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is my mom jealous and what should I do
Posted Sunday August 21 2011, 9:27 am
Well lately my mom out of the blue will be like passing someone at wal mart and she sees a guy she will be like look hes cute oh thats right your gay or your a lesbian (im bi by the way) and it really hurts. she complains about her closest brother and his new wife saying his wife has taken him from the family but she hasnt. And I told her i was going up to my dads one day and she said why? Whats going on? Also I have been in a relationship my mom has ruined am I letting my mom overtake my life?
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What should I do about my boyfriends ex? :(
Posted Saturday August 20 2011, 12:40 pm
Im 17 & my boyfriend just turned 20. My boyfriend that ive only dated for four monthes is talkin to his ex girlfriend again that he dated for four years. They broke up a month before he got with me and they lived together. The first two weeks we dated he broke up with me & said that he just couldnt stop thinking about her and he was gonna see if he could get back with her cause they always use to break up and get back together. But they didnt this time and sge said they could be friends but me and him got back together & I said they couldnt. Now im pregnant with his kid. I deleted her off his facebook & he added her back sayin he wanted to talk to her aometimes to see how she was doing and that I disnt understand how he feel...
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Need somewhere to live but there are one or two issues.
Posted Thursday August 18 2011, 10:03 am
Like I said in a previous post, I haven't lived at the family home for a few months now. Today, despite my efforts helping with the shopping and so on my grandparents say they want me out before Christmas and are not willing to wait for my boyfriend to sell his house so that we can live together (like normal couples do).
I am not employed and I am about to start applying for jobseekers allowance, most decent properties are £300 pm or more. I am on the lower end of jobseekers as I am under 21.
How does housing benefit work? How can I get somewhere to live and have my boyfriend able to stay with me without losing any benefit I might need until I can find employment (which I hope will be soon).
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My Mum has cut me out of her life. What can I do?
Posted Wednesday August 17 2011, 6:02 am
How do I get my mother to speak to me?
At the end of April I couldn't take anymore silence, the way she took hundreds of pounds from me and tried to stop me going to family events. After a very bad weekend at work I found out that my mum and the rest of her family had done an easter meal without me while I did a ten hour shift on the sunday, when for the past 15 years or more (I am 20 and female).
I had been bullied at work that weekend and was literally only working to give her money as she never got food or anything for me when she went shopping despite me giving her just short of £200 a month which was more than half of my wages.
I was heartbroken and stayed at a friend's for a few days befor...
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my depressed mother is slowly but surely ruining my life
Posted Tuesday August 16 2011, 11:02 pm
So I'm 20 years old and I live at home with my older sister(21) and my mom(57). We are poor and my sister and I mostly support the family. My mom is a waitress and she works 4 days a week.my sister and I work more than my mom does and she expects us to give her 200 dollars every two weeks to pay bills. She barely contributes any money. She buys groceries and that's about it. She is depressed and I want to help her but she won't even help herself. She won't find another job or even try to get a better one. I really want to move out but if I do, my mom is probably gogoing to lose her house. If I don't give her money she makes me feel like a horrible person and I can't take it anymore. I don't want to leave her because I love her so much but I...
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I am a horrible person
Posted Tuesday August 16 2011, 10:03 pm
according to my mother. She may disagree, saying I put words in her mouth but this is how I perceive it. I am 20 years old (female) and am only living with her (my parents are divorced) because I cannot afford to move out and am still in university. I feel as though she holds a lot of things against me, like the things she does for me (cooking, a roof over my head). She says I'm selfish, self centred, I only think of myself. I'm not really sure if this is even worth putting up as a question to be honest. I just don't know how much longer I can deal with being told how horrible I am. Yes, I get into fights with my mother, I'm 20 years old. I don't wish to be living at home but I'm a full time student and working part time doesn't pay...
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It's not my family anymore
Posted Tuesday August 16 2011, 2:40 pm
I seriously don't think I have a family anymore. I mean, I live with both my biological parents and my sister. My half-brother moved out a long time ago and hardly visits. Most of my mom's side of the family is dead or dying. My dad's side of the family hates us because they hate him. I've been narrowed down to just the people in my house, unfortunately, it just doesn't seem like we're a family. Just a bunch of people who live together because we have no choice. My dad goes off on his own and stays out late, probably dates other women and no one really cares. My mom just works, pays the bills, then goes to bed. My sister is off in her own little world. And it's pretty much the same with me. I can't have a conversation with anyone of them be...
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self concious
Posted Sunday August 14 2011, 4:55 pm
My dad always complains about food going too quickly. I'm slightly overweight, and I'm super self concious. I don't like eating in front of people or people knowing that I ate because I feel like they're judging me. I told my dad and he said that he doesn't mean anything by saying I eat too much, and that parents always complain, but it still bothers me when he says it. How can I get over it and make myself not care when he says that ?
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AM I a bad daughter? I stopped talking to my dad, and I feel bad about it.
Posted Saturday August 13 2011, 7:18 pm
AM I a bad daughter? I stopped talking to my dad, and I feel bad about it.
Hi I am posting this question because I am a 23 year old college student and I am a girl and I have asked this very question to my friends and family and to my boyfriend but they all love me so I wanted to ask it in a way from people who don't know me so that I can get a honest answer so here it goes. I have a Father who was taken out of my life when I was a baby because he was cheating and beating my mom and he was on drugs and had bipolar disorder so my mom took him out of my life and finally told me about my dad when I was nine and of a nine year old still wants to get to know her dad so I did and everything was wond...
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AM I a bad daughter? I stopped talking to my dad, and I feel bad about it.
Posted Saturday August 13 2011, 7:04 pm
Hi I am posting this question because I am a 23 year old college student and I am a girl and I have asked this very question to my friends and family and to my boyfriend but they all love me so I wanted to ask it in a way from people who don't know me so that I can get a honest answer so here it goes. I have a Father who was taken out of my life when I was a baby because he was cheating and beating my mom and he was on drugs and had bipolar disorder so my mom took him out of my life and finally told me about my dad when I was nine and of a nine year old still wants to get to know her dad so I did and everything was wondefull untill I turned 11 and my dad started doing weed around me and molesting me and hitting me and calling me names and s...
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we're same father but different mother
Posted Friday August 12 2011, 5:07 am
am from kenya my question is family problem we were 10 in number.my sisters of our father hate us
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would you say you have a good relationship with your mom?
Posted Friday August 12 2011, 1:41 am
do you have a good relationship with your mom. what are some things you guys do together. how does she treat you? explain.
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I can't anymore... I want out :(
Posted Thursday August 11 2011, 3:00 pm
this is really weird but I feel like I"m addicted to my mom. I usually miss her when I'm not with her. I'll text her or call her. It's like something is missing when she's not around. We have always been close. But now, it's more than that. Before, it was like I could talk to her about anything. Now, it's more like I'm scared or worried when she's not around. It's not that open and free relationship. It's more like trapping because I feel the need to be with her all the time. I don't understand why this would happen to me. I mean, I do go places without her. And when I'm with friends or something, I'm fine. It's more when I'm alone that I want to be with her, specifically.
the problem is that she has this really big att...
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I feel like no guy will want me while I am friends with this pretty girl.
Posted Thursday August 11 2011, 12:31 pm
14/f(i turn 15 in September)
So...im just gna jump right to it! My friends always say im relli pretti, but i feel like im a ugly monster! Im blonde with brown/dark green eyes and i have a slightly tanned skin. Im short(i dont know how tall i am because its too depressing to measure myself)
And i weigh about 143 pounds(65 kg)...I hate how i look!!! Ive had more then a few relationships but none of them lasted very long, back then(about 3 years ago)i wasnt skinny but i wasnt fat either.
Sine ive gone to high school(im in the 9th grade)i haven't had even one relationship.
Plus, my friend is really skinny and pretty, and i feel like i will never be good enough for any guy, while im friends with her...
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grandsons behavior problems
Posted Wednesday August 10 2011, 9:41 pm
I have a grandson we have guardianship on him,he refuses to help around the house,disrespetiful,and has a lot of anger at everybody.we have tried to help him but he doesnt want it.We have put him in 2 places that said they can help him then they call us and say come get him we cant do anything with him.I need help please please please im at my wits end.he is 15.
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sister buulies me
Posted Wednesday August 10 2011, 8:47 pm
How do i stop my sister from picking on me?She calls me names, beats me up, she sometimes gives me wedgies. One time she gave me the biggest wedgie when i was bendig over to tie my shoe. She ened up hanging me thier pantsted by a fencepos. IT WAS SUPPPER EMBARASSING. I had to wait for this lady to come by and unhook my underwear.HELPP. What can i do about this mean sister bully
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My brother and my cousin sells drugs and I think my dad is scared of them
Posted Tuesday August 9 2011, 4:09 pm
They have been selling drugs for like 2 or 3 yrs. My parents and I don't like it and he thinks that my parents don't know about it. I want to turn them in but Im afraid my parents will get in trouble since my brother and my cousin sell drugs in our driveway and in his room. They have a lot of people that sit in our yard all day and they play loud music and they cuss and drink. My dad just had an argument with my brother about finding drugs in his room and I think my dad is afraid of getting into a fight with my brother. They have had guns and drugs in our house, my cousin punched my dad in the face before.They always have a lot of people sitting in our yard either selling drugs in their car or being really loud. No one in my house likes it....
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about my marrige
Posted Tuesday August 9 2011, 2:03 am
iam 28 year girl i want to know that when i am getting married
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How do I prepare my 3 yr old son for moving out of my parents house?
Posted Sunday August 7 2011, 9:26 pm
Let me first start by explaining the situation. I am almost 29 years old. When I was 24, I met my kids father. We instantly fell in love and were married. 3 months later. Not the best thing I couldv'e done, but I can't change it now. Anyhow long story short. Husband was in the Navy at the time and came to live w me at my parents house which was suposed to be temporary, but ended up being permanent, as he proved to be immature and a frivolous spender, even though I had a baby his priorities didn't change. We could never move out because we could never save money. I ended up divorcing him. Now I'm planning on using my next tax refund to go towards the moving costs, and what not. My issue is that my dad and my 3 yr old son are very close. I'm ...
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mother and son relationship
Posted Sunday August 7 2011, 2:37 pm
how to have respect from son.
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