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i think my dad is cheating on my mom


Posted Friday December 16 2011, 11:16 am

i'm 13 and i'm from indonesia. i'm an only child. i think my father is cheating on my mom. i saw him browsing random women's facebook page at night when he thought my mother's asleep. i also suspects that he's cheating with his secretary who is an indonesian native (we're chinese) and poor and ugly. i don't know what to do. all i know is that he's been browsing women's profiles at facebook and he's sent some flirty text message to some women. should i tell my mom? i had a dream last night and it really scares me, i dreamt that i told my mom my dad is cheating on her and my dad killed both me and my mom. he seemed to be a good father. just yesterday he saw us a paper with plane schedules to our hometown but then we saw a schedule to another ...

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MY DAD HATES MY GUTS


Posted Thursday December 15 2011, 5:45 pm

Ok GuYS FIRST OFF I WAS ADOPTED WHEN I WAS 3 MOUNTHS OLD FRM A 3RD WORLD COUNTRY MY MAM NAW IS SO KWL BUT GROWING UP SHE BECAME AND ALCOHOLIC I WATCHED OVER HER FRM THE AGE OF 8 TO THE AGE OF 13 WHEN SHE GOT BETTER I STARTED DRUG DEALING BUT STUCK TO SCHOOL FINSHED SCHOOL AND BECAME VERY GUD AT MARTAIL ARTS ON NATIOL TEAMS FIGHTING ABROD I STOPED ALL D DRUG DEALING ENY WAY MY DADS ALWAYS PUSHED ME AWAY AND NEVER TALKED TO ME BOUT ME ONLY SPORTS HE MAKES A PINT TO TELL ME DHAT IM RONG WHEN I GET BIG OPERTUNTEYS HE MAKES ME THROW DHEM AWAY HE HITS ME THREATINS ME HE CALLS ME A CUNT HE TELLS ME TO GET OUT OF HIS HOUSE HE MAKES ME FEEL LYK IM 3FOOT TALL HE DOES A LOT FOR ME DOH TODAY WEE WENT AND DID SUMTHING REAGRDING MY MONEY AND MESED IT UP ...

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Hurting inside, need help.


Posted Thursday December 15 2011, 12:14 am

I am 23 and my you get is nearly 17.
I'm irresponsible, I know this, it's something I would like to change but I am having a hard time with it, I feel like my parents do nothing but pick on me, they are constantly telling how I disappoint them with the things I do, the things I don't do, how I handle my money, the people I hang out with, they are constantly telling me how I never do anything around the house, yea, I'll admit that my room is a total disaster area but it doesn't bother me right now and I keep my door closed so they don't have to see it. When I wanted to quit school I was told I would have to get a job immediately, my brother on the other hand hasn't gone to school in over a year, sleeps til 5 or 6, and does NOTHING but...

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How do I bring up the "Sex talk" with my parents without them knowing that I already know about sex?


Posted Monday December 12 2011, 7:34 pm

okay so i'm 13 and i already know about sex and stuff but my parents don't know i do and i want to know how to bring it up without asking what it is.

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Over protective father.


Posted Saturday December 10 2011, 8:25 pm

Hi.
I'm 18 years old and iv been with my boyfriend for a year and still my dad is really protective of me. I want to be able to have my boyfriend stay over and for me to stay with him but I know my dad wont allow it. How do I get round this and get him to let me? I don't want to go behind his back. Please help.

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how do i seductively touch my guy?


Posted Friday December 9 2011, 7:45 pm

I from tanzania.i have been making out wth my guy and looks like he pleases me more than i do to him,i want to suprise him next time he sees me,i want to touch him well...how do i do tht?

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why my mum doesnt show affection anymore?


Posted Thursday December 8 2011, 12:24 pm

first and foremost, thank u for reading this.

Im 19, female. its been 5 years since my dad got stroke and my mum is half blind..so all of the attentions and care goes to him for he cannot talk or move as usual..

i've once cried infront of her, she never tried to comfort me..although with all this burden im feeling..whenever i try to tell her, she just wont listen..never tries..5 years i had to go through many things..for 5 years i've been keeping it in me..

so,why is she being like this to me?its hard on me..thank u..


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My uncle snooped and found out bout my relationship


Posted Wednesday December 7 2011, 11:14 am

My boyfriend and I have been having several issues ever since we began dating. So we decided to take a break. We then realised that we both wanted to be with each other so we were in the process of getting back together when my UNCLE snooped into my hard disk and saw pictures of us together and he told my mom and they made a huge deal out of it since the boy is not from the same religion as us and is not very rich. I am from India and all these make a huge deal! They even ended up calling my boyfriend and explaining to him how it will not work and so to not keep any hopes. My boyfriend feels that it is better to break it off now itself instead of letting it drag on and then hurting a ton of ppl and ultimately ourselves in case my family obj...

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Is it unfair, or am I over reacting?


Posted Tuesday December 6 2011, 9:29 pm

19/f and my brother is 7.

For Christmas my parents usually spend the same amount on both of us. My parents told me that as long as I'm living under their roof, I'll have a Christmas, which I appreciate greatly; even though Christmas isn't about gifts. It's still good to recieve stuff when you don't have the money to afford it for yourself.

Well anyways; my brother wants junk. Every year he askes for stuff and he either breaks it after a week, or doesn't play with it after a couple of days. They spent $560 dollars on him this Christmas.

Well, for my Christmas, I wanted a Yorkie, A laptop, a Camera, and a stocking (those are my favorite)

and my boyfriend and my parents split the york...

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My Mom Give My Sister Stuff But Not Me


Posted Tuesday December 6 2011, 11:16 am

Hi I am 12/F
My mom always gives my sister stuff. She got a present. And I didn't. I tried telling her but then she just yell at me. Pleas help. I can't go on any longer. From crying me

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having cousin troubles


Posted Sunday December 4 2011, 11:41 pm

13/f
I have 2 cousins that are 11. Their names are Anthony and Jacob. We don't really get along, so lately I've been trying to leave them alone at family events. They still end up bothering me. It's worse when my friends are over. At Christmas dinner last year, Anthony made an extremely rude and racist comment to my best friend (she's black). A few hours ago, I was over at Jacob's house for his little sister's birthday thing. I was wearing a shirt that said "I belong" on the front and Anthony said what? to the devil? when he saw it. If it were any other person, I would assume it's just a joke, but he really doesn't like me no matter how I try to be the better person and be nice. I don't want to get him in trouble be...

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Home Problems: My parents hate me. I am an only child.


Posted Friday December 2 2011, 12:57 pm

Why do my parents hate me? I'm an only child.

1. I've been getting the 1st rank in school since I was in pre-nursery and now I'm in the 10th grade. They just take a look at my report card and say nothing, or add a spiteful remark about how I've got an A2 in a subject(which is rare, I always get an A1).

2.If I ever ask for something, they promise that they'll fetch it tomorrow but that tomorrow never comes, even if I remind them every day.

3.If I take help in my studies from the internet, my mother will always say "You copy all the homework from the internet. You never study at all. I've never seen you studying." My dad then proceeds to agree with her and tells me that "All the worl...

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Is it illegal or is it OK to like my cousin?


Posted Thursday December 1 2011, 10:41 pm

Ok so I like this Guy but the thing is he is my cousin cousin but I'm am related by her mom side (her mom and my mom are sisters) and he is related to her by his dad(there brothers) . So I really don't Know if it's illegal or if its ok. To like him.
Please Help!!

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why your parents can be so stupit


Posted Thursday December 1 2011, 1:02 pm

Why does me parentents never see that they are hurting eatch ather. Why can't they see what there words are so powerfull. And that they are losing me now.


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I have to choose between my family or love and I don't know what to do.


Posted Thursday December 1 2011, 5:42 am

I am stuck between my family and my love.
He is very nice guy but with poor background.
My parents are not allowing me to marry with him.
I love both alot but nervous regarding my family's opinion.

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Is it the fact that I am born that makes my sister hate me so much? I want to die now


Posted Wednesday November 30 2011, 5:25 pm

She calls me stupid but I make straight A's She says ever since I was born I ruined her life. Is what she saying true? Have I ruined her life because she forgot me somewhere and I called my mother for help? Is she jeolus of me? I cant recall a time in my life when my sister loved me. I want to Kill myself for that is surely what she wants right? I want to die anyway but I want it to be painless please help me find a solution.

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How do I tell my mom I want to go out alone with my bf to dinner and have a romantic Christmas?


Posted Wednesday November 30 2011, 4:28 pm

My mother is dramatic and over exaggerates. I don't just say this because I am her daughter, she slams doors and has tantrums like a child and I have been trying really hard not to yell back and try to stay calm. Point is this Christmas my mother in law is spending in Texas my sister is spending with her mother in law, and I'm stuck alone with my mother. I personally don't want to spend it with her because the last time I spent Christmas just with her and my dad that left 4 years ago I was in my room and she fell asleep on the couch. We don't talk about stuff or have anything in common. How do I tell her I want to go out alone with my bf to dinner and have a romantic Christmas. She could spend it with my aunt, a close friend or my sister a...

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my mum's drinking and the way she treats me


Posted Wednesday November 30 2011, 2:55 pm

1m 19 years old and ever since i was young my mums drank.When i was younger i thought it was normal i was never alowed to sleep over at friends or stay out to late because i had to allways look after my younger sister, i dressed myself and took myself to school since i was 7,and ive basicly looked after myself since i can remember,then i grew up and relised my mums not the same as evryone esles. she calls me horrible names and make me feel worthless, ive been at college for 3 years doing hairdressing i stayd on at school i done evrything right but she just dosent seem to ever be happy with me.i had a job and she forced me to leave because she said i could do better, iwasnt earing much money but she said if i didnt claim for job seekers allo...

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MY SON WANTS TO GO TO A DIFFERENT SCHOOL


Posted Wednesday November 30 2011, 10:21 am

MY SON WHO IS 17YR 9MO WANT TO MOVE OUT AND GO TOO A DIFFERENT SCHOOL OUT OF TOWN HE HAS A'S AND b'S

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All I want to do is make thing right with him don't know how to do it thou.


Posted Monday November 28 2011, 5:13 pm

Ok I'm 17/f
Me and my bother are very close. We can talk about most anything with each other. We both have a
boyfriend(me) and girlfriend(him.) Let's just call his girl friend Anna. My bother is 22. My boy friend is 18. my bother's girl friend is 20. Now me and his cell phone don't look the same but they are thee same shape.
I got this new cell phone case. But what I did not know is that he had gotten a new cell phone case. The same cell phone case. Now you think that I'd show him my new one right? No. Being dumb me a forgot. We were talking about something else. We found out the heard way that we had the same cell phone case. The phone got mixed up. And we found out stuff that I still wish I had not. Now from text th...

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