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Relationship pressure
Posted Tuesday October 6 2020, 11:45 am
I am 18 male from India.I have a neighbour friend of mine (we know each other sonce 7 years) who I take evening walks with. Recently my friend got in a relationship with a girl who was in the same college of mine. He told me about his relationship. The thing is that even I want to get into a relationship as I am tired of being single. But my progress is leading me to nowhere. Furthermore the sexual tension between him and the girl is high so he might get to see some 'action' soon. They bonded quickly within three weeks and here the chances of me getting in a relationship is less. They bonded so much that he even knows her cousins and her distant family members. In other words I am simply jealous of him entering in a relationship. Also when ...
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What are latest fashion trends to follow now a days in wedding ceremony?
Posted Friday October 2 2020, 3:48 am
I have to attend my cousin's wedding next week and I have to look great and unique, kindly share some excellent and unique trends to follow while attending the wedding ceremony.
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confused about my feelings to crush (?)
Posted Wednesday September 16 2020, 6:39 pm
Here is the backstory.
I moved to another city because of university and met a girl (who is in the same group as me). We became friends (?) really fast, which is weird because I'm shy and it usually takes me months to find a connection with others. And even faster I realize what I may have feelings for her (I was missing her when she was not around, I always tried to be as close to her as I could, and ALWAYS was distracted by her presence). It all was affecting my education, so I decided to tell her the truth (after 2 weeks of meeting her btw). And at the next day my things changed ( I stopped thinking of her 24/7, become less anxious, etc. )
I don't understand why. The only thing that was different in this 2 days is that I m...
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Relationship Jealousy/ communication
Posted Wednesday September 16 2020, 10:53 am
Hi all, I am a 24 year old female and dating my boyfriend for a little over a year, and we live together. Lately I have been having serious jealousy issues. I know we love together but we don’t actually do much together, always just cooped up in the house. Honestly, there’s hardly a reason for me to be jealous of anything. He talks to his friends CONSTANTLY which is annoying but liveable. I think the main reason for my out of control jealousy is that he’s not making me feel loved or appreciated or included and no affection/attention. And I’m such an affectionate attentive girlfriend. I’ll hug, kiss, cuddle, play whatever. I’ve explained this before to him that I need more from him. Last night I told him twice that he can’t jus...
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What should I do if the guy I liked for 6 years changed and ignored me?
Posted Saturday September 12 2020, 11:43 pm
Hi Im a teenager from the Philippines and I've liked a boy since we were in elementary school. We've never really talked that much in real life but we used to talk all the time through social media about random things. We both went to different high schools and still talked after that, but one day he started to just see my messages and not reply to them until an hour later. I then knew that he was interested in a classmate of his in his new class and started to ignore me for the next several days. He probably felt nothing for ignoring me but for me it was the most painful thing that he has ever done to me. Until today I've been deep in sadness and he still doesnt chat me. Should I cut ties with him or tell him what I feel?
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How do I know if he likes me too?
Posted Friday September 11 2020, 7:42 pm
I am a sixteen year old girl in high school and there is a guy I have liked for about two years now. It’s been an on and off thing because we have both dates other people but something always brings me back to my feelings for him. I have never told him that I like him and he has never told me either, but the way we have been acting with each other seems like there’s something going on. But the thing is, I’m not really his usual type so I don’t know. He broke up with his girlfriend a few weeks ago and he wasn’t upset about it plus he wouldn’t tell me the reason. He has been sending small signals but he is a flirty person in general so I don’t know if I am reading into this too far or if it is really happening. How can I find ou...
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Traumatised
Posted Monday August 31 2020, 5:33 pm
Hi my ex absolutely loved bombed me from day 1 he sent me up to 50 texts a day declaring his interest and love and how I'm his whole word wasnt a day he didn't tell me how much he loved me so a few weeks ago he got drunk and lied and brought a woman to the place he stays said noting happend i forgave since then ive discovered he has a drink problem so i tried support him he ended up been kicked out of the house he lived in because of the drinking so had to return to Scotland toll he could find accommodation here....sunday i was with him and seen a womans name keep ringing phone i asked him he said was just a mate i took phone off him to to discover 2 different women he was arranging to meet up with we had words etc. i told him we would nee...
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Guys- how do I stop?
Posted Sunday August 30 2020, 12:15 am
How do I stop going after emotionally unavailable men? They're huge babies, have commitment issues, cowards, do not know how to be themselves or hold a conversation.
I have a terrible habit and I keep hurting myself. Also, I attract creeps- why is that? I attract guys who I am never interested in.
Help! hahaha
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I think I might be in love !
Posted Tuesday August 25 2020, 4:40 pm
I have a huge problem . I have been having sex with this this guy for quite some time we are not dating at all we are just friends who are having sex well supposed to be just friends. The problem is I didn't plan on falling in love the first time I have intercourse with him. I don't want to tell him and lose his friendship completely and I think it's only fair for me to tell my true fee. What should I do ? Please help!
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Depression and anxiety
Posted Sunday August 16 2020, 6:55 pm
I have been going through a really tough time. My serious relationship of 3 yeas ended. The guy ditched me just before marriage. This my 3rd relationship failure. I'm 32. People around me are getting married and kids. I don't have many friends. I'm alone ans cry everyday. My confidence is shaking. I don't hv anyone to share my deepest feelings. I regret many things in life. I feel anxiety thinking about
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Is He Interested?
Posted Sunday August 16 2020, 2:26 am
F/24. This is kind of between love and work. One of my coworkers has been acting a little strange, and I didn't even think he might've been interested in me until recently, so now I'm micro-analyzing all our interactions. For example, I was working by myself, and he popped up out of nowhere and just sort of stayed there for a while. We talked for a bit but I noticed he was quieter than usual. I wasn't really paying attention to his body language because I had my attention on working.
This other time he was talking about a funny little comic taped to a door that I hadn't noticed. When I went to it to read it, he came up behind me to read it as well. I think I've seen him get that close to other coworkers as well so I didn't r...
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How to date?
Posted Friday July 31 2020, 2:07 am
Alright I just want to say I have an extremely hard time meeting guys, at the moment I do not have friends and have always struggled with friendships. However I have questions, how can I meet guys since I am in my 30's? A guy with substance, a respectable guy? I am in the process of working on myself and I have always had a very time meeting serious guys. Most guys I meet aren't serious or flake out. It's very stressful and I have lost hope. What can I do? Lastly, I want to share a quick story about a recent incident with a guy I met. I met this guy through a meet up and he remembers me in the past meet up. With him remembering me from a past meet up I was excited- I thought it was funny he remembered me in the past. From talking to him at ...
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Dating during Quarantine
Posted Sunday July 26 2020, 10:19 am
I have been talking to this guy for 4 months over quarantine and we met recently. I had a great time on our first date and we recently went on our second date, which was kayaking. I really like him and had a great time but something has been bothering me... He told me over text that he was the type of guy to always ask permission to kiss or touch a girl in anyway because of how respectful he is. He knows that I really liked that about him. When we went on our second date he had asked me how i felt about a guy slyly grabbing my hand. I said thats fine as long as you don't pull any sly moves with me...
The date goes on and we are waiting for our kayake. He knew I was scared because i've never been so he put his hand around my lower wai...
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This guy is always selling himself to me
Posted Sunday July 19 2020, 2:29 am
This man i met from tinder is regularly video chatting with me to keep me company in the quarantine and we get along well. But he does this strange thing, he is always telling me how great he is... to the point where i get uncomfortable.
He says things like “Every girl that has ever left me always came back to see if we could try it again but i don’t see any point in taking someone back who took me for granted”
“My ex keeps video chatting me and showing me her breasts and her butt and her vagina and all i ask is ‘how is your mom doing?’ “
“I take care of my friends so well to the point where if one of my friends tells me he is going through a financial struggle, i would take a GROUP of my frien...
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Confused and scared
Posted Tuesday June 30 2020, 12:42 pm
Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. I caught him cheating on me several times before we reached our 3rd year together. And now we are in a long distance relationship, and I just found out now that he is being bullied as chickboy with his friends on their groupchat and i jumped into a conclusion that maybe he had a fling with his classmate (girl) 1 year ago? Should I still be with him? We are already planning for our future and both our families are in good terms already. He is responsible in many ways and I can feel that he loves and cares for me but I can also feel the fear inside me.
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I don't think I can keep a promise to my bf
Posted Wednesday June 24 2020, 12:04 am
A few weeks ago my boyfriend and I got into a fight about me going back to work, because he's worried about the risk from COVID-19 and I work in a hospital. We eventually reached an agreement and I promised him I'd stay safe, let him know about my shifts, immediately stop working if my hospital admitted a case, and immediately stop working if the virus spread rates started getting too high. The cases are "too high" now, and he wants me to stop working and hold to my promise, but if I do it now, then I'll lose my job because prior to all this, I hadn't worked in 3 months due to the lockdown and wanting to keep my parents safe. He says he can't trust me anymore because I can't keep my promise, and I said I never should have had to p...
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Is it bad to only like Bisexual woman?
Posted Tuesday June 23 2020, 11:34 pm
Im a trans-male and i am straight. But i am not attracted to straight girls and i like the personality of bi girls. I do not want to fetish Bisexual women but i just would like to only date bisexual girls. Straight women for me "act different" and i am not attracted to that. Im sorry if I am being rude to bisexual women but i just need to know if its okay to only be attracted to bisexual girls. Thank you
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My girlfriend words things which throw me off
Posted Friday June 19 2020, 10:17 pm
So I have been seeing my girlfriend for almost 1 and half years now. I was a single parent when i met her and we are what we think an amazing couple. Very alike yet still different in the right ways. Talk out almost any and all issues. She came into my life embracing my daughter and even planning days to spend and bond with her. Well covid 19 happened as we all know and my daughter for 2 months was stuck at her mothers since I was still working and going into work. Well over that time of quarantine my girlfriend moved in. All was really good but then my daughter was able to re enter living with us on shared time. Well my girlfriend over these past month and a half has been distant at times. We talked about it and me hoping they would still...
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My best friend is bisexual.
Posted Friday June 12 2020, 2:04 pm
I have been best friends with this girl for 3 years. We have had the best memories, she is the sweetest, most caring person I have ever came across in my life and I love her to death!
We got to know each other at work, we are both teachers. I was a 1st grade teacher and she was in Kindergarten. It was my first time as a 1st grade teacher. As silly as it sounds, we both wanted to work together and so I decided to try working in K for a year with her because we had the option to do that. (we live in an arab country btw and I am half American but she is pure arab)
After 1 year of knowing one another, we started working together on the 2nd year. We had the best year together, I love her so much! She is really my best best friend...
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Don't know what to do with my relationship
Posted Tuesday June 9 2020, 10:01 am
I currently am an undergrad student living with my boyfriend in New York state. I go to college here and am originally from NJ (about 3 hours away) I moved in with him once my school closed around March because of Covid and the day before my school closed we adopted a dog. I was volunteering there and met him first. Absolutely fell in love with him and I told my bf to come in and meet him (we has been discussing getting a dog for a bit). We ended up adopting him together. My bf paid the adoption fee and license since the apartment is in his name. However, this is where is gets confusing. After living with him for some time (this is the first time we've lived together) I started noticing attributes about him that I really don't like. It's no...
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