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Mental health
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If you knew you were going to die?


Posted Tuesday August 10 2010, 7:20 pm

What would you tell someone who knows in advance how much time they have left to live?
Like if this person knew they wouldn't make it to their next birthday or to thi Christmas?
Should they self-medicate with drugs or alcohol to ease the pain?

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confusions


Posted Monday August 9 2010, 10:25 pm

I always try hard at everything I do even go out of my way to do it better than anyone just to get noticed but it never hsppens its like its expected of me .I get no appreciation .a simple thanks or man you did a great job .especaly at work .I have the store spotless when I close only to come back the next day to have the store trashed its like I'm the only one who gives a sh** but there excuse is all the time is we where busy .but there's times when I close by myself and I still manage to get everything done and then some so I don't like excuses because there is none and that's my attitude always proving a point . Iv gone to management they blow me off but I'm the closer so it has to be done all the cleaning and day shift does nothing just...

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Anxiety.


Posted Monday August 9 2010, 9:53 pm

I think I have anxiety issues. I will list some things to help you decide. I think alot about my future, what I'm going to do, what I'm going to become and sometimes I think to much about it and I realize I have no clue what I want to do and I'd cry because I think I am going to get nowhere in life, sometimes I get mad at myself for being three pounds over my normal weight. But I don't really know what anxiety attacks are which is the reason I am asking this question, to see if someone can explain to the fullest amount what they are. What the anxiety attacks are, uh, so famous people you know of that has them and how it's affecting their life (I only say famous because I would know them, as well. "Oh, my best bud Jimmy.." I wouldn...

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Yeast infection


Posted Monday August 9 2010, 4:34 am

Ok so I think I have a yeast infection... And I think I've had it for awhile... How do I bring it up to my mom:.. I really hate talking about that stuff! But anyways how do I bring it up and is it bad that I realized I think I've had it for Awhile and not done anything bout it? Will something bad happen?

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Stretch Marks


Posted Sunday August 8 2010, 2:05 pm

Hey guys, I have a bunch of stretch marks on my stomach/sides area. Anyone know of a good waterproof cover up that hides them pretty well? ALL help is appreciated! Thanks you guys rock :)

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lifes not what it seems


Posted Sunday August 8 2010, 2:15 am

Iv had a long painful life full of rejection .It started as a child and into adult .My family and the people that I thought I could trust as all let me down and it affects my every day life so to speak .I can't be happy to even the things that mean most because I try so hard to be perfect in everything I do because I had nothing perfect growing up .Iv lost a lot of time trying to forget my past but its still haunts me to this day and its apart of me every day .I'm not this bad person that nobody wants or do they even care what iv gone through .Iv tried counceling in the past it did nothing for me and truly I don't know where to turn anymore .this is not some sob story of self pitty but I fell nothing realy matters anymore I just assume to l...

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I can't think straight ever.


Posted Thursday August 5 2010, 3:33 pm

14/f

I have a hard time explaining myself. I can NEVER find the right words. It's almost like I can't think on my feet.. I more recently can't remember some semi-unimportant things like movie titles of movies I saw or when 'whatever' happened like dates. This morning I woke up and had a hard time remembering if I took a shower the night before. I don't think it's anything extremely serious. You know how when you call your friend by the wrong name? I do that almost every time and it's like that with other things too like just when we are talking.. I just can't think and it's very hard to speak and make sense.

I'm sorry this probably sounds stupid and doesn't make sense but I can't find the right words to explain...

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Working 60 hours a week and being tired all the time


Posted Thursday August 5 2010, 12:25 pm

I got this problem I work 2 jobs I put in 60hr a week with both jobs and I am mentaly and physacaly tierd all I want to do is sleep I have to force myself to get out of bed just to get motivated is a chore everything that I liked to do is no intrest to me I know there's something wrong but I don't think its depresion I think I'm just over worked iv been working 2 jobs for over three years I don't get vacations I don't get any benifets and what I make pays my bills I don't have anything out of the ordinary just basic stuf an apartment a car and that's it the 2 jobs I have are minimum wage jobs .sure I bet a lot of people woul love to have 2 jobs bescaused some people can't get one job because nobody is hiering the way the economy is right no...

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living or dieing


Posted Thursday August 5 2010, 2:32 am

idk wats worth living anymore. me an my gf jus fight all the time over nothing, an its manly cus i talk about feelings, an she jus gets pissy. im loosing ever so slowly the only thing i love in this life. id die for this girl an for only her jus to get anoyed by me, thats fucked. im loosing everything. all i do is fuck up,, so wats the quickest way to end ur life painless. im tired of feeling pain, i want to jus be in a better place to where i can live an be happy, cus obviously im doing a good job here...........

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happy and depressed


Posted Wednesday August 4 2010, 2:50 am

I dont know if any of you know about "The Secret", a film about happiness, but I was a strong advocator and supported of the belief that we all need to be happy. Ever since 10th grade I have been a happy, upbeat, smiling person. Nothing phased me, I gave lots of advice here to others about happiness.

That was then. Now, I am about to start college at a great university, Ive already met so many people its all exciting. Yet I am so utterly stressed and miserable. I don't understand why! Actually, I do... but I dont know what to do about it.

See the thing is, I used to date this guy last year, we were together for 6 months, I loved him but wasnt head over heels or anything. We broke up june last year....

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Do you hide your tears by laughing? Why do people say it is bad?


Posted Wednesday August 4 2010, 12:22 am

Alright, I put this in the category mainly because it is dealing with the health of your mental thoughts and feelings. I have been a fan of All Time Low for quite a while now, maybe 3 years. I have known for again, quite a while about Alex's brother. I have seen that Alex does sing Lullabies live sometimes and yes, he gets emotional, if he didn't, I would think something is wrong. But most people comment "I really wish he would show his real emotions. He tries to hide them so much by laughing and joking around. A defense mechanism." I have come to realize, I do this too. My great grandmother had passed 2 years ago and yet I miss her so dearly, I am not one to cry only when things get super messy, my mom says I am like a guy when i...

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I am SO angry, I've been crying a lot, I pushed all friends away!


Posted Tuesday August 3 2010, 10:31 am

So I've been feeling kind of down for about 4 years. Recently it has gotten worse...I just broke up with my boyfriend because I've been so stressed about everything. I snap at a lot of people it could be anyone...I have so much anger and I've been crying a lot. I've pushed away all my friends and have no determination or drive. I don't know what to possibly do.
Any advice?

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am i anorexic?


Posted Monday August 2 2010, 12:16 pm


17 female
i am never good enough for myself. it doesnt matter what i do, ill always hate my body.

ive struggled with bulimia because i have always hated my body. my entire life has consisted of me never being happy no matter what weight i am. recently i lost about 15 pounds by exercise but i still hate my body. i look in the mirror and just see the things i hate, like my belly. i feel like the same person as before. like i said before, i struggle with bulimia, but i work hard at it. what i want to know is do you think im anorexic? i must say though im not skinny. and i feel like only skinny people can be anorexic and bulimic, so thats one of the main reasons ive never told anybody about it. i feel li...

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Generalized Anxiety Disorder?


Posted Thursday July 29 2010, 6:46 pm

Hi Im in between 10-14 (I dont wanna say my real age) and female. Im highly sure that I have a Generalized Anxiety Disorder but Im afraid to and dont know how to tell my Mom and I cant tell my Dad or Step-Mom cause they dont even believe that I have asthma (and I do) But everytime I say like I dont feel good or my asthma is getting a little worse (which it kinda is) then she just rolls her eyes like Im being a hypercondriac (same with my Dad) and Im not old enough to go to the doctors by myself and I dont even want to go to the Doctors cause Ive been there lots of times for other non mental issues. How do I handel this before school starts again?!

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i dont know if im depressed or not...


Posted Wednesday July 28 2010, 10:54 pm

im afraid to ask my love ones if im depressed... but i guess i am becuase well three years ago my mom died when i was 13...and i feel sad all the time and i miss her badly...my dad remarried four months after my mom died and omg! she is the worst step mother ever! she always trying to muniputlate me its terrible but i guess i learned to live with it...but shes not the problem i think...the last days of school my friends got mad at me becuase i couldnt go hang out with them one day so they treated me badly on the last days of school and now i feel alone and hurt...all summer i was dredding to go back to school becuase i think i would have to make new friends so my step mother was giving me a hard time about it and my dad is planning to divor...

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Possibly sexually abused?


Posted Wednesday July 28 2010, 12:01 pm

16/f. me and my sister used to play "games" in the shower when we were little (I was like 10 or 11) but people told us it was what all the little girls do. I don't want to get in to detail just because it makes me sick to my stomach but we used to touch down there vvv and stuff like that. Is that considered being sexually abused? If so, is it my fault since I'm the older one out of the two of us? I barely realized it was wrong last year when I learned all about sex. I started doing drugs to try to forget about it but i feel like I'm going insane and I just need help. Anything else that you might think will be useful will be highly appreciated.

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Bleaching "Mustache"


Posted Wednesday July 28 2010, 11:16 am

I'm pretty tan right now. I'm wondering if i buy stuff from a beauty shop to bleach my semi-noticeable mustache will you be able to see the blonde hairs? I figure since i'm tan the light color might show up on my skin...

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I relapsed and I could use some help


Posted Monday July 26 2010, 10:12 pm

I'm bulimic and tonight I just relapsed after 2 months of sobriety. I feel really down and I'm really just looking for motivating and inspiring words to get me back on track and to stop feeling like such shit. Anything will help.

Thanks in advance.

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Looking for counselor in the Plymouth MA area


Posted Monday July 26 2010, 9:42 pm

I am a victim of long term sexual abuse. I won't go into details but I experience flashbacks on a daily basis I need help. I have gone to women aide but it was not helpful. Does anyone know of a counselor in the Plymouth Mass area who can help me cope and stop the flashbacks? Thank you in advance.

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feeling alone


Posted Sunday July 25 2010, 11:40 pm

Hi, for starters I am a female of age 17. Over the past few months I think I have gone into depression. I am very unhappy with my life and I try to stay positive. I feel miserable, I was once such a strong girl. I am constantly brought down by another female, and I'm not the type of person to get involved in drama. I despise it, and the only reason why she brings me down is because she likes my ex boyfriend. Which kind of she was one of the reasons why I had to let go, because I can't deal with her flirting with him, etc. I have no one to talk to about feeling down because I don't want it to be just another guy story. I want to let go of all this baggage, but I can't because I am constantly talked about. My question here is what makes you h...

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