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is this sign of attraction?
Posted Wednesday September 14 2011, 1:13 pm
hello i went to swimming yeaterday.
when i got out from the swimming pool and walked towards life guards to pass the key,
there were two life guard one is girl and the other one was boy.
they were sitting together and when i passed the key to the girl life guards. boy life guard was really looking at me fo rlong time with smile on his face and the girl life guard finally passed the key to the boy.
i just wondered wheather the boy life guard liked me though i know its a silly thing to ask but im just bit curious.
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How can I comfort my friend ?
Posted Tuesday September 13 2011, 11:09 pm
My friend was hugging me today and crying because she's on her period and she said it really hurts. She wants me to cuddle with her. Is it ok ? What else can I do to help her ?
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Bad Pics on FB (facebook) how do I get them taken down?
Posted Monday September 12 2011, 12:54 am
i have a lot of body image problems and struggled with eating disorders in my late teens. i've been getting better and i've realized that no body is perfect. but, it's not all better. recently, i went to the beach with some friends (sorority sisters) and we took some pics. sometimes, when u sit down, u look worst than when your standing up (lol), and i really want pics of me from the internet removed that i'm not comfortable with. it's not anything bad. i just feel like i look fat and i'm not comfortable with these pictures on the internet for the wold to see. how can i ask her in a nice way to take them off without coming off as mean and without revealing all my body image problems?
thanks
20/f btw
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I really don't want to lose my best friend over this... any advice?
Posted Saturday September 10 2011, 5:05 pm
me and my best friend are both 17/f. she and her family are currently living with me as of 3 weeks ago. we've had our differences before. It was mainly about boys. I'd never lose my friendship with her over a guy persay, its just different. I expect her not to flirt and be all over the guy that i like; However, she does it anyways. she's a flirty person and she says she doesnt know that shes flirting with them, but that's bullshit to me because she doesnt flirt with any ugly guys. and you have to KNOW that you're flirting. seriously, i know when i flirt with guys. anyways, we have this friend. all i did was ask her to control herself and NOT ruin the friendship by going after him. what she does is she likes them for a short time, then dumps...
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OMG WTH!
Posted Saturday September 10 2011, 9:56 am
OKkkk! So i have a bestfriend and he has a girlfriend who happens to be my cousin but honestly she is a "SLUT!" he wants to leave but she always make ways for him to come back ((HE SAYS HE LOVE HER) Just recently He called me mad as JASON ((the killer lls)) sayn she BLOW JOB his blood brother! IM LIKE WTFFFFF and he wants me :/ WHAT SHOULD I SAY?
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did he do something wrong?
Posted Thursday September 8 2011, 10:52 pm
I have been hanging out with this guy for the past few months. He is very friendly and flirty with all of his friends that are girls. One night, he got my number from somebody and started asking me if I like him. I can't take him seriously, but I felt kind of bad for him so I told him kind of. For the next few days, he kept bringing it up. He would stop replying right after I answered the question and tried to make the conversation less awkward. I finally got fed up with it when he asked me if I had a boyfriend, so I told him that I didn't like him. I go back to school the next day to find out that he told my friend about it. She told me that he did the same thing to her and to another one of my friends. The sad thing is that we th...
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an abuse of religious values with a close friend
Posted Thursday September 8 2011, 8:24 am
emotionally what can happen to a morman man if he does the ultimate betrayal and has sex with a woman of no religious values?
i am left feeling vry confused and am not sure what the outcome will be.
i know this will most likley destroy our friendship but am worried about how this wil mentally affect him?
both people involved are 22
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making my 'friend' eat her words!
Posted Wednesday September 7 2011, 5:35 am
so i've been in this small group of friends for quite a while now and when this girl (let's call her lara) came into our group she automatically made herself leader. i've always hated her but all my friends just love her so i can't do much. i feel like she's stealing my friends because all they do is follow her... except me since i just can't stand her so i end up being left out. anything i do is never good enough and she's never happy for me. also she only talks to me when she needs something only. i was wondering if there's anyway to prove her wrong thinking she's cooler than me and that i'm just boring. so don't get me wrong please but i think it's time i show off my newly found talents (without looking like i'm doing it on purpose) i've...
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ex friends and ex boyfriend
Posted Wednesday September 7 2011, 4:22 am
i just broke up with my boyfriend last week and he's going around to all of my ex best friends that he broke up with me? im really confused and apparently he is making things up about me? does anyone have an idea of why hes doing this?
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How to get my friends off my back about me and my dad showering together!?
Posted Wednesday September 7 2011, 1:48 am
OK so I am 15/f and need some advice on how to get my friends to stop bugging me. So i shower with my dad till this day and I see nothing wrong with it nor does he. Its how we bond. Just cuz they dont do it doesnt mean its not normal right? My dad says its cuz they dont have the same bond with their dads as me and him. And they keep telling me stuff i dont need to hear. So my question is how do i get my friends to stop bugging me about showering with my dad
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becoming more outgoing/gaining friendships
Posted Monday September 5 2011, 12:54 pm
19/f.
I am seeking advice on making some new friends and in mending previous friendships. In the past, I've been really shy and uptight when I meet people, and I feel as though I may come across to new people as being unfriendly...and my old friends don't really ask me to hang out anymore. I miss them and I feel uncomfortable asking them to get together because I am scared of rejection and awkwardness. I do really care about my friends and miss their presence in my life, but I don't know how to show it.
I want to change this perspective that I think people have of me, and I want to make new friends and become close with my old friends again.
It's my second year of college and I commute to classes daily ...
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friends again?
Posted Monday September 5 2011, 2:31 am
There was this girl let's call her Jessica. Jessicaa and I were best friends all of our high school years. We were glued to the hip and everyone at school knew we were like sisters. But when college started things got rockey for us. We drifted and soon she had a new bes friend. It hurt and stuff but I tried to let go. Jessicaa posted pictures of her new bff on fb, she introducted her bff to her parents and family(something she never did with me. I don't reaally know why). I saw how her and her bff started getting new college friends aand Jessica started doing the saame things her bff did. I felt replaaced and put down. Jessica was still hanging out with our commen friends but she wouldn't give me aa call or something. But recently she has s...
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She treats me really badly...
Posted Sunday September 4 2011, 6:53 pm
I am a 14 yr old girl going into gr 9 and i have one friend who treats me really badly she went as far as to tells me i was ugly and so was my grad dress.(which she knew i loved) i dont know how much longer i can put up with her abuse (both pyhsical as well as mental) but dont know how a can not be friends with her and still be friends with my other friends, as they will most likly hang out with her.....
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Adding people on facebook so I am not alone at university when I get there?
Posted Thursday September 1 2011, 4:01 pm
Okay well in a few weeks I am going to university near London, and as I'm from the countryside and quite far away I started browsing through the facebook pages for the uni and tried talking to people/adding them like a lot of people are doing, mostly so I wouldn't be totally alone haha.
Anyway, I added some guys and girls (and a few added me as well) but when I try and talk to the men they just don't seem like they want to talk at all, like single word answers and then they just stop all together, which to be honest, isn't helping me think I'll fit in at all.
The other thing is a lot of the people are black/dark which to me isn't a problem because I have a black boyfriend but I don't know if that is why I'm getting t...
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to tell, or not to tell?
Posted Wednesday August 31 2011, 4:43 pm
i have 4 friends: A, J, D, and P. A and J are together (in an open relationship, so they hook up with other people). P and D are together. A and P used to be together, but they broke up a year ago. A and D have been best friends since they were really young.
now, onto the problem: J told me the other day that P and A hooked up when P was with D. J's not one to lie about something like that. A and P have been my friends longer than i've been friends with D but i know i should tell her what i heard. but i was thinking i'd do a bit of research first.
and my questions are:
A) should i tell D what J told me?
B) if i want to make sure its really true, how do i find out?
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my bestfriend won't leave her bf's side because he's moving
Posted Tuesday August 30 2011, 10:23 am
My best friend and I use to spend almost everyday together. We are both females & 26. I have a 1 year old daughter and my best friend is/was a significant part of her life as well. Her boyfriend just quit his job because he is moving 6 hours away. He's not positive when he's moving but possibly in 2 months. Now that he has quit his job they spend every night and day together. The only time I see her is if her BF has something else to do. This really hurts my feelings and I'm feeling taken advantage of. She came to my house last night,for the 1st time in 3weeks (her BF was at one of his friends house). She couldn't get here until 12:30am but we planned on watching one of our favorite shows and even though I had to get up at 6am w/ my bab...
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My best friend wants to hang out with my cousin?!
Posted Monday August 29 2011, 3:08 pm
I'm extremely worried because I have an amazing friend and we hang out as a threesome with my cousin, who's 13. (like me) I think that my friend would much rather hang out with my cousin than me, and my cousin discreetly keeps trying to get me away as much as possible. Unfortunately, it works, and so they spend lots of time without me and I think they're becoming best friends and slowly (and non-deliberately) pushing me out! Please help me!
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My friends don't understand my occasional drug use..
Posted Monday August 29 2011, 1:32 am
So please try to understand me and what I'm about to say. I'm a sixteen year old female and I've had the same group of friends since I was in 6th grade we're in 10th grade now. There are six girls within our 'group'. Two of which I can trust and tell anything and not be afraid of them judging me or talking about me behind my back. Another two I can tell things too but I don't know how they really feel because they tend to agree with anyone who is talking; I kind of think they don't like confrontation and just kind of follow what everyone else at the time is saying and just go along with it. The last two are the ones who I have the most problems with lately and who were also my closest friends and constantly judge what I do- I will refer to ...
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How are relationships online different from relationships IRL?
Posted Saturday August 27 2011, 11:11 pm
I seem to have no idea how to make friends IRL. Internet has been a major part of my life since I was 8, and now at 17 I'm frusterated at my lack of ability to become close to people IRL. It's like I cant trust people, and I feel like if I dont have things in common with other people (as I often feel I don't) I don't know how to be friends cause idk what to talk about and to make things not awkward. I'm just sick of never hanging out with people and having a legit child/teen experience
Please be detailed, and I'll love you.
It's like I feel like a lot of people already don't like me, even though they don't know me, just from what they've seen of me at school like all quiet and timid when it's really because I'm...
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What does it mean to live a sheltered life?
Posted Saturday August 27 2011, 9:28 pm
My friend says Im naive and that I live a sheltered life, but I hang out with him all the time. I dont think Im spoiled either. What does he mean?
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