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Revenge: I'm beyond playing nice with this #$%^, I want revenge.
Posted Tuesday February 12 2013, 4:53 pm
Long story short, my girlfriends brother doesn't like me. I don't like football, I like other things, like reading books, taking a walk, drawing...
He has taken it onto himself to dish out my girlfriends number to his drunken friends, who has for the last week or two called her pretty late at night.
He has been asked to stop his crap, but he goes on. I'm not going to beat him up, he is twice my size, he does plays football and I draw pictures. I did think of accidentally shooting him at a rifle range... but that's too drastic and I've watched CSI.
I'm beyond playing nice with this #$%^, I want revenge.
I have already considered posting his girlfriend in the classified adds, or post...
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walmart management mis treatment
Posted Tuesday February 5 2013, 10:59 pm
i work at walmart store number 2405 .my son comes to pick me up so i dont walk home alone.He came on 2/5 2013 to walk me home and was yelled at by assistant manager brian.He was in a relationship with one of the employees there.They are no longer together and she has sent me death messages stating she hopes my son dies.we he came tonite brian yelled at him and told him to leave he was causing trouble.he said it happened yesterday also and he was not even around.He than told me if my son continued to come and cause trouble i would be fired.I would like something to be done.he had no reason to yell at me so everyone would hear him.i am no longer happy working at walmart.i have proof that the threats were against my son and i want to go to the...
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Rape: I was raped 33 hours ago, is it too late to file charges aganist him?
Posted Monday February 4 2013, 9:37 pm
Hello, I don't know how to start this out, but here goes, I was raped 33 hours ago, is it too late to file charges aganist him? It's an old boy friend. of mine.
He's a stalker, I'm sure that won't make any difference. We broke up 3 months ago, on my 50th birthday.He got me to his house, I trusted him, I thought we were going to just be friends, and put the past behind us,.
When he pushed me in his bedroom and locked the door, I kept saying please please please don't do this to me. You can't talk to me the way you are, and you can't keep my aganist my will. He said I'm going to have sex with you all night long and there is nothing you can do about it.
He tied me up and heald me againist my will. He hid ...
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In intimate relationship with Older man who sends mixed messages confused.
Posted Sunday February 3 2013, 4:01 pm
Hi I have been romantically involved with a man much older than me for 6 months now and have decided to leave him and move back home with my parents. I can recognize that I am doing this/ testing him to see if he really loves me- he will ask me to stay with him. He always sends me mixed messages telling me he loves me and then calling me a bitch/ verbally abusing me. I can't tell if he cares about me because he is an erratic unpredictable man. I am addicted to being with him and am codependent on him. I don't know what to do help???
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My Friend is Keeping it Quiet
Posted Monday January 28 2013, 9:21 pm
I am 14/f. My best friend ( we will call her Jane) is being abused at home. We have told the counselors about it and i went with her for support. The woman who is abusing her is her dads girlfriend of 6 years who is still married to her ex husband. She is the one who is abusing her. She leaves deep nail marks that draw blood all over Jane's arms and neck> SHe drags her around the house by her hair and throws her around. It has made her head bleed. After we talked to the counselor, Jane was deathly afraid to go home. She was scared that her dad's gf would find out that she told. Long story short, she went home to a house full of enraged adults. Her parents called her a little sh** and carried her off the ground by her hair. She went up to...
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I can't stop him from taking pictures of me and snding them!
Posted Monday January 28 2013, 6:33 pm
I'm 19and I have a 20 year old boyfriend and all he wants to do is haw sex with me. I dont want to have sex with him but he sometimes put's his hand on my thigh and starts touching me and he grabs my hand and puts it on his dick which I don't mind but it is when he sends naked pictures of me to his mates and they all want a bit I love him but I don't want him to take anymore pictures but I can't stop him.
Sort of dont know what to do!
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Advice, please. I am pregnant and he wants to end the relationship.
Posted Sunday January 27 2013, 12:04 am
I am 3 months pregnant. I live with my boyfriend. He pays the rent since I don't have a job. We are BOTH on the lease, though, and I have contributed in the past when I had an income. I am 21 and he is 26. Today he said to me "You can't live here anymore. I am not your family and I am not your father." (Meaning, he thinks since he has been paying the rent by himself recently, it gives him the right to tell me to move out.) I know he has been talking to other girls online, at his workplace, and at bars. (They are in his phone text conversations and emails.) I don't know if he has cheated on me, but I do know he is pursuing other women. He has not told his parents I am pregnant and told me he has no intention of raising a baby with ...
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I need friends
Posted Friday January 18 2013, 11:56 pm
I want to be your friend email me 16cdarr@nuview.k12.ca.us
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my friends secret: her brother is abusing her
Posted Wednesday January 9 2013, 4:30 pm
I'm 10 and my friend is 9 and her dad abuses her and I think her brother also or he did abuse her brother because he's 20 now well he touches her and stuff and he forces her to have sex and he put glass up her "down there" and she told me but she told me I can't tell anyone but she tells me everyday now stories and its sad and I'm scared for her. Her brother protected her but now no one knows where he is please help me
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Controlling Obsessive Boyfriend
Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 11:40 pm
I am an 18 year old girl from Texas. I met this guy on a dating site and we started having phone conversations every night for 3-6 hours. After the second call we decided we were together. I thought I had fallen for him, but he's in for a much more serious relationship than I am. He wants to get engaged when we graduate high school in six months and get married six months after. He wants to go to the same college and live together. Every time I tell him I want to break up he talks me out of it. He's done really bad things related to drugs and crime and I am afraid he will do something to me. I am a good girl. I have a 4.0 GPA, I'm in varsity orchestra, varsity lacrosse, cross country, I work and I'm working on going to A&M. I've never a...
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my boyfriend beats me up
Posted Thursday January 3 2013, 6:19 pm
Hi I'm 22 and I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months at the begining he was soo nice to me,apart from that I was pregnant with another man baby but my recent boyfriend didn't mind!he told him mum that the baby I'm havin its his!after I gave birth I moved to his mothers house its a nightmare I hate this place so much!!she's so controling and wants to know evrything,and evrytime me and my boyfriend argue he uses the baby agains me and scares me that he will tell his mum its not his.he has he's own place and I go see him once in a while he became soo abusive he shouts at me over litle things and hits me las time he kicked me in my knee and I coudnt walk he have me black eye,and I got bruises all over my body!!I love him soo much but ...
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My boyfriend is emotionally and verbally abusive.
Posted Thursday January 3 2013, 2:50 pm
I've been with the same guy for almost five years and we share a four month old together. This relationship has definitely not been the best in the begining it well and then after 2 years I found out he was cheating on me with many girls. I tried to break it off but it was really hard and I couldn't go a day without thinking about him. We tried many many times to make things better and so they seemed good for awhile it just went strait back to bad. When he gets mad he screams at me and calls me every name in the book. He is also horrible with money I'm always loaning him money and then when he gets paid I tell him what he owes me and he calls me a liar and starts a huge fight and its like this on a regular basis there's days were he will co...
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What should I do after being raped?
Posted Wednesday January 2 2013, 12:38 pm
Im 13 and im suffering from rape since i was 9.I was bullied,raped,molested and threatened.I cried,cried and cried but no one hears my voice.I want to be like other children but i am not.I am a bad and dirty girl.I want to end my life and i will and i deserve it.Yesterday I was again raped.Is this why,I came in the world so that people use me like a disposiable toy.
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Physically abusive brother with bad temper
Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 3:22 pm
My brother and I don't always get along, but when we do, we're good friends. As siblings will do, we pick on each other all the time. I usually laugh his comments off, they don't bother me, but if I say anything to him, he flies into a rage, and starts attacking me. And occasionally he may have no reason to attack me, but he does anyway. When we were younger it was okay, because even though I'm a girl, I was always taller than him, but now he's put up weight and is at least twice as strong as I am. I have often received injuries from him; a cut all along my hairline when he banged my head against a door frame, a bruise on my upper-abdomen when he kicked me in the stomach, a bruise on my ear, bite marks on my legs, he knocked one of my baby ...
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He makes me want to kill myself, but I don't know how to get away from him
Posted Monday December 24 2012, 3:13 am
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years, everything was great until about 2 years ago he started being mean and getting angry about every little thing I did that he thought was wrong and kept bringing up my past with all the guys that I was with call me every name in the book, which always brought me to tears. The way he is now and him belittling me all the time, and living together he basically treats me like a slave, my family has been trying to help me out, telling me that I should just leave, but I know I'll still be in pain because he doesn't own a car to get himself to work and I don't know how to ask him to (we have joint bank accounts)sign his name so he's the only main person on the account so I wont get in trouble if he ...
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My past still haunts me
Posted Wednesday November 21 2012, 12:03 am
I am 25. I was sexually abused when I was a kid by 2 men. My stepfather have had bad intentions towards me when we were still living in his house. He was touching my boobs. The ones whom I thought who will take care of me, they were the one who did unacceptable things to me. When I was still pregnant, I told my mum and my sister that no guys are allowed to stay in our house for a long time. Maybe they can sleep overnight but stay so long, I'm not comfortable with that. I gave birth to a healthy baby girl. She's now 8 months. I am very protective of her.
The mother of my sister's bf has a cancer. He's the one who is taking care of her.They are living 2-3 hours away from our house. He doesn't have good connection with his aunts and gr...
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My friend was sexually assaulted what do i do?
Posted Sunday November 11 2012, 1:03 pm
Ok this is a long question i'm sorry but this is how lost I am right now, i'm asking a question on the internet.. my friend.. she lives a state away from me, and her mom is pretty much evil and hates her, she made her stay with this 19 year old guy last night and he did stuff to her and i know he sexually assaulted her, shes 15, she told her mom and her mom said, well since you had so much fun, you get to go back there next week for longer, her mom wants this guy to do this! what can i do? i'm a male and i'm 16
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Help please: He beat me, cheated on me and more... but I can't make myself leave him!
Posted Saturday November 10 2012, 4:38 pm
Okay, so I need to know how I can fix my situation for the better, is it fixable or how should I go about leaving. I have had a on/off boyfriend for about 3 years now, since 11th grade. He started off trying to talk to me when I had a previous relationship that i wasn't happy in. basically "saved" me and we fell in love from there. He gave me money, talked on the phone with me and made me feel so special. I met his family and everything. Soon things went downhill about 4 months into the relationship, he began breaking up with me to be in sexual relations with other girls. I spent a year trying to win him back. When he finally got back with me things were great. He never EVER put his hands on me. In the times we were broke up I did...
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How do I convince my cousin to leave her abusive & controlling boyfriend ?
Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 8:57 pm
She's been with this guy for 6 months and he's very controlling and he cheats on her with his ex girlfriend. He doesn't like for her to have family over their apartment and he doesn't like for her to hang around her very close friends. He has been abusive to her multiple times, one of the times he stalked her to a grocery store and hit her and stole her purse, she had witnesses but she never pressed charges, she got back with him. Yesterday he choked her & hit her and broke the window out of her apartment and trashed it. She called the police and pressed charges, now she wants to drop them. today she wants to get back with him. He has stalked her numerous times and hit her while she was places with friends. He verbally abuses he...
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I was so tired, I need advice please... I want a marriage counselling but he always refuse.
Posted Tuesday November 6 2012, 1:48 pm
What am I goin to do, I was getting tired of all the arguments because of my Step-Son. My relationship to my husband is getting worst everytime we had fight and the reason is because of his son. We have a baby, and my step son is living with us and he was raised by my husband since 3yrs old but they said their relationship is not perfect for 10yrs. I really hard time in adjusting having a new baby, being far apart with my family, with my husband and with his ADHD son. My husband throwing me foul and abusive words everytime we're having a fight and it was all because of his son. His son is so disrespectful and rude, inconsiderate and not thankful but he knows to manipulate his dad and turns like I was the bad one and he was the innocent. My ...
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