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How far can I go, as far as enabling?
Posted Friday August 26 2011, 4:19 pm
I kind of accidentally meet a very kind male, he is 47 and I am a female 55. I was moving and he just took over, which was a Godsend. Later that evening we met downstairs and started talking. We ended up going into his apartment and in conversation, he had left his bra and dress out which later he admitted was not an accident, he said he enjoys crossdressing. I am just so excited, and to admit quite sexually excited about this. I want to help dress, buy wigs, false eyelashes, ect. ect. ect. How far should I go and generally what are the odds that this could turn into more?
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Drunk fight with one of my best friends
Posted Thursday August 25 2011, 2:38 am
Today, me, my fiance and my best friends (2 of them) decided that it seemed like a good night to drink. Long story short, we called another really good friend (Lets call him John) and invited him to drink with us. We all got nice and drunk and everything was going awesome. Friend number 1 and John were once in a relationship (2 years ago), it didn't end well..But they decided that they were both willing to give it another shot.. They made plans the next day (without consulting me) and Friend 1 was(is) staying at my place for a couple days and I had plans to hang out with her, so I was pretty upset about her making plans to leave and be with him. I was upset, BUT, I said "Go hang out with John.. It doesn't really matter" Then she g...
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should I tell him about her?
Posted Thursday August 25 2011, 12:39 am
My roommate in college is one of my friends. I've known her for 5 years and we get along okay. The only thing that bothers me about her is that she is such a huge flirt. She constantly flirts with guys and gets their numbers and then brags about it. She has been dating this guy Nick for a year now. Well we have been living in college for a week now and she's already got a few guys numbers and hung out with them several times. This isn't just a "friendly" thing... I know my friend. If she hangs out with a guy she likes, she makes sure she looks perfect. Meaning, she spends hours on hair and make up. So this isn't a friendly thing she's doing..
Its gotten so bad that one time this hot guy walked by and she was like &...
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same cycle with friend.
Posted Wednesday August 24 2011, 10:19 pm
after senior year of high school, my friendship with my best friend really fell apart. i got annoyed with her easily, with things she did, & she wouldn't apologize for it either. even though she knew i was upset. she was always kind of like that though, very selfish.
anyway, i got really mad at her this last time, and i told her we shouldn't hang out. well 4 days later, she did the same thing, didn't text me, and then posted on my facebook with a joke. she always does this.
should i forgive her AGAIN or just stop talking to her? she will be gone in a month for college..
btw, can't talk to her, she just won't respond, and then just a few days later talk like nothing happened
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getting along with girls
Posted Monday August 22 2011, 10:12 pm
So i am a freshman in college and am appart of a sports team with several other girls. ive known them for some time prior to getting here but i still dont feel like im really apart of the group. the older girls are great and everyone is nice but the freshman girls are cliquey and really not my style. my roommate isnt much like me besides the fact we both play lacrosse. the only time im really enjoying all of their company is when were drinking and going to parties. i just feel like none of the girls really get me and i dont know how to get across to them.
about me..
im extremley laid back. i am neither bitchy or cliquey. i accept everyone. im not overly happy but i have been nothing but nice to all of them.
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She doesn't want me around him.
Posted Sunday August 21 2011, 7:21 pm
He's seventeen, a senior, male. I'm sixteen, a junior, female.
He's my best friend.
He knows me. He calls me, he texts me everday. He tells me about his day and I tell him about mine. He know's my secrets and I know his.
He protects me. He beat up my ex-boyfriend when he slapped me. He doesn't let anyone hurt me, inside or out. He wont allow me with boys he doesn't approve of.
He cares about me. He hugs me when I cry. He holds my hand when I'm anxious, or nervous. He tickles me when I'm down. He wrestles me when I'm in that goofy mood. He's the funniest person I know.
We have never kissed, or had any kind of romantic relationship. We aren't like that.
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I have feelings for my friend
Posted Sunday August 21 2011, 4:51 pm
I'm a female who has for the most part lived a heterosexual lifestyle although I identify as bisexual.
Recently, I have increasingly developed feelings for a close female friend. I think she's straight and she has told me about guys she likes on occasion but she rarely discusses her relationships with people.
We have a very loving friendship and she is very tactile with me. Sometimes I wonder if perhaps she feels the same way about me but I am terrified of saying anything to her.
What should I do?
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its my biggest dream to meet someone very important to me!!
Posted Sunday August 21 2011, 4:58 am
Ever since I can remember I've loved Green Day. They gave me soo much inspiration. My dad abused me a lot and when I was 8 we got in a huge car wreck and that's when I moved away fro my dad. So I didn't have much of a dad influence and as crazy and stupid as this sounds Green Day and the inspiration it gave me kind of became my father figure. The more I learned about them the more I just wanted to meet them. They mean so much to me I even learned to playh guitar and fell in love with music. My biggest dream is to meet them and (once again I know crazy) be friends with them somehow. I realize tons of ppl want the same thing and I'm not saying I'm more worthy of it but its so important to me. I don't have money to get tickets to a concert to...
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Keeping my best friend, or not?
Posted Saturday August 20 2011, 2:18 am
Okay so, my best friend and I have been close ever since 5th grade. We're now in our sophomore year in college so that would be about 9 years of friendship.
A while back in 10th grade, she decided to hook up with one of my ex boyfriends. I admit that it bothered me for a bit but he and I weren't that serious so i decided to let it slide. And the three of us became really close.
Now, about a few months ago I started talking to this guy who she HATED and was all wrong for me because he was currently in a relationship. He ended up leaving his girlfriend. And recently I found out that my best friend was hooking up with him while he and I were still talking.
We've been in a lot of fights since this, the thing is that we are...
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is this sign of attraction
Posted Wednesday August 17 2011, 1:31 pm
there is this boy i know given me a nick name ana its like a shotened of my name
also aked take a photo of me and he putted on his facebook. I just wondered this is sign of attractiob towards me?
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Should i do it? Every time we are together I am tempted to have sex with him, but I promised I wouldn't!
Posted Wednesday August 17 2011, 6:17 am
i have dated my boyfriend for 4 years nown am 22f still a virgin, we both decide not to have sex till we are married. any time we re together the temptation keeps coming seriously i always fell like doing him too but we just want to keep to our promise and also am so afried of losing my virginity pls what should i do
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becoming outgoing
Posted Tuesday August 16 2011, 9:22 pm
I start college in 2 days and I've been doing a lot of thinking.. I really want to change my attitude. High school wasn't great for me because I am really shy and I didn't have many friends. I really want to change that for college. I'll be a freshman in college and I am a little nervous but kind of excited too. How do I change from being the shy girl to becoming more outgoing and meeting new people and making new friends? I have difficulty starting a conversation with strangers, and I also have difficulty becoming friends with someone. It just seems awkward whenever I ask for their number and ask to hang out.. and if I ever do hang out with them, it just seems so awkward. Please help!
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Be friends with an ex boyfriend or not to be friends? Lengthy
Posted Saturday August 13 2011, 4:09 am
Some History:
Hey I met my ex in July of last year and we were in a relationship for 6 months, on and off, until I just got really sick of him. It's not his fault because I lacked the confidence to be with him, since he's a very handsome boy [He's 19 now I think, I still don't see a man in him yet. I'm older than him by a couple of months]. And he knows about it because I've told him before we got serious about how I was, and how I don't have much self-confidence. We confront each other about problems that we have in our relationship, but whenever I talk to him about other girls that he talks to, he says he'll fix it, but it doesn't feel like anything changes, so I broke up with him. And this same issue just keeps coming up and we ke...
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whats the best way to make friends?
Posted Saturday August 13 2011, 12:43 am
I have a very severe panic attack and anxiety disorder. I'm very bubbly and social when I'm comfortable, but most times my disorders make me nervous and its hard for me to associate with new people. I have a few very good friends but I really want to make more friends. I already take medication but I don't know how to socialize because I get so nervous and end up being shy. Please help me. Does anyone know what I can do?
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I am bff's with the school slut.Is that bad?
Posted Friday August 12 2011, 7:21 pm
Ok I'm 13/f,and I have a bff who's like my sister.Her name is Mercedes.But when we went back to school August 8,we got put into different classrooms.So the school's slut was in my classroom,and we're now bff's.But my friend Mercedes says that's a bad thing.So she get's angry because I'm hanging with the school slut all day everyday.My mom also doesn't approve of that.But they don't really know anything about the school's slut.She's not like people think she is.My mom said that I'm gonna end up acting like her,but I don't think I will,because I was bff's with her before,and didn't act like her.SO,if all of this is happening,should I end me and Shay's (school slut) friendship?Or what should I do?
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Reason to be upset with best friend?
Posted Wednesday August 10 2011, 11:26 pm
Alright, so my best friend from high school and I attend different colleges, about an hour away from each other. We occasionally make the trip to each other's school to hangout but it only happens once in a while due to lack of money and busy schedules. Anyways, I've just moved into a new apartment and my friend has been saying how she really wants to come see my new place and I've been wanting to go down there to see her and hangout. Well I found out tonight that she's in town (where I go to school/live) and didn't get ahold of me. I found out through a mutual friend of ours who she's been having a "thing" with for a year or so now (he's a guy, by the way). But they're all just hanging out and whatnot, so it's not like a date or ...
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Annoying Friend
Posted Wednesday August 10 2011, 3:40 pm
So i have this friend. Lets call her A. We have been friends for about a year now. But she’s starting to get really annoying. Everywhere i go, she wants to go, everything i do, she wants to do it too. And i dont want to hurt her feelings by telling her to back off. And please dont say, talk to her and let her know how you feel.
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my friend has changed
Posted Wednesday August 10 2011, 12:25 pm
my friend has changed and she wont talk to me am i losing her what can i do to get her back?
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Please help me get my friend back
Posted Tuesday August 9 2011, 4:10 pm
Me and my friend were really close. We were too close but i would sometimes feel that he is not a true friend. I would do everything possible for him. He started dating a girl I never approved. I somehow managed to separate them on a bitter note. Later, I developed some differences with my friend and meanwhile by utter misfortune got close to his girlfriend...he would think we are dating so he was very upset. I also didnt bother then and unintentionally hurt him. Later, I realized that the girl is not a nice human being. she is fake and very materialistic and it was just an infatuation. I want my friend back. I feel guilty for all that he had to suffer. He doesn't talk to me at all. I tried to say sorry but everytime it ended on a sour note...
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Broken friendship
Posted Tuesday August 9 2011, 3:20 am
Recently I've lost one of my best friends. After like 10/12 years of being friends things got all sorts of messes up between us; to where we don't even have any kind of communication what so ever anymore. Long story short, I pretty much had to chose between my best friend/lover (my boyfriend/future husband) for 4 years now, and my "so called" best friend for 10 years (prolly longer then that honestly). But anyways they never got along in the beginning because my boyfriend (whom I shall call "my lover" from here on out) didn't want me hanging out with my (ex) best friend without him or not at all at times, because she sleeps with a lot of guys and parties n has cheated on every guy shes ever been with including my brothe...
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