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Am I the partner being unreasonable?
Posted Thursday July 30 2015, 5:00 am
Basically, my boyfriend of two years invites me to lots of different events. We live 40 minutes drive apart and on the most part I go to events/occasions, like a birthday meal on his side or a wedding for someone only he knows.
But whenever I don't want to go to one of these events-for example a wedding-he kicks off and gets upset. He hates it if I refuse to go and says he'll break up with me. Am I in the wrong? Surely I have the right to say no to things I don't want to go to? Its not like I refuse EVERYTHING only one or two things. And we've been together for two years but he makes it sound like I'm expected to be there-and asks the host to invite me and him-and THEN says the host was looking forward to seeing me.
I feel like I don't have a choice...
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Long distance relationship - trust issues
Posted Wednesday July 29 2015, 10:08 am
Hi, i am in a long distance relationship and some days i really like the way things are going, my partner has alot of girl mates who he gets along with and hes still friends with his first ex-girlfriend and at times i feel like i havent given him much sexual attention and i obviously cannot do this physically so im scared that he might go and do something with someone else (his first ex) ive confronted him about this but have not mentioned that im worried because hes getting close with his ex ive just told him im scared to lose him and that he might do something stupid, all he replied was "well i havent done anything yet"
and a friend of mine asked him hows things going between me and him he didnt answer he said that his ex...
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my 7 year old sister has a crush on my 20 year old cousin
Posted Tuesday July 28 2015, 11:59 pm
Something really weird happened recently my 7 year old sister came to me and asked why when she thinks about our cousin her panties get wet (our cousin is 20) so i asked her what she thinks about when that happens to her she said she thinks about him when we go to the beach with him. obviously there's more but i feel sickened to even think that my little sister has a crush on him anyway i told her that she should never think about that ever again then she started crying and told me she thought she could trust me then she stormed off to her room so i was wondering what i should do now should i tell him or should i tell my mom i just don't even know.
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I keep stalking my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend
Posted Tuesday July 28 2015, 10:06 pm
22/f, 28/m
Now, before I jump to the question... Here is a brief summary of why or how I ended up stalking his ex:
My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. The first six months of our relationship, he lied to me about not having feelings for his ex-girlfriend still. Reason why I asked him in the first place, was because he kept talking about her. His reason was because "she was part of his life for two years," and I never believed that he was completely over her but decided to let it go after the 5th or 6th time I asked him because he stopped talking about her when he realized that it was bothering me. The end of the 6th month, I found him messaging her saying that he missed having her i...
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theres this guy that I like
Posted Tuesday July 28 2015, 2:09 am
There is this guy which i be liked for four years. He has said that he likes me back but I don't get it because he keeps dating other girls. He says he loves me. He said it again the day my friend and him just broke up! I tell him to stop talking I said that if he loved me why would he go out with other people! Is he just playing with me? I'm I his 'get back girl'(The girl he comes back to when he's not dating)? He hasn't actually asked me out he says stuff like "if I asked you out would you say yes?" But I would say "are you asking me out?" He would say kind of that he doesn't know.
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date advice
Posted Monday July 27 2015, 11:27 pm
So, I finally got my crush, like I always thought it would be crush, but turns out he is into me, and just woo ! But, we going on a date, having Chinese, just any tips, for if it goes quiet, because I'm one of those people that get so nervous I can't talk, anytips, any good subjects to talk about?
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Should I apologize or just let it go.
Posted Monday July 27 2015, 10:21 pm
Me...f,48 (but look like I'm 35),gay. I walk to work every day. During my walk I was passing this attractive woman (early 30s maybe), who would always smile at me. We smiled at each other for weeks before I stopped her, talked to her (complimented her smile, and we had a great comvo) and gave her my number(I have business cards, and a habit of jumping first and asking questions later). She didn't ask for it, and as soon as I gave it to her, I felt like she just wanted to go. Well, I've seen her once since then (it's been three weeks...we used to see each other twice a day, every day), and she said "I'm going to call you", which she hasn't done. I know she's been leaving early to avoid running into me. I misread the situation, obvi...
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Going away together for the first time.
Posted Monday July 27 2015, 7:30 pm
Hi guys! I'm twenty and my boyfriend is twenty two. He and I are going away for the first time in August and I'm so nervous about it. We've been dating for a couple of months now, I've gotten quite acclimated to his friend group and vice versa-he with mine. So, anyway, his friends are all planning a big beach trip and he asked me to go along. We're renting a beach house that sleeps ten so the more people we get, the better it will be for everyone money wise. Anyway, I'm excited for it since it's a bunch of people that I like and get along with. But I'm so nervous that it's going to be our first time away together. I know in relationships, there's a first for everything but this is kind of a big deal.
I'm guessing we would sha...
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i think i like my step-brother but i'm not sure if he likes me back that wa
Posted Sunday July 26 2015, 6:50 pm
i'm 13 and my step-brother's 15 (Jay). so we've lived together for 2 years but we've known each other for 3 and half years. so at first, he hated me and my mom because his dad replaced his mom. he didn't hate me as much tho. he never used to really talk to me but now we're like really brother and sister. he always insults me by saying i stink and that im fat. sometimes he always sings a song, always a different one. for example, i wore something different compared to what i always wear. so then he said i look like a really bad looking cowgirl (something like that) and then th next minute he started singing "she looked so fine, i just had to speak". he does this all the time. when we came on holiday, he started paying way more atte...
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what does he mean?
Posted Saturday July 25 2015, 9:54 am
There's this guy that I really like. I don't think he likes me though, from what I see, and I was chatting with him, then we said stuff. Near the end of the conversation, he started acting weird, really very weird. He said something like ''I can't tell you or you'll discover my secret identity'' then ''I'm feeling like [my name] and you're probably feeling like me''. I just told him to go to sleep because things where getting weird. But, what does he mean? I'm so confused!
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Is it weird that I like older men?
Posted Friday July 24 2015, 10:05 pm
I'm a 21-year-old female. I recently noticed that I might have a thing for older guys; late 20s to even late 40s. Sometimes I find myself lusting after them and I feel like it might be totally wrong but still so right. I don't have any "daddy issues" either and I'm definitely not after any guy's money, so my question is: is it weird that as a particularly young college student, I'm attracted to older guys? I've never been in a relationship before so I'm not sure if it's totally normal or I might be confused....
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My sexual thoughts towards older guy
Posted Friday July 24 2015, 1:28 am
I am a 15 year old guy that wants to have sex with my 18 year old older friend that is also a guy. I know that he's straight and all but I want to do it just to do it and I know that sounds strange but I don't know what to do and I have to see him tomorrow morning but I don't know how to tell him considering how ugly I am.
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23 and confused
Posted Thursday July 23 2015, 1:10 pm
23/F
Hello, I want to start by saying that I grew up in a house hold that everything got discussed and everything had a solution. Two parents that loved each other and did everything together. Even after 25+ years of marriage they would still grab the car and go places almost every Sunday. Unfortunately it all came to an end when she passed away recently.
But that's not why I'm here. I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years with a guy I've known for over 8 years. Started dating after talking for a good 6-7 months. Everything was great. We could talk for hours, hangout all day, we both love to dance even though I'm more of a dancer than he is. I could literally see him everyday and at the end of the da...
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pregnancy
Posted Wednesday July 22 2015, 4:23 am
If I am virgin can I get pregnant. ...
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want to have sex but raised differently
Posted Wednesday July 22 2015, 1:10 am
Im 18. I started dating this guy and there is definitely sexual attraction there. Completely sure of it. I want to have sex. Theres no love between us its just attraction. But I was raised to wait for sex until marriage. Im an ex preachers daughter. I have rebelled but the whole save sex for marriage thing had always stayed with me. I want to.have sex but im scared there will be regret and the hatred I will feel for being weak,but its like sex is all I think about. Help me please.
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I don't know what my own feelings are(kind of long, sorry)
Posted Tuesday July 21 2015, 9:50 pm
I'm a 15 year old girl. I've liked, or at least I thought I did, this guy for a couple years now. He also happens to be my best friend along with his younger sister. He's confronted me twice about liking him and I turn him down each time, even though I do like him. But there's also this boy at church and we've become really good friends, possibly more. We tease each other and he makes me feel giddy inside. But so does my best friend.. Could someone please explain this to me? I'm so confused.
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How do I convience my mom to let me go to my Bfs house!?
Posted Tuesday July 21 2015, 8:41 pm
My boyfriend invited me over to his house this Saturday but since he's 3 years older then me she doesn't trust him, she thinks I'm going to have sex with him or something, but he is moving and it will be the last time I get to see him for awhile and I don't think my mom will let me go:(
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I'm new to dating again...
Posted Tuesday July 21 2015, 4:29 pm
Hi! My name is Brianna. I recently got out of a relationship of 4 years...so I'm a little lost with this "does he like me" stuff". I'll try not to make this too long. BUT HELP!
Alright, I'm in this internship. One of the other students and I basically began texting and you know, it seemed like it would be flirting. We would go to group lunches and stuff and text basically all of the time. But we decided to make this whole thing a secret because i'm the student coordinator for this internship (he's 22 and I'm 21). He invited me to his house after a few weeks and I said no because i hadn't really known him and I said I would prefer meeting alone for lunch or something. It's rather hard to meet because he works in...
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I'm new to the dating world again...Does he like me?
Posted Tuesday July 21 2015, 4:22 pm
Hi! My name is Brianna. I recently got out of a relationship of 4 years...so I'm a little lost with this "does he like me" stuff". I'll try not to make this too long. BUT HELP!
Alright, I'm in this internship. One of the other students and I basically began texting and you know, it seemed like it would be flirting. We would go to group lunches and stuff and text basically all of the time. But we decided to make this whole thing a secret because i'm the student coordinator for this internship (he's 22 and I'm 21). He invited me to his house after a few weeks and I said no because i hadn't really known him and I said I would prefer meeting alone for lunch or something. It's rather hard to meet because he works in...
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Is she just affectionate?
Posted Saturday July 18 2015, 4:52 pm
Is this more than touchy-feely? I was stood with a coworker looking at the sandwich counter. She was stood with her body on mine- her boobs were pressed against me. So was so against me she had to know how close she was basically. Her face was so close to mine while she asked what I was having and we were stood like that for a while. If I turned my head I could have kissed her- that's how close she was. She does this every time we queue or look at something. However this time when we looked for somewhere to sit she says 'where can we sit to look at fit guys' (she's knows I'm a lesbian). We sit but she never mentions guys or breaks her attention from me. Just want to add she never looks for male attention when she is pressed up against me (y...
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