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Friendship
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My friends low esteem


Posted Friday September 3 2004, 11:37 pm

My friend is always feeling really bad about herself. Were only 14 but she thinks that there is something wrong with her because she has never been asked out or had a real boyfriend. She's always jealous of other people. I keep telling her that she can't focus on what everybody else has that she doesn't or what other people can do better than her. I try to tell her that there are so many good things about her, but she won't listen. It's frustrating to me because I want her to see what everybody else sees, a funny, creative, beautiful girl. I told her to stop feeling sorry for herself. What do I do to make her feel better about herself? How can I help her to love herself?

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Posted Friday September 3 2004, 5:46 pm

my bff just asked if i wanted to sleep over and i dont like her house i hate sleepin over there... should i go over there or should i tell her no? plZzzz HElpp

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sorry this is so long =/


Posted Friday September 3 2004, 4:43 pm

this is gonna be long so bare with me!

i was dating this guy from December 23rd to April 24th. he broke up with me because he said that he never got to see me enough. i thought i was in love with him and i would have given up everything for him. i was ready to give him my virginity. i didn't though (thank god) because i found out that he was going around and messing with other girls. i had begged him before i found that out to come back to me and he said "when we start school i'll think about it because i still do love you." well about a month later i met this really amazing guy named tim and we've been together since may 22nd and i love him more than anything in the world. he treats me so great and he would never ...

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Posted Friday September 3 2004, 3:29 pm

Hello. Here is the situtation (sorry if its long)

Im a freshman in high scool, and I have 2 really good friends. One of them, let's call her Jacki, is really close to me, weve been friends for a long time. My other good friend is Kelsey, I havent known her as long as Jacki and we arent as close as Jacki and I are. So, unfortunetely Jacki went to a different high school then me, but me and Kelsey are at the same school. So, me and Kelsey have been hanging out at school, but the past two days she hasn't been talking to me that much. She sits at the opposite side of the lunch table, she hardly talks to me, and she talks to other people. I have other friends at the table and everything, but it really makes me feel bad because I f...

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Posted Friday September 3 2004, 2:47 pm

im 11 and ive had my period and im pregnant what should i do

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when is enough, enough?


Posted Friday September 3 2004, 2:32 pm

alrightt now i have this ex who just doesnt know when enough is ENOUGH !! i mean let alone does he call me naims, he does it almost 24/7! its like he assumes hes over me but all he can do is say "ugh shes so ugly!" and stupid stuff like that. better yet hes trying to get his friends (also mine) turned against me ! hell be like "say shes ugly or ill kick u in the balls" and its like .. umm no? THERE MY FRIENDS TOO JACKASS !!! but the thing is the 3 ppl who he hangs out with are like super close to me. and there all bigger than him and more mature so idk y they dont jus put him in his place. hes spoiled and it makes me mad to see him get his way and always talk about me. schools in like 5 days and i knowww wen he sees me h...

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Posted Friday September 3 2004, 1:46 pm

hey i was wondering if neone had ne cute screen name ideas~ i am 16/f and have a truck that i love and love the color pink and am crazy and like 2 hang out and do almost nething, that is just some stuff 2 try and help wit the name. thanks it will help alot cuz i have no idea what my new sn should b *i will rate high* THANKS

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my best friend


Posted Friday September 3 2004, 1:44 pm

alrighty then my best friend that i've been bests friends w/ for like 4 yrs won't speak to me. and i had no idea why until yesterday --- i'm going out w/ chris and i just found out that she had feelings for him and i told her that i'd break up w/ him just so she could try to have him and she wont say a word and i try to talk to her but she just ignores me so i dont know if i should break up w/ chris...i mean i really really like him and he treats me right.....doesnt try to have sex w/ me, he just holds my hand and kisses me, and is always there when i need him most...i just dont know wat to do...help please i need it
~*lashes*~

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my friend !


Posted Friday September 3 2004, 1:12 pm

Well i am 14 years old and I am a female !! Ok me and my friend always get in big fights and she is always tellikg me on how i am such a baby for liking some of male stars like aaron carter and Dream street ! And I don't know if she is a good friend or not !! I feel like she doesn't like me for who i am !! And she always wants to get together with me but she is always busy when I am and I am always busy when she is !! Well i hope u can give me some advice if ahe is a good friend or not !! thanxs !!


Needing advice !!!

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UGH!..srry if it is long


Posted Friday September 3 2004, 11:41 am

okay..my best friend i love her and everything, but she has this level of flirting that is like wayy over the line. and when ever she goes out wtih someone she like flirts wtih other guys and i tell her that she has a bf and she is like..so he cheated on me! and omg! and whenever she isn't going out with anyone she flirts bigggg time with other guys like she is a slut! and we actyally have some sluts at our school (like gurls gogot "fingerd" or w/e) and she also got fingerd but i am one of the only people who knows about it and i just dont know what to do! please help me!?

~*~*Dazed and Confused*~*~

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My friend


Posted Friday September 3 2004, 12:25 am

anyone have idea`s when there stressed.. or shitty mood and feel blahh how to cheer up.
any thing im out of ideas..

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I need self esteem help


Posted Thursday September 2 2004, 8:13 pm

well im about to turn 14 and i have a low self esteem really low and i try to be all happy and wut not but its hard and i talked to my best friend about it and he was like totaly insoulting me and telling me im a idiot for thinking the way i do and wut not.and i dont like the way i look at all but imn thankful 4 wut i do have and im am really shy and i dont think i can go on with life like this cause all i practicly do is put myslef down and now its like part of me and im trying to lose that but its like im alwayz putting myself down for some reason and i feel like if im the worst person in the world and i dunno wut do anymore plz help!

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sneaking around


Posted Thursday September 2 2004, 7:38 pm

hi . ok well im 14 and last weekend my friend and i went to the movies and she wanted to invite her b/f who's 17 . well his friend who is 18 drove here and stayed . well we went into the movie "open water" but then they threw us out cuz we were underage or sum shyt . so we left the theater cuz there was nuffin else betta to see . so we stayed by the guys car and were wondering what to do . so we sat in the car and listened to music and like 3 min. later he's pulling out of the parking spot and he's like " lets go driving round" and i was panicking cuz like what if he got into a car accident or got pulled ova . and i seriously thot i was guna piss my pants literally . so i told him to turn the car around and go bak to the...

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Posted Thursday September 2 2004, 3:58 pm

ok well i had a bestfriend that i did everything wiid..i spent lyk a week wiid her cuz of 4th of July she was tha only gurl that understud me..n`d everything..but my one friend told her i talked bout her n`d everything..i never did tho..alot my guys lyked her n`d made me a lil mad sometimes but thats it..i saw her at tha fair lyk everyday but never said nething to her..i lyk miss her alot hope u can help me*


Liz

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yeah.. sorry if this is confusing


Posted Thursday September 2 2004, 3:58 pm

Alright well first of all.. I'm 16/female.. if you needed that info to help me out or whatever

Well.. last night I was over at my friend caitlin's house and we got bored so we walked around the corner and met up with some friends(rachel,chrus,anthony,katie) and we were hangin out talkin and what not.. and then we decided to walk back to rachels house.. so we're walkin and talkin and I'm a smart ass.. and someone said somethin stupid so i made a remark about it.. ya know? but chris stares at me and laughs.. like nto staring bad way.. just staring.. but yeah.. then we're back at rachels and chris wanted to swim so he strips down to his boxers and jumps in.. hah it was cute.. but anywhos.. the whole time when we're all sittin ou...

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friend problem


Posted Thursday September 2 2004, 2:08 am

I have a big problem. Its this boy that i know but he is my friend though but i like him as more than a friend. But when we are talkin on the phone its like were boy friend and girlfriend.I had went out with him b 4 we b came friends then i ask him would he ever cheat on a girl and he said yes. So should i go back with him?

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best guy friend's gf


Posted Thursday September 2 2004, 2:04 am

okay, my best guy friend has this gf, theyve been goin out on and off for like almost 2 years now....me and her have ALWAYS been sooo kool with eachother, like i usta hhellaa like her n stuff...but they like ALWAYS fight and she could be tha biggest bitch to him...ive never said anything to her about it like stuck up for my best guy friend cause his gf was being a bitch to him...so ive had all this anger built up inside of me against her cause she can be so rude to him...so neway acouple nights ago me and my best [girl] friend got drunk and my other best guy friend was there...and they were fighting on tha phone so i got on tha phone and said with some aditute..listen do u even know how MUCH he LOVES u..i sware he would like die for u...a...

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I like him so much!


Posted Thursday September 2 2004, 12:27 am

OK well there is a boy that i have gotten to know and he isso cute and so sweet.Well i like him and he told me he likes me but he has a GF!!!!!!well me and him flirt alot andhe knows how i feel about him and it seems like his gf and him dont really get along much cause they began going out the SAME DAY they met i mean come on get to know the person before u get with them but in there case they didn't.well when i c them togeather i feel bad because i REALLY like him and when he's with me it's like we belong togeather but i dunno wut to do because i feel like the OTHER gurl and he likes me but i dont see y he still with his gf.IM CONFUSED!!!!!

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my friend....


Posted Wednesday September 1 2004, 9:17 pm

Ok, me and my friend **J have been friends a little less than a year. And well things between us have ALWAYS been more than just friendly (yes, like friends with benefits), but we can't ever be just friends. As soon as he finds a girlfriend, or a friend he who he likes more than me that will be flingy with, he leaves me alone, I mean he completely stops talking to me. Well the first time I got REALLY attached to him, I would have done anything for him. Then he hurt me, really really really bad, to the point where I started cutting. Then I finally forgot about him and as soon as I have COMPLETELY erased him from my memory, he started talking to me again. It started getting super friendly again, and I tried to not get o attached and I guess I...

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Posted Wednesday September 1 2004, 8:15 pm

Well...yesterday after school my friend Aaron and I talked while we were waiting to get picked up from school...he brought up my ex Robbie who is his Aaron's bestfriend...usually he doesn't...Well I decided to ask if he still went to HMMS and Aaron was just staring at the ground wouldn't look at me and kept smiling saying "No...well I don't know" & then I was like well does he go to SV then? and Aaron wouldn't look at me just staring at the ground smiling...so we dropt that subject...then I get home...and I decide to IM mine and my ex's friend, Jennifer...well she said Robbie told her he's either going to Byrd (My school) or Griffin (My bestfriend's school)...Well I haven't seen him at Byrd and my friend hasn't seen him at Gri...

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