|
Viewing QuestionsMental health
Mental illness and everyday mental health issues Ask your question here.
Just...depressed and alone.
Posted Thursday November 19 2009, 2:08 pm
Hi, sooo. I've been feeling really down lately. Very, very down.
Background story --
i went to three different high schools, and never really kept in touch with people, and graduated with zero friends. i went to a new high school my senior year, and for lunch everyday I either went to the library by myself, or hid in the bathroom. I don't know what's wrong with me but I just like to be by myself. I'm introverted. Quiet, observant, and socially awkward. I participated in some after school activities like drama club so some people know me from that because I used to talk there, but in general I graduated with zero friends, and not even a lot of acquaintances. I guess you could say I was a loner for two years. ...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
Losing hope
Posted Wednesday November 18 2009, 1:32 am
19/f Lately I feel like a total and utter loser. I'm nineteen years old, no license, no job, no car, and I'm not in college. I graduated over six months ago, and still have nothing. I feel like no one really cares. My grandparents keep telling me I need to join the military, and my parents keep reassuring me everything will be fine. I'm starting to think they don't know anything about me. All I do is sit around my house, reed books, see my boyfriend, watch movies, and play on the computer. I'm in over my head worried about health insurance, a place to live, etc. I've been trying to get my license but every time I take it I get nervous and I've already taken it 3 time. I know. Pathetic, right? My boyfriend has been driving with me, but my pa...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
Im a slut! :'(
Posted Tuesday November 17 2009, 9:07 pm
I am a slut. There is no denying it really. I am 18 years old and I have slept with five guys! The subject came up at a friend's party and out of 17 girls I had slept with the most guys. I just burst into tears and cried!
I used to believe the "everybody is doing it" thing but now I found out that all the girls around me were SAYING they did things to seem cool and I went and did them so I didn't feel left out or like I was missing out on something good. So now I am a slut to everyone I know. I so wish I hadn't been the first one to answer how many I had slept with.
So now I feel like no guy will ever want me again. No good guy that is. I mean I would never date a guy who slept with more ...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (6) ]
Overwhelmed!
Posted Monday November 16 2009, 4:44 pm
22/F
I've struggled with depression and anxiety in the past, and thought I was over all of it. Went back to school, things were going well. I'm not on medication or seeing anyone right now, since my psychiatrist dumped me due to being overloaded, and my medication was zombifying me.
I got swine flu and was away from school sick for a week, plus I didn't really recover until another week after that. I've been slipping behind in schoolwork, which is depressing me, which is making me slip more.
Basically, I'm feeling overwhelmed. I'm behind in everything; I have 3 labs and an assignment overdue in one class, another 2 in another class, an essay in another class.
I feel like my lif...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
Talking to Myself..Help please
Posted Monday November 16 2009, 3:03 am
okay well for a few years now i have talked to myself..everytime i go in my room ill just blab about what happened that day or make up my own story, i imagine people are there and that for some odd reason i belong to a differnt family ( I Know i sound stupid) Well ill listen to my ipod n jt blab about whatever sometimes while im just sittin on my bed with my laptop ill do it there n actually talk back to myself and picture them there well im 17 now and i reaslized i shouldnt be doin this..when i get caught im soo embarrassed i just wanna die and never speak to anyone again..Please tell me whats wrong with me so i can see a doctor asap thanks=)
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
icodin
Posted Saturday November 14 2009, 9:43 pm
What are the perks of abusing Vicodin? I dont understand why people abuse it... Please let me in on the secret?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (6) ]
rape
Posted Friday November 13 2009, 6:08 pm
Okay so a year and a half ago I was raped by someone I have known since I was 9 I am now 20. Anyways when people start talking about rape or say rapist or anything sometimes the subject doesnt even have to come up, I start thinking about it and then get in this horrible depression. I am also diagnosed with bi-polar and attending college so it gets really stressful, to the point where I start feeling sucidal and thats not normal. I can't afford my medication i have talked to many counselours but this rape thing really bugs me sometimes, I thought I would be over it by now? Whats going on?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
Abandonment Issues!!!!
Posted Friday November 13 2009, 2:36 am
16/f
When I become hurt, it’s usually caused by the feeling that someone is leaving or abandoning me. It’s much like those feelings that come to you your first time lost in a store as a child. Those gut wrenching feelings that indicate to you that you’re alone and have nowhere to go. It’s this feeling, the feeling you feel when you’ve lost all hope and are left hopeless and defenseless, that overwhelms me. I become mute and regress back into a child; a child that can no longer decide for themselves and one which searchers eagerly for some sort of substance to rely upon.
It’s times like this where I make the wrong choices. I become so focused on finding some sort of release that I make rash decisio...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
Pregnant People
Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 11:00 am
16/f
My friend is having an abortion today, and although I don't support her decision completely, I am here for her completely.
On the other hand, I just found out my mother is pregnant with twins, she already has three kids. We can't afford two more children, and by we can't afford it I mean, we can barely get through now. (We barely have a place to stay.) I had to confront my mom about her pregnancy and she told me about it, one baby has died, and the other is really unhealthy. My mom and I aren't really close because of her boyfriend and I've been kind of mean to her before I found out about her pregnancy, and now I feel bad.
Can any one give me some tips on how to help them through these ro...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
Can girls feel guilty after having sex ?
Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 1:32 am
Is it just me or do other girls feel guilty after sex? I feel really dirty and awful and sometimes I cry when I am alone later. Nobody is forcing me to have sex... I am the one going after the sex but when it is done i hate myself so much! Can girls feel guilty after having sex or am I the only one this ever happens to?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
do i actually hate myself?
Posted Tuesday November 10 2009, 5:47 pm
I think i am depressed. I am 16/f. I am 5/7" and weight like 215. I look at everyone else, and think about how pretty they are, and how I am not.
I am embarresed alot. I hate talking to others. I don't like anything about myself. My friends are all changing! I will never change...
I have the best family and home. ANd I can't be happy like everyone else. For some reason. URG>> i know people who live in foster home, to foster home. No money no one at home
how can i be healthy and happy and my friends stilll wanna be my friends whats happeneing?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
porn obsession?
Posted Monday November 9 2009, 12:36 am
I hate to admit this but I am obsessed with porn. I mean really obsessed.
I feel like it is taking over my life completely. I can't wait to be alone so I can get on-line and find new stuff to look at.
I hate it.
Is there a way to break this porn obsession?
Thank you if you can help me!
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
What to do with myself...
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 8:30 pm
I'm 16 years old and I'm just not happy.
I've never had a boyfriend and every guy that I've "talked" to ends up screwing me over,or hurting me badly. Lately,my family has no money ..to the point where we can barely have toilet paper or food or anything and we only have one car,which is falling apart and is old and doesn't even have legal tags so that affects my happiness. Along with the fact that my grades were usually very high and now they are slipping. All of my friends that I'm surrounded by have gorgeous houses,nice cars,boyfriends,perfect grades,perfect skin,all of that stuff and it just seems as though I have nothing.I had aspirations to go to a good college because my grades would allow me too but now we may not hav...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
How to deal with my Neurotic Self
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 5:27 am
i\'m living a typical un-accomplished life. im a guy, 22, fit and goodlookin, got a gf and a car, college drop-out, ill be fine though cuz im studyin another course soon.... but im neurotic.
how do i deal with it? whats the best modern way to face this ? its genetic im sure, my brother has it so does my dad. and im pretty sure this is what killed my dads relationship with his women. (also its funny to note that my bro, dad, and me cant be in one room together go figure)
i have my gf, i love her, she\'s spoiled with me and she loves me but because of that i do not want to stress her out just cuz i\'m stressed out. and oh my guy friends can go eat poop, no help there. it\'s my own self who needs self control.
...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
impulsive liar?
Posted Saturday November 7 2009, 3:54 pm
I feel like i am an impulsive liar..... i sometimes lie for no reason at all. I lie when it would be easier to tell the truth and when if i tell the truth nothing bad is going to happen to me. it is just like i have to make everything different than it is. someone told me this was called "impulsive lieing" but i can't find anything on the internet about that? is it called something else?
am I the only one who does this? :( I don't want to but i don't know how to stop.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
im addicted to masterbating!
Posted Saturday November 7 2009, 3:47 pm
ok so i said it..... i am addicted to masterbating! how do i break this addiction? I do it all the time and i look forward to it so much that it seems like it it taking over my life.
please help! Help me find a way to stop masterbating so much or stop completely! Please?
if anyone can help me I thank you then!
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
schizophrenia - 17/f
Posted Saturday November 7 2009, 10:42 am
My nana was a schizophrenic and recently passed away. She developed symptoms of it when she was married, which lead to her divorce from my grandfather. Schizophrenia is genetic and my family was scared that my sister was showing signs of having it. She was diagnosed as having an anxiety disorder at age 6 and with proper medication, she's doing fine now (she's 9). Sometimes I get scared that I'm showing signs of having schizophrenia and if not that then some other sort of disorder. I have a horrible anger problem that my family has threated to send me to counselling for, I have been getting panic attacks more often and I've been secretly dealing with bulimia. The reason why I think I may be showing signs of schizophrenia is because before I ...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
How do I lighten up?
Posted Saturday November 7 2009, 10:35 am
I'm starting to get annoying to hang out with. I've become dramatic, emotional, and a blabber mouth. I can't keep my problems to myself, I'm so sensitive to everything people say even when they're joking, and I'm not as fun to be around anymore.
Any tips to loosen up and actually be fun to hang around again?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
What is wrong with me????
Posted Friday November 6 2009, 11:37 am
what is wrong with me? I don't feel like being around anyone at all. It's a friday night and I want to lay down and watch a movie by myself. My friend said she doesnt want to go out wither and drink like usual so instead we planned on making dinner and renting a movie. I dont even feel like being around her even though the idea sounds nice. It's not her it's me I dont feel like socializing lately. When i'm in a social environment I smile but dont know what to say and I get anxious to want to leave. I use to known as a social butterfly but now I want to be left alone. When I am alone sometimes im content becasue I dont have to make an effort to communicate with anyone. Other times I cry because I dont know whats wrong with me.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
I am a slut...how do I stop being a slut? How can I not be slutty?
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 11:31 pm
I am a slut. I will admit it. I've had sex with about 20 or so boys from my high school and I don't even know how many I've given head to. I'd had sex in the bathrooms, in the janitor's closet, and behind the school. I've skipped class to do this too. I'm really ashamed of myself and the way I dress on a day to day basis. I feel like I'm growing up and I don't want to be that type of person any more. None of the guys at school have respect for me. The girls hate me because I've slept with a lot of their boyfriends. Basically I can't get a good boyfriend who is really interested in ME because he knows we will have sex and I can't have a best friend because the girls think I'm going to steal their boyfriends or something (I don't bla...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (7) ]
|