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self -control. patient. Discipline
Posted Monday May 25 2015, 12:48 pm
so i called her on a tuesday 8.15pm rang 4 times i heard her saying something so then i said something then it just ended waited a few to call back same thing rang 4 times I've been asking around if they ever had a problem with there phone like that they all pretty much say that its her phone not me that she purposely hangup i am thingking she's the one thats been wanting to hangout got her not number planning to set a date i should of left a message to let her know that its me that called discipline i didn't wanna make my self look like i have no control no self control lowers interest my plan is when i see her at work i am just gonna get to the point but crap its been almost 2week now when i am working she's not there i am dying to ask...
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Dating and virginity
Posted Monday May 25 2015, 9:13 am
I'm so worried about dating. I'm 18 and in university and I haven't dated anyone or even kissed a guy. I do want to eventually settle down and I have had crushed on guys but it's just so hard for me to talk to them and I feel that sometimes it's just not worth the effort. Then there is a the whole virginity thing, in my culture it's expected that I will only lose my virginity after marriage and I want it to be that way, but it seems so unlikely that someone will want to wait that long! I don't know how to find out if they would or not! Even guys from my culture aren't interested as far as I know! I'm not really sure what kind of advice I want but anything would be helpful I guess! Have you experienced anything similar?
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school's player
Posted Sunday May 24 2015, 2:00 pm
theres this guy from my school and he's pretty hot and popular. he finds me attractive and he said he'd hook up with me.
I want to kiss him but I've never kissed anyone (I'm 16. I swear im not ugly or a nerd lmao).
Should i tell him before hooking up or just let it happen? I don't want him to think that im a bad kisser.
Im just so scared cus i want this to work and everyone says we've got some short of connection.
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Boyfriend can't get over my dating past and wants me to let him have sex
Posted Sunday May 24 2015, 12:32 pm
I am in amazing relationship, one that I've always wanted and dreamed of. Both of us are in our 30's, were were married before to other people and now both divorced, but head over heels in love with each other. There is one problem, he cannot get over my dating past. Before meeting him, I was in two long term relationships ( marriage and one for 6 yrs) and then became single and dated for two years. I met him before he even had the chance to date again, we hit it off immediately and fell in love over time. He said he loves how sexual I am, but hates my past, his resolution is to 1) swing with him and let him have sex with someone in front of me, or 2) participate in a 3 some and let him do his thing in front of me. This kills me, and I do...
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School's play
Posted Sunday May 24 2015, 11:42 am
theres this guy from my school and he's pretty hot and popular. he finds me attractive and he said he'd hook up with me.
I want to kiss him but I've never kissed anyone (I'm 16. I swear im not ugly or a nerd lmao).
Should i tell him before hooking up or just let it happen? I don't want him to think that im a bad kisser.
Im just so scared cus i want this to work and everyone says we've got some short of connection.
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Ways to get over someone?
Posted Sunday May 24 2015, 4:25 am
Girl
So i have a crush from last year, i confessed and fucked things up and but i still have feelings for him. we dont talk to each other anymore so we are basically enemies i think. i really want to get him outta my mind but somehow i cant. any advice for getting over someone? whenever i see him at skl i just feel so sad gusdhfkjl xthanks
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Teenage Attraction Issues????
Posted Sunday May 24 2015, 1:20 am
Hello, I'm a 15 year old girl so obviously I'm starting to explore my attraction boys (and girls) at this point in my life, but I need a bit of advice on a few questions that I have. So this first question could just be the effect of growing up with a father who's kind of racist, but I'm going to ask anyway: I'm a Caucasian girl, so is it strange for me to prefer people of other races over other white boys? I know that the not-so-playful teasing would be endless if I ever brought anything other than a Caucasian boy home. My second question: Is it unusual for me to like more than one person at a time? I'm not attracted to ALL the people at my school obviously, but is it strange to have 4 or 5 boys/girls that I would consider dating instead of being set on one or two people? Thanks a bunch!
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patient and challenge
Posted Friday May 22 2015, 1:58 pm
yeah patient and challenge are twin brothers but that crap is soo hard when you know you got hit by the cupid with his arrow crapp!!it makes you over think about it its like when she's been asking you to hangout with her then you ask her for a number then you called it then it rings 4 times then you hear her you then you said something then it just say call ended
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We were on matrimonail site made me see the 7th heaven than ignored without
Posted Friday May 22 2015, 1:42 pm
Only in 24 hrs he made me feel as if i am his fu than future wife than ignored saying you know what you did?
I to till yesterday emailed him with out any replyies.
NOW WHAT
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Can this workout?
Posted Thursday May 21 2015, 11:19 pm
Is it possible at all for an asexual to date a bisexual?
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I'm going to be alone forever
Posted Thursday May 21 2015, 9:26 pm
Okay, so I'm nearly 16. I know you're going to say that it's too early for me to worry about this, but I GENUINELY believe that I'm going to be alone forever. I'm a guy, and I'm pretty much asexual unless it's Lana Del Rey or Beyoncé or someone like that. I'm fat so I can't have someone like that. I see my friends taking their girlfriends on dates that they complain aren't expensive enough. I am seriously going to be alone until I become a dentist and have a ton of money and have someone marry me for money. I'm going to be miserable. I would really love to do something with houses, or design, because that's what I'm genuinely good at and enjoy doing. But I can't do that because I want to be rich and they make peanuts. It's unrealistic. I'm just so sad right now.
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how do i tell my friend i like her?(were both girls)
Posted Thursday May 21 2015, 7:11 pm
ill give you a lttle background information.. okay so im 16 and my friend is 15. we just started becoming friends a few months ago and we re getting pretty close. So she says shes straight but she s dated a few girls. Every time im with her i always want to be right next to her. and i get jealous whenever she talks about other people. so anyway, i keep having dreams about her. ive had about 4 and they all consist of me and her kissing. the first one we were at my house and we pecked on the lips on accident and we were all shy about it. the second dream we pecked on the lips multiple times like it was normal. the third dream we were in her room and her best friend was mad because she thought she was replacing her with me. So she was ...
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Waiting for my boyfriend who is going to prison part 2
Posted Thursday May 21 2015, 12:11 am
I recently asked the question about whether or not I should wait for my boyfriend who was involved in a prostitution sting...I should have been more specific. It was a child prostitution sting, that's why he's looking at up to 7 years in prison. The ad says 19 year old girl & then when the "john" gets there they make little hints insinuating that she's actually underage. I'm not sure about all the details, & it makes me sick so id rather not know. I've had more time to think about it and obviously I didn't know the real him, only who he pretended to be. I have to move on. But the second question that's been bothering me is should I put him on the birth certificate? I want my son to have my last name for sure. But if this r...
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he read my messaage but isn't replying, is he interested?
Posted Wednesday May 20 2015, 9:21 pm
I met this guy at a party and I thought we really connected, we hang out the whole night, had a lot in common and ended up kissing. He is moving country but I will be there all summer.I messaged him on fb and he took a while but replied but didn't really keep the conversation going and then the day before he was leaving I wished him a good journey and he read it but didn't reply, what does this mean ?
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Hmmmm..what to Do what to do
Posted Wednesday May 20 2015, 7:26 pm
So I set up a date with a lady yesterday i said Starbucks 8.30 pm waiting for the counteroffer waiting waiting she then goes I am going to work out tomorrow if I dont I will feel bad put my shoes into her I use to workout a lot and say if I dont work out I'd fell bad too I use to fell that way her action seems to be telli the trueth then she goes that's a good time to go ill text you tomorrow my guts tells me she's not going bc there was no counteroffer rigth now she texted me back around 710pm I quote Hey!its Laura.i won't be able to make it to Starbucks today.I forgot that after work I needed to stay for meeting hmmmmm say if she texted me around 8.15 or 830 that would be a different story but she gave me an hour to think about her acti...
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What is the best way to handle this guy?
Posted Wednesday May 20 2015, 3:25 pm
I've been talking to this guy I met about 2 months ago, Im 24 he's 25. We've met up maybe 3 times, he's really busy so we meet up when we can. Most of our relationship was through texting, and it was fun. When we did meet up it was effortless and comfortable and it got a little hot too. The first week we started talking I got this weird vibe that something was off so I told him I needed a break from texting almost every hour of everyday, not long after we picked back up where we left off, no problems, and I apologized for being cautious. The other two times that we hung out followed after that, and from my view it was perfect, we connected, he was very affectionate, but then the last time we hung out we were making out and before he left h...
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now i am really confuse
Posted Tuesday May 19 2015, 9:06 pm
so this girl at work she's been asking me to hangout with her she says since you go surfing let me go with you teach me how the sign that i can think of attraction is there so finally i got the nerve to ask her number waited about a week to call tuesday around 8.15pm called it ring at about 4times then i heard her talking then it just ended what is that all about waited a few minutes called again she didn't pick up what is that all about
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BOYFRIEND PROBLEMS
Posted Tuesday May 19 2015, 8:38 pm
My boyfriend tends to stay away from me when i get upset. He normally walks with me before lunch and today he ditched me for his friend, he knows im upset. Hes been ditching me during lunch because he claims he wants to eat, idk why he can eat around me but whatever. Around the end of lunch he realized i was really upset so he came and walked me to my next class but now he is leaving me on read and i asked him why he stays away and he sys he doesnt wanna make it worse, but i just want to talk to him not about what happend but to get my mind off things. I think he wants to break up with me sometimes but he never does and we end up having these really deep moments at the end of the night and i just dont know what to do
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Waiting for my boyfriend who is in jail for a prostituion sting
Posted Tuesday May 19 2015, 2:01 am
Ok, so I have been with my boy"friend" for almost 2 years, our relationship has been good, not perfect of course, but I honestly felt like he was my life partner, my best friend. Or so he said! Well I am 7 months pregnant with our first son, 5 days ago I got a call saying that he had tried picking up a prostitute and got caught in an undercover sting. He is looking at several years in prison. He seems really sorry, but he also seemed like he really loved me. Should I wait for him?
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Is my girlfriend unfaithful?
Posted Monday May 18 2015, 5:54 pm
So, my girlfriend and I have been together for a couple months, and I've been kind of unhappy. She is very unaffectionate to me, never wants to kiss or hug at school, but she holds hands, and hugs her friends at school, and has even cuddled with them outside of school. I'm very uncomfortable about this, and I've mentioned it before to her, but when i do, i get a "it's a joke, calm down" and a lecture from her friends that "I'm in the wrong" she's always sending her friends kissy emoji's and hearts, calls her friends "boo" and "bae" but i get no terms of endearment, almost no affection from her. It's "okay" for her to joke around about cuddling with other boys, but the second i mention someth...
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