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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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am i right to be annoyed


Posted Saturday July 2 2011, 2:32 pm

My best friend, has another group of friends she hangs out with, without me, which is FINE. But, what I don't like, is if one of them is like alone/not doing anything, she will be like "can so and so join us" and i want to be like no. she can't. you don't include me, why should i be nice enough to include her?

what do you think? should i say something? pretty soon she'll be going to college at the end of summer. but its just irriatating, and all my other friends HATE her.

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Needing some opinions


Posted Friday July 1 2011, 9:50 pm

I'm 31 years old and I've been married for about three years. As of late I've been getting the feeling that my girlfriends do not care for my husband to tag along when we go out. Before I was married I went out with my four best girlfriends once in awhile to a club to dance or a bar to have a few drinks, talk, and catch up on the latest news. However, since getting married and having three children we rarely have time to go out but when we do we enjoy going out together. Both my husband and myself are very secure people, in that we are not jealous of our interactions with the opposite sex or what have you, but we just want to spend what little time we have together TOGETHER. Our marriage is fairly new and we haven't grown tired of one anoth...

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The average cost to live in USA


Posted Wednesday June 29 2011, 12:11 pm

What could be the annual expense for living in USA.
Especially in places like (San Francisco)

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how do I let go of a lost friendship easier?


Posted Tuesday June 28 2011, 6:18 pm

Recently I decided to let go on a lost friendship with someone who has trash talked me to my face, made me cry on multiple occasions, tells my secrets and then lies about it, forced me to cheat for them, and all of a sudden stopped talking to me without a reason. It's taken awhile for me to realize that this friendship may have started out well, but it took a bad turn. I really want to let go and move on, but I'm having a hard time. Now, I think about all of the good memories we had together. How can I help my self move on from the pain of such a failed friendship?


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My group of friends has made an outcast of one friend


Posted Tuesday June 28 2011, 2:50 pm

well at school my friends have all fell out with my other friend and i feel sorry formy friend but the others aare my bestfriends i am not taking sides but i just want us all to be back to normal because we cnt all be together at the same time because it wouldntbe fair, what should i do??


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Guy friend want more than just friends


Posted Monday June 27 2011, 4:42 pm

My guy friend of 4 years just now tells me( female ) he wants more than friendship now or he can't be friends . We have never had sex and I do not want to take it to that level with him. This really hurts my feelings cuz I don't want to lose him As a friend what should I do ?

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drifting apart


Posted Monday June 27 2011, 11:22 am

both 17/f

My friend L and I have been (best) friends for 5 years. We hung out all the time, I even lived with her for a year. I got pregnant at 15 and we were still hanging out. Shes had the same boyfriend for 3 years, and now she is pregnant with his baby. Unlike me when i was pregnant, she doesnt want to do ANYTHING, even get off her couch!

The problem is that throughout our entire friendship, I was always the one to call her, make plans, listen to all her problems... I was and still am the only one making the effort. (Shes like this with everyone) and im fed up with it! She never listened to my problems or she just kind of brushed them off. Shes a bit selfish.

I took three weeks and didnt cal...

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Is it time to let go?


Posted Sunday June 26 2011, 2:45 pm

I used to have this best friend, and we were really close. We used to do everything together. After one year of being friends, she started to get mad at me over little things that weren't even my fault. When she was mad at me, she would trash talk me to my face so much that it made me cry and it still hurts to think about it. I would always have to apologize to her. When she ditched me for other people, I was upset to think that all of our friendship went to waste, but somewhat glad because I had never completely forgiven her. Now she acts like we are strangers and never gives me a second look. When I'm with my other friends, I talk about the good memories I had with her. Then, when I'm about to call her up and try to talk it out, I...

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were we ever friends?


Posted Sunday June 26 2011, 2:35 pm

In the beginning of my 7th grade year, I started becoming friends with a girl from my advisory class. Before I could realize it, we were close best friends; we would talk on the phone every night and check math hw in the one class we shared. Then I noticed that she stopped doing her some of her math hw and started copying anything she didn't do. I didn't think about it much because I helped her with it. We remained close until sometime in my 8th grade year when she and my other friend stopped showing up to lunch. I felt like I couldn't depend on her. Soon enough, she started doing things with two of my other friends, but they never invited me. By then, she and I had already had a big fight (which she started out of nothing). All I c...

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We used to be friends... are we still?


Posted Sunday June 26 2011, 2:15 am

Me and my friend Rylee have been friends since 2nd grade now we are sophmores in highschool and we have growen distent she always picks boys over me and i always invite her to my birthdays and she and she hasnt invited me to one of here since 5th grade. When I go to her house i always want to talk and go jump on the trampoline and she is always busy on the internet. What could this mean help me please

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My friend and I arent as close as before


Posted Saturday June 25 2011, 9:19 pm

My friend and I used to be so close but now one of my other friends is sort of stealing my friend away from me. All three of us used to be really good friends but now im being pushed out of the group. i dont want to loose her because we have been friends since pre-school. we are now in grade 7 (almost 8)
What do i do?????

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Can I be neutral in life, or do I have to take sides now that I am in college?


Posted Friday June 24 2011, 4:30 pm

In the start of college term, I was really nervous and found it difficult to find friends at first. However, I soon enough made friends with a classmte 8 years older than me. It wasn't long till I knew nearly everyone in the class and made new friends, successfully slotting in college life. However, soon I found that I had much more common things to talk about with friends my age rather than my 8 years older mate who enjoyed talking bout sex quiete frequently. Because of this class leader among girls, which I became close friends with,disliked my older friend and soon enough I found myself in a rather awkward position between to opposing friends who hated each other. Bitchiness and cruelity against each other seemed unstoppable and ever gro...

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had sex with the person my bestfriend liked


Posted Friday June 24 2011, 10:53 am

i had sex with the person my best friend liked and she found out about it a few days later. she is pissed / upset and she keeps ignoring my calls and texts. i work with her sunday morning, so it's gonna be really awkward. what should i do and what should i say to her? :\

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Is it time to let my friend go?


Posted Thursday June 23 2011, 5:01 am

34/F

I am deciding whether to let my friend go. I’ve felt I don't wish to be her friend for over a year, however we have been friends since the 1st day of highschool and I do love her. I just feel like she is a huge drain on me and I always feel worse (stressed, sad, no energy) after talking to her or seeing her.

She was studying and working for a long time, and so I would always be the one making time for her, going through to see her, phoning at times that were convenient for her. Lately she’s had some big news (moving home, pregnancy), and again I’m the one making all the compromises.

I know I need to accommodate her but she has now said I can't email her because she doesn't have time ...

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Is she interested or just being friendly?


Posted Wednesday June 22 2011, 11:34 am

There is this girl at work who I like and have a thing for and who i think may have a thing for me, and we both get along well with each other ( said by someone else) , for about a year now. I'd just like other poeple's opinion about the whole thing, given the following

* She occasionally calls me Boo boo, She also calls me different variations of my name in Italian aswell, which she learnt in school
* She had a boyfriend until 2 months ago. The way i found out about that makes me feel like it was a setup. My friend who let it slip,Dayna and myself were chatting about random tuff, i started walking away to my area, when Dayna said come back, so we could chat a bit more, which i did. Then my friend says how long has it ...

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i wish i had friends


Posted Monday June 20 2011, 6:47 am

i have no friends everywhere, i feel sad :(
i love to make friends but it does not work

i'm approachable to everyone, but why it's hard?
still no friends, i just need someone to talk to and hang out with.

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It's a one way deal situation


Posted Monday June 20 2011, 12:03 am

So I started dating this guy, I really like him. He's best friends with my best friend's boy friend. Well I used to date this other guy and he was also best friends with my best friend's boyfriend. and it was so much fun when we would all hang out us four, because we were all friends. Well My current boyfriend gets offended easily and easily gets mad. Well his best friend said something rude to me, but that's just how we are, we kind of are just rude to one another. He called me a bitch and my boyfriend took is super serious and now he won't talk to either of them.
The other night his parents went out of town and he threw a party. Him and a bunch of his friends basically sat around and got high for three hours straight after he told...

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I know I've done wrong but...


Posted Sunday June 19 2011, 2:10 pm

Ok long story short. I have two ex-friends.
Well one is my gf I think... But anyway. theres the guy friend A and my 'gf' friend B. they started talkin and did a joke rp about kissing. But my history has been verbal abuse amungst other things. I trusted that friend A would understand that I got upset by this. I didnt want to hurt friend A so I ignored him. I know that was wrong but I didnt want to hurt him until the reason for ignoring him had passed. He kept asking when I tried to talk just normally so I told him the reason and he says that I cant do anything to re-claim our friendship because he felt like s*** for the week or so I ignored him. I have been to a councellor for such things like this like not trusting people and being s...

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My friend likes me but I only like her as a friend, now shes acting weird?


Posted Saturday June 18 2011, 2:29 am

My friend likes me but I only like her as a friend, now shes acting weird?
I have a friend that I've know forever and we are best friends. Shes bisexual. She has told me that she likes me and I nicely told her I only like her as a friend cause shes always been like a sister. Now shes acting weird when Im around her. She acts like she doesn't want to talk to me. Ive been friends with her forever and I don't want to lose our friendship. What can I say to her so we can be normal again?


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nickname for girlfriend


Posted Saturday June 18 2011, 2:25 am

She has a few nicknames but they don't really describe her personality. she is the definition of a bad *** party girl. crazy sexy, thick, really fun, very independent. she also has a mature, caring, loving, side to her. she is a very honest person and I have a lot of respect for her. I was thinking along the lines of 'savage' or 'lady v' but I want more options. I don't want anything like "other half" or "bestie" i want something everyone could call her. thanks :)

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