, snapchat, and ex-girlfriend


Posted Thursday March 26 2015, 7:38 pm

22/f, 28/m

My boyfriend has proven himself disloyal and dishonest. We have been trying to rebuild trust and have been trying to make things work.

He has fixed what he has done wrong before: he got deleted his dating apps/websites, removed random girls he has randomly added in the past, etc. And he has been giving me a lot of reassurance telling me that he's all mine, he's not seeing, dating, or talking to anyone else, he only wants me, and for the past two months he has not done anything that I would not approve of.

For those who doesn't know what snapchat is: I don't have it, but from what I have heard. It's where people can follow you and when that person is being followed posts a picture, it c...

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My gf hates my boss, who was once her best friend. I'm in the middle!


Posted Wednesday March 25 2015, 2:43 pm

I'm a 45yo F. I met a new group of friends last year, and was immediately attracted to "Tee" (40yo F). Tee's best friend, "Vee", had hit on me the year before, but I wasn't interested, at all. Vee is, however, a business owner in my field. When I started dating Tee, Vee offered me a job to keep me in town (I was planning a move). It turned out to be a great job, and I'm learning a lot and making good money. At first Tee was good with it, but her jealousy has gradually gotten to the point where she hates Vee. Vee and I have NEVER done anything... the paranoia is ALL in Tee's head, but it's making my life miserable. I've offered to quit, but she knows I love the job. At this point, I don't even want to be in a relationship...

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Does he like me? How can I tell?


Posted Wednesday March 25 2015, 2:19 pm

Me and my sister went to meet a man and we each gave the man a hug during the greeting. I noticed that as I was hugging the man, the backs of our hands brushed against each other. I found this rather odd.

We then took pictures with the man one by one. I then noticed that as I was having my picture taken with him, he had the palm of his right hand on my right upper arm with a huge smile on his face. He did not do this when he was taking pictures with the others.

What could it mean?

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GETTING BACK ..CANT MOVE ON


Posted Wednesday March 25 2015, 11:37 am

OK Firstly i would like to apologize for the length of this. To begin with i am 15 yrs of age and i have realized that since i was 14 years i had been attracted to older guys. i mean older guys like 3 years older and more. i am really embarrassed by that fact but i this just me.
so i dated this guy who is 23 years .he was perfect mature enough and never made me do anything i didnt want to do.he was really sweet and he took my age into consideration.He was never rude to me and was quite honest.the problem was that my mum knew about him. she thought we just spoke and were friends. so i decided to break up with me and i regret it dearly. i want him back although he said we are not meant to be.i have tried dating other guys but i dont ha...

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male, male female threesome


Posted Monday March 23 2015, 7:55 pm

can you seriously date a girl who said they had a mmf three some in the past?

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