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Getting along with an Ex Boyfriend Posted Friday December 3 2004, 2:32 pm
My exbf chris and I only dated from march-july, then I broke up with him. It was more of a mutual break up, bc we just stopped talking and it was the right thing to do. Well I still care about him bc he was apart of my life for a while and I used to love him. I dont have any feelings for him I just want to be friends with him. We have pretty much been fighting since July 7th when we broke up. He says that he hates everything about me. I dont see what I do that makes him hate me so much. Hes like the only exbf of mine that says everything abuot me is terrible.I just dont get him. I have to see him everyday at school bc we are in a class together. I just want him to be friends with me. His best friend is my best friend nichole. So it is kin...
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Posted Friday December 3 2004, 2:13 pm
i use to be really good friends with this gurl. but we dont talk anymore. we both said some really bad things about eachother. she wrote a note to when we were friends saying that we would be friends forever no matter what. I feel like she wants to fix things with me but im not sure. Should i talk to her. If i do what should i say?
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Long Lost Friendship Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 10:38 pm
I had a friend named Cherry since I was in kindergarten. About a year ago my cat died and she said "Oh well, now you can get a new one." (I was very close to this cat) Well, my mom said that no one close to her had ever died and she didn't understand but I didn't listen. About fou months later I caught her talking about me bahind my back saying I needed to go one a diet. I admit that I guess I do but it was still hurtful. My friend Guari tried to stick up for me by calling Cherry a prep and saying some bad things about her. Then I got mad when she insultes Guari and we got into a big fight and I stopped talking to her for almost a year now because 1. She was a prep and Guari convinced me all preps are evil (not true) 2. She was ru...
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best friend? Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 10:35 pm
MY BEST FRIEND has turned into a real jerk. Me and him loved each other and he just turned me away. He tried to kill himself and that really got me worked up and i guess i said a few things i sholdn't have but i miss him and he's sending me these e-mails that r insulting me and saying he's glas i'm out of his life. What should i do?
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bi friend Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 9:33 pm
i have a friend that has recently become bi. she always tells me that i look hot, and she always comes around and slaps my ass. it's starting to bother me. what should i say to her? becuz i cant take it for much longer..!
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erg.......fshmdgv sag Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 9:10 pm
ok so here it goes tomarrow, friday people were planning a birthday party for this girl catherine and everyone was talking about it since monday well everyone but like 4 people in our grade was invited i was one of the four. Well today at brunch carla a senior, asked me and another girl to go on friday . well i wanted to go until i thought about it and since its a new school for me i wasnt sure if other people wanted me to go since they didnt ask me to go until the a day before(today). so should i go or not i dont want people to be like who invited HER and i have no other people to go/hangout with but i want to go casue carla asked me and she is really nice for asking me
what do i do ?
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Friend Fued Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 8:19 pm
My friends and I have been in this fight for like a long time. And we havn't really gotton over it. And its not just any kind of group. Its the popular group and we ALL know how that is. There are rumors flying everywhere and I want to be nice to them because most of them arn't really mad at me. Only if I hang out with my friend who 'was' in that group. I have done everything! Anyone have any suggestions without being rude to any of my friends? Or is it just totally HOPELESS
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who should i believe? Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 7:41 pm
Ok, before I get to my problem I'm going to kind of explain the situation so you get it. So at my high school we have to share lockers with one person because there’s like 2700 people and there are not enough lockers. I am on the cheer team and so is my locker partner, I’ll call her Sarah. And there is this other girl that is on the cheer team, we’ll call her Molly, her locker is upstairs and all her classes are downstairs, so she started keeping her stuff in our locker. Now I don’t have a problem with her being there but were not the best of friends. Anyways, I got a bunch of pictures of hott guys in magazines from my house and put them in the locker. Sarah and Molly really liked this one picture of Chad Michael Murray.
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Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 7:30 pm
ok so over thanksgiving break i hung out with one of my friends like every day. i basicly lived at her house. and we became really good friends. but my other friend got mad at me kas i didnt hang out with her at all. and shes like my best friend ever. but heres the thing. she was at her moms house which is an hour away from where i live. her dad lives down the street but she hates him. anyways, now shes really mad kas she thinks im replacing her with my other friend. what should i do?
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what to get my guy friend for christmas Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 7:27 pm
15/f and my guy friend is getting me this really nice gift for christmas and i want to get him something, but im in a bad financial situation, so i can only get him something small.
i guess you could say he's leaning on the dorky side, hes into anime, football, wrestling, dresses kinda preppy, videogames, music but i dont know exactly what type...
so what can i get him that's generic? (dont say cd's, clothes, or any lame sports thing, or anime cause i have NO clue where to start)... anyway, thanks!
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No friends Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 5:00 pm
I just moved to a new school and I'm finding it really hard to make some friends (i'm in 9th). and it just gets really lonley on the weekends because I don't like do anything. And my friends from my old school, I don't talk to them anymore. I don't know if there is any advice you can give me (besides that whole join a sport because I am doing a sport in the spring) and join a club because I am already in some and they arent very helpful with meeting people. Any advice??
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My Friend Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 4:41 pm
My friend always cuts himself on his wrists and throat n evrything.. i always try talking to him and he say's he'll stop.. but he keeps doing it and cutting himself more. I don't know what els to do..if he has nobody to talk to he might kill himself..but what can i say that he might actually listen to!?
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Cry Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 4:28 pm
Also.. after one of my friends died i went to his house and gave his mom a poem i wrote for him. she thanked me, and when his little brother came to read it he immediatly started to cry. i wanna hangout with him and just talk to him about it but i dont wanna just be like.."hey wanna hangout? and then talk about his brother's death :-/ What should i do?
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Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 4:26 pm
There was a kid in our school who was 14 and he died. Many Ppl knew him so our school has this big assembly, we didn't have to go to class for weeks, we didn't have to do any work or anything like that. 6 months after that when one of my Verry close friends died, it was like the teachers and schoolboard didn't even care. My mom told them my friend and i were upset that there was nothing for him..no assembly..and a ton of work. it wasnt fair.. They told my mom they weren't going to do anything because "nobody signed a sign we made" but 100's of kids signed it! its bullshit! and its not fair.. what can i say to the school people to make them at least have an optinal assembly!
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Getting along with My Ex Boyfriend.... Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 2:26 pm
Okay I am crying as I write this but I am a Advicenator and I need advice...
My Ex Boyfriend Sam and I went out for 9 months and the relationship went fine and the break up was mutual but lately all we seem to do is fight and the fights are usuaally his doing...weather he talks about his new intrest (I know she is not his girlfriend because I have friends that know more than Sam does) or talk about things that he KNOWS that will upset me and provoke me to hang up on him or cry. Please help me to get to have a better friendship with him and I still like him like I did when we went out.
Age: 21
Gender: Female
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best friend mix up!! Posted Wednesday December 1 2004, 7:36 pm
okay i have had these 2 friends for a long time and they are 2 of my best friends. lets call them dory and marsha..
but then i got a 15 year old bf who i had liked for a long time. who they doubted i could ever get with... total lake of confidence... but then you see i am also friends with marsha's sisters... when i stopped dating jon ( 15 ) i found out stuff from marsha and her sister that he told like 4 people... the thing is they didnt call me right away to tell me these things right away. and then marsha's sister stated dating him... she asked me AFTER they started dating... lake of respect!! Well here it gets down to everything:
okay well dory and marsha have been friends for way longer they treat each other bet...
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friends bf is an idiot Posted Wednesday December 1 2004, 7:32 pm
my best friends boy friend tells me who to be and tells me this and makes fun of my bffls friends..look> B-arri-g-o-80: okay ill just keep my trend going then grow a few inches and tell kelly to drop a fewpounds
my friend kelly is a little overweight.im really short.. what can i tell my bff to tell him to stop with out getting a into a big thing over it?
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Posted Wednesday December 1 2004, 7:27 pm
Two of my friends just broke up over the weekend after a 8 month relationship. She dumped him and yet shes still very posessive of him. I've had a past relationships with him and I get him so ever since they broke up him and I have been talking more. But shes getting mad at me for sticking up for him when she talks crap about him and she says how I better not start liking him again which makes me think is this what friends do to each other? and Is she really being a bad ex girlfriend about the whole thing?
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Feuding Friends Posted Wednesday December 1 2004, 7:17 pm
I'm sorry if this is a little long...
There are three of us, me and my two friends that I'm going to call Keri and Amber.
The last few months Keri and Amber always are partners with each other for everything and leave me out, they never wait for me, and then always ignore me in many of the classes we have together. I took half an hour to tell Kari how I felt about it on the phone last night and today Amber came up to me and asked me why I was mad at them. I got really angry because I spent half an hour explaining why I was upset, and then she says to only remembers half of it, and I started yelling at her, because it doesn't seem like she cares about how I feel.
My question is what should I d...
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Dno what it wod b undr Posted Wednesday December 1 2004, 7:08 pm
im 13 yrs old, and last may one of my friends died. he was 14 and i wasnt really that close to him so i got over it pretty quick. but november 19 my friend (also my crush) died.. he was 14 also.. i dont no what to do.. i've been sleeping in class thinking about him and i just keep dazing off.. i cant pay attention to anything anyone has to say. i no its wierd..but our teacher told us to write letters and burn them so thay will make it up to heaven.. i burn like 3 a day! im really depressed and havent been acting normal.. i cant just "move on" or "get over it" Helllp!
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