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Distant Cousin Issues
Posted Saturday January 7 2012, 12:35 am
SO it really isn't MY cousin but it's my sister's cousin(because we have different fathers)so any ways i really don't like her. It all started when she started problems with my family but cheated on her boyfriend with one of my actual cousins. My brother in law was blamed for telling the cheater's boyfriend the truth. At that caused the whole family to choose sides and I went with my brother in law because my sister's cousin was already getting on my nerves. But my mom and sister yelled at my brother in law a lot and now he doesn't live with us. Then I just plain out started disliking her. She was only suppose to live her for 2 months alone but now she has moved in with her boyfriend....then she brought home one whining baby that she had wi...
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Email Addresses
Posted Thursday January 5 2012, 6:23 pm
Hi, my name is Keana. I am 12. My parents won't let me have an email address and I'm in middle school. My older sister has one but she has bad grades. I don't have bad grades or an email address! All of my friends have one and I feel left out. Every time I try to talk to my parents, they seem irritated, but I just to talk about it. What do I do?
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My question is about me a 12 year old boy wanting to have sex with my sister
Posted Wednesday January 4 2012, 1:57 am
Well idk what to I basically have tried to watch my sister get dressed that didn't work i think I might try just looking in the shower when she us naked but is that legal to do that
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My mom caught my brother and his gay lover making out! What do I do?
Posted Wednesday January 4 2012, 1:25 am
Hi,I'm gay,male, twenty six,my 18 year old brother's also gay He's been caught by my mum making out with his boyfriend,what can I do?cuz I'd like to help but I don't know how,my bro's really sad and my mum has gone mental,please I need sb to help me,thanks!
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I feel like I will amount to nothing.
Posted Sunday January 1 2012, 8:33 pm
I'm sixteen. It's junior year, and it's time to get cracking on looking for colleges and everything.
I'm so upset because I feel like I will never ever be happy, or good enough for myself. I try so hard. I am lazy and unmotivated, and lately I've been getting yelled at by my parents. "You're sixteen, you should know how to do this!" It really upsets me because I feel so let down and stupid. I'm sixteen and I don't know how to do certain things. My parents have never taught me to be independent, and not that I'm putting the blame on them, but when I was a kid, they babied me, and now that I'm grown, I know nothing. They barely talk to me about this stuff, and I'm so scared of amounting to nothing when I go out into t...
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My parents do not understand ANYTHING!
Posted Sunday January 1 2012, 11:36 am
I am a 15 year old girl, and I feel that my parents don't understand ANYTHING I do, or want.
I have not been to the mall with my friends EVER. My parents do not let me go, and they say it is because they aren't going to let me be like other teens roaming all around the place. I only want to hang out with my friends and be a normal teenager. I have a crappy phone plan wich gives me 50 mintues and texts per month, so my social life has gone down the drain. They are constatntly down muy throat about everything I want to do. I need some advice please! I need to know how to let my parents see my view and just let me be a teenager...
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christian-like way to deal with cousins who are mean to me
Posted Saturday December 31 2011, 1:58 am
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sorry this might be a little long
i have 2 guy cousins that are both 11. they always say really mean about me and normally i try to ignore it, but earlier we were at their grandma's (my great aunt) 80th birthday party. it was a big deal for everybody, so i thought they would leave me alone for her special night. we were taking pictures as a family, and they wouldn't stop saying really mean stuff to me. it was really embarrassing because my older cousins were also around too. i kept asking them to be nice because it was a really important night for their grandma. they were just like "we have to be nice to grandma but not you". i lost my temper and hit one of them and my aunt saw. everybody started yelling at...
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I wanna drink bleach and kill myself. I can't take it. Please help
Posted Friday December 30 2011, 7:23 pm
I'm a 14 yr old girl and the other day my dad found weed in my sisters jacket he went ballistic. He punched her several times and then choked her. All our mother did was say No, Stop,No. Like wtf is that going to do? My dad is a very big and strong man. When I do something wrong like forget to vacume my dad wraps his hands around my throat like he's about to choke me. It's been like this for me ever since I was About 5 or 6. I just can't continue to live in constant fear. The even that happened recently with my sister I just can't seem to get it out of my mind. I get drunk next day wake up have a hangover still remember. Get high still freaking remember! I just don't know what to do. Please help me
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my parents dont want me to have a boyfriend but i do
Posted Friday December 30 2011, 11:06 am
The thing is that i have a boyfriend named matthew and my mom doesnt want me to but i really like him and stuff like that. me an my mother have been argueing about this for over a month now she doesnt trust me to do anything please help me what do i do to gain her trust but also have matthew as my boyfriend still.
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parents are wayyyy too strict! "/
Posted Thursday December 29 2011, 10:20 pm
sooo im almost 15 and my parents never let me do anything. i live with my dad and his gf, and shes a control freak. whatever she says my dad goes along with and if i dont listen to her then she starts taking away all my fave stuff. she even goes through my phone everyday and reads every single txt message...and if i delete them, she gets online and reads them! its like i cant even go to the bathroom by myself! but anyway, i cant go anywhere with my friends, i cant ever hang out with my bf unless their with me the whole time watching my every move, i cant even ride in the car with my cousin or go anywhere with anybody without me having to calling them like every half hour telling them what im doing, what time ill be home, and blah blah blahh...
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My parents will not allow me to marry the girl I love. What do I do.
Posted Thursday December 29 2011, 2:09 pm
Hi, I am 24 and love one girl I want to marry her but my parents are not allowing us to do. We were in the relationship from more than two years but we never did Sex she want a promise from my side but I cannot give a promise to her because I cannot leave my parents too. and according to me I prefer family first. I told her everything about us and now we are not in the relationship and she value my decision but I really miss her a lot, I tried to forget her but not any other girl is taking her position in my mind.
Please advice me am I on the right direction or not should I forget her and give a priority to my parents or should I accept her after leaving my parents, This is not possible that my parents will agree with this relationship.
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Fiance and in-law problems...
Posted Wednesday December 28 2011, 3:37 pm
I'm 23/f. He's 25/m.
I'm engaged to this awesome guy and I have always gotten along with his family. There have been recent changes in our life and we decided not to tell his parents till it was the right time and place.
The couple of days ago, they asked a question very related to that recent change and I accidentally let it slip. They asked more questions about the issue and I answered, thinking I was answering correctly.
When they left, my fiance called me a liar and told me I lied straight in his parents' faces because apparently I had answered their questions wrong. I did not know I was answering it wrong, at all. I now feel terrible because my fiance tells me I ruined everyone's Christma...
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My dad is always bashing on me because I'm the oldest.
Posted Monday December 26 2011, 11:20 pm
I'm 17 and oldest of 2 other sisters and having problems with my dad. We haven't been close since I was a little kid, mainly because my dad has problems.... He explodes when he gets mad, he's annoying, judgemental, and always criticizing me any chance he gets, and lots more. He says I'm lazy because when I'm not at school or working at my job I usually try to catch up on sleep or relax... He says my 14 year old sister does everything and that I do nothing. I try to explain my sleep deprived situation but he doesn't listen to a word and yells over everything I say. I don't talk to him unless it's necessary. He's always lecturing me about how I need to improve myself. He's just always on my case stating how messed up I am and why I can't be m...
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parents have issues!
Posted Sunday December 25 2011, 10:56 am
i'm 18 years and done with school now im on holiday, my parents don't let me go anywhere even to the mall to hang out with friends, is this normal? am i not old enough to be let out on my own
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I feel like my parents don't trust me
Posted Saturday December 24 2011, 12:44 pm
Alright... There are a lot of things that go into this. I'm a 17 1/2 year old Senior in high school. I am a little overweight and have some very deep personal insecurities. In August 2010, I met someone on an online game and started talking to him. We got together in December of that year, and just passed our one-year mark. I've never met him in person, mostly because he's 22, and he lives across the country. For this Christmas I asked for a plane ticket. Yeah, I know what you're probably thinking; I'm crazy for wanting to do that. Granted, I've heard about the stories, and I'm NOT the kind of person that jumps into everything. I won't do something unless I have full confidence in it. I know he's not like those horn dogs people always talk ...
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I know I don't like my mom don't know how I feel about my sister thou...
Posted Tuesday December 20 2011, 5:32 pm
Ok I'm 12 And this might be a little long so you might want to move on.Ok so just a day ago this happen. I have two sister's. One 15 and one only a few weeks old.So we don't have a lot of money so my Aunt who has a three yr old let us use some of her stuff from when the three yr old was a baby.But we HAVE to give to back. Because of the milk she eat get a lot of junk on stuf like sleepers, t-shirts, bib's and changing pads. We use awesome. My older sister most time's put's the awesome on there but she and me Mom thought that I could help. So my very frist time doing it. She show's me how and watch me do it a few time then she said ok you got it and went back to doing what she was doing. Some time went by then I came to a changing pad. I lo...
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Spending Christmas Alone :( Complicated family situation. Can anyone help?
Posted Tuesday December 20 2011, 1:27 pm
Okay, here's the scoop. I'm heartbroken right now. I'm EXTREMELY close to all of niece and nephews. If you want even more details there are 5 of them. Anyway over the weekend, I brought 3 of them home with me (they live 50+ miles). Anyways, I do this just about every weekend just because I miss them so much and love to spend time with them. Lately though my oldest nephew who is twelve and really hurt me this weekend. He wasn't appreciative of anything I did for him, and did nothing but complain. I made him eggs, toast, and sausage. He was mad there was no cheese in the eggs, and then when we went to see a Christmas light display all he did was fight with his other brothers who were in the car with me, and complained he wanted to leave. Mind...
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Hate myself and others...
Posted Tuesday December 20 2011, 12:32 am
Every were i go i always get treated like trash, like a dog. at work everyone steps on me and talks crap on me, at home i get treated like a nobody and i cant do anything about it. I still treat the ones with respect but at the same time still standing up for myself and still they treat me like i dont matter. I go to school and teachers dont want to help me because i look like a gangster or troublemaker. (i also droped out of school and went to go to an adult highschool cause of it) at home everyone treats me like a black sheep. my parents wont even help me because i should just defend myself and be a man. i get no attention from them and they act as if i dont exist but when i want to go do somthing like hang out with freinds or go to conce...
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My mom is just too involved and I listen too much
Posted Monday December 19 2011, 5:48 pm
Hey there. I'm writing here bc im in need of advice. I'm turning 21 next month. Female. Ever since I can remember, my mom has been extremely involved. She has really pushed me bc she's wanted to know everything about my life. I've let her in, maybe too much. It has gotten to a point where she's very controlling and when she doesn't get her way, she gets extremely upset. Last year, I dyed my hair dark brown. I'm naturally a light brown. But when I was about 17, he insisted that I go blonde. I listened to her and i never questioned the way I look. But, looking back, I really don't like myself as much with blonde hair. I like my natural color or even a little darker. I look relatively young. I'm very petite and i have a very youthful looking f...
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Bad breath
Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 10:01 pm
My sister has super bad breath that smells. I don't want to b mean but I want to tell her so that she'll brush more.
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