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Victim of rape, but she didn't tell me.


Posted Sunday May 8 2011, 4:47 pm

I'm 21, male. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend (of seven years) a month ago. I have recently found out that my she just had a miscarriage at five months of pregnancy. In fact, she told me that she was a victim of rape, and that she did not know what happened to her(drink was spiked.)

I only found this out because she had her miscarriage - all this time, she kept this from me, while we were dating, because she felt it would be best for us. She intended to bring the child to term (does not believe in abortion) and has been having a very difficult time dealing with her miscarriage. Out of embarrassment, trying to find a new life and be fair to this child, she chose to move away to a different part of the country, hence why I h...

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I am in love with a bus driver :/ He is older than me but there is nobody I would rather be with!


Posted Saturday May 7 2011, 8:10 pm

I'm 19 years old and currently a highschool senior (no I'm not a super

senior), but the man I'm totally head over heels in love with is 39. I met him
my freshman year because he happened to be my busdriver. Do you think thats weird? And from the
first day I saw him I always thought he was cute but nothing
more than that. There was no actual feelings but by the end of freshman
year I felt something builiding there kinda like a crush. I wanted to
talk to him more than just saying hi and bye everday, but didn't know how
to. That summer I found myself thinking about him a lot. I think i grew to be
infactuated by him. And sophmore year

came around but nothing changed ...

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This boy....


Posted Thursday May 5 2011, 7:54 pm

There is this boy in my class I love I mean oh my god his cute body,and his cute face I love him but what to do? FYI:Im 11!! SOS!! :'(

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He may think that I told her he was getting high when I didn't.


Posted Thursday May 5 2011, 12:43 pm

My best friend asked the guy I like " So some of my friends are telling me that they've gotten high with you, is it true?" She is a hard core stoner and I know she only asked because when she runs out of her weed supply and when NO ONE else has any she could bum some off Jacob. His reply was I used too. This was Monday of this week. Last Wensday I was with him when he was smoking weed, I would've taken a hit but I am on stupid probabtion so I couldn't. Now I have called like 3 times and two of those times he supposedly wasn't home. Well, the first time was true, I am not sure if the 2nd time was. I am 16 and so is the guy I like. I am Female. Sorry this is so long, but I am really scared because he may think that I told her he was...

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Should i move to Canada or Australia?


Posted Thursday May 5 2011, 12:36 pm

Im a guy, 18 years, and ive always wanted to move out of California and move somewhere more peaceful and happy.

AND I KNOW ALL OF YOU SAY, THAT CALIFORNIA IS THE "dream land" but its BS. I've been here all my life, and yeah, the weather is great, the girls, the beaches, sure. whatever.
But.
There is traffic up the ass...
People are rude, rich, obnoxious, stuckup
girls are slutty, unmannered, and have no values
guys are potsmokers and screw-ups
mainly, i just hate the people and the culture.
I've always wanted to move to Toronto. I went there last summer and my experience was great. People were nice, weather was nice and chilly, less traffic, more smiles, people wer...

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I'm a failure!


Posted Tuesday May 3 2011, 6:30 pm

I'm a straight A student and I got a 72.5 on a science quiz! I've ruined my grade completely!
I also am on the lacrosse team but I have never played before and there are other girls on the team who have been playing since age 4. Help!!!!

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He is willing to break up with her to go out with me... should I?


Posted Monday May 2 2011, 10:57 pm

f/13

i like this guy,adrian and he likes me too. well, he asked me out and i said "no" and he kept on asking me out and i still kept on saying "no". i really wanted to say "yes" but i couldnt because i heard that he is a player and he hurts girls and just plays around with them. so he said that he gave up on asking me out because me didnt want me to get hurt by him.

so then he started dating some other girl named lesly. and she seems nice i really dont know her and shes not my friend. so anyway, before school started i noticed that he was staring at me hile talking with friends. and at break he kept on yelling me name to get my attention, but i turned the other way pretending i di...

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How do you make friends?


Posted Monday May 2 2011, 10:03 pm

I moved into a new state, how do i make friends quick before the end of the year? (Im in 8 th grade and want freinds before high school)

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i think i might be Bisexual?


Posted Sunday May 1 2011, 3:03 pm

Well, i had a sleepover at mine once, and as girls do, as a joke we played dares, but not normal dares, you know, the kissing sort, and i had to kiss my friend (Lauren) and i really enjoyed it? then when everyone went to sleep, i decided to tell Lauren thati strangley enjoyed it, and she said 'yeah, me too' it was silent for a little bit, then i accidently tounch her genitals (Vagina to be exact) and i went to let go, then she touched mine, she slipped her hands down my pants and started rubbing my vagina. i really enjoyed it :S the we starting kissing. we went upstairs and we started having lesbian sex. we both really liked it. but we havnt told anyone. am i a lesbian or bisexual? (Sorry its very long)

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Petty Theft in the Workplace


Posted Saturday April 30 2011, 10:09 pm

I'm a 20 year old female college student. Please bear with me as this is going to be very long, but I'm in desperate need of help!

I've been working full time at a restaurant similiarly setup like a Chuckie Cheese (pizza & games) for almost a year. I was recently fired by my boss for theft.

To explain the situation, I was considered a lower level manager. I generally worked front counter, however occasionally I worked at the ticket redemption counter in the game room. Everyone I work with manages to come home with handfuls of tokens on a nightly basis. Not neccessarily on purpose, but generally everyone carries tokens with them in order to have access to fix/test games and to give out to children who have ...

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How can I treat boys in middle school?


Posted Saturday April 30 2011, 9:32 am

I don't know how to treat the boys in middle school.How should I really treat them?

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what the hell is it?


Posted Wednesday April 27 2011, 12:08 am

My high school boy friend and i have been dateing for about 2 weeks now not that long but yeah.. but today at my house i tickled his sides and he told me that it dont tickle but it dnt hurt but every time i do it he starts to squrm around and kinda laugh but keep telling me it doesnt tickle.. then he pulls his friend aside and tell him what it is but he wont tell me cuz he say its wierd to his girl friend... my question is do anyone know what it could be?

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I like him, but I don't know him at all, and now he thinks we are dating!


Posted Tuesday April 26 2011, 8:58 pm


hi im 13/f
well this guy, adrian likes me and i like him. ut i know NOTHING about him AT ALL!and today he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said "i dont know" and my friend ashley yelled out "YES!" and i didnt say that and he thinks we are dating.

so then his EX,briana comes to me and tells me "im gonna kill you " and she ran off to try to convince adrian to not go out with me. i was gonna say yes but everything happened so fast.

then after the bell rang we all went to our periods. then after he asked me "what did briana tell you?" and i replyed "she said that she was gonna kill me and i think she still likes you" and then he hugged me.
...

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Unfair boss


Posted Tuesday April 26 2011, 5:54 pm

This is kind of a complicated story so bear with me. First some background, I am almost 30 and work for a small company. By small I mean 2 people. A large part of my job is to go out and talk to people around town and deal with complaints. I live in a fairly small town too.
I was involved in an affair that was discovered by my boyfriend's wife a few months ago. (This is not what I need advice on. I do not judge others, so please don't judge me. That is my job.) Needless to say, some things changed.
On to the issue: I have always seen my boss as a father figure, we talked about almost everything. After I told my boss about what had happened he was really upset, but said we would work through it as he could see how upset I was...

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He thinks I bullied him in grade school - but it probably wasn’t me.


Posted Tuesday April 26 2011, 5:10 pm

So, this is a long one.

I had a guy track me down on Facebook and send me a long message about how I tortured and bullied him in school.

But most of what he said I don't remember, and a lot it couldn’t have happened. I had a rather severe anxiety disorder throughout my early teens, a few years are just emotional blurs to me, but some of things he claimed I did - like speak up in class to embarrass him, or make up a nasty song about him - it’s really near impossible for me to have done. I didn’t speak in class. I started to cry or throw up when I had to make presentations. I wouldn’t speak aloud to people who weren’t my friends. I stayed inside at recess and shelved books in the library... What I DO re...

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How do you heal a broken heart?


Posted Tuesday April 26 2011, 12:16 pm

Im 17, male, a senior in high school about to graduate.
Just last night my girlfriend, who is a freshman, broke my heart, when she said that she wouldnt anytime soon. We talked this whole week and everything was just perfect. But suddenly, her whole heart changed overnight and she told me that she was losing feelings for me. The thing is, that since shes a freshman, her mom doesnt allow her to date, so that was why she broke it off with me because she was sick of sneaking around. It wasnt because of me, its all because her mom.
I was broken, but i at least wanted to spend my senior prom with her. And then she told me she couldnt go. It all happened yesterday, and i was shocked that i lost the best girlfriend i've ever had, an...

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my ex best friend is hitting on my friends gf


Posted Tuesday April 26 2011, 11:49 am

this question is more or less for my friend; nick
he likes this girl named meredith, and shes apperently really emotional. My used-to-be best friend Jeff, begins to hit on her. I dont believe its too bad of an issue only Jeff has a girlfriend of 10 months and is sexting her.
she isnt interested and she went to tell his girlfriend Bryanna about the situation, and she starts to yell at her. Meredith ends up in tears, and Jeff does man up to take the blame. Bryanna doesn't believe anyone but Jeff because to her Jeff is always right. Im in a pretty bad situation seeing as Bryanna is a good friend as is NIck
But what should HE do?
Nick is 15/m Meredith 15/f Bryanna 16/f Jeff 16/m
im 15/f
pleaseee help
hugs&rockets-MiiCHii

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my dad is annoying


Posted Tuesday April 26 2011, 11:17 am

my dad always looks at me... look at all the things i do, from the very single move i make(in a not friendly but scary way, it's a very weird look, i can't explain it). he always tells me what is the right process or what is the right thing to do (he even repeats it the next day and the next day and the next day like i did not get what he said at the past days, when i'm doing it already the way he wanted it to be) ... when i know i'm doing the right thing... he fucking pisses me off. once a mistake is done he's just fucking disappointed at me like the "...what have you done..." a little mistake is a big deal to him.



i just know, i have my own feet, i have my own bones. and i got my own brains...what...

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i'm moody


Posted Tuesday April 26 2011, 10:19 am

hi. teenage guy here...


i feel like i irritate everyone with that attitude.
"moody" that is.

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i dont understand why guys dont like me


Posted Tuesday April 26 2011, 12:46 am

So its been almost 2 years since I've dated I've had a total of two boyfriends. And two more almost. The first lasting 5 months the last I don't know it felt like forever but it was less then 5 months. Both fell in love with me they say and the 2 nd one is still to this day in love with me also they were both ended by me.
People tell me all the time I'm gorgeous. People I know and random people like the other day a teacher I don't know looked at me and was like "wow your pretty have you ever thought about modeling I don't know your hair your eyes... you just have it."
I'm not tiny but I'm not big either just average.
When it comes to my personality absolutely everyone says that I'm a very sweet girl and that...

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