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Relations with wife and mother


Posted Monday November 28 2011, 7:55 am

I am 38 year old post graduate doing a good job in private sector having a marriage life of 12 years. My wife is graduate but my mother is only 4/5th class pass. She is also not aware of many things. There is a big difference in thinking and working of both. My wife doesnt like thinking and working of my mother and irretates every time with my mother. Also I am not fit for a proper sexual life since the starting of marriage life. But, my wife showed herself satisfied. Now, during persent days my wife quotes about this problem during hot discusssion regarding my mother. How should I manage relations between and with my wife and mother.



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I JUST the the thing to sleep. Shut up!


Posted Sunday November 27 2011, 5:10 pm

Ok so I'm 12 and I have a new baby sister. And I will have just put her to sleep when something like this will happen(true story): Ok so I have just have put her to sleep when my older then me sister come's in laugh at something that's not funny. At all. And she's laughing very very LOUD. and she has seen that baby trying to sleep. And she know that I have been trying to make this girl sleep. She read what she thinks is so funny then goes back in the room. Then my Mom thought it was not funny but nice yelled CAN YOU EMAIL ME THAT? LET ME GIVE THE EMAIL I WANT IT ON(i cap lock this so you can know just how LOUD she said this.) Most times I'm a happy person. But when I work herd on something and you mess it up. Not very happy. And who can bla...

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i dont want my parents to find out when i become sexually active


Posted Sunday November 27 2011, 2:14 am

I am 13 turning 14 next month and I have been thinking a lot about sex but when I'm ready how will i be able to get the protection i need without my parents finding out?


Also does it hurt for most girls when its there first time and what's the less painful position as in girl and guy sex (not talking about a blowjob!)

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I read my brother's dirty texts


Posted Sunday November 27 2011, 1:43 am

Okay, I know I should have respected his privacy, I feel bad about it, but I was just so curious! My older brother (I'm 14, he's 19- almost 20) is my best friend. We are super close, I love him more than anyone else in the world, and we tell each other everything-- EXCEPT things that involve our love lives (kissing and sexual stuff.) We never talk about that kind of thing because it would be too awkward. My brother is the nicest person in the world, and I would never have expected him to do some of these things... even though I guess he's old enough.

Anyway, my mom instructed me to read his texts if I got the chance while he was home from college, because she said that she should know what he's doing. He left his phone down...

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What if someone raped me ir murdered me. Most likely both.


Posted Friday November 25 2011, 10:41 pm

13/f

Okay so I was taking my puppy out to go to the bathroom and we have two doors at the one entrance and I only close one because I was coming back in. Well my dad got mad because I only closed one so he literally locked me out of my house. I rung the doorbell and banged in the door for 3 minutes before my mom finally came and unlocked it because she couldn't read through the noise and then she yelled at me for making the noise. Then my dad yelled at me for only closing one door because it was letting the heat out. But the thing is he NEVER turns on the heat. I'm in two sweatshirts, two pairs if socks, and a blanket and I'm still cold. But why would he lock me out of the house? I think that's immature and even dangerous. Wh...

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my parents have sex way to much.


Posted Friday November 25 2011, 1:45 am

my step dad works for 4 days and then he comes home for 4 days. Every night that he's home him and my mom have sex, they're very loud about it too, that's how I know. How do they not get ever get sick of it? They never take a break. It's like a nightly routine for them.

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my sister is bashing me on twitter


Posted Wednesday November 23 2011, 7:12 pm

so, I'm naturally really quiet. My sister posted on twitter "when I was little my sister tried to kill me. Real sh**.. Over a lego."First of all I didn't try to kill her, I just threw something at all, that's it. She follows alot of people. I don't want people to think I'm a murderer or something You know the saying "its always the quiet ones" I don't want people getting the wrong idea, I'm a nice quiet person. I don't have a twitter, I was told by a friend that she put this. What do I do?! I don't want her bashing me like that on twitter. Heeeeelp!

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I CANT DEAL WITH MY MOM ANYMORE ! HELP !


Posted Sunday November 20 2011, 8:39 pm

okay so ever since my dad moved my mom has been a total ass.she puts my rhodesian ridgeback pup outside in the cold and lets him starve until she feels like feeding him , she took my phone away from me even though my dad payed for it and i was charging it at a friends house then she blocks me from going to this years black friday with my uncle and i have been waiting for that for a while. i got in trouble for fighting with her and now i got a court date. basically can someone help keep me sane . thanks

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My relationship with my family is having a negative impact on me.


Posted Saturday November 19 2011, 12:36 am

Hi,
I'm a 26-year-old college graduate with my Bachelor of Arts in English. It took me awhile to graduate because I wasn't sure if a formal education was what I wanted or needed. My parents assured me it was but, so I finally finished my degree a couple months ago. My parents insisted that I have a full-time job until I found something better so I currently work at a daycare. Even though they don't understand, the job is very stressful--and I get paid minimum wage without any benefits. I really would like to try something new but my parents only want me in a professional job. I also live in MI and the job market is awful here. I feel like I should abide my parents wishes since I live under their roof, but like I previously stated, I...

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my family sucks


Posted Monday November 14 2011, 6:48 pm

i hate my my relatives in my father's side, i hate my father too. they are weird, annoying, arrogant, selfish just like super villains in most fairytales.
when we ask for something they always need us to give something back which we cannot give that easy coz we are not that fortunate, and when they want it, they want it, they may not talk but it seems they are pushing us. they act like gods, gods that hold our lives(as if). i wanna get away from them but i'm still 18 and studying. i still rely on my family and it's them who provides my money, i am super acting nice to them because when i'm not they will hold my money.

my dad and mom...let's just say they are away from each other. when mom left we grew up with our dad w...

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my sisters going through a phase or i hope so


Posted Saturday November 12 2011, 9:31 pm

so lately ive been being more like a close friend than a brother to my sister (buying eachother presents and etc.)but lately we have gotten to close . ive told her that being sexual isnt okay but everytime my mom leaves she tries something like one time i had to "touch her" if i didnt want her to lie and say i touched her when she was asleep or when i had to lick her feet and i told her i have a gf but she doesnt care and i keep enjoying it but if anyone found out it would be horrible how can i stop?

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my family is mad 'cause they say i think of boys all the time! (I have a crush on only nine boys now)


Posted Saturday November 12 2011, 8:42 am

I have a crush on nine boys. They're all the playboy-kind, and really good-looking. So I'm like crazy about them. My parents were kinda cool about it for a while, but now they're acting like, "If you say another word about boys or boyfriends or jealousy or soft lips or whatever, we'll decide to just home-school you!" They say that it's unhealthy for a fourteen-year-old girl. Help, I don't know what to do with them! Shouldn't they be more understanding?

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My babysitter is touching me and I am scared to tell


Posted Thursday November 10 2011, 4:10 pm

I'm 11 and my babysitter is touching me wrong.He's 16 and he babysits me everyday after school. When I finish homework and watch tv he makes me sit on his lap and he puts his hands up my shirt.I say stop,but he says its okay and to just come down.Sometimes he even puts his hands down my pants.I know what he is doing is wrong and I want to tell my parents,but I'm to scared what do I do?

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My dad is cruel?


Posted Wednesday November 9 2011, 10:07 pm

Okay, Im in my first year of college and I go full time. I'm going to be a Neonatal Nurse. I go from 8-4;; I got a job back in Sept 2010, and I got fired in June of 2011; My boyfriend currently lives with My parents and I; and I have to take him to work at 7pm and pick him up at 4:30 in the morning; (because he is saving up enough money to buy him a car, since his mother left him homeless&&he has nothing!) therefore no job will be flexible with my hours; my dad has always put me down. He's called me a mistake, worthless, ect.

Just yesterday, he wanted the new MW3, so having class the next day, and having to pick up my boyfirend at 4:30, I went and got it for him at Midnight. Sure he was happy he got it, but I dind't e...

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girl born hermaprodite


Posted Wednesday November 9 2011, 4:19 pm

Iam a 15 yr old girl born hermaprodite and need advice i was wondering upon masterbation with my male appendage could i have a ejaculation upon stimulation?

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Tomboy is not a bad thing...


Posted Wednesday November 9 2011, 2:57 pm

Hi I'm 12.
My little sis is on the way. And i said to my mom:maybe this baby will be a tomboy. And she wanted to slap me. Stuff like this happen all the time. I did not mean any thing by "tomboy". is just that I'm in to superman batman stuff like that and I want to talk about stuff like that with her. My mom said she had not forgot about some spankin. I'm trying to remember what for. need help. can't last all the way till I'm 18.

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my exes mom keeps threatening me :/


Posted Wednesday November 9 2011, 7:55 am

I was with my boyfriend for 3 months, and everything was going fine, till one night he got to drunk to go home and stayed at mine; we are both 16 but stayed in seperate rooms. (To respect both our parents) and his mom stopped all contact between us, and its been nearlly a month and I haven't contacted him just because she said not to, but he phoned me once and she found out and threatened to get me beat up, then again for no reason she threatened to hit me if she sees me and now she is saying I was pregnant and everything.. What can I do to stop her ?

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im ashamed of myself and my sister


Posted Wednesday November 9 2011, 12:02 am

long story my sis found out i have a foot fetish and now she rubs her feet in my face and once gave me a semi footjob and i feel sick because i enjoyed it and im starting to get excited from it is this normal PS:this isnt a troll im serious i feel ashamed to look at my sis and my gf and i dont need someone telling me that this is a troll

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depressed, don't know what to do... long


Posted Tuesday November 8 2011, 9:55 am

hi. i'm 20/f, turning 21 in january. at home, i am having some issues. my family somewhat knows about them, but they really don't understand and fail to do anything about it. i am living at home and going to school. this is my third year in the university. I'm studying to become a teacher and I want to teach middle school. I work part time on campus.

let me start by saying that my mom doesn't have a job. she claims she has been "looking" for one, but I don't know how that is working out. the only income that she has in unemployment and a rented house. i know that the cost of living is expensive and ALL that money goes to waste quite fast. I, on the other hand, make only about $400 a month. That's it. Whenever I get ...

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Teenage Mother with a controlling mother


Posted Sunday November 6 2011, 1:53 am

18/f. I just graduated and I'm pregnant. I am now in college I am expecting to have my daughter Jan 3. There has been drama with my family & my boyfriend's family just because of different beliefs, which has been real annoying. My parent's have been doing everything already for my child, and I appreciate that very much. But I feel that's the only help I need and sometimes assistance with my daughter. I can already tell though that there are going to be problems with parenting my child here. We have been setting the room next to mine up to be my daughter's room, it was never really a question it just happened well my mom made it happen. I honestly would like my daughter to be in my room is that foolish of me?

My mom still ...

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