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i am so sick of getting hurt!
Posted Saturday October 8 2011, 9:55 am
i just feel so alone. i mean i have felt like this before but not as much. i think i know why though. it's just that i have 5 close friends right? 1 of them let's call her Sarah (my best friend) doesn't have time for me anymore because she recently got a boyfriend. the other double faced one: Stacia. she's a snob. she has a boyfriend and everyone seems to love her. she's more of a frenemy than a friend. the third: Kristy. she's stacia's shadow. and she and even sarah sometimes end up hurting me when they're around stacia only. then there's lara who's really nice and all. she just got a boyfriend and as you can see i'm not the most popular with the guys... or girls for that matter. i just want to know how i can make a new group of friends. ...
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I don't want him to be around me
Posted Thursday October 6 2011, 9:53 pm
Recently I switched my schedule so I could have a drawing and painting class to work on my portfolio. My teacher placed me at te end of the class next to this sophomore , David. He seemed real nnice at first, but then he just kept staring at me and making odd comments about everything. And he breathes on me heavily(his breath stinks).
I really want to switch seats but another girl Maggi sits there and thinks David is a real creeper too.
I don't want to say anything to him cause that's mean.
And I don't want to ask the teacher cause she might put me in a MORE uncofortable position.
How can I get this creeper vibe out of my system??
I'm 16/f/junior in high school. I don't know what age he is. About 15?
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Sexual Harassment?
Posted Monday October 3 2011, 5:15 pm
Hi. I'm a 23-y-o, straight female. I've had the same best friend since 3rd grade (15 years). She often brings up sexual topics in a way that bothers me. I know I'm too much of a prude, so sometimes I feel like I shouldn't be bothered.
I wouldn't mind talking about it so much if she and her BF were having issues or she needed advice on something (not that I could provide it). Usually, though, she's just bragging, pretending to hit on me (we're both straight girls), going into way too much detail or making crude jokes. This happens almost every time I hang out with her and I tell her to stop and that it bothers me and nine times out of ten, she'll do it again a few minutes later.
Sometimes, when we hang out with ...
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Friend
Posted Saturday October 1 2011, 8:21 pm
Who is My true friend?
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Are those signals, or just my imagination?
Posted Thursday September 29 2011, 6:10 pm
I like this guy (age 17) that is one of my best friends, and sometimes I feel like he might like me too, but I'm not sure. I told him about a problem that I have with someone who parks next to me at school, and now he walks me to my car to be sure there isn't a problem. Also, one time I was talking to a friend, and he asked me to leave my friend because he wanted me to hang out with him. He tells me he loves me on a daily basis, but I'm just not sure if it's possible he likes me too... what do you think??
Thanks Jennifer (age 16)
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How do I stop my roommate from inviting someone over?
Posted Tuesday September 27 2011, 10:32 pm
20/F
Long story short, I have 3 roommates. We were all best friends and inseparable. One of them (Dakota) basically picked a boy (who happened to be one of my other roommates, Shaina's, ex-romance) over the rest of us and now we all can't stand even the sight of her. She started talking to a guy that Shaina previously dated, someone Shaina had talked to us several times about, and ruined Shaina and said boy's reborn friendship. Dakota knew beforehand that Shaina did not want any type of romance to develop between her best friends and this guy. Dakota also knew everything Shaina was feeling about this guy. She also never apologized to Shaina for doing this to her, and when she did, it was an empty apology. She never apologized...
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lack of emotions
Posted Tuesday September 27 2011, 9:20 pm
I feel as if I've had a mental disorder my entire life because I never seem to have true emotions as often as a normal person should. I say hurtful things in my mind just to make myself cry and feel sad. I find myself wanting to feel sad or depressed. When my friends grandma was diagnosed with cancer I honestly didn't feel bad for her. everytime I open up to someone, I always regret it because I feel weak having to confide in them. I can feel happy, truly happy, but I have trouble feeling sad. what's wrong with me? I've felt this way as long as I can remember, I'm only 13.
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Is Giving Up A Friendship Worth It to Make a Relationship Stay Afloat?
Posted Monday September 26 2011, 6:02 pm
I'm a 20 year old girl whose currently in my longest relationship with a guy, let's call him J, he's 22, we've been together for a little over five months, and I can really see a real future with. However I'm also still “friends” with my ex boyfriend, let's call him S, he's now 27 was 26 when we dated – I was 19, you would have to know him to understand why he was involved with me (my mentality is a little bit older than most, his is quite a bit younger).
S was kind of a serious relationship, it was my first one, he had only dated two girls before me and I lost my virginity to him. He wasn't a virgin before he met me but had only had sex three times and had never enjoyed it, the girl he had sex with would always tell h...
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I need to know what to say
Posted Sunday September 25 2011, 1:11 pm
Hi, I want to know what to tell this girl...its like...I want to talk to her but freeze when I get the chance...what should I do/say?
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Making friends
Posted Sunday September 25 2011, 8:12 am
Hi, 19/m.
I'm used to having a group of friends. It used to be me and 3 other guys, and we used to be the best of friends. We still talk, but not as much as then, because we have all gone our separate ways. Now I have 2 very good friends (both girls actually). One has moved away, and so I actually have just 1 friend! How sad?
The problem is, I don't know how to make friends? I'm unemployed so I don't have money to go out and spend at social occasions to meet people. And because I don't have a job, I don't have work friends. Where does one go to meet new people, and how does one go about it?
I think I've forgotten how to make friends. My closest friends, I've known for years, since school. And ap...
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Nicknames
Posted Saturday September 24 2011, 11:12 am
What are some cute Nicknames for the name Alanna?
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Should I dump my friend? Or is it me?
Posted Friday September 23 2011, 11:04 am
Truth to be told, I realize that I don’t have much true friends. I mean, friends I have plenty. But true friends, you know the ones who supports you, and are brave enough to tell you that what you are doing is wrong, and that you better change, I only have 1. Is that sad?
I recently found out that my high school friends (I have known them for more than 15 years) have a totally different concept of what friends are! Is it normal to “ditch” your friends who you have known for a very long time?
For myself, here are my thoughts about a true friend:
1. If I regard you as my friend, you will always be my friend. You don’t have to call me every day to “show” that you are my friend and vice versa. ...
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Hole in my chest?
Posted Monday September 19 2011, 1:06 am
OK so im 15 and female and im having a serious problem. It feels like there is a hole in my chest, not physically though. I mean it feels like somethings missing. I dont understand, and whenever i think about it i feel like im gonna cry. I know im not depressed because i can be a very happy person but its always at the back of my mind. i see people together on the street and it makes it worse. Whether it be a couple, a mother and daughter, or even just friends i get this heart whrenching feeling. I dont get t cuz i have amazing relationships with my parents and friends. Im confused. Whatswrong with me?
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I dont fit in!
Posted Monday September 19 2011, 12:48 am
Well im 15/f and i dont understand but for about a year now something seems to be off about myself. I dont feel like i fit in. And i realize lots of teenagers feel this way but i mean its different. I loved to hang with my friends and to someone else it seems we get along great but when im with them it feels off. Like i dont belong there. I can sense it to that im not quite connect with the others like everyone else is. And its not just my friends either its my family. I love my parents and step dad and sisters but when im with them it just feels like that connect is missing. NO matter who im with i dont feel right with them. It feels off. I only had person that this feeling didnt apply to but that person moved. So i feel all alone now. Wha...
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Video Chat Between iPhone and HTC EVO 4G
Posted Sunday September 18 2011, 9:24 pm
Ok, I am getting the HTC Evo 4G. My 2 best friends and I want to have a video chat because one is away at college and she hasn't seen the other friend since she left so it would be nice to see each other and talk again for all of us. Now, she can only video chat on her mac using skype, Qik comes free with my new phone and on my friend's iphone, he gets facetime. For us to all be able to chat, would we all need to be using the same chat? The friend on the mac would not be able to get any other video browser, I believe. So, if it is possible would my friend and I have to download skype for this to work? Can phones even get skype? I'm so lost, help me out please, haha. Thanks a bunch!!
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friendship in danger
Posted Saturday September 17 2011, 12:33 am
ok, so my best friend and I have been good friends for about half a year. I don't know if I'm her best friend but she's definitely mine. Anyway, ever since the beginning of summer I feel like we have sort of been drifting apart. Like, we still have sleepovers and hang out all the time, at school and not at school, but I don't know it just feels like she doesn't even really like me. Also, I feel like she's using me for my older sister. My sister is 16 (I'm 13) and we are very close and she hangs out with all of my friends. I think that she doesn't really like me and uses me for my sister, because whenever we hang out, she always insists on going to my house, whenever My sister and I together, she'll hug my sister first, she'll always sit ne...
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PLEASE READ..I NEED TO KNOW HOW TO COMMNUICATE BETTER
Posted Friday September 16 2011, 9:29 pm
14 yrs old here, been seeing a therapist for a yr now because i had some trouble with my family a lot of issues, my parents got divorced which wasnt the issue, i wanted them to, but it was the way it went down that made me sad. it brought me and my family alot closer. but the whole time i was trying to build my family back, i was losing my freinds, and had no idea what to do. now i see what i need to do. my therapist says be yourself, and go out and socialize, im tryinggggg, its hard once you've been out of it for a while. ive always been very tough, and popular, and a leader. now im the opposite, but i just want to know how to be myself again, and stick up for myself,and NOT THINK EVRYTHING THROUGH, im not saying not having a filter, but s...
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one of my friends is a tomboy and she always hurts me!
Posted Friday September 16 2011, 7:56 pm
My friend pricilla is a cool friend but shes a total tomboy and bully shes always hurting me and if i tell her to stop bothering me i know she will kill me or at least give me a black eye i need seriose help.NOW!!
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Am i a bad friend? =/
Posted Friday September 16 2011, 7:34 pm
I just got out of a realllllly bad relationship with this guy that betrayed me so badly, after being with him for years.. he started being close to all these girls and totally forgot i even existed, anyway so theres this guy in my school i talked to twice, my best friend hates his guts cause when they were younger he used to pick on her, im not sure if he still does pick on her or not but honestly i think that she needs to let it go since they were young, and they both dont like eachother but i dont honestly think i have anything to do with it, hes been kind of showing me that hes intrested in some ways,im not sure, but i dont want anything serious at all, i dont really want anything at all, i just want a friend because i didnt really have ...
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How can I calm my friend down ?
Posted Wednesday September 14 2011, 10:24 pm
I made my friend cry because I was teasing her and I was making fun of her favorite band. She's really upset with me and she's crying and I keep telling her I'm sorry but she won't forgive me. What can I do to make her feel better ?
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