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I Feel To Blame.
Posted Tuesday November 23 2004, 8:50 am
I recently sent a few friends the link to this site. Since then I haven't heard from any of them and wondered what I had done to upset them. I can see they are on IM but they never answer. I go to a chatplace we all use and no ones talking. I came here to ask advice and now I find they have all joined and are busily handing out advice like it's on buy one get one free.
I have once again tried to talk to them to ask what's going on but I am still not getting any replies.
I am very concerned they have become addicted to being Agony Aunts/Uncles, and do worry that this may lead to them neglecting not only their friends but also their work and families.
I will feel really guilty if any of them end u...
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Friends VS. BF (13/f)
Posted Monday November 22 2004, 10:39 pm
I need help. Ive just recently started dated a guy i really like. My friend was really excited for me when she found out. But then both of them got into a big fight and now they hate each others guts. They always get into big fights. One time he called my friend bad names to her face. I stood up for her tho. cuz the reason why he cursed her out wasnt a good reason. But since he cursed her out shes been getting mad at me lately. She thinks that im putting him before our friendship. But im not. I value our friendship more than ever. She thinks i should break up w/ him because of the way hes been treating her. But i dont want to break up w/ him because he is sooo sweet to me. I feel like i can talk to him about anything. Plus he hasnt done any...
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relationship
Posted Monday November 22 2004, 9:58 pm
the boy I like is goin gout with my x-best friend. (thats ok )he made a promise at the beginning of the year that he wouldn't go out with anyone. my other best friend asked him out and he said no because he made that promise.is this boy worth worrying about
~x0x0er girl~
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trouble with friends and a boy
Posted Monday November 22 2004, 8:20 pm
well..okay. i like this guy and he has a gf..oh wait. it gets better..haha well he's always leading me on and hinting that he likes me.. well i talked to his gf and she said she isn't really interested in him anymore. well what do you guys think? should i tell his gf(my friend) that i have feelings for him and if she doesnt have feelings for him then she should let go? or whatever else you guys think! please help!
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Circle of Friends... not anymore
Posted Monday November 22 2004, 7:58 pm
Over the summer I got really close with my ex and his best friend. Me and my ex were thinking about getting back together, but it never happened. My ex's best friend started having feelings for me and everytime I would talk about my ex to him or get advice from him, he would act different and get quiet. I knew he didn't like me talking about him and I knew I couldn't talk to him about my ex anymore so when he asked questions or began to talk about him I either didn't say anything or I just lied about my feelings for my ex. Was this a good thing to not hurt my ex's friend? or was it not?
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Friendship Troubles
Posted Monday November 22 2004, 7:16 pm
What would you do if your boyfriend that you really like hates your best friend, and he cursed her out for no apparent reason? What would you do? This is my situation. please help. I will rate!
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I need some friends
Posted Monday November 22 2004, 4:55 pm
Hi well like u know i lost prety much the friends that i was really close to before and well laitly i have had hard times of making new friends and well usually i'm really good about talking to people and introdusing my self to them but i just dont know what to do anymore.....what do you think is wrong with me..? and well i hope this site will help me to make some new girls/guy friends that i can talk to when i need some one to hear me out!
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Friends???
Posted Monday November 22 2004, 4:16 pm
ok, Me and my friend have been BEST friends since 5th grade....and now I am going out with this guy....I love him sososo much!! and I think that she is getting jealous over him b/c I dunno....but she like plays childish games with me...like (sry, this is long) on friday night, i was talking to my b/f and hse was over at my house and we were in the same room and she calls me on her cellphone to tell me that she has to pee....WTF?!?! and I love her to death...I would never choose him over her....how do i let her know that without actually telling her....
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They still hate me!?!?
Posted Monday November 22 2004, 3:39 pm
So I asked what I should do about my "friends" before, what happened was my friend demanded i drive her all around town to finds a party (there was a bunch of us in the car) and I go well i have to pay for gas so no, then she bitches at me for like 10 minutes then bangs my car on the sidewalk when she left, apparently she felt bad and was gonna apologize and she still hasnt! that was on halloween weekend. Ever since then my friends have been bitchy to me and ignoring me and not inviting me anywhere! I have talked to 2 of them and was like what should i do? like why am I in trouble out of this situation? Like my friends have been so evil to me, and my boyfriend feels bad and doesnt know what i should do or what he should say. I hav...
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Posted Monday November 22 2004, 12:01 pm
One of my really good friends has been really really depressed ever sence her and her bf broke up. A few days ago she started to cut herself.I am really worried about her. Only me and a few of her friends know that she is doing it. I really want her to stop it because I am scared that she is going to do something she will regret. It hurts me a lot to see her like this. I am in practically the same situation that she is in. I want to help her and we always talk about it. ButI feel like there is not much I can do for her right now but try and always be there for her. What should I do?
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too touchy feely
Posted Monday November 22 2004, 12:56 am
there was this new girl who i thought was the coolest person ever. Me and her became really good friends... we shared a locker... well anyways then she got to become popular with one of my group of friends... who i was just getting to know. they began to like her more then they liked me. One day she comes up to me and says she isnt my friend anymore becuase i am to touchey feely! soon i lose like all the friends that she made for the same reason. How do i deal with this. They are all really nice to me and dont treat me like i am a horrible person but i dont get what i did wrong and how to deal with this. Alot of them are the sweetest people! Help me please.
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HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted Sunday November 21 2004, 11:14 pm
ok sry this is long but i have a problem. i have my b/f, mystie and she is great she is always there 4 me and everything. Im the kind of gurl you dont wanna fuk with cuz im here 4m chicago and im italian(sicilian to be exact). and this one gurl started to give me dirty looks and when that happens all shit hits the fan. so i got pisted which made her start to run her mouth behind my back. i had 4th period with this gurl and one day she went to the bathroom (but i didnt know)so me and my friend wanted to go fix our makup and right when we went to walk in she was walkin out and i yelled bitch . she made it seem like she didnt careso she was like w/e. then we went into the bathroom and did our thing dadadadada.so i was sittin on the tiolit and ...
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im having a problem with friends and a boy
Posted Sunday November 21 2004, 9:34 pm
okay.here's the problem. my friend and this guy are goin out..but theres a catch..i like him..ALOT..i was talkin to her and she doesn't really seem to like him..and when me and the guy talk..he hints that he likes me and always tells me he likes me..i'm so confused! i dont kno what to do! HELP!
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RUMORS
Posted Sunday November 21 2004, 8:13 pm
Ok, I have this friend who I've known since like kindergarden, and she started to hang out with the people who I absolutly despise. They (I'm sure of) are using her, just to get back at me. Becasue they hate me to. So one of the girls she is haging out with, started to call me a Lesbian because me and my friend (who is a girl) were walking down the hallway locked arms (which I think is harmless). So my friend started to belive it. I thought she knew me well enough to know I'm not. I love boys I flirt with boys not girls! OMG she got me so mad. Well anyway the rumors stoped because I set everyone straight, but my firned is acting like nothing happened! She didn't even apoligesed to my face! How am I supposed to deal with such a back-staber!?...
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need help in helpin my bestfriend out !!
Posted Sunday November 21 2004, 7:50 pm
Okay so i need some help in helpin out my best friend.. so here goes with some background information. my friend met this kid over the summer at her camp, well it turns out he lives in the neighborhood where we go to school at. well my friend chills with him sometimes and she really likes him ALOT, but the thing is he says he doesn't want a girlfriend and everything but he's trying to get my friend to have sex with him!! i mean she asked me for advice and i told her she shouldn't because i mean she's 14 and she shouldn't lose her virginity to this guy who she doesn't even go with.. and it's kind of obvious that all he wants is to hit it.. well she went to 2nd base with him and i'm afraid she's gonna do it with him and he's gonna like stop t...
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alchoholics
Posted Sunday November 21 2004, 7:28 pm
My friend moved out to Colorado a year ago. I'm 15/f and he was my best friend. Yesterday he told me he had sex for the first time. Which is totally different from when he lived here. He never would have done it. I understand that he changed because of the different people. I get that. But, its just the fact that sometimes, when I talk to him online, he's drunk. And alone. When he's sad, he tells me he WANTS to be drunk. I'm afraid I'm going to lose my best friend.
What should I do? Just get over it?
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What a whore..
Posted Sunday November 21 2004, 3:48 pm
Sorry this is long, but i rate high! :)
I have a friend...lets call her Jill. Well jill is really cool to hang out with...when she isnt around guys or we arent on the subject of guys. She always uses guys and she flirts with them, and leads them on all the time and then she ends up crushing them. She always steals the gusy her friends like (including the guys i like...) and we are all sick of it. I really want to tell her off because i have talked to her about it before but just talking to her wont get through to her. I want her to really realize what a slutty jerk she has turned into. because she used to be really cool. Please help!
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Because of drugs i lost my friends.....!
Posted Sunday November 21 2004, 1:28 pm
Hi My name is Nicole, Well most of my friends do drugs and well i dont because i have head on my sholders.Anyways so i told my bestfriends boyfriend that she was still smoking and later on she came up to me and yelld at me. And well her and her bf broke up because she lied to him and i guess there was more to the story so yea.....anyways so now she got allof myfriends agenst me for some stupid reason and i dont even know what i did to the rest of them....Do you guys think i made the rigth choice by going to her boyfriend and not teacher because she would be grounded for the rest of her life if her parents found out..... so what can i do to get my friends back..
PLEASE HELP PLEASE
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i dont kniw what to do
Posted Sunday November 21 2004, 8:25 am
im dislexic and i have a spelling age of 10 and a reading age of 12.one of my closest friend is taking the mick constantly always makeing me feel thick.frist i shouted at her when sh did it,when that didnt werk i went to the head and she did a assembly on it,that hasnt werked.i know shes a mate and i dont want her to get in trouble but i cant go feeling like this.shall i go back to the head and ask her to have a werd or shall i just leave it?ive got exams comeing up and i dont want trouble because i need all the help i can get to pass them.waht can i do?any ideas?
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Christmas Presents?
Posted Sunday November 21 2004, 5:36 am
I'm a 14 yr old female and I'm having trouble on what gifts to get for guys. Girls are so easy (most of the time) to get presents for. But guys...ugh...that's a different story. lol. What kind of present would a guy want? It seems like most of my friends are guys this year, which doesn't make getting presents any easier.
And...there is this one guy that asked me out a while ago. I didn't deny him, but I told him I thought we should hang out more and see how it goes. We've been hanging out a lot now and I'm pretty sure I like him as much as he likes me now. Everyone already thinks we're going out. What kind of gift do you think I should get him?
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