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A shy but outgoing person


Posted Monday May 23 2011, 4:42 am

I know the subject seems confusing, but I'm a person who's very shy but I'm outgoing around my closest friends, but I want to hang out with other people and still have them close to me, but the thing is I'm too shy and when I start to hang out with someone, I end up ignoring them because of my friends. So how do I start speaking up to a person to make them my friend? (too much "friend" in this subject)

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How to be more outgoing ?


Posted Saturday May 21 2011, 4:44 pm

I am very quiet girl and I feel like no body knows who i am. If they heard my name they would probably ask " who's that?" also everyone gets invited to parties and so far ( from the beginning of the school year I have been invited to 2 low class parties not like a party that everybodywants to go to. I just want to know howto be mor outgoing. Sometimes I come home and cry because I feel lonely.. What do I do?

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how do i say what i really feel?!?!?!


Posted Friday May 20 2011, 8:43 pm

Okayyy. so heres the thing. i know this guy likes me and he asked me out like 2X. 1st time his friends asked me for him and i paniced and said no like an idiot. cause i like him :/ than the 2nd time he asked me in person. i guess he didnt believe his friends. and right when i was about to say yes. i paniced again and said no. and walked off. now im getting really sick and tired of this!!! HELP ME!!! how do i go up to him and tell him that im actually interested. i dont want him to think im not. oh please o please HELP MEEE!!!

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What do you think?


Posted Friday May 20 2011, 2:30 pm

So, I'm a very mellow person, i don't enjoy drama, yet i like dealing with other peoples, thus advicenators. But i like to know random stuff just cause i can, so here's an easy to answer question for all of you people out there. Tell exactly what it is that makes you like that one special person, maybe it'll be an eye opener for some of you.

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boy drama


Posted Thursday May 19 2011, 6:17 pm

Ok well there is the guy that is in 8th grade that i really like (im also in 8th grade) and during one of our classes someone shouted out to the class hey so and so should go out and I said no no no no even though i like him and a few seconds later he was like never no no no no no and then someone was like wats wrong with so and so and the other so and so said nothing and im kinda worried that so and so might not like me Everyone says that we should go out. Wer have b een friends since 5th grade and we have good laughs and he is funny and everyone says common how obious is it that they haver feelings for eachother, but i just ignore everything but i have feelings for this person but idk ih the other so and so has feelings for me and i just...

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Does he like me? :)


Posted Thursday May 19 2011, 12:19 am

there\'s this guy who asked me to do something for him for work. we talked for like 2 hours the first night the next day he texted saying he wanted something fixed so i went back and we talked again for another hour. that was almost 2 weeks ago now that we did that. he texted me like 3 other times he didn\'t say much but were in the same math class so he texted one day saying ur not in class today..working from home :p so i texted back and was like yeah and we texted for like 10mins or so. after that he didn\'t text for like 3 or 4 days then in class when i was there he was like your here today and sat beside me..maybe because his friends were close by? :s but a day later today he texted and was like u still at the mall? and wanted a ride ...

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this guy at school and i really like him and people say he likes me what do


Posted Wednesday May 18 2011, 1:23 am

heeyy
i have a prob and i need some HELP!!!
you see
they is this boy i like at school and everyone says he likes me to.
and today we were talking and we found out that our exs are going out with each other
then he asked me if i would go out with him or my ex and i said him
then later on he would stand next to me. he would just walk over to me and stand next to me
then after lunch he flicked water on ,me and put his wet hands on myu face.
he also sometimes punches me.
so what should i do i really want to go out with him but i don't know if he likes me
and worse of all for p.e next were doing ballroom dancing!!!!
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!


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Does this guy like me? If so how do I talk to him?


Posted Tuesday May 17 2011, 12:23 am

I work at a flower shop after school and this guy texted me saying he was comming in to get a attachment of flowers for his mom stepmom and grandma for mothers day. So he stayed around there with me and helped pick out and arrange the flowers we talked lots and he asked lots of questions about me like where I'm going to college in September and what I like to do and stuff. I thought we connected, the next day he texted saying one arrangment wasnt quite right so he came by to fix it up and we talked for about an other hour. Three days later he texted me saying your not in class :p does he like me?? I want to aeast be friends and how should I start talking to him more it's been 4 days since he last texted me I think. :s any advice? :)

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Boyfriend's Present :)


Posted Monday May 16 2011, 6:16 pm

My boyfriend's birthday is coming up and I have no idea what I want to get him. I did ask him if there was anything he'd like, but he said he didn't know. He loves video games, zombies, anime/manga, and old computer games. He's kind of shy and laid back. I'm only sixteen and he's fourteen, so nothing perverted either, haha. I have like two weeks, but I like to plan ahead of time, so is there anything a teenaged boy like that would like for his birthday present? I'd prefer a guy to give suggestions, but hey, if any girls out there know, feel free to answer!

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is masturbating everyday bad?


Posted Monday May 16 2011, 1:05 pm

im a teenage boy, and i go to highschool full of hot girls. and since i see like 50 hot girls in a 6-hour time period at school, all that horniness builds up and i go home instantly and masturbate. And this happens everyday. Is this normal? And is it normal for me to imagine a specific girl at school when i am masturbating? Is this all normal?

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i have an addiction to checking up on people


Posted Sunday May 15 2011, 5:02 am

Ok, so this is hard to explain, and im not good at explaining it. but im a guy in highschool, and if you think im some fat nerdy guy who has no life and is a pervert and follows people around, im not. Im thin, tall, and a clean looking guy. But ive always had this problem where i drive around and if i see people from my school (who i dont know) i park and watch them. Not like stalking, like i literally dont follow them. i just have an unusual interest in watching people from my school and people in the same age with girls and stuff, like i just get jealous, angered, but at the same time relaxed. I havent hung around my friends that much anymore, and on weekend nights, i just drive around to the movies and to public areas and just watch peop...

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everything seems dark to me


Posted Sunday May 15 2011, 4:53 am

Im a boy, 18 years old, about to graduate high school.
for some reason, lately, everything just seems dark to me. Like i feel uninterested in everything and apathetic. I dont repond to my friends much, and dont hangout much anymore, and i always just feel like being alone and i dont wanna do anything.
Thing is, im currently trying to heal from a heartbreak, and now im missing out on prom, and HS is ending and its kinda sad and everything seems so dark around me. Do i have a problem?
And its not just high school, its everything. Im worried about EVERYTHING. My parents, my college, my money, job, etc. ANd i just feel like going to sleep forever and just lazy around.
I feel like there is nothing to look forward to anymore. What s my deal? Help?

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BIG crush on a guy


Posted Saturday May 14 2011, 9:53 am

I have a HUGE crush on a guy and I really wanna know if he likes me back I HAVE NO IDEA on how to tell if he likes me or not He flirts with lots of girls but lately hes been treating me really nicely and trys to talk to me when im at lunch,walking down the halway etc.

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what do i do about him?


Posted Saturday May 14 2011, 12:24 am

i have been liking this guy for 2 years and im just now starting to get over him because he got a girlfriend but they had been kind of off and on so i think they have been off for like 3 months now. and the friendship between me and the guy has pretty much be non existant since freshman year anyway this guy has been flirting with me a little bit a couple of times. he implied we should go to prom together and that i would look pretty in my prom dress. then one day he said he wanted my number. i asked him if he was serious and he said yeah. so i let him have my phone to plug his number in. so i thought this was gonna be the beginning of a friendship but now hes just kind of being rude to me by making rude remarks and i was confused. i though...

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Posted Thursday May 12 2011, 1:29 pm

how do i tell him to tell his best friend to stay out of are relationship??

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Crush Problems


Posted Wednesday May 11 2011, 1:06 am

I really like this girl, but she doesn't like me. She likes one of my best friends.And were graduating soon ,but she's going to a different school from me and i won't be able to see her anymore. I only have until June 10 left. Should I just give up liking her? Please help!

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Confused about life


Posted Tuesday May 10 2011, 3:20 pm

Hi. I'm turning 18 in September, I live in PA. I graduate high school in June and originally the plan was for me to move down with my mom, brother and sister to Georgia. I was excited about the move because I enjoy GA and a lot of family members live there, however, as the time approaches, I'm wanting to go less and less. This happend for several reasons. My friends, most of them, are staying in-state and attending the local community colleges or just colleges that are close by. I recently got a boyfriend 1 month ago. And I found out that colleges charge per-semester, meaning that, just to attend a community college in GA (which I have to if I go) will cost me $20,000 for the first year since I'm not a resident of the state! All of these to...

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Should I go out with him, or not?


Posted Monday May 9 2011, 11:08 am

13/f
ok i have a guy friend and he is soo nice to me.his name is austin and he just broke up with his girlfriend lilly. and lilly she is KINDA my friend. so i was on facebook and austin was on too so we started to chat and he asked me if i wanted to go out with him. and i didnt respond because one of my best friends,nicole likes austin alot. and once i told her she said"no no no no no no NO!!" sccreaming at me. so back with lilly. if i go out with austin she might think im a slut because IM the one who was saying when HE broke up with HER that"youre way too good for him" and other things to keep her happy.

so what should i do?
go out with him or not?
-darkangel31

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It may be confusing but my friends bf is so mean


Posted Sunday May 8 2011, 11:01 pm

So me and my bff Karen did this group in the summer where Irish teens come over and and Karen fell for this Irish guy even though she was talking to this other kid John but she like the Irish kid better and after the summer school started and she eventually started dating John and my one friend Danielle had issues with him throughout the year and so this Irish kid whos friends with the guy Karen fell for in the summer (mike) and his friend started stuff on fb and this recent weekend this whole war kinda thing brought up between the Irish and Karens bf and me and my other friends agree that he's taking her over and controling her. So me and Karen bought tickets in feb to go to ireland and he kept commenting saying she's not going and I was l...

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New fling.


Posted Sunday May 8 2011, 10:29 pm

Okay, I have been going to a new church for about 5 weeks. It is incredible, I love it so much. Now, please don't read this and think that I only love the church due to my question because I don't, I love my church because I walk out feeling refreshed and actually think about the sermon the whole week. There's a worship leader, he is close to my age and I think he is really attractive. When he is singing, I look up at him on stage and he looks back and me and does a bashful little smile. Next Sunday, May 15th, we have a luncheon after church and since he is on staff for church, he will be there. I would like to talk to him but I don't know how. So, can you help me to think of how to talk to him without being creepy or having him approach me? Thanks!

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