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Mental health
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gym phobia


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 12:08 pm

i've been going to the gym religiously since i was about 15. i'm 19 now. i've always loved it. once i got into spinning and tried all the classes like zumba i absolutely loved it!! i use to go about 5 times a week. as a matter of fact, when I don't go to the gym, I feel weird, because I'm already used to exercising so much. Lately, I have been experiencing chronic anxiety. I get all these irrational thoughts that something bad is going to happen to my mom if i'm not around her. or that if i leave the house unlocked someone is going to come in and kidnap my grandma. it's really weird. but, i've only been getting it lately. it never use to happen to me before. EVER. it's really irrational and i know it is. But, when that happens to me, my hea...

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Finding abnormal things sexy....????


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 2:32 am

Sorry, "mental health" was the closest category i could find, haha :D

AH so this is an odd question, i'll try to make it sound serious though...

So, it's never really bothered me before...
But I realized lately that i find WEIRD things...attractive. like, sexy, whatever you want to call it.
Like, I don't know how to describe it really. I just find things that people normally dont care for, really sexy. only with guys, by the way, and its a bunch of different, random things...its always the little tiny details i focus on, though.

haha this question sounds so stupid...it's very frusturating that i can't explain it.

ok so here are a few examples off the top of...

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Where do i find a good cheap theropist?


Posted Thursday June 24 2010, 9:53 am

I live in Hampshire, England, United Kingdom. and i want a theropist who is cheap and who is female. please reccomed some. :)

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I am scared of death... what do you think happens after you die?


Posted Saturday June 19 2010, 10:33 pm

13/f

To me death is soo scary. When I was little I would stay up half the night crying bc a thought of death entered my mind. I know nobody knows what happens when we die bc nobody has been through it to tell anybody else. But I have a few theories.

1.) that when we die we just get reincarnated into someone else. That there is a heaven but only for people who truely deserve to go. Bad people go to hell. REALLY good people go to heavn and the people in the middle get reincarnated.

2.) that when we die thee is ABSOLUTELY no heaven and you just poof and your gone.

So can anyone help me. I hate having to wake up in the middle of the night bc I'm crying of watll happen. Does ...

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is it bad to be obsessed?


Posted Saturday June 19 2010, 10:26 pm

i've heard it's normal to be obsessed with something as a teenager (14 girl).
i am sort of obsessed with ashley greene, not weirdly because im not a lesbian or anything lol. but i just think she is pretty and i absolutely love her acting! i look her up on the internet often and look at interviews, facts, questions etc. about her. i look up where she buys her clothes and even what she eats and stuff. then i want to buy that stuff. im not like gonna stalk her or anything phsycho like that but is this normal or am i weird?!

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Nightmares and vivid dreams


Posted Saturday June 19 2010, 9:20 pm


Ever since I was a little, I have always had vivid dreams. When I was a child I used to have dreams about dead people living in my basement, People chasing me. While I was sleeping I could feel the fear of me being kidnapped, stalked, chased..If I cried I could feel myself cry in my sleep. I am older now, I don't have dreams as often but I still to this day remember my child hood dreams and every so often I still have a vivid dream. I wake up, Sometimes I am upset throughout the day, I am depressed and I don't have the energy to do much and it will constantly be on my mind. I have seeked therapy over the years, It didn't do much. I was on medication, It only made me dream more often. I've had my medications switched several times, D...

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should i seek therapy?


Posted Saturday June 19 2010, 7:05 am

16/f
ever since i could remember when i was little, ive always feared tidal waves. ive had reoccuring dreams about them, and i at least think of tidal waves 3 times a day. on top of that, i just worry about my family gettin hurt. i have a wonderful mom and a step-dad, and a beautiful baby girl. im ALWAYS worried about them dying, which scares me. whenever i take the baby somewhere with a hard corner around, i imagine her hitting her head on it and i die inside everytime i imagine it. i imagine my mom getting in a car wreck on the way home from work. i imagine my step dad sitting on the porch and a tidal wave coming and smacking him against the concrete. i always had these feelings, but during/after i was pregnant i got way worse. is ...

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Constantly worrying.


Posted Friday June 18 2010, 12:09 am

I worry all the time. About everything. For a period of time, I went without sleep because i worried about
all these bad things happening. What should I do? How can I stop worryig all the time?

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Miscarriage advice


Posted Wednesday June 16 2010, 6:50 pm

How do you get over a miscarriage? It's been 4 years now. Shouldn't it be high time I let that go or will the sadness ever go away? I'm on depression pills due to a breakdown from having a miscarriage and am just wondering if I will ever get any better!?

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teenage rape nightmares


Posted Tuesday June 15 2010, 12:11 am

im a 14 yrold girl and have a history of mental health problems like depression paranoia and the occasional acute delusion. my dreams tend to be otherworldly and imaginative. i've had rape dreams before but none as real as last night. normally i cant feel the pain and normally i have nuetral emotions in the dreams i have involving sex. last night i felt extreme emotional and physical pains. while being used about five times by different men in different places. i had nervously scratched my arms in my sleep and woke up red and swollen. even when i woke i was still half asleep and endured more horrible beatings and rapes which in being half conscious i can still remember vividly. all day i thought of the nightmare. i was caught spacing out wi...

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Chronic Insecurity


Posted Monday June 14 2010, 4:46 am

I'm a 17 year old male. I can never find enough guts to be outgoing and charismatic and all. I think I actually need help because I think it's interfering with things in my life that have a lot of potential.

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Resulting to Pills??


Posted Sunday June 13 2010, 11:57 pm

I have been very moody lately.. well more like the last 3/4 months, but it's been occuring frequently now, almost every day. Sometimes I just want to cry because something soo very little happened. Other times it's like when someone says something like a small spark, a huge flame erupts from me & I get all p/oed.. & yet other times, someone'll say one little thing and it sets me off/hits a nerve and I start to ignore them & get in a bad mood for a while! I can't stand this. I'm wondering what pills I could take to settle my mood & to basically make me happy and bubbly 24/7, because I used to be like that! Yeah, I've heard of that Pamprin pill or whatever, but I need one for all the time, not just my period. Please help! thanks

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i think im bipolar


Posted Saturday June 12 2010, 10:01 am

i think im bipolar or something, my mom is in complete denial of it but i need help. what do i do now, is there a pill or something to fix me? please. haha

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Depressed for No Reason at All??


Posted Monday June 7 2010, 10:19 pm

Ok, this may sound strange, even cliche, but lately I've been getting let down, and right now I'm all out depressed. For no reason! I don't understand! The slightest thing can tick me off, and it's not even something I'd usually get upset over. My mother says it's just "teenage hormones" but I highly, highly doubt that. I'm debating going to the doctors on my own, and asking about some medication I could be put on. It'd be great to not feel this way anymore. I really hate it, and it's wrecking my relationship and friendships. Please help! Thanks!

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Bothering Me For So Long


Posted Sunday June 6 2010, 2:59 pm

Around 5 to 4 years ago, when I was 12 I let my dog lick my penis twice. I havent done it since then and have deeply regretted it since then. It's recently been plagueing my head because I have this close friend who I care for a lot and whenever she says that I'm amazing and unique I feel bad because what if she knew I did that? Should I feel bad for having her think I'm such a great person even though I did that? Or since it happened years ago it shouldnt matter? I'm a completely different and more mature and wiser person, so should I care about who I am now or what I did? Is she close friends with a freak? Should I be arrested for having done it? She's told me before that she doesnt care about anything I've done and that its not important...

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I cry so much compared to before.


Posted Sunday June 6 2010, 1:16 am

I'm turning 17 this summer. Right after I turned 16 I got really, really emotional. I used to rarely cry; when I was younger, I considered it a sign of emotional weakness and willed myself not to cry even when I wanted to. I probably cried once or twice a year.

It has nothing to do with being sadder, but I seriously just cry so much more often and easily now. Like, my boyfriend (older) brought me to one of his friend's parties last week, and I didn't know anyone. His friend was chasing him and he ran away into the woods to hide with another friend. After about five minutes I took my stuff from the main party area and stood by his car and just cried. I guess because I knew nobody there? I know I had no need to, but I just crie...

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i dont like who i am anymore


Posted Saturday June 5 2010, 7:36 pm

i dont like who i am, i joined the military about a year ago, and have done a few months at my first duty station, i hate every day, i hate oklahoma, and for some reason i thought i would make friends here, but to no avail. i sit in my room all weekend by myself, my roomate doesnt even seem to want to talk to me, although i have tried. I HATE my life, and whi i am. i wish i wasnt me anymore and it kills me...

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hollow princess -- I think I need help


Posted Saturday June 5 2010, 6:54 pm

From the rich-red toenails and favourite shoes
A stunning dress and lovely red roses pinned to highlighted hair
To the cherry on top of a beautifully frosted princess,
A charming new necklace
That’s what I’ll look life, but not how I’ll feel.
I call myself so many ugly names,
The insecurity in not knowing where to go or what to do
And being stuck here without you
I don’t care about anything
I hate my life
I hate everything
I hate myself
And it pours out onto my made up face
And it’s ugly, I’m ugly
And the less I take care of myself, the uglier I get and the more I hate myself….
And on such days I’ll put on my necklace t...

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A hopless journy


Posted Friday June 4 2010, 2:54 am

simple i have to say. everyway i look around the world blows up around. everyone i've loved has died. any thought of happyness disipate so i fall and cry. simple words i have to say. Sould it be a siple good by of my days??? Of do you have a dire truth of other ways??

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do i have a health problem


Posted Thursday June 3 2010, 6:30 pm

Ok im 18/female. I've been eating alot. I didnt use to eat that much in the begining of the year, now when I eat I have to eat at leace 3 plates to get full. I know for sure that I'm not pragnet, but people are starting to relize how much I'm eating & it's embarassing. I use to be the one that always finishs first, now I'm always last. What do you think is wrong with me. Thank you =)

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