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What should I do about my fiance's broken down car?
Posted Saturday June 6 2015, 5:47 pm
My fiance and I have been living together for 2 years, with 2 cars.
I have a 2011 Hybrid that I'm financing for $316/m and he has a 2000 GMC Jimmy that was passed down to him.
Two weeks ago his truck broke down. Since then we've poured $300 into it to figure out what's wrong with it and turns out he needs a new engine. The truck isn't even worth enough to put a new engine in and we do not have the money to buy him a new truck.
We're 20 & 23, I work part time and go to college full time and I need all the extra money I have to pay off my school loans and car. He works full time but he only makes $13/hr - minus taxes so more like $10/hr.
On top of my part-time job I occasionally do fre...
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Could I be pregnant even though it feels like my period is coming?
Posted Friday June 5 2015, 11:19 am
20/f
My periods are mostly irregular. I had my last period on April 17. When I first had sex with my current boyfriend,on May 26,the period was already nine days late. I didn't have sex until then. We had sex twice and used a condom both times. But after our first time I've started having cramps in my uterus,my breasts hurt,just like when I'm about to have a period. What are the chances that I got pregnant?
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Do I need to disclose my past?
Posted Friday June 5 2015, 12:26 am
Before I met my current boyfriend, I was dating someone much older than me, with a lucrative past (he lied about his past, and even his age at first). My boyfriend knows about this guy, but not the details; certainly not his age.
He's never asked, but should I tell him? What if he doesn't want to be with a girl who has a stain on her past?
Thanks :)
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Boyfriend leaving for college. Any ideas for goodbye presents?
Posted Thursday June 4 2015, 11:55 pm
So, my boyfriend is a senior in high school, and I'm a freshman. My parents were previously begrudgingly okay with us dating, but due to a rather silly misunderstanding, they now forbid it. I don't want to go into the details; really, it's irrelevant. My boyfriend is super smart and nerdy and cute, and I really like him, though I'll admit the idea of a long distance relationship really worries me. He'll forget all about me at college. I know he'd say he wouldn't, but it always works that way. And, I know- my parents say no. But they literally don't understand; they refuse to. And this guy was my first kiss, and it's really the first serious relationship I've ever had, and I won't let that end just because my parents forbid it. I was friend...
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I want to ask out a woman who is physically out of my league
Posted Thursday June 4 2015, 10:59 am
So there is is teller that works at my bank. She's been there for a while and sometimes I do get the feeling that she might be interested because she either is more talkative to me than others or makes an extra effort to be the one who serves me (unless that's just in my head and wishful thinking which it could be).
Sorry to use the rather generic and superficial way to classify this but as far as looks go, I'm probably a "6" or in a good day a "7" and on a VERY RARE occasion some with lower standards might put me at an "8". She, on the other hand, is easily a "9" and in my opinion a "10". So, there's a big gap.
I've never been one to easily approach women anyw...
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What do I do about my relationship?
Posted Thursday June 4 2015, 4:34 am
Hi there,
Ive written here before and going to summarize before I get to the point.
Im in a long distance relationship,Ive loved this man for about 4 years now,we met when we were teens,Im 25,he is 26.He is California,I am in Washington.
4 years ago,I knew when I re-connected with him,that I liked him,and made a choice,to pursue him.
We were friends of course,and were flirty and one day I said I love him,and he admitted the same. Things were great,and then he went through some things,and he seperated himself from me,during that time,we say hi and bye,and I was always there for him,and we re-connected and picked up where we left off,time passed,nothing official,but it was nice. But some parts in bewteen didnt alwa...
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i love my boyfriend but really is he the best for me?
Posted Thursday June 4 2015, 12:05 am
I love my boyfriend & he loves me. I've never been in a long term-long distance relationship before. We talk every night & when do get to hang around each other is soo hard to part ways. but he has a lot of issues... 2 kids.. 2Baby mommas .. i have met one kid/mom the other lives States away.. i have NO kids.
I knew him in the past and loved him ever since and now that hes in my life again and hes said he's always loved me it seems like a fairytale .. like are we really soulmates? He says he want me & obly me and forever.
but i go on his facebook and he asks ppl about other girls. not often actually just today but he is an alcoholic and i don't want to make excusess.. he also pokes" other women... is that le...
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My Boyfriend bought condoms
Posted Monday June 1 2015, 11:31 pm
Hi I'm Jay and I'm 15 and my boyfriend told me he bought condoms today, he's 16, and we haven't done anything more than make out and touching.And him buying condoms is kind of shock to me, I asked him why he bought them and he said just in case but we won't be doing anything anytime soon. He knows I'm still iffy on having sex and that I'm not sure If I want to do it yet. What does this mean. Is he planning on having sex with me? Any advice would be helpful. Thanks
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ask a woman out
Posted Monday June 1 2015, 4:12 am
so i work with this woman she's been wanting to hangout so got her number i called her up her phone rang 4 times heard her saying something then it just say on the phone call ended i am pretty sure its her phone not me being hang up you know when something that isn't right when you work in the restaurant they all talk about the bad and the good i have not seen her or talk to her for almost 2 too 3 weeks the vibe that i am getting from my co work is a very positive one so j am sure by now she's talking to my co work you know how the ladys are they like to talk about guys i bet she's wondering how come jomie hasn't called or text my plan is just get to the point what i am thinking is just go to my work wait for her to get off and ask her to ...
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Does guys end up telling their true feelings
Posted Monday June 1 2015, 3:29 am
I am a senior at high school and told my friend I liked him. It got awkward but we talked it out and he told me he kind of likes me too but doesn't want to date because of differences (religion) and the awkwardness went away. Now a couple of months later he seems distant and won't contact me. I asked if he is upset at me and he said no. Do guys eventually end up saying how they actually feel? Or will be never tell and just ignore me forever? Any other way to find out? Thanks.
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breakup help
Posted Sunday May 31 2015, 5:47 pm
21/f
so i have been dating this guy for about a month. i just left back to san fransisco for the summer and he will be in chicago so we wont see eachother for 3 months. we spoke about what to do over the summer vaguely and i thought i was clear in saying we should end things but then i said we could still keep in touch which i think he took as that we are still dating. he calls and texts me and lot and acts very boyfriendy and i geniunly enjoy talking to him but do not want to be "together" all summer and dont really want to pick things back up next year. He likes me a lot though and thinks things are going very well so im not sure how to say i didnt meant that we should stay together without hurting his feelings. just nee...
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Confused over love
Posted Sunday May 31 2015, 12:16 am
Hi my name is Sarah and I am 17 years old. I am writing this letter to get advice about something involving me and my boyfriend Greg who have been dating for a year and 7 months I believe. The love that I have for Greg has faded away and I don't feel the same way as I did before about us dating. Iv attempted to break up with him before but I would usually end up crying, for unknown reasons, then trying to convince myself what I know is true, which is that I know it's best for me and for him. He also always finds a way to pull me back into the relationship. Recently I have been starting to have feeling for someone else so this relationship needs to come to an end but I'm afraid that the next time I try I will just start crying again for no r...
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sexual orientation?
Posted Friday May 29 2015, 8:11 pm
I'm 11, and i seriously think i am bi. I remember being young, not knowing what gay or bi meant, and I would play family with friends, sometimes i wanted to be a mommy with another mommy, or i would like to be a mommy with a daddy, or i would see men and women and think i wouldn't mind dating either. I like seeing guys shirtless, and I also have watched the Anaconda video a few hundred times because it turned me on. Not sure if it is because Nicki is more developed, or I'm bi. But i know i am not straight. I knew forever i wasn't into just boys. I've tried to tell my mom, but i feel she would prefer if i was straight and would only like guys, because she is constantly trying to find more evidence to shut it down. I've also been a little po...
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if i should break it off
Posted Thursday May 28 2015, 10:01 pm
My bf is really shy and doesn't talk much so I feel like he doesn't accnolage me enough. Plus he shut off ALL contact way with me and I found another guy I like. So should I break up with him since he practaly ignores me?I'm a teen.
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call back
Posted Wednesday May 27 2015, 12:18 pm
i know you don't wanna act needy when you phone a lady I've always have a rule that you only call ones then if she doesn't answer wait a week to call back but this one it rang 4 times heard her saying something so then i said something waited a few to call back did it sounded i was desperate to call back again i mean if i knew it was her phone i would of left a message which also in my rule no messages after 60days but this one i didnt know if it was her or the phone i have never come across on something like this
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patient
Posted Wednesday May 27 2015, 12:09 am
i am not even gonna mention it a couple days ago i ask this lady out she seems very happy to go out i ask her to go to starbucks mined you the starbucks is just a walking distance she texted me around 7pm the date was at 9 she says on the text sorry i forgot i have to stay on a meeting shit man!!how irresponsible you are to not know you have a meeting plus there was no counteroffer broken dates is a deadly sin theres is on dating no counteroffer next!!!!this one i am not even gonna give her the idea to text me that she can't go i am gonna make her think that i don't care i wanna make her think that she's not the only and i think that is called challenge shit man girl this crap to test us guys well you know what she's pissing on a wrong tree
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How to get someone to think you exciting and maybe like you
Posted Tuesday May 26 2015, 10:44 pm
K this is such a dumb question but this guy I really like (he's older) and I always try and say or ask random funny things to get him to think I'm exciting and funny, like even if he never likes me that way, as long as he thinks I'm awesome that's okay with me. I'm 16 by the way and okay the guy I like is my teacher. I'm just running out of funny or exciting things to say does anyone have any suggestions?
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my question is about a long distance relationship
Posted Tuesday May 26 2015, 3:07 pm
hi, im 19 years of age and im doing my 1st year.im in a long distance relationship.im truly, crazy, deeply inlove with my bf and I care a lot about him.we haven't spent time together but next week on weekend im going to spend time wth him 4 the 1st time.he stays at pretoria becoz of school and im stay in venda bt next week im goin to pretoria. wheneva I call him n we talk I feel loved n happy.evn if wen I was said wen I was calling him my sadness goes away.but im tbe one who call him bt he never calls.we have 2 weeks dating.we just chat on whatsapp bt not all the time.we chat nicely bt smtyms he will read my last text n he will not reply :( .he can send me a good morning msg on watsap or Im de 1 who can 1st send n we will not talk again unt...
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ok i really need help?
Posted Tuesday May 26 2015, 1:15 am
Im 20 and a female, i will be using letters (v) and (k) for the guys
this guy (v) i been talking to is all that i could ask for he's the man of my dreams i could say but we haven't gotten to love, but i like him a lot.
the story twist around now
i was talking to this other guy (k) before (v), and (k) was a cool man but he started to get super crazy controlling and assumed i was having sex with other people, the crazy thing about that is, me and (k) haven't had sex haven't kissed let alone we haven't even said we were together like boyfriend girlfriend.
me being 20 i gave him a chance
so i meet (v) around the time where i told (k) we can no longer talk but (k) is no...
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No connection
Posted Monday May 25 2015, 11:47 pm
Hi I'm a 31 year old male, and about 6 months ago I ended a 4 year relationship, And about 6 weeks ago I met another young lady, thing is with my last relationship, we had the biggest connection ever, Like we were inseparable... And with the new girl, she's attractive, have a nice career... but it's too demanding, and some days we barely talk, she goes to bed to early, we mainly communicate via text message, because we live in two separate states, so when we do communicate, it's always so many time lapse between texts, and I like her, but she bores me, are conversations never have any real foundation, and she's just seems too busy for a relationship... Yet she makes the effort to text message me daily, multiple times a day, Were barely tog...
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